Episode 253: The 93% Myth: That Stat That Says Fathers Are More Important Than Mothers Is Made Up!

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Ever heard the stat from “a recent study” that found that, when a husband comes to Christ first, in 93% of cases the wife and kids follow, but when the wife comes to Christ first, it’s only 17%? Today Beth Allison Barr and Miranda Zapor Cruz, both academics looking into gender relations in church, join me to try to track down the source. Spoiler alert: People seem to have made this up about 30 years ago—and they keep quoting it! We look at what happens when churches assume this stat is true.
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THINGS MENTIONED:
• Miranda Zapor Cruz’: The Myth of the 93% (missioalliance.org/the-myth-of-the-93-fathers-…)
• Julie Roys’ podcast with Amanda Cunningham (julieroys.com/podcast/former-leader-at-josh-ho…)
• Tim Clinton Clip (drjamesdobson.org/broadcasts/take-it-back-recl…)
• Danny Akin citing the “stat” (theresource.org.uk/bad-stats-for-evangelism-pa…)
• Josh Howerton clip (youtu.be/MCvXQb_6xhk?si=RPstpXOWjAU3jgFi)(around 20:15)
• J.D. Greear clip (vimeo.com/231922943)
• The Baptist Press article (baptistpress.com/resource-library/news/want-yo…)
• The Orthodox Barbie clip (instagram.com/p/C_2nHuqy1dt/?utm_source=ig_web…)
• The Christ Church of the Valley handbook with the “stat” (ccvprodrock.blob.core.windows.net/filestore/Co… IN.pdf)
• Matt Chandler saying he preaches to men: (youtube.com/watch?v=3c6ytPdZYec) (around 36-37 minutes)
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