Episode 260: Shame Must Switch Sides: It’s Not Shameful to NOT Want Pornified Sex

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Gisele Pelicot famously said that "shame must switch sides"--and I think that applies to the evangelical church! Over and over again over the last few years ,when male teachers have presented a pornified view of sex and women have said "no", women have been accused of being prudes. But it is okay to reject objectification. A close look at Josh Butler, Gary Thomas coercing women into sending nude photos, and more--all of whom called us ashamed of sex for saying no.
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THINGS MENTIONED:
• Ngina Otiende’s initial article about Gary Thomas (facebook.com/IntentionalToday/posts/pfbid0fWno…)
• Our review of Gary Thomas’ book Married Sex (baremarriage.com/2022/01/a-book-review-of-marr…)
• My original article about how Married Sex coerces nude photos (baremarriage.com/2023/01/married-sex-gary-thom…)
• Our podcast where we talked about Gisele Pelicot (baremarriage.com/2024/09/podcast-not-all-men)
• The Male Centric Sex podcast (baremarriage.com/2023/06/male-centric-sex-josh…)
• Theology in the Raw episode with Josh Butler (theologyintheraw.com/podcast/a-raw-conversatio…)
• Brett McCracken about Josh Butler (brettmccracken.com/blog/2023/4/18/read-josh-bu…)
• Twitter thread with Gary Thomas (x.com/garyLthomas/status/1844813233929998557)
• Juli Slattery’sarticle quoting me (authenticintimacy.com/why-josh-butlers-book-be…)
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