Becoming Securely Attached (to yourself): Reparenting and Healing Insecure Attachment

Dr. Rick and Forrest explore how we can become securely attached to ourselves: building an internal foundation that lets us connect with others, regulate our emotions, and explore the world from that secure base. They talk about how this is supposed to develop in childhood, why it doesn't for many people, and what we can actually do about it as adults. Topics include the research on early attachment, why so many of us arrive at adulthood with a strong inner critic and weak inner support, and four practical paths forward: creating a coherent narrative about your past, reparenting yourself, rescaling your sense of self in relation to others, and building self-trust through healthy exploration.

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Key Topics

: Introduction

: The research on becoming a “secure base”

: How we internalize early sources of regulation and recognition

: What happens when love is contingent

: Forming a coherent narrative

: Reparenting yourself

: Rebuilding your sense of self

: Using your secure base to explore, try, and fail

: Recap

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Becoming Securely Attached (to yourself): Reparenting and Healing Insecure Attachment

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