3. The Desire Hiding Inside "I Want to Be More Feminine”

In this conversation, I explore the desire so many women have: “I want to be more feminine” - while their body is quietly bracing, performing, protecting or shutting down.
I speak about the deeper longing that sits underneath this desire: I want to stop micro-managing and controlling. I want to overcome the terror in my bones. I want to feel safe. I want to trust Life.
I also share the story of my self-marriage ceremony: the day I made a vow to stop abandoning myself for love, and gave my body a new imprint of trust, devotion and inner union.

In this episode, I talk about:
• How trying to be “more feminine” can become another way of abandoning yourself
• Why your body’s protection is highly intelligent, and how to create a felt sense of safety when your trust in life was broken
• What performed pleasure and performed surrender can cost us
• How Self Pleasure becomes a practice of creating and embodying a totally new imprint for love, power and relationships
• Why softness needs a container (the blade): clarity, discernment, structure and self-devotion

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Much love,
Luzi