Message from Nam by Danielle Steel

Avoid accidentally making eye contact with Paxton Andrews. If you absolutely must enter a room with Paxton Andrews take extreme precautions so you don't die horribly in the Vietnam War. It's pretty good for her career as a journalist tho.
This one has no sexual assault but it does have a horrible pointless war, an awful murder-suicide, bombings, screaming, howling, and a mammy. (YES A MAMMY. Yeah I wasn't expecting that either.)
You got it, we're reading Message from Nam (amzn.to/2tJcTaM) as our second 4 for 40 book for Sara! I would like to apologize to the Academy...