Making Du‘a For Years? Before You Give Up, Listen to This

0:00 [SPEAKER_01]: So, today is our third class about our journey to general, my Allah make us all from the people of general. [SPEAKER_01]: I mean, okay. [SPEAKER_01]: So, the first week we studied who are you, and the second week we discussed who are the people who Allah loves and I gave you a homework.

0:27 [SPEAKER_01]: to do something. [SPEAKER_01]: Did you do the homework? [SPEAKER_01]: Both homeworks, now you have two homeworks. [SPEAKER_01]: 20 minutes? [SPEAKER_01]: Thank you. [SPEAKER_01]: Alone. [SPEAKER_01]: And the second homework, Ali, it's very, can you control it? [SPEAKER_00]: Yes, right. [SPEAKER_01]: OK. And the second homework was, you know, to practice these things that Allah will not allow us whether it's the word cool, whether it's patience, whether it's a sad.

0:56 [SPEAKER_01]: And today in Shabbat Alar, we will talk about something completely different, but it's still our path to Jannah in Shabbat. [SPEAKER_01]: There's around 50, 60, maybe, sisters here in the room, and probably there is 50, 60 stories that everybody's mind is something. [SPEAKER_01]: And many of these stories, nobody knows.

1:35 [SPEAKER_01]: There may be a sister sitting next to you worried about her marriage. [SPEAKER_01]: Another sister worried about her children. [SPEAKER_01]: Another worried about her health. [SPEAKER_01]: Maybe there's another one taking care of an elderly parent. [SPEAKER_01]: Maybe there's struggling financially.

1:56 [SPEAKER_01]: maybe someone is grieving, that someone dear, they have lost. [SPEAKER_01]: Or maybe someone just really, very time. [SPEAKER_01]: And this sister walked into this room. [SPEAKER_01]: She gazed around to everybody's mind and she sat down. [SPEAKER_01]: Even though nobody knows my sister, what you're carrying, Allah Subhanahu ta'ala knows.

2:29 [SPEAKER_01]: Alayah, la Muban khalaka. [SPEAKER_01]: Wa wa wa wa. [SPEAKER_01]: I'm going to swap it. [SPEAKER_01]: Okay. [SPEAKER_00]: So Allah SWT even though the system next to you, you're not going to turn the volume. [SPEAKER_00]: Try it. [SPEAKER_00]: But in a few minutes. [SPEAKER_01]: Yeah. [SPEAKER_01]: Even if nobody knows what you're going through.

2:43 [SPEAKER_01]: Allah SWT, I don't know if it's because you said and so that it's the murky. [SPEAKER_01]: I don't know if it's the murky. [SPEAKER_01]: I don't know if it's the murky. [SPEAKER_01]: I don't know if it's the murky. [SPEAKER_01]: I don't know if it's the murky. [SPEAKER_01]: I don't know if it's the murky.

2:52 [SPEAKER_01]: I don't know if it's the murky. [SPEAKER_01]: I don't know if it's the murky. [SPEAKER_01]: I don't know if it's the murky. [SPEAKER_01]: I don't know if it's the murky. [SPEAKER_01]: I don't know if it's the murky. [SPEAKER_01]: We have to understand that the one who created my heart knows what's my heart is going through.

3:07 [SPEAKER_01]: The one who created my heart knows what my heart is going through. [SPEAKER_01]: Now, sometimes you ask a sister, how are you? [SPEAKER_01]: And she tells you, I'll handle that and find. [SPEAKER_01]: But what if behind this alhamdulillah, there is marriage that is struggling. [SPEAKER_01]: There is maybe she haven't slept properly for weeks.

3:41 [SPEAKER_01]: Maybe she feels lonely. [SPEAKER_01]: Maybe no one notices what I'm doing. [SPEAKER_01]: So when we ask somebody, [SPEAKER_01]: how are you doing? [SPEAKER_01]: And they say, Muhammad, assume immediately that Muhammad is everything is okay. [SPEAKER_01]: We always say, Muhammad, for everything to be gone through.

4:04 [SPEAKER_01]: But that does not mean that the sister is there's nothing wrong, that all and everything is beautiful. [SPEAKER_01]: But even though behind that 100 in there, nobody knows what you're going through. [SPEAKER_01]: I'm just trying to emphasize that Allah, as the original, knows what you're going through.

4:25 [SPEAKER_01]: And this is my main point today. [SPEAKER_01]: It's to recognize that even though I might be going through so much and nobody's appreciating. [SPEAKER_01]: Nobody's noticing. [SPEAKER_01]: But Allah, as the original, knows what I'm going through. [SPEAKER_01]: Allah knows what I'm going through.

4:44 [SPEAKER_01]: Bye. [SPEAKER_01]: If I tell you like every week, I give you a statement to continue. [SPEAKER_01]: If I tell you, I am carrying something that people do not see and that's something else. [SPEAKER_01]: I am going through something that people do not see and that's something is black. [SPEAKER_01]: Right?

5:14 [SPEAKER_01]: Of course, I'm not going to ask you because you're not going to tell you, oh no, I hate my husband, I hate my children, I try to be crazy. [SPEAKER_01]: Everybody has their own things. [SPEAKER_01]: It might be loneliness, it might be problems with your adult children, maybe problems that, and this is a very common, I am not being appreciated.

5:43 [SPEAKER_01]: taking care of my parents is really draining me. [SPEAKER_01]: I regret the sins that I have done, my financial stress. [SPEAKER_01]: But then, and this is my goal. [SPEAKER_01]: I want us to be gentle with one another. [SPEAKER_01]: I want when the sister... [SPEAKER_01]: That's your hundred and that.

6:13 [SPEAKER_01]: You say, sister, if there's anything, I might not be able to solve all your problems, but I'm here for you. [SPEAKER_01]: That statement is very simple, but all I need to go a long way for someone who's going through anything. [SPEAKER_01]: I am here for you. [SPEAKER_01]: You may times you just want to be heard, and we almost sometimes that maybe many of the problems, [SPEAKER_01]: That's what I play.

6:43 [SPEAKER_01]: Many of the problems we are going through, sometimes we know that no human being can solve them. [SPEAKER_01]: But just knowing that there is someone listening to me, someone who cared, yeah, looks better. [SPEAKER_01]: Someone who cared too fast and also suggest that they are available.

7:01 [SPEAKER_01]: If I need them, that by so gives us hope. [SPEAKER_01]: It gives us hope. [SPEAKER_01]: Except you turned that away, because that's your turn. [SPEAKER_01]: Okay, Bismillah. [SPEAKER_01]: Everybody. [SPEAKER_01]: Okay. [SPEAKER_01]: I think it's a big mistake to ask a sister to say so. [SPEAKER_01]: We just passed the button, come on.

8:07 [SPEAKER_01]: That tells me that everybody wants to talk, right? [SPEAKER_01]: Everybody has something. [SPEAKER_01]: Everybody's carrying something, right? [SPEAKER_01]: I'm going to laugh, yeah. [SPEAKER_01]: You see, we put a smile. [SPEAKER_01]: This is exactly the goal. [SPEAKER_01]: I'm going to laugh.

8:29 [SPEAKER_01]: Okay, now, SubhanAllah, we're going to take a story that we all know, and slowly apply into our life. [SPEAKER_01]: The story of Hajjah Ali-Saram. [SPEAKER_01]: We all know the Brahim Ali-Saram. [SPEAKER_01]: He took his way [SPEAKER_01]: There is no civilization, no water, no people, nothing.

9:09 [SPEAKER_01]: Nothing. [SPEAKER_01]: He just put her there, put some dates, and he was about to leave. [SPEAKER_01]: And then when he was about to leave, we all know the question. [SPEAKER_01]: And the law, America, we had that a law ordered you to do that. [SPEAKER_01]: And of course he said yes. [SPEAKER_01]: Then this woman sent a statement that I wish that every single one of us can say it from the bottom of their heart with complete, [SPEAKER_01]: Allah taught you and ordered you that, command it to do that to me, then you would not have had it.

10:15 [SPEAKER_01]: Allah would not have abandoned me. [SPEAKER_01]: Now look at her circumstances. [SPEAKER_01]: After she said that, please follow up because it might be a little bit deeper, it's a bit more concentrated. [SPEAKER_01]: But she said that Allah would not have abandoned me. [SPEAKER_01]: Maybe some time, I'll ask you to shut up a little bit more, too.

10:49 [SPEAKER_01]: So when she said, Allah will not abandon me. [SPEAKER_01]: Did the desert disappear? [SPEAKER_01]: Did the people appear? [SPEAKER_01]: Did the world meet the key? [SPEAKER_01]: There's a deep lesson here. [SPEAKER_01]: What changed is she knew who was in control, she knew who was in control, what she asked her question she looking left and right is nobody there's nothing where in the way these are unless in the place where there's no vegetation whatsoever.

11:35 [SPEAKER_01]: There's nothing. [SPEAKER_01]: But what she asked is that, yes, she knew who was in control. [SPEAKER_01]: No. [SPEAKER_01]: She asked, [SPEAKER_01]: If I ask you, do you have to work on everybody would raise their hand? [SPEAKER_01]: But when really things happen, when things really got serious, then that is a major test for my Tawakku and Yotawakku.

12:09 [SPEAKER_01]: Everybody who is such shaking. [SPEAKER_01]: Now, Tawakku here, she does not mean that it does not mean that I know everything will happen the way I want it. [SPEAKER_01]: This is not Tawakku. [SPEAKER_01]: I know everything will happen the way I want. [SPEAKER_01]: I do not know what Allah is doing, but I know Allah.

12:37 [SPEAKER_01]: I do not know what Allah is doing. [SPEAKER_01]: I have no idea what this plan is. [SPEAKER_01]: But I know that I can trust Allah. [SPEAKER_01]: I know that Allah will take care of that problem that I'm going through. [SPEAKER_01]: And she had so many problems. [SPEAKER_01]: I mean, if you leave, you're writing the park with hundreds of people.

12:58 [SPEAKER_01]: She would be very upset, how did you leave me and there's so many things for her to do. [SPEAKER_01]: How about leaving her in the desert when there's nothing, no one. [SPEAKER_01]: But her trust of Allah is what made her survive. [SPEAKER_01]: And this is what every single one of us had to train themselves to get to that film.

13:16 [SPEAKER_01]: Allah knows when I'm going through, right? [SPEAKER_01]: Allah knows when I'm going through, that means there is a solution. [SPEAKER_01]: But there is a solution. [SPEAKER_01]: Now, your desert could be an average problem. [SPEAKER_01]: Your desert could be a financial problem. [SPEAKER_01]: Your desert could be a health issue, maybe something severe.

13:51 [SPEAKER_01]: Your desert could be your in-laws. [SPEAKER_01]: a child that's driving you crazy, made the wrong choices. [SPEAKER_01]: Everyone has a different desert, but, and also many of us have made to us for so long to deliver that so of us have raised their hands and said, yeah, a law who went, when are you going to answer?

14:26 [SPEAKER_01]: It happens to all of us. [SPEAKER_01]: Now here's the dangerous moment when we ask that question. [SPEAKER_01]: Because when we are standing in that desert, and everyone has a different desert, the shaykh farm wants us to interpret that desert as Allah abandoned us. [SPEAKER_01]: You see?

14:55 [SPEAKER_01]: good to your parents, you volunteer in the mentioned and look, you've been asking Allah for so long and he did not give it to you. [SPEAKER_01]: What kind of God is this? [SPEAKER_01]: This whisper comes. [SPEAKER_01]: The shaykh faun, this is his job, is to whisper. [SPEAKER_01]: Your dua is not working.

15:16 [SPEAKER_01]: Allah forget about you. [SPEAKER_01]: But what did [SPEAKER_01]: It's not Allah Subhanahu Wa Ta'ala, it doesn't, it's not a proof that Allah has abandoned me. [SPEAKER_01]: It doesn't, that desert of yours, whatever that thing is, that does not mean that Allah has abandoned me. [SPEAKER_01]: Sometimes the place where you see absolutely nothing.

15:57 [SPEAKER_01]: It sounds like other people. [SPEAKER_01]: Sometimes the place where you see absolutely nothing. [SPEAKER_01]: No way, she would be the solution for my problem. [SPEAKER_01]: He would be the solution. [SPEAKER_01]: Or that project would be the solution for my problem. [SPEAKER_01]: That place is where a loss of Hannah or Diana preparing the original.

16:21 [SPEAKER_01]: That is your desert, your issue. [SPEAKER_01]: And your zoom is the solution. [SPEAKER_01]: Hajjah did not know if the Zanzan was coming from. [SPEAKER_01]: And she did not know there would be a Zanzan, right? [SPEAKER_01]: But she had so much trust in Allah that she knew that something will happen.

16:39 [SPEAKER_01]: But she did not ever probably have why this dream expect that something will be crushing till the day of judgment. [SPEAKER_01]: Just to answer her call and solve her desert. [SPEAKER_01]: between her and the mother of Kusa Ali in Salaam. [SPEAKER_01]: I don't know who's, who's the one who is stronger.

17:00 [SPEAKER_01]: I'm believing in both of them, I'm both a woman. [SPEAKER_01]: And that's why I'm talking to you. [SPEAKER_01]: I gave you the example of Haisha. [SPEAKER_01]: Both are women. [SPEAKER_01]: So don't tell me, oh, I am weak, I am women. [SPEAKER_01]: Those two women gave us the best example of the work in the history of Islam.

17:15 [SPEAKER_01]: You all mothers, who dare, who are one you will dare, not to throw her baby in a basket and throw the basket in the river. [SPEAKER_01]: Throw her on the bed only. [SPEAKER_01]: He will be scared so much to throw her on the bed. [SPEAKER_01]: Throw her in the river, throw her in the basket, throw the basket in the river.

17:35 [SPEAKER_01]: And the river will throw the basket on the river by the backyard of the most notorious person ever created. [SPEAKER_01]: Who would do that? [SPEAKER_01]: They say, I trust Allah, and they do nothing. [SPEAKER_01]: This is fake tobacco, in Arabic, it's cold, tobacco, in Arabic, in Arabic, in the middle.

18:09 [SPEAKER_01]: Let's say tobacco, you're not what I want. [SPEAKER_01]: Even though she knew that Allah could marry him, that means she knew that the order is coming from Allah. [SPEAKER_01]: And she could have said, Allah's, and she said, [SPEAKER_01]: What did she do? [SPEAKER_01]: She started doing the same.

18:35 [SPEAKER_01]: She started doing her same. [SPEAKER_01]: She did something. [SPEAKER_01]: She did not put the work on her child. [SPEAKER_01]: She trusted Allah Subhanah with the island. [SPEAKER_01]: And she called us. [SPEAKER_01]: We didn't do anything. [SPEAKER_01]: No. [SPEAKER_01]: She put her the work on Allah Subhanah with the island.

18:54 [SPEAKER_01]: And she went from the Sohra [SPEAKER_01]: than to the Marwan. [SPEAKER_01]: Did she find anything the first time? [SPEAKER_01]: How about a second time? [SPEAKER_01]: The third time. [SPEAKER_01]: Till the seventh time, she can't on going back and forth. [SPEAKER_01]: How many times did you try to solve your problem?

19:15 [SPEAKER_01]: Maybe once, maybe twice, maybe three times, and then you gave up. [SPEAKER_01]: Your sums of did not come on the third. [SPEAKER_01]: Maybe she took it to the come on the 15th and the 18th. [SPEAKER_01]: Hers came on the seventh. [SPEAKER_01]: or some of them came with the seven. [SPEAKER_01]: I don't know when is your Zanzan coming, but 100% without the speck of doubt it's coming.

19:37 [SPEAKER_01]: This is what we all should have in our hearts that a Zanzan is coming. [SPEAKER_01]: It's gonna crush. [SPEAKER_01]: Whatever that Zanzan is, that financial issue that Allah takes my husband and Allah takes my child. [SPEAKER_01]: Whatever that thing is, it is coming. [SPEAKER_01]: But I have to do my side.

19:56 [SPEAKER_01]: I had to do my sign, just like Hajar made her sign. [SPEAKER_01]: She did not sit down and, yeah, my sister is. [SPEAKER_01]: She's not into a prophet, not to a prophet. [SPEAKER_01]: To the one of the best prophets ever. [SPEAKER_01]: To the father of the ambia, she did not depend on that.

20:12 [SPEAKER_01]: My husband is the father of the ambia. [SPEAKER_01]: My husband is a braheim. [SPEAKER_01]: No, she still made the sign, knowing her husband is a braheim and knowing that Allah commanded him to leave her there. [SPEAKER_01]: Many of us would say, a lot of them, that means it's going to take care of me.

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20:56 [SPEAKER_01]: stop my sight because that's how it was delayed. [SPEAKER_01]: This is where we need to believe that my ZOMZOM is coming. [SPEAKER_01]: Now, your ZOMZOM or your sight could be going to counseling. [SPEAKER_01]: It could [SPEAKER_01]: With that person, it could be seeking medical treatment.

21:30 [SPEAKER_01]: It could be calling your that sister that we have a scope for a long time. [SPEAKER_01]: I have a grudge, your say could be apologizing to anyone that's good to say. [SPEAKER_01]: Your say could be applying for another job. [SPEAKER_01]: Your sari could be learning, or your sari could be making more.

22:15 [SPEAKER_01]: doesn't do the goal. [SPEAKER_01]: Your sight is your responsibility because I cannot control the goal. [SPEAKER_01]: I can control what I'm doing. [SPEAKER_01]: Look at the importance of sight. [SPEAKER_01]: You are all sisters and many of you have went through pregnancy and delivery of children.

22:31 [SPEAKER_01]: And if I ask you, I'm sure, knowing from my female family, you honestly would say the most painful time of my life was when I was [SPEAKER_01]: of everyone would say that, right? [SPEAKER_01]: Thank you. [SPEAKER_01]: Many of my colleagues say that. [SPEAKER_01]: She was about to deliver her.

22:52 [SPEAKER_01]: And he said, he said, right? [SPEAKER_01]: Thank you. [SPEAKER_01]: She got hungry. [SPEAKER_01]: Can Allah make her stomach full? [SPEAKER_01]: Be full. [SPEAKER_01]: She would be full, right? [SPEAKER_01]: Can Allah make the dates fall from the tree? [SPEAKER_01]: Okay? [SPEAKER_01]: What is the percent?

23:14 [SPEAKER_01]: What did he tell her? [SPEAKER_01]: She said, she said, she said, she said, she said, she said, she said, she said, she said, she said, she said, she said, she said, she said, she said, she said, she said, she said, she said, she said, she said, she said, she said, she said, she said, she said, she said, she said, she said, she said, she said, she said, she said, she said, she said, she said, she said, she said, she said, she said, she said, she said, she said, she said, she said, she said, she said, she said, she said, she said, she said, she said, she said, she said, she said, she said, she said, she said, she said, she said, she said, she said, she said, she said, [SPEAKER_01]: Imagine a trunk of a palm tree, like I told you before, when I went to Amura, I took the brothers and the sisters to farm and we stood next to the palm tree trunk was as big as this table, right and all the men I want to teach them a lesson.

23:57 [SPEAKER_01]: I said guys, let's try to push this, let's try to shake this tree. [SPEAKER_01]: All 20 men muscle and everything. [SPEAKER_01]: a milli of an inch. [SPEAKER_01]: Nothing. [SPEAKER_01]: But how will Allah ask a woman delivering a baby to shake the tree from the roots, from the banana because she's laying down.

24:19 [SPEAKER_01]: She's not standing up with the how? [SPEAKER_01]: What does that mean? [SPEAKER_01]: What does that mean? [SPEAKER_01]: Do you decide? [SPEAKER_01]: Do something. [SPEAKER_01]: Do something. [SPEAKER_01]: I mean, a lost parent island made her pregnant without her husband. [SPEAKER_01]: He cannot make her deliver everything easy and the tree comes down.

24:41 [SPEAKER_01]: Obviously, she was the most miraculous pregnancy ever. [SPEAKER_01]: Do something. [SPEAKER_01]: Our responsibility is the same. [SPEAKER_01]: And the relief and the answer is only from one of us. [SPEAKER_01]: And find out, like I said, that's it, could you that tough conversation could be, you know what sometimes, the system, something that's bothering you a lot.

25:17 [SPEAKER_01]: And even though, this is carefully, even though it is that other sister's problem, it's her mistake that she did this to me. [SPEAKER_01]: But it's bothering me a lot. [SPEAKER_01]: My advice to you is you initiate the peace, [SPEAKER_01]: not for her, just to unload all those troubles from you, you're doing yourself a favor.

25:38 [SPEAKER_01]: That thing is bothering you so much and you can control it by a phone call or an apology or anything. [SPEAKER_01]: Like I said, maybe she does not deserve an apology, but you know, I want to make peace because you know what? [SPEAKER_01]: It's bothering me so much, I cannot take this anymore.

25:52 [SPEAKER_01]: It's really being like a mountain of my back. [SPEAKER_01]: You understand? [SPEAKER_01]: So maybe that's your side. [SPEAKER_01]: It's constantly bothering you that your mother-in-law is always on your case and she's doing this to you and all that, and I try to talk to her, because this, by the way, the brothers who run my Instagram, they put a video about me talking about your mother-in-law.

26:20 [SPEAKER_01]: You saw that video? [SPEAKER_01]: Yes. [SPEAKER_01]: Oh, my God. [SPEAKER_01]: The sisters are very happy, and the brothers are looking at me. [SPEAKER_01]: What is this video? [SPEAKER_01]: Please cure a mother-in-law, please. [SPEAKER_01]: I beg you. [SPEAKER_01]: I beg you. [SPEAKER_01]: Be gentle with your daughter-in-law.

26:38 [SPEAKER_01]: And if you are a daughter-in-law, please teach your mother-in-law. [SPEAKER_01]: And respect her. [SPEAKER_01]: It goes both ways. [SPEAKER_01]: Well, my heart. [SPEAKER_01]: How are stories? [SPEAKER_01]: How are stories? [SPEAKER_01]: Let alone stories on earth. [SPEAKER_01]: You shouldn't have one class.

26:54 [SPEAKER_01]: Just call it the outdoors. [SPEAKER_01]: Now, the question is, when Hazard, I didn't say that she was looking for help, she was looking somewhere, and when I was with Hannah, I had a broad zoom from somewhere else. [SPEAKER_01]: So your solution could come from places that you've never expected.

27:36 [SPEAKER_01]: The solution could come from places you've never expected. [SPEAKER_01]: Maybe a system of the class could be your solution. [SPEAKER_01]: Maybe a short video that you got forwarded to you, that was your solution. [SPEAKER_01]: All I have is, don't ever give up on yourself. [SPEAKER_01]: Sometimes we take our vow, [SPEAKER_01]: We tell Allah, this is what I think is my solution.

28:11 [SPEAKER_01]: No, what is this? [SPEAKER_01]: No, Allah, how many times the thing that we read, you want the most turned out to worst thing if you would ever happen to us? [SPEAKER_01]: You don't know how many marriages [SPEAKER_01]: that sister or that brother especially. [SPEAKER_01]: I want that sister and he fought with his parents and they thought it was why we're not going to the wedding.

28:32 [SPEAKER_01]: This is not for you. [SPEAKER_01]: We know her a family. [SPEAKER_01]: She's not a good girl. [SPEAKER_01]: Many times when he wakes up or they have to be children. [SPEAKER_01]: And he's stuck. [SPEAKER_01]: And he has so scared to go to his parents and say, you were right. [SPEAKER_01]: I struggled so much with her.

29:03 [SPEAKER_01]: How many of us laid to art for years and nothing had you feel like you want to you can raise your hand. [SPEAKER_01]: I can tell you there's a god I've been making for eight years myself every single night. [SPEAKER_01]: I'm still waiting. [SPEAKER_01]: I'm still not. [SPEAKER_01]: because I know I'm rather open for sure, because you know what taught me this?

29:36 [SPEAKER_01]: Because the last two hours was four years and half. [SPEAKER_01]: So I said the time, the 30 longer video if I said this maybe a lot of Adam. [SPEAKER_01]: But I know this is the secret, the secret of the acceptance of the dua is you knowing that it will be canceled. [SPEAKER_01]: Because if you have doubt and you say, let me give it a shot.

29:57 [SPEAKER_01]: Let me try to have. [SPEAKER_01]: Many people say, let me try to act, I tried to stop her, I tried this medicine, I tried this, let me now try to act. [SPEAKER_01]: This is exactly what it's not going to work. [SPEAKER_01]: Because you're comparing a lot to the doctor, let me try a lot.

30:15 [SPEAKER_01]: There's no trial with a lot. [SPEAKER_01]: Allah is 100%. [SPEAKER_01]: Allah can't be ashamed of you. [SPEAKER_01]: We have to approach the dohaq with that. [SPEAKER_01]: May Allah be pleased. [SPEAKER_01]: And remember that as I said, as I said, a person's dua continues to be answered as long as they do not become impatient.

30:42 [SPEAKER_01]: Because remember, as I said, one of three ways that dua is answered, either you get what you're asked for or something was really, really bad. [SPEAKER_01]: It's going to happen because if your dua was diverting or it will stay till the day of judgment and you will get it there. [SPEAKER_01]: It's always a win situation, so you will get one of those three as you are what's coming on, why, like I said, that's right, we treat the ad, like Amazon Prime, what happened?

31:16 [SPEAKER_01]: I ordered it, say Allah, what's coming on, it's two days now, but I ain't got my family yet, right? [SPEAKER_01]: This is not the way we deal with Allah, so Allah, we have to put our order and wait, [SPEAKER_01]: Whenever it's the best time for dinner, unless I don't die, I will deliver it.

31:36 [SPEAKER_01]: Thank you. [SPEAKER_01]: My here sisters, sometimes nobody knows how difficult this year has been for you. [SPEAKER_01]: Sometimes, no one knows how many times you cry in the car before you enter the house. [SPEAKER_01]: Maybe you're even closest to person, your spouse. [SPEAKER_01]: There's not no burden that you are carrying.

32:18 [SPEAKER_01]: But I was paneled to Ina's, he's all these fears. [SPEAKER_01]: I was paneled to Ina, knows what you're going through. [SPEAKER_01]: And I was so that, so, you would. [SPEAKER_01]: that time when someone breathes at something that you heard you and your patient, I'm a soul and heard everything and the most important thing in our body is the one that can solve the problem and knows about the problem.

33:01 [SPEAKER_01]: That's what my main concern is that [SPEAKER_01]: What does it mean when I say, make your say and leave the Zanzan to Allah? [SPEAKER_01]: What does it mean? [SPEAKER_01]: Could be your [SPEAKER_01]: Since I always give a valid example, it could be your problems at home. [SPEAKER_01]: You do your study, you try to do your job as a wife.

34:40 [SPEAKER_01]: You do your job many times, both the spouses, whether the husband or the wife, they stop doing their dues because the other person's stop. [SPEAKER_01]: These are your Jews, and you will be questioned about them. [SPEAKER_01]: Sometimes because even this, I'm going to do the same thing.

35:05 [SPEAKER_01]: How is this going to reach a solution? [SPEAKER_01]: How are we going to reconcile when we reach that point? [SPEAKER_01]: You do this, I'm going to do this. [SPEAKER_01]: So where is your iman? [SPEAKER_01]: Where is your akhla? [SPEAKER_01]: Where is this attendance of the classes? [SPEAKER_01]: Maybe it's not attending anything.

35:18 [SPEAKER_01]: But Mashallah, you are from one class to another, and you're still acting the same as a sister who never seen the machine. [SPEAKER_01]: So what are these classes for? [SPEAKER_01]: These classes are for us to improve and develop and get promoted in our spirituality that I can even though he's not doing this, but I am a believer and I know that Allah is washing me, even though you do not deserve me to treat you like this, but because Allah ordered me and Allah is washing me and with Allah nothing goes to waste, that's why I'm treating you this way.

35:55 [SPEAKER_01]: I should have a lot. [SPEAKER_01]: By me, just following this path, there's a huge possibility of the house to change. [SPEAKER_01]: But when I am, you do this, I do this. [SPEAKER_01]: You do this, I do this. [SPEAKER_01]: When is the possibility of fixing the problem? [SPEAKER_01]: When is the possibility?

36:15 [SPEAKER_01]: If every time you yell, my voice is louder. [SPEAKER_01]: You don't speak for two days. [SPEAKER_01]: I'm going to speak for three days. [SPEAKER_01]: I'm going to talk to you. [SPEAKER_01]: How are you going to solve the problem? [SPEAKER_01]: So I was coming here. [SPEAKER_01]: So here is where I have to do my side.

36:38 [SPEAKER_01]: Allahi, you know, you know, listen to this. [SPEAKER_01]: This is probably the most important thing today. [SPEAKER_01]: Sometimes, [SPEAKER_01]: know how hard it is. [SPEAKER_01]: You have a problem with your sister, with your spouse, with your beds, with your child, with whatever it is, whatever it is, right?

37:13 [SPEAKER_01]: And when you are in that situation, you cannot stand that person, right? [SPEAKER_01]: And you don't want to do anything nice to that person, [SPEAKER_01]: I don't know. [SPEAKER_01]: Of course, everything I have is something, so I'm doing it for his sake because I'm forgiving because he is that a fool.

37:39 [SPEAKER_01]: I am being merciful because he is Allah. [SPEAKER_01]: I am accepting his repentance because Allah is that Allah wills. [SPEAKER_01]: I'm trying to get one small amount of attributes of Allah and apply it to my level in my life. [SPEAKER_01]: Why do we learn that attributes of Allah? [SPEAKER_01]: So he can apply them on a humane level.

38:02 [SPEAKER_01]: To others, Allah, Allah also has had said, May Allah yerhan, may Allah yerhan. [SPEAKER_01]: I'm sorry, but does not show mercy, will not get mercy. [SPEAKER_01]: I'm sorry, but does not show mercy, will not get mercy. [SPEAKER_01]: So wherever that person did, I'm not doing it for them.

38:22 [SPEAKER_01]: Or by the way, the shaykhana is not gonna let you continue with that. [SPEAKER_01]: nothing. [SPEAKER_01]: He will tell you, no, you forgot what they did to you. [SPEAKER_01]: You've remembered what they said. [SPEAKER_01]: Can you imagine how you remember what he yelled so much? [SPEAKER_01]: He's going to bring up every single problem that person did.

38:41 [SPEAKER_01]: And all the not to make you bring back peace to your home. [SPEAKER_01]: And sometimes peace is just one halfway, one kiss away, one statement away. [SPEAKER_01]: But I don't see it because my ego is not [SPEAKER_01]: more simple words will not come out even though that word could bring me peace and we all know that the most precious thing in our life.

39:33 [SPEAKER_01]: You know, I was wondering what type is peace of mind mentioned in the Qur'an, and then I found out it is mentioned in that sort of something, some of I said, in some of my hundred, I must find out that I said, while I slah had I am, and he gave the peace of mind. [SPEAKER_01]: Who are these people, the people who are believers, and they do righteous deeds, and I am a new one who's sorry I have, when I am a new one I am a new one, and they believe what was revealed to the soul of Allah, some of Allah I have said to them.

40:11 [SPEAKER_01]: Today, I want everybody to ask them something. [SPEAKER_01]: What is my desert right now? [SPEAKER_01]: What is my desert right now? [SPEAKER_01]: And what is my sight? [SPEAKER_01]: We all know what happened to Haja's desert and her site, and we all know about documented her chip or mission till the day of judgment, because of her personality.

40:55 [SPEAKER_01]: Because of her personality, no one's eyes are wrong as accepted until they imitate Haja. [SPEAKER_01]: Is that a coincidence? [SPEAKER_01]: No, you can't go too wrong about how you don't be taking time without how you're crossing your mind. [SPEAKER_01]: You have to run the side thread, especially with a bit.

41:20 [SPEAKER_01]: So the statement that should be in our mind is, and I want you to write it down. [SPEAKER_01]: I want you to write this down for the sisters who are writing down right down. [SPEAKER_01]: Yeah, a lot. [SPEAKER_01]: I will make my sign. [SPEAKER_01]: This is carefully to the one more thing.

41:55 [SPEAKER_01]: The homework is to bite in someone else's load to bite in someone else's load. [SPEAKER_01]: How does that happen? [SPEAKER_01]: Call someone you've been thinking about. [SPEAKER_01]: Send them, call someone you've been thinking about. [SPEAKER_01]: Send them a message. [SPEAKER_01]: This is an elderly sister, maybe you can ask your neighbor if you watch the trip and so they can go with that husband now.

42:32 [SPEAKER_01]: It has some family. [SPEAKER_01]: Do something that not necessarily would benefit you, but to prevent it, but this is a homework. [SPEAKER_01]: That could change. [SPEAKER_01]: It was kind of loud. [SPEAKER_01]: Imagine that you were going so much stress and you reached the point that you know it's even, I feel so lonely.

43:07 [SPEAKER_01]: And then all of a sudden, baby, you look, I'm thinking about you. [SPEAKER_01]: How are you doing? [SPEAKER_01]: Allah, Allah, Allah, may you descend for others. [SPEAKER_01]: Can you imagine Allah used you as descend for others? [SPEAKER_01]: What an honor for Allah to use me to relieve someone else's stress, to relieve someone [SPEAKER_01]: genuinely someone asking you for a financial help, right, and they never ask, I want you to remember that Allah as our gentleman shows you to be the relief for that sister, [SPEAKER_01]: When she got your neighbor, she came to you.

44:14 [SPEAKER_01]: So I want you to put a smile on your face and say, I have to revive you all by your chosen need to be allowed for others. [SPEAKER_01]: The more you are tight with money, I'm just talking about money. [SPEAKER_01]: It could be half an hour of helping me move. [SPEAKER_01]: It could be an hour to get to my child.

44:55 [SPEAKER_01]: It could be anything. [SPEAKER_01]: Come maybe a dish that you brought them. [SPEAKER_01]: I'm here for you a lot like a body, especially in us living here, you know, you know what these things mean? [SPEAKER_01]: They're so heavy. [SPEAKER_01]: So I always think out of the box thinking, think, how can I be a social smile to someone else?

45:26 [SPEAKER_01]: Not just me, me, me. [SPEAKER_01]: And also when you think about that, unless I don't understand you, someone that's really a social smile to you, me, isn't it? [SPEAKER_01]: And I will end with this in chat with the other. [SPEAKER_01]: And this is probably many of us are going to, when if I took a photo of Haja in the desert, or maybe we took that 360 virtual tour.

46:01 [SPEAKER_01]: We took a virtual tour about where is Haja, right? [SPEAKER_01]: What would you come up with? [SPEAKER_01]: a virtual tour of where a higher was in the middle of the desert. [SPEAKER_01]: You would come up with a conclusion, there is no hope. [SPEAKER_01]: No people, no greenery, no water, no food, no market, no nothing, nothing.

46:37 [SPEAKER_01]: If you took a virtual tour and this is miles and miles and miles, the only conclusion you would come up with, there is no hope. [SPEAKER_01]: I'll tell you, there's no hope to have a baby after 10 years of trying. [SPEAKER_01]: There's no hope that man being fixed after 15 years of marriage.

47:05 [SPEAKER_01]: There's no hope that child being guided. [SPEAKER_01]: There's no hope, there's no hope, there's no hope. [SPEAKER_01]: Remember that. [SPEAKER_01]: The situation has also been measured. [SPEAKER_01]: But you will be in the Lata Island, with your lucky and your daughter. [SPEAKER_01]: Thank you very much.