Qualities of a Woman of Sunnah Every Muslimah Should Know

0:00 [SPEAKER_00]: when a law decreed, that's you did not get married. [SPEAKER_00]: You didn't refuse, you did not decline, you declined because it's not good for your dean. [SPEAKER_00]: But you end up being 40, 45, 50, whatever, and you didn't get married, so the chances are unlikely, unlikely. [SPEAKER_00]: Am I right?

0:18 [SPEAKER_00]: Why do you complain? [SPEAKER_00]: Where is the submission? [SPEAKER_00]: Where is the acceptance? [SPEAKER_00]: Mostly mad, submit to the will of Allah. [SPEAKER_00]: The way He created you. [SPEAKER_00]: Short, tall, fair, dark, colored eyes, not where glasses does not. [SPEAKER_00]: Doesn't matter.

0:35 [SPEAKER_00]: I anything I don't have a choice in. [SPEAKER_00]: I need to submit. [SPEAKER_00]: I don't have a choice. [SPEAKER_00]: I don't have a choice what I was born. [SPEAKER_00]: I don't even have a choice in my name. [SPEAKER_00]: I didn't have a choice who are my parents. [SPEAKER_00]: There's a lot of choices in life.

0:49 [SPEAKER_00]: So the first thing the woman of Sunnah, don't forget why we are saying all this. [SPEAKER_00]: The woman of Sunnah is a woman who submit to the will of Allah and does not say why me. [SPEAKER_00]: why she, why her husband takes care of her and mind doesn't. [SPEAKER_00]: You believe in Allah that everything, as simple words, I'm gonna put it.

1:09 [SPEAKER_00]: Everything comes from Allah's good for you. [SPEAKER_00]: You believe that Allah is merciful always that you believe in Allah. [SPEAKER_00]: fully unshakable, doesn't matter what happens around you. [SPEAKER_00]: I know Allah will not let me down. [SPEAKER_00]: It doesn't matter what you are going through, like say the Hajar.

1:27 [SPEAKER_00]: When He left her, at least, Samam, in Makkah, nothing, nobody, baby, breastfeeding, little food, little water. [SPEAKER_00]: She looked at him and says, Allah ordered you to leave us. [SPEAKER_00]: In this place alone he said yes, said go, Allah will never put us down. [SPEAKER_00]: That's a believing woman.

1:46 [SPEAKER_00]: Now you ask yourself, don't answer me. [SPEAKER_00]: What is the woman of Sunnah? [SPEAKER_00]: Right? [SPEAKER_00]: We all know woman in the Quran. [SPEAKER_00]: I did one in Kuala Lampur last week. [SPEAKER_00]: But woman in Sunnah or woman of Sunnah, then we come to the verse beautifully, recite it and we heard and sorted toub.

2:03 [SPEAKER_00]: So what I'm gonna do with you all, because I want you to live today, learn something most importantly is, what is this knowledge you're gonna do to you as a woman? [SPEAKER_00]: And I love talking to women only, because [SPEAKER_00]: It is, it becomes more personal, we're more comfortable.

2:20 [SPEAKER_00]: And I've done it also with both genders, but especially when it's related to a woman's subject, you will feel it more. [SPEAKER_00]: So I want to take you first, and I keep going to keep asking you, because we're going to talk. [SPEAKER_00]: Are you a woman of sunnah? [SPEAKER_00]: Raise your hand.

2:34 [SPEAKER_00]: I'm already. [SPEAKER_00]: What does it mean? [SPEAKER_00]: And I am not judging or denying ou du billah? [SPEAKER_00]: But when you said I am a woman of sunnah, what comes to your mind? [SPEAKER_00]: By the way, there's not one single right answer. [SPEAKER_00]: There is answers. [SPEAKER_00]: What does it mean to you when you read it?

2:52 [SPEAKER_00]: I think you read it here. [SPEAKER_00]: Yeah. [SPEAKER_00]: When you read woman of sunnah, forget seminar. [SPEAKER_00]: Because seminar will make you like, okay, I need to come. [SPEAKER_00]: But just read woman of sunnah. [SPEAKER_00]: What does it mean to you? [SPEAKER_00]: First question, are you?

3:06 [SPEAKER_00]: And you said yes and handler. [SPEAKER_00]: What does it mean? [SPEAKER_00]: What when you look at me or I look at you? [SPEAKER_00]: What do I see in you? [SPEAKER_00]: Or you see in me? [SPEAKER_00]: And you say this is a woman of sunnah. [SPEAKER_00]: What? [SPEAKER_00]: Let me give you some.

3:18 [SPEAKER_00]: I don't want to keep asking you because I don't want to make sure you're all state of the end of the day. [SPEAKER_00]: If I want to learn anything, let me go back to the Sunnah and let me go back to the woman who lived the Sunnah. [SPEAKER_00]: How about that? [SPEAKER_00]: Right? [SPEAKER_00]: So who lived the Sunnah before?

3:35 [SPEAKER_00]: The wife of Rasuali Satoza, the woman who were around Rasuali Satoza. [SPEAKER_00]: There's a beautiful book in Arabic. [SPEAKER_00]: I think it is translated. [SPEAKER_00]: I'm not 100% sure. [SPEAKER_00]: I know the other side is translated. [SPEAKER_00]: There is a book in Arabic, it's called Rijalun Hau'la Rasul.

3:53 [SPEAKER_00]: Men around the Prophet very well known. [SPEAKER_00]: I think Khalid bin Khalid is the author. [SPEAKER_00]: This is translated. [SPEAKER_00]: Then they came in Nisa Hau'la Rasul. [SPEAKER_00]: Woman and His'la Rasul. [SPEAKER_00]: Woman around the Rasul, His'la Rasul. [SPEAKER_00]: Check if it is translated, I'm not sure, but this will be a good one to study, to read, because it's not about only the wives of Rossoalei Satov Sena.

4:18 [SPEAKER_00]: In the book he will find outside, Builders of Nation, this is the 2024 version, [SPEAKER_00]: The quick version of it is the woman who built this scene, the woman who built this time because I We either any we did not look at only the woman at the time of a Rosuala is sought to observe There is woman there is no name the mother of a man Bihari the mother of a Imam Shafay and then we ended up to the 20th century So where do I want to start with?

4:47 [SPEAKER_00]: Of course always go to the Quran [SPEAKER_00]: And in the afternoon, or maybe in the next session, I'll come to the verse, because that's a completely different thing we need to discuss. [SPEAKER_00]: But let's first put this standards. [SPEAKER_00]: There's a chapter in the Quran called Surah to Tahirim.

5:04 [SPEAKER_00]: It's the last chapter, or the last Surah, in the 28th chapter of the Quran. [SPEAKER_00]: How many of you know the name at Tahirim the forbidden? [SPEAKER_00]: Show me hand. [SPEAKER_00]: So I just know where. [SPEAKER_00]: Okay, I'll handle that. [SPEAKER_00]: So some note. [SPEAKER_00]: Okay.

5:18 [SPEAKER_00]: So this chapter starts by addressing Raswalih as-salatu wa s-salatu wa s-salatu wa s-salatu wa s-salatu wa s-salatu wa s-salatu wa s-salatu wa s-salatu wa s-salatu wa s-salatu wa s-salatu wa s-salatu wa s-salatu wa s-salatu wa s-salatu wa s-salatu wa s-salatu wa s-salatu wa s-salatu wa s-salatu wa s-salatu wa s-salatu wa s-salatu wa s-salatu wa s-salatu wa s-salatu wa s-salatu wa s-salatu wa s-salatu wa s-salatu wa s-salatu wa s-salatu wa s-salatu wa s-salatu wa s-salatu wa s-salatu wa s-salatu wa s-salatu wa s-salatu wa s-salatu wa s-salatu wa s-salatu [SPEAKER_00]: So Allah is saying to Rasul al-Azza wa sallallahu wa sallallahu wa sallallahu al-Azza wa sallallahu al-Azza wa sallallahu al-Azza wa sallallahu al-Azza wa sallallahu al-Azza wa sallallahu al-Azza wa sallallahu al-Azza wa sallallahu al-Azza wa sallallahu al-Azza wa sallallahu al-Azza wa sallallahu al-Azza wa sallallahu al-Azza wa sallallahu al-Azza wa sallallahu al-Azza wa sallallahu al-Azza wa sallallahu al-Azza wa sallallahu al-Azza wa sallallahu al-Azza wa sallallahu al-Azza wa sallallahu al-Azza wa sallallahu al-Azza wa sallallahu al-Azza wa sallall

5:59 [SPEAKER_00]: And then Allah sh-pant'a'ada t-all-ham, Khatfar-o-dallahu l-a'ul-a'ul-a'ul-a'ul-a'ul-a'ul-a'ul-a'ul-a'ul-a'ul-a'ul-a'ul-a'ul-a'ul-a'ul-a'ul-a'ul-a'ul-a'ul-a'ul-a'ul-a'ul-a'ul-a'ul-a'ul-a'ul-a'ul-a'ul-a'ul-a'ul-a'ul-a'ul-a'ul-a'ul-a'ul-a'ul-a'ul-a'ul-a'ul-a'ul-a'ul-a'ul-a'ul-a'ul-a'ul-a'ul-a'ul-a'ul-a [SPEAKER_00]: What is this?

6:18 [SPEAKER_00]: I come to you and say, why do you make something halal haram? [SPEAKER_00]: Meaning or you come to me and you say why did you say this is haram? [SPEAKER_00]: Water is halal. [SPEAKER_00]: Why are you changing it? [SPEAKER_00]: Meaning I changed it. [SPEAKER_00]: What is this story? [SPEAKER_00]: And that's what we're going to be learning as woman.

6:34 [SPEAKER_00]: Rasuali sallatu sallam, how many wives he had, living at the same time, in the most agreed opinion is nine. [SPEAKER_00]: Okay? [SPEAKER_00]: They were women, they had feelings, who's the husband, who's the husband, talked to me, Rasuali sallatu sallam, by Allah and I asked you a question.

6:50 [SPEAKER_00]: If you were the wife of Rasuali sallatu sallam. [SPEAKER_00]: or I was the wife of a Rasul al-Asaat to a sinner. [SPEAKER_00]: And you are also the wife of a Rasul al-Asaat to a sinner. [SPEAKER_00]: Will I be jealous of you? [SPEAKER_00]: Absolutely. [SPEAKER_00]: Yeah, I want him for myself.

7:03 [SPEAKER_00]: Yes, I am selfish. [SPEAKER_00]: And that's exactly what happened. [SPEAKER_00]: They were two groups, okay? [SPEAKER_00]: Saida Isha is the most beloved. [SPEAKER_00]: We all know that. [SPEAKER_00]: Because she was the most beloved and he loved her. [SPEAKER_00]: She funded very difficult if she feels [SPEAKER_00]: There may be a competitor to her, and who was the competitor, ladies, you need to know this.

7:25 [SPEAKER_00]: This is very nice story, but Zena being just, right? [SPEAKER_00]: She is his relative, and she was married to Zena Zed. [SPEAKER_00]: And she was referred to in the Qur'an, la macadazée dont minna wa parah zawajnaka, when Zed divorced her, we made you marry her. [SPEAKER_00]: Zena was very beautiful, beautiful.

7:47 [SPEAKER_00]: and his relative, and he married her. [SPEAKER_00]: So, say the Aisha was jealous, you read it. [SPEAKER_00]: The Hadith, he's saying it. [SPEAKER_00]: And there's another one, was very beautiful. [SPEAKER_00]: La joy ria. [SPEAKER_00]: And she said, also, a Hadith of say the Aisha, she said, when he saw her, now you know her, you know your husband?

8:07 [SPEAKER_00]: Yes? [SPEAKER_00]: And you know your children? [SPEAKER_00]: She said, I knew when he saw her, she is gonna be his wife. [SPEAKER_00]: so what happened they became two groups. [SPEAKER_00]: One is a sadah isha and Hafsa, the daughter of Sadna Omar. [SPEAKER_00]: And the other, the other two.

8:26 [SPEAKER_00]: So they made an agreement, sadah isha and Hafsa. [SPEAKER_00]: They wanted him not to go to the house or not to go to the day, not to go to the Jewish area and to the Seda Zainab. [SPEAKER_00]: They heard that when he goes there, they serve him special honey. [SPEAKER_00]: and he likes it.

8:51 [SPEAKER_00]: So they said, this is not going to work. [SPEAKER_00]: He needs to eat only with us. [SPEAKER_00]: And he should like what we do. [SPEAKER_00]: So they planned, this is in the Qur'an, ladies. [SPEAKER_00]: I am not making this up. [SPEAKER_00]: There's not a movie. [SPEAKER_00]: The Qur'an eluded and you read the commentary on it and the Hadith by Sayyidah Isha.

9:10 [SPEAKER_00]: So she said, we made this plan. [SPEAKER_00]: Okay, the Kundalini. [SPEAKER_00]: She said to Hafsa, both. [SPEAKER_00]: They agreed. [SPEAKER_00]: who ever come to her first after he goes to the house of Zainab and he eats honey there. [SPEAKER_00]: We're going to tell him, you're going to laugh after this.

9:28 [SPEAKER_00]: We're going to tell him, you have a smell. [SPEAKER_00]: It's like you ate, Dorian, I did, I tried it. [SPEAKER_00]: It's okay. [SPEAKER_00]: No, honestly, we may allow the organizers in Lenkawi and my student from the UK and I will ask her at the end to come and share with you her experience.

9:50 [SPEAKER_00]: She is adamant about eating it. [SPEAKER_00]: I have no idea what is this. [SPEAKER_00]: As like what is it, she says we have anyway. [SPEAKER_00]: So we drove to a farm, amazing again beautiful people and they honored us and they opened it. [SPEAKER_00]: What do you see? [SPEAKER_00]: We took a video.

10:09 [SPEAKER_00]: It looks yellow on the inside. [SPEAKER_00]: I don't know what is this so the man I think he sensed like this woman come from America She's from the Arab world so he actually says it's not a sea and he took it with his hand So it wasn't too bad. [SPEAKER_00]: So I took it in my hand. [SPEAKER_00]: I normally this is me.

10:26 [SPEAKER_00]: I usually smell the things [SPEAKER_00]: Well, like that's not too bad. [SPEAKER_00]: Why do they say it's small bad? [SPEAKER_00]: I ate it. [SPEAKER_00]: It was okay. [SPEAKER_00]: It's not something, remember. [SPEAKER_00]: We come from the Arab world, right? [SPEAKER_00]: May Allah help you when you go for a Hajj and Omar, what do you eat?

10:40 [SPEAKER_00]: You probably carry Tabasco with you, right? [SPEAKER_00]: So then, but their smell stink later on. [SPEAKER_00]: You start smelling it. [SPEAKER_00]: That's now in our hotel, the first thing it says. [SPEAKER_00]: So back to the story. [SPEAKER_00]: So they said, both agreed, whoever he comes to Alaisalatu or Saram, whether a seda isha or seda hafsa, tell him you smell marafir.

11:03 [SPEAKER_00]: Marafir is also a fruit, literally like theodian, it smells. [SPEAKER_00]: So he came to hafsa, seda hafsa, she said it. [SPEAKER_00]: He said, she said, what did you eat? [SPEAKER_00]: He said, I ate honey in Zainab's house. [SPEAKER_00]: He said, you smell like marafir. [SPEAKER_00]: Like it doesn't smell well in the mouth.

11:22 [SPEAKER_00]: And this is Rasulullah, the Quran comes from the mouth. [SPEAKER_00]: You know this, I'm so they taught you. [SPEAKER_00]: Like you always have to make sure your mouth is smelling well because it's the words of Allah coming out. [SPEAKER_00]: He said, I am not eating anymore in her house.

11:37 [SPEAKER_00]: So Allah revealed it. [SPEAKER_00]: I didn't come yet to where the woman of Sunnah comes. [SPEAKER_00]: So Allah told him that they planned, and this is what it is. [SPEAKER_00]: And why do you make Khalil Haram? [SPEAKER_00]: Now you said it, you need to make something to make this oath allow you to negate it, and Allah told you what to do.

11:57 [SPEAKER_00]: He went back to Ayyshah, and he told her. [SPEAKER_00]: And he said, she asked him, who told you? [SPEAKER_00]: I say that Ayyshah was very smart and strong. [SPEAKER_00]: Who told you? [SPEAKER_00]: Manambah kebihada. [SPEAKER_00]: It's in the Qur'an. [SPEAKER_00]: Manambah kebihada. [SPEAKER_00]: Who told you we made a plan?

12:13 [SPEAKER_00]: Are nabbah any al alimul Habir. [SPEAKER_00]: Now look at the next verses. [SPEAKER_00]: He told her the all-knowing, the one who knows every detail told me. [SPEAKER_00]: Then Allah start talking to them. [SPEAKER_00]: What happened? [SPEAKER_00]: There was a rumor. [SPEAKER_00]: Once he knew that, he stayed away from all his wives for one month.

12:33 [SPEAKER_00]: Now Medina, at that time, wastes smaller than Perlis. [SPEAKER_00]: So anything happens, I don't know here, if anything happens, everyone knows about it or we are bigger. [SPEAKER_00]: Okay, so imagine the Medina was much smaller. [SPEAKER_00]: So everybody knew about it and there was a talk.

12:50 [SPEAKER_00]: Some scholars said it was real, that the Raswalaisat was set up, divorced his wives. [SPEAKER_00]: Imagine this, right? [SPEAKER_00]: and someone came to say he'd never, and this one narrated by Sayyidina al-Murahadi. [SPEAKER_00]: They said, Arasu al-Ahi salatu wa saram, divorced his wife.

13:08 [SPEAKER_00]: Now Sayyidah epsilon is his daughter, and he sat al-Lakaha, he divorced her, and then he went to her. [SPEAKER_00]: In it's in this Hadith he said, we the man of Makkah. [SPEAKER_00]: We had, we were stronger than our wives. [SPEAKER_00]: and they cannot argue with us. [SPEAKER_00]: We came to Medina and we found out the wife's or the woman of Medina argue with their husbands.

13:33 [SPEAKER_00]: So he was telling that man, what are they arguing with the Rosuali Salat, was that a [SPEAKER_00]: And the man said, oh, yes, then he went to have salt. [SPEAKER_00]: And he said, you argue with the Raswari Salat was said, ah, she said, during the day, yes, and in the night we pleased him.

13:49 [SPEAKER_00]: Then he said, and he divorced you, she didn't answer. [SPEAKER_00]: That's why we don't know if he did or not. [SPEAKER_00]: Allah revealed this. [SPEAKER_00]: He said to them, this came to all the wives, especially, of course, the plotters, which is a sadya isha and sadya habsa. [SPEAKER_00]: Allah said, intatu ba vakatsat kalubukuma.

14:09 [SPEAKER_00]: If you repent from what you did, imagine this. [SPEAKER_00]: Imagine, I did something and Allah revealed the Quran to me and I'm reading it, but it's not a praise is exposing what I did. [SPEAKER_00]: If you're both, that's why they said it was both. [SPEAKER_00]: If you're paying to Allah, your hearts have submitted to Allah.

14:33 [SPEAKER_00]: What's in your heart? [SPEAKER_00]: And if you're going to plan again against Him, if you're going to Allah, you're going to pray, or you're going to pray in the morning. [SPEAKER_00]: You apply, apply against Him. [SPEAKER_00]: Allah is willing in the next thing. [SPEAKER_00]: Allah is willing.

14:48 [SPEAKER_00]: and jiburiri and all the other believers. [SPEAKER_00]: Are you all with me following me? [SPEAKER_00]: Where is the woman of sunnake in the next verse? [SPEAKER_00]: Each one of you as I am reading it and as I am going to translate, ask yourself, don't think of anybody else. [SPEAKER_00]: Ask yourself, are you those woman?

15:07 [SPEAKER_00]: He said, Allah's Pantar. [SPEAKER_00]: Assa'a'a'a'a'a'a'a'a'a'a'a'a'a'a'a'a'a'a'a'a'a'a'a'a'a'a'a'a'a'a'a'a'a'a'a'a'a'a'a'a'a'a'a'a'a'a'a'a'a'a'a'a'a'a'a'a'a'a'a'a'a'a'a'a'a'a'a'a'a'a'a'a'a'a'a'a'a'a'a'a'a'a'a'a'a'a'a'a'a'a'a'a'a'a'a'a'a'a'a'a [SPEAKER_00]: And Raswal is also saying it, and the Qutab al-Wahi, those who write the Qur'an, are writing, imagine he is saying to him, if Allah will plan to divorce them, and you will deal with him, he will change them with it.

15:45 [SPEAKER_00]: They didn't say names, he said characters, woman of sunna, as a robuhu, in pallaka kunna, a yub dillahu, as wajan, he will replace you with wives, higher on men kunna, better than yub, out, out, who are they? [SPEAKER_00]: And look at the characters, muslimatin, muslims, muslims, muslim moment, minatin because this is came in the feminine.

16:10 [SPEAKER_00]: Muslim, Latin, believing, on itatin, obedient, taibatin, they repent to Him. [SPEAKER_00]: Aahabidatin, they are worshippers. [SPEAKER_00]: Saahahatin, there are two meanings for this one. [SPEAKER_00]: Always fasting or they reflect on the creation of Allah. [SPEAKER_00]: And then two human description, say yubatin or abkhara, say yubatin meaning they have been married before or abkhara, they are virgin.

16:39 [SPEAKER_00]: Are you those women? [SPEAKER_00]: Do you have these characters? [SPEAKER_00]: Let's take them one by one. [SPEAKER_00]: I need the organiser to tell me how much time is left because I don't see anything here. [SPEAKER_00]: Okay? [SPEAKER_00]: Just like in the last one. [SPEAKER_00]: Now Muslimat, how many Muslimat in this room?

16:52 [SPEAKER_00]: What happened to you? [SPEAKER_00]: Where is your hands? [SPEAKER_00]: Don't, don't get fooled! [SPEAKER_00]: No! [SPEAKER_00]: You say, Ashhad wa Allah. [SPEAKER_00]: Ashhad wa Anna Muhammada Rasoola yura Muslima. [SPEAKER_00]: Done! [SPEAKER_00]: How good is a different story, right? [SPEAKER_00]: But we are almost mad.

17:07 [SPEAKER_00]: But what did Allah say in this meaning, is it the general term of Islam? [SPEAKER_00]: You know what is the general meaning of Islam? [SPEAKER_00]: We are learning in Hamdirullah. [SPEAKER_00]: The famous Hadith of Sayyidna Jubbiri, it's called Hadithu Jubbiri. [SPEAKER_00]: When Sayyidna Jubbiri came to Rasuali Saratosa as a man.

17:24 [SPEAKER_00]: You know this Hadith? [SPEAKER_00]: No problem. [SPEAKER_00]: I'll teach you Hamdirullah. [SPEAKER_00]: So this is the second hadith in a new way, the 14th and the second one. [SPEAKER_00]: And this narrated by Sayidina Omar. [SPEAKER_00]: And he said, when we were sitting in the presence of Rasul alaihi satu wa sara, Dahlal alaihi narajul, a man came in, right?

17:47 [SPEAKER_00]: And then he described him, [SPEAKER_00]: Extremely white clothes, and very dark hair. [SPEAKER_00]: Latav Harwalehi Atharu Saffar doesn't look like he's a traveler, yet no one knows him. [SPEAKER_00]: Again, Medina's small, everybody knows everyone, let alone they come to the modulus the sitting of Rasuali Salaatuosa.

18:12 [SPEAKER_00]: So I said, now I'm almost saying, we don't know who this man. [SPEAKER_00]: Doesn't look like he's a traveler. [SPEAKER_00]: Yet, he's very clean, white, so I mean, this is desert. [SPEAKER_00]: So if you travel, it's going to be dirty. [SPEAKER_00]: Then add it to it, right? [SPEAKER_00]: Came and sat in front of Rosuali, Salatu, a sara.

18:30 [SPEAKER_00]: See, like how you respect the dignitaries, and I see you respect the elders also, which is amazing. [SPEAKER_00]: And it's an Islamic etiquette. [SPEAKER_00]: Now, imagine this is a Rasuali Salaat yesterday, and this man that no one knows came sat in front of Rasuali Salaat yesterday and put his knees facing the knees of Rasuali Salaat yesterday.

18:53 [SPEAKER_00]: Wow! [SPEAKER_00]: And then he did something even more made them speechless, and I'm going to put the mark down so I can, you all can see what he did. [SPEAKER_00]: You don't do this unless the person is very close to you. [SPEAKER_00]: You have a personal relationship, not a stranger, let alone with the [SPEAKER_00]: Then he asked him four questions and that's why it's a very well known Hadith and this Hadith needs to be taught to every child What is Islam and he gave him and served him the five pillars of Islam?

19:35 [SPEAKER_00]: What is Islam five pillars? [SPEAKER_00]: Ladies, I'm asking [SPEAKER_00]: So Raswadi sawat was said, I'm answered them and he said, Sadat, you're saying the truth. [SPEAKER_00]: Say, in the Ummah, in the Hadith says, we are surprised. [SPEAKER_00]: He asked him and then telling him you're saying the truth, Yani Manaha, you know, why you're asking him that?

19:56 [SPEAKER_00]: Right? [SPEAKER_00]: Then he asked him, ah banyan il iman, what is iman? [SPEAKER_00]: What is faith? [SPEAKER_00]: And he gave him the six pillars of faith. [SPEAKER_00]: You know what? [SPEAKER_00]: Or is the six pillars of faith? [SPEAKER_00]: You believe in Allah? [SPEAKER_00]: Angels, books, prophets, David judgment and destiny.

20:11 [SPEAKER_00]: And he said, Sadat, [SPEAKER_00]: Again, you said you're saying the truth, so he'd not almost say, then he said, ah, when you're saying, what is the excellence? [SPEAKER_00]: And he told him, ta'abudullah, you worship Allah as if you are seeing him. [SPEAKER_00]: And if you don't see him, he's seeing you.

20:26 [SPEAKER_00]: Then he told him, give me the size of the day of judgment, which we are seeing it all. [SPEAKER_00]: But for the sake of time, I'm not going to go to that detail. [SPEAKER_00]: But when Allah said Muslim at back to the verse, you and me and all of us, Muslim at here, Muslim at moment is not she does this five, because we all do it.

20:46 [SPEAKER_00]: Of course the wives of Rasul al-Ahi salatu wa s-salatu wa s-salatu wa s-salatu wa s-salatu wa s-salatu wa s-salatu wa s-salatu wa s-salatu wa s-salatu wa s-salatu wa s-salatu wa s-salatu wa s-salatu wa s-salatu wa s-salatu wa s-salatu wa s-salatu wa s-salatu wa s-salatu wa s-salatu wa s-salatu wa s-salatu wa s-salatu wa s-salatu wa s-salatu wa s-salatu wa s-salatu wa s-salatu wa s-salatu wa s-salatu wa s-salatu wa s-salatu wa [SPEAKER_00]: What is the difference?

21:02 [SPEAKER_00]: The real meaning of Islam. [SPEAKER_00]: Submit to Allah. [SPEAKER_00]: Submit to His orders. [SPEAKER_00]: Submit to His destiny. [SPEAKER_00]: Submit to the hard times He put me in. [SPEAKER_00]: And Submit to the good times He put me in. [SPEAKER_00]: Muslima. [SPEAKER_00]: And Allah said that in the Saurata Nisa, the chapter woman, woman Ahsano Dina.

21:24 [SPEAKER_00]: There is no better religion than you submit to Allah. [SPEAKER_00]: Are you? [SPEAKER_00]: Show me hands and I'll challenge you of course. [SPEAKER_00]: Now nobody will raise their hands. [SPEAKER_00]: But when Allah decreed that you did not get married. [SPEAKER_00]: You didn't refuse, you did not decline, you declined because it's not good for your dean.

21:44 [SPEAKER_00]: But you end up being 40, 45, 50, whatever, and you didn't get married so the chances are unlikely, unlikely. [SPEAKER_00]: Am I right? [SPEAKER_00]: Why do you complain? [SPEAKER_00]: Where is the submission? [SPEAKER_00]: Where is the acceptance, mostly mad, submit to the will of Allah?

22:01 [SPEAKER_00]: The way He created you, short, tall, fair, dark, colored eyes, not, where glass is, does not, doesn't matter. [SPEAKER_00]: I anything, I don't have a choice and I need to submit. [SPEAKER_00]: I don't have a choice. [SPEAKER_00]: I don't have a choice what I was born. [SPEAKER_00]: I don't even have a choice in my name.

22:19 [SPEAKER_00]: I didn't have a choice who are my parents. [SPEAKER_00]: There's a lot of choices in life. [SPEAKER_00]: So the first thing that the woman of Sunna, don't forget why we are saying all this. [SPEAKER_00]: The woman of Sunna is a woman who submit to the will of Allah and does not say why me.

22:34 [SPEAKER_00]: Why she? [SPEAKER_00]: Why her husband takes care of her and mine doesn't? [SPEAKER_00]: I'm not saying this is okay But you say yaw Allah this is your decree now help me how I'm gonna deal with this But I'm not gonna reject the will of Allah let alone I'm not gonna say I can't woman listen to this [SPEAKER_00]: And this applies to men also, especially to women.

22:55 [SPEAKER_00]: The moment you say I can't, it's not gonna happen. [SPEAKER_00]: You blocked it already. [SPEAKER_00]: So, mostly mad, submit to the will of Allah. [SPEAKER_00]: He put you here. [SPEAKER_00]: Qadir Allah Masha'a-Fad. [SPEAKER_00]: He put you there. [SPEAKER_00]: Qadir Allah Masha'a-Fad.

23:09 [SPEAKER_00]: Allah decreed. [SPEAKER_00]: And whenever Allah decreed, it will happen. [SPEAKER_00]: This to me is a statement of peace. [SPEAKER_00]: Once as humanity, let alone Muslims start moving away from submitting to the will of Allah, we are facing what the non-Muslims are facing, anxiety, depression, a lot of social issues that there was not that prevalent in the Muslim community.

23:37 [SPEAKER_00]: because we are moving away from submitting to the will of Allah, I'm not talking about abuse, I'm not talking about injustice, no, injustice you accepted as an injustice, you don't accept that that's how it is, you accept it as an injustice and you say what can I do? [SPEAKER_00]: Are you with me?

23:57 [SPEAKER_00]: The yes doesn't look very strong right? [SPEAKER_00]: It does not or this is the careless woman soft spoken. [SPEAKER_00]: I'll take it right. [SPEAKER_00]: I'll take it So the first one is Billy is Muslim now remember Allah is saying this verse to the wives of Rasuali salatu wa sallam I am gonna remove you from his house.

24:15 [SPEAKER_00]: I'm gonna bring those those meaning even better than the wives of Rasuali salatu wa sallam Muslim second believer believing woman [SPEAKER_00]: Are you believing women? [SPEAKER_00]: Of course you are. [SPEAKER_00]: What does this mean? [SPEAKER_00]: You believe in Allah? [SPEAKER_00]: What is wrong?

24:30 [SPEAKER_00]: You believe in Allah? [SPEAKER_00]: Yeah! [SPEAKER_00]: Good morning! [SPEAKER_00]: I don't know how to say it in Malay. [SPEAKER_00]: I should learn. [SPEAKER_00]: I don't know. [SPEAKER_00]: You believe in Allah. [SPEAKER_00]: You believe in angels. [SPEAKER_00]: Yes. [SPEAKER_00]: You believe in the book.

24:42 [SPEAKER_00]: Yes. [SPEAKER_00]: You believe in the prophets. [SPEAKER_00]: Yes. [SPEAKER_00]: Hamdadla. [SPEAKER_00]: You believe in the Day of Judgment. [SPEAKER_00]: And you believe in destiny. [SPEAKER_00]: Good or not. [SPEAKER_00]: Good. [SPEAKER_00]: My perception. [SPEAKER_00]: Yes. [SPEAKER_00]: Right?

24:53 [SPEAKER_00]: What does it mean to believe in Allah? [SPEAKER_00]: I'm going to explain it because as deep are meaning, I'm taking you to the deep are meaning. [SPEAKER_00]: And this is what the I am in. [SPEAKER_00]: You believe in Allah that everything is a simple word. [SPEAKER_00]: I'm going to put it.

25:06 [SPEAKER_00]: Everything comes from Allah's good for you. [SPEAKER_00]: You believe that Allah is merciful always. [SPEAKER_00]: What's happening to the people of Azza, Allah still merciful? [SPEAKER_00]: What happens if they all injustice we are seeing, Allah still merciful, but we are not seeing it.

25:23 [SPEAKER_00]: That is what it means, that you believe in Allah. [SPEAKER_00]: Fully, unshakable, doesn't matter what happens around you. [SPEAKER_00]: I know Allah will not let me down. [SPEAKER_00]: It doesn't matter what you are going through, like say the Hadjar. [SPEAKER_00]: When He left her, Alayhi s-salam, in Makkah, nothing, nobody, baby, breastfeeding, [SPEAKER_00]: little food, little water.

25:45 [SPEAKER_00]: She looked at him and says, Allah ordered you to leave us. [SPEAKER_00]: In this place alone, he said yes, said go, Allah will never put us down. [SPEAKER_00]: That's a believing woman. [SPEAKER_00]: Now you ask yourself, don't answer me. [SPEAKER_00]: May Allah make me. [SPEAKER_00]: But I need to think Muslimat, [SPEAKER_00]: that was described on it was Sayyidamarim.

26:16 [SPEAKER_00]: Now bring the example of Sayyidamarim in front of you and tell me, not tell me, ask yourself, are you on it? [SPEAKER_00]: Are you? [SPEAKER_00]: Ah! [SPEAKER_00]: Oh, I have 30 minutes. [SPEAKER_00]: Jazakilahi. [SPEAKER_00]: I thought only one minute, alhamdulillah, then we can finish this.

26:32 [SPEAKER_00]: My hope was to finish this, as much as we can, and then in the second one will comment more, but then I'll take you to the verse of, so the khanita is a sadamariam. [SPEAKER_00]: Again, when you have an example to be easy to understand, yes or no? [SPEAKER_00]: When you think of Sayyidama Riyam, what comes to your mind?

26:54 [SPEAKER_00]: Just give me a word. [SPEAKER_00]: Again, many words comes to the mind. [SPEAKER_00]: Which one comes to your mind? [SPEAKER_00]: Anybody pure, lovely, second, devoted, MashaAllah, absolutely, third, I can't hear it. [SPEAKER_00]: What is it? [SPEAKER_00]: Obedient, Masha Allah, absolutely, a virgin, absolutely virgin Mary, Masha Allah, look at this all and Allah described her only woman, only was described as khanita.

27:24 [SPEAKER_00]: So that's khanita, Obedient, devoted, pure. [SPEAKER_00]: I wouldn't say virgin because that applies to these also applies to the married woman, but for her, yes, pure means what? [SPEAKER_00]: Pure means for the human being that's pure, are you ready? [SPEAKER_00]: Again, I don't know the woman of purpose, so don't take it personally.

27:43 [SPEAKER_00]: But, a pure woman? [SPEAKER_00]: Never lies. [SPEAKER_00]: Never. [SPEAKER_00]: There's no excuse. [SPEAKER_00]: Very few. [SPEAKER_00]: And even in religion in Sharia. [SPEAKER_00]: Very few reasons to lie. [SPEAKER_00]: Very few. [SPEAKER_00]: But the general, you are not planning to attend something.

28:00 [SPEAKER_00]: Say, I am not. [SPEAKER_00]: Don't say, I coming. [SPEAKER_00]: We ask. [SPEAKER_00]: And then you will say, I'm sick. [SPEAKER_00]: And you are not. [SPEAKER_00]: That's lying. [SPEAKER_00]: So the pure is not a liar. [SPEAKER_00]: The pure does not backbite. [SPEAKER_00]: the pure does not look down at people.

28:16 [SPEAKER_00]: The pure is very understanding, the pure is gentle, the pure is straightforward. [SPEAKER_00]: You know, the descriptions where people look at you and says, you are naive and, to me, naive is an amazing compliment. [SPEAKER_00]: That means I'm still on the fittera, Allah created me like the baby, babies don't lie, they don't like you, they don't smile, they don't laugh, I love it, I, this one of the reason I love children, because they are still pure, life did not corrupt them.

28:43 [SPEAKER_00]: So here you go, Anita, pure, second is obedient, this is very well known, obedient to whom I don't hear it. [SPEAKER_00]: You don't put any human being, you put Allah. [SPEAKER_00]: Whatever Allah obedience, mean, I'm gonna obey this or that. [SPEAKER_00]: I'm obeying this or that, not because who they are, because I am obedient to Allah.

29:08 [SPEAKER_00]: Are you with me? [SPEAKER_00]: For example, I just met an amazing woman recently. [SPEAKER_00]: And I know Niqab for her is not like something she is used to. [SPEAKER_00]: Mashallah, she's scholar. [SPEAKER_00]: So I had this discussion and like she doesn't go out on public without if it is online no camera and she doesn't give public and her personality is very educated, very outgoing, yet he born raised in the states and and I said explain it to me.

29:37 [SPEAKER_00]: I need to learn all of us we learn and she said this is my husband request. [SPEAKER_00]: Then I asked her questions. [SPEAKER_00]: I'm learning. [SPEAKER_00]: I said, is he a good husband? [SPEAKER_00]: She says, I will never find someone better and that's what he want Do I like it? [SPEAKER_00]: No, but that's what he want.

29:53 [SPEAKER_00]: He's taking very good care of me in everything This is gonna make him happy. [SPEAKER_00]: I'll do it. [SPEAKER_00]: Now where does Kani Tad? [SPEAKER_00]: Because doing this is obedient to Allah [SPEAKER_00]: Are you with me? [SPEAKER_00]: But not if the husband which probably not here, but in general, if the husband asks the opposite, the khanita will say no.

30:12 [SPEAKER_00]: The khanita will say no because not it's not obedient to Allah, is not pleasing to Allah. [SPEAKER_00]: So the obedient is, la tā atanimah lūkh fīmā s-yat il-khālak. [SPEAKER_00]: There is no obedient to any human being if there is disobedient to Allah. [SPEAKER_00]: So are you a khanita?

30:29 [SPEAKER_00]: There is silence. [SPEAKER_00]: There is science and there is mhm, and don't take it to only husband. [SPEAKER_00]: How about the non-marid here? [SPEAKER_00]: How about the college student? [SPEAKER_00]: How about the teenager? [SPEAKER_00]: Mahnawee, go through different phases in life.

30:43 [SPEAKER_00]: I'm not going to be funny to only if I'm married. [SPEAKER_00]: No, I am funny to all the time. [SPEAKER_00]: So you don't worry, I'm not funny, I was not married. [SPEAKER_00]: I was not married, there was no husband. [SPEAKER_00]: Yet, yet, she was the funny. [SPEAKER_00]: You know why?

30:55 [SPEAKER_00]: Can anyone tell me or think? [SPEAKER_00]: Okay. [SPEAKER_00]: What did Allah test her with? [SPEAKER_00]: What did what was the test of Sayyidah Maria? [SPEAKER_00]: She was tested huge, right? [SPEAKER_00]: Big one, as we say in the states. [SPEAKER_00]: What was her test? [SPEAKER_00]: She got pregnant without a husband.

31:12 [SPEAKER_00]: And she is virgin. [SPEAKER_00]: And she's very well known in the city, the honourable, right? [SPEAKER_00]: The chased virgin. [SPEAKER_00]: Now you come pregnant? [SPEAKER_00]: And this is the last day of Sayyidah Maria. [SPEAKER_00]: The first day of Sayyidah Maria, the second day of Sayyidah Maria, the second day of Sayyidah Maria, [SPEAKER_00]: Sister of Harun, your father was not a bad man, your mother was not prostitute.

31:32 [SPEAKER_00]: How come this happened? [SPEAKER_00]: It was a huge test for her, but she accepted. [SPEAKER_00]: Accepted is was difficult, because she said, I wish I was dead before this happened, but she accepted, that's Al-Khanita. [SPEAKER_00]: So when I and you and we all go through difficult time or difficult times, [SPEAKER_00]: It doesn't mean that if I'm on it, I'm gonna be okay, well, I'm the love perfect.

31:54 [SPEAKER_00]: That's a different level. [SPEAKER_00]: That's Riddha. [SPEAKER_00]: I don't know if I am there. [SPEAKER_00]: Maybe you are. [SPEAKER_00]: But al-Khani, to me, you're Allah, you put me in this. [SPEAKER_00]: You know how difficult this is on me. [SPEAKER_00]: But you're gonna make it easy.

32:06 [SPEAKER_00]: Take me through it. [SPEAKER_00]: until it changes your law. [SPEAKER_00]: Keep me pleased with it because I can't do it onita. [SPEAKER_00]: And one of the reasons he's Allah's Pantala said to Karnita, he put Muslim, Muslim woman, believing woman and Submitting woman, true are the wives that meaning at the moment of jealousy you are not there.

32:28 [SPEAKER_00]: At the moment of jealousy, how many of you have felt don't show me hands but ask yourself, [SPEAKER_00]: No reading. [SPEAKER_00]: It's a normal feeling Allah put it in us because there is good jealousy. [SPEAKER_00]: There is a hadith about it. [SPEAKER_00]: Right? [SPEAKER_00]: La hasa da illa fith n'atain.

32:43 [SPEAKER_00]: There is no jealousy except in two things. [SPEAKER_00]: O Rajulun o imra atah Allah al-Quran al-Aman al-Ora woman Allah gave them the Quran and they read it in the morning and they pray in the night. [SPEAKER_00]: O Rajulun atah Allah al-Humal Aman al-Ora woman Allah gave them money and they spend it for the sake of Allah.

33:00 [SPEAKER_00]: or in another version, a man or woman allowed them knowledge and they use it to support the sake of Allah. [SPEAKER_00]: So there is jealousy, the positive. [SPEAKER_00]: So everybody of us will feel this jealousy, but when the jealousy is not pleasing to Allah, [SPEAKER_00]: or the reaction after the jealousy is not pleasing to Allah, that's when He said to them, to you will be removed and we're going to bring another woman.

33:26 [SPEAKER_00]: That's when she is jealous, she does what pleases Allah. [SPEAKER_00]: Did you get it? [SPEAKER_00]: So you are Muslimat, Karnitat, Muslimat, what minat, Karnitat, now the beauty, the hope and it's in the middle of the [SPEAKER_00]: Taibat, what is taibat repentance? [SPEAKER_00]: What does repentance mean?

33:44 [SPEAKER_00]: Answer me. [SPEAKER_00]: When do I repent? [SPEAKER_00]: When do I repent? [SPEAKER_00]: Come on, talk to me. [SPEAKER_00]: When I sin, when I make a mistake, right? [SPEAKER_00]: Toba in the Islamic concept is when I sin, I ask a lot of forgiveness. [SPEAKER_00]: And Toba in daily life, when I hurt your feeding, [SPEAKER_00]: When I say something not nice, I come and ask for apology.

34:07 [SPEAKER_00]: Why did he say to them, Taibat, meaning you made a mistake? [SPEAKER_00]: Allah is not justifying what they did. [SPEAKER_00]: Spanallah. [SPEAKER_00]: And they are the mothers of the believers. [SPEAKER_00]: They are the woman of Jannah. [SPEAKER_00]: And Allah said, Taibat, you're repent.

34:24 [SPEAKER_00]: Every woman in this room, every person in this room, when I knew when we [SPEAKER_00]: Commitison and we all do ask Allah for forgiveness. [SPEAKER_00]: Then you this applies to you. [SPEAKER_00]: That's why Rasuali is all to us that I'm taught us. [SPEAKER_00]: Kulubnu Adam Khattak, all the children of Adam are sinners.

34:42 [SPEAKER_00]: They will make mistake, wa khirul Khattak intawabu. [SPEAKER_00]: And the best among those who make mistakes,