The Heart Touching Story of Fatima (RA) And Ali (RA) A Marriage Like No Other

0:00 [SPEAKER_00]: These next two are crucial, because what I really wanted to do is to, as much as possible, get into the House of the Prophets of Allah Almighty, was to really understand the dynamics of that household, and how things are forming, especially in the early days of Islam. [SPEAKER_00]: And so, [SPEAKER_00]: As I was putting together all of these notes and getting into these small narrations where you often get these snapshots into the lives and someone asked last week, a very important question.

0:29 [SPEAKER_00]: When Ali is talking about being in the household of the Prophet ﷺ and being the only one to sort of witness the piyam, witness the night prayer of the Prophet ﷺ and Khadija al-Lawahanha, [SPEAKER_00]: Where is Zayt? [SPEAKER_00]: Where are the other children? [SPEAKER_00]: What's happening here?

0:45 [SPEAKER_00]: And a lot knows best. [SPEAKER_00]: We can only take what we can take from the narrations themselves. [SPEAKER_00]: Of course, the way that families were raised back then, where kids were sleeping, aunts, uncles, it's a village type feel, right? [SPEAKER_00]: A lot knows best. [SPEAKER_00]: But [SPEAKER_00]: Hopefully what we can do through the series is start to and shall I take these isolated snapshots and then go one by one and start to see the trajectory through the eyes Of that person that enters very early in into this this story.

1:12 [SPEAKER_00]: This magnificent story of the Prophet ﷺ and then through that to be very honest with you You're not just gaining an appreciation for each one of these sabbihone each one of these first But really each and every single one of these stories makes you fall in love with the Prophet ﷺ all over again [SPEAKER_00]: because one of the things that fascinates me is how he was able to make all of these people feel so special.

1:36 [SPEAKER_00]: You know, when you read the biographies of the companions, sometimes you really think like this person is the most important person in the story and then you read the next story. [SPEAKER_00]: And that's the ability of the Prophet ﷺ to treat his family and his companions in a certain way that he wasn't just ignoring them and then focusing on this person here and this person there.

2:00 [SPEAKER_00]: However, the actual family of the Prophet ﷺ, if he treated his companions this way, [SPEAKER_00]: Imagine what it was like to actually be his blood. [SPEAKER_00]: Imagine what it was like to actually be in his household and to be treated in a certain way. [SPEAKER_00]: And so each one of these is going to give us a different perspective.

2:17 [SPEAKER_00]: But these next two in particular, really building off of last week, where we talked about Ali, while the Allah answer, and who will give us a very special look at the life of the Prophet's son and at the household of the Prophet's son. [SPEAKER_00]: I'm at this family of the Prophet's Allah.

2:32 [SPEAKER_00]: I'll tell you a second. [SPEAKER_00]: So before we get into the marriage of ID and Faltima, quick recap of ID of the Allah-Hutat and then let's bring Faltima all the Allah on into the story and then talk about these two coming together. [SPEAKER_00]: So with ID, we said his mother's name was what?

2:49 [SPEAKER_00]: We got a test gale's knowledge. [SPEAKER_00]: Faltima. [SPEAKER_00]: So we said there were a lot of Faltima's. [SPEAKER_00]: Right? [SPEAKER_00]: There were a lot of hints, and there were a lot of Fautimus. [SPEAKER_00]: Those are the two names that you constantly see popping up. [SPEAKER_00]: A lot of people named Hint, a lot of people named Fautima.

3:05 [SPEAKER_00]: So Fautima, Bint White. [SPEAKER_00]: What is his mother's full name? [SPEAKER_00]: Fautima, Bint Asad. [SPEAKER_00]: And the way you can remember that is that we said she wanted to she actually named him first Asad after her father, which means Lion. [SPEAKER_00]: Okay? [SPEAKER_00]: Fautima, Bint Asad.

3:22 [SPEAKER_00]: And we said that she was the first [SPEAKER_00]: He was the first herself. [SPEAKER_00]: Does anyone remember? [SPEAKER_00]: The first, not Koroishi Muslim. [SPEAKER_00]: The first Hashimi woman to accept the snub. [SPEAKER_00]: Hashim was the tribe of the Prophet's life, so she was the first woman who was a Hashimite from the actual family of the Prophet's life of them from his tribe to accept the snub.

3:48 [SPEAKER_00]: And we said that she was about the 11th person, the 10th or the 11th person, to enter into Islam [SPEAKER_00]: Also, another mother-like figure to the Prophet's Laisalam, right? [SPEAKER_00]: There's Al-Nayman, and then there is Fatima Bint Usad, who raises the Prophet's Laisalam as a motherly figure from the age of six to twenty-five, accepted Islam very early on.

4:10 [SPEAKER_00]: made the migration to Abbasinia, lived through the boycott, made the migration to Medina, went through all the hardships alongside the Prophet ﷺ. [SPEAKER_00]: And Adi was born about as we said 10 years before Prophethood. [SPEAKER_00]: So about the year 600, exactly between 600-602, he was born and he supports the Prophet ﷺ right away.

4:35 [SPEAKER_00]: We talked about how the Prophet peace be upon him, [SPEAKER_00]: He told his uncle Al-Abbas, let's go to Abu Talib and help him out with his poverty. [SPEAKER_00]: So let's take two of his children and raise them ourselves so that Abu Talib could deal with the poverty in his household. [SPEAKER_00]: The messenger of Allah goes with Al-Abbas, the Prophet ﷺ walks up to Ali and grabs him.

5:00 [SPEAKER_00]: Al Abbas walks up to Jahafar and he takes him and both of them would raise those two until they reached their adulthood. [SPEAKER_00]: And we also said that one of the miracles is that Khadija did not breastfeed Ali, which would have made him Haram for Fatiha, which would have made him like a son, effectively a son to Khadija, had she breastfed him.

5:20 [SPEAKER_00]: But for whatever reason, it's the the mercy of Allah to add it all the Allah on the wisdom of Allah and how that would play out. [SPEAKER_00]: She never actually fed, I'd eat all the Allah, I'd add them, though he was of that age, and though it was a natural for a child to be fed by a mother that had flowing milk in those days.

5:39 [SPEAKER_00]: So that's I'd eat all the Allah on who he comes into the house, [SPEAKER_00]: As we said, except Islam right away and that sight of the Prophet ﷺ, Khadija and Ali, praying in front of the Kaaba, praying Tiyam all along, there was something there. [SPEAKER_00]: Now, let's talk about Fatiha and how she comes into.

6:01 [SPEAKER_00]: And her nickname Alhabi Batu, Binta Alhabi, the beloved one, the daughter of the beloved one. [SPEAKER_00]: Although the Allahul-Tadhanha may Allah be pleased with her and send his peace and blessings upon her father and her mother. [SPEAKER_00]: She was born, according to most historians, she was actually born in the first year of Prophethood.

6:23 [SPEAKER_00]: Okay, so according to many of the scholars, like I've been out there about hack him, it'd been hudget, she was born the year that the Prophet's slice and receive revelation. [SPEAKER_00]: So think about her birth. [SPEAKER_00]: Which would mean, you know, that when Khadija all the Allah and He was running up and down, Hedat to help the Prophet ﷺ going through that stress, she could have been pregnant with her sixth child or fifth or sixth child because there is dispute about whether Abdel Allah is older or younger than Fatima or she would have been an infant.

6:55 [SPEAKER_00]: So according to some she was born either right before Prophethood, so she was literally a baby, [SPEAKER_00]: when the Prophet ﷺ received revelation or she was born right after the Prophet ﷺ received revelation in that very first year. [SPEAKER_00]: That's a special child, right? [SPEAKER_00]: Just to circumstances of her birth to come in during that time period of the Prophet ﷺ's life where he just received revelation and this is a gift that Allah gives to them, is special in and of itself.

7:26 [SPEAKER_00]: So she was the [SPEAKER_00]: And I mentioned, I believe in narration and when we're talking about Khadija or Dilawan, that the way that the naming worked was how, the Prophet ﷺ named the boys, Khadija named the girls. [SPEAKER_00]: And so Khadija named her Faltima, who can guess why? [SPEAKER_00]: because guess what Khadija's mom's name was?

7:52 [SPEAKER_00]: Fatima. [SPEAKER_00]: So her mother was Fatima, Benzahida. [SPEAKER_00]: So Khadija named her after her mother, Abadiyah Allah-Hutala-Anha. [SPEAKER_00]: And the word Fatima has an interesting meaning to it. [SPEAKER_00]: So we said Khadija means what? [SPEAKER_00]: I'm gonna keep on quizzing you guys on the press, tell us how much you can get it in and tell us.

8:14 [SPEAKER_00]: We said Khadija means what? [SPEAKER_00]: Does anyone remember what the name Khadija means? [SPEAKER_00]: See, Wanda is going through her notes. [SPEAKER_00]: Where are you guys at? [SPEAKER_00]: Where's everyone? [SPEAKER_00]: Pre-mature. [SPEAKER_00]: Prima-chur. [SPEAKER_00]: Khadija means pre-mature.

8:29 [SPEAKER_00]: So, and it's a very, there's no one else named Khadija, right? [SPEAKER_00]: So, the indication is that she was born very early for her to be given the name Khadija, pre-mature. [SPEAKER_00]: Faltima comes from the term Faltima, which is a baby that is full term and weamed. [SPEAKER_00]: It's like the opposite, it's really interesting.

8:48 [SPEAKER_00]: Hadidha's premature, Fatima is full term and weaned. [SPEAKER_00]: And it's really, you know, so some of the scholars or some of the, really, you're not really looking at a Islamic scholars here, you're looking at, I was reading what some of the scholars of language said. [SPEAKER_00]: They said that it could be that the Arabs use this name to indicate a very healthy girl, that a girl was healthy, full, obviously, or you're naming after another Fatima.

9:12 [SPEAKER_00]: But that's the origin of it, right? [SPEAKER_00]: Full term, weint went through the whole process of being a baby, but of course as we said in the case of Fatima. [SPEAKER_00]: It's after the mother of Khadija. [SPEAKER_00]: And Abu Horaidah al-Ali al-Ali al-Ali al-Ali al-Ali al-Ali al-Ali and was said something very beautiful.

9:26 [SPEAKER_00]: He said that veryly Allah has weined Fatima and her offspring off from fire, from the fire of Jahannam, from her birth. [SPEAKER_00]: So Allah has weined her and her children off of that, [SPEAKER_00]: touch it or drink from any of its punishment. [SPEAKER_00]: So, let's go through the children of the Prophet's license on a right-quick and cathedral.

9:49 [SPEAKER_00]: They'll be allowed to add on now. [SPEAKER_00]: First, child is who you guys are going to make this hell of a so much longer. [SPEAKER_00]: So if you know the answer, I suggest that you say it. [SPEAKER_00]: Or if you think you're close, you say it. [SPEAKER_00]: The first one is actually a possum, right?

10:04 [SPEAKER_00]: because I want you to get the full picture. [SPEAKER_00]: Possum was born around 12 years before Prophethood, and he lived for about three years. [SPEAKER_00]: So, you know, we know that the sons of the Prophet's like some died right away, but Possum actually lived about three years. [SPEAKER_00]: So, this was a very painful, it's their first child.

10:22 [SPEAKER_00]: and died of some illness in the hands of Khadija and the Prophet ﷺ. Zainab, the oldest daughter of the Prophet ﷺ, was born about 599, a year after Thasam. [SPEAKER_00]: And then there is Raqayah, who was born about two years after that year 601. [SPEAKER_00]: And then there's Umkhul Fum, who some scholars say is less than a year younger than Raqayah.

10:49 [SPEAKER_00]: So Umkhul Fum is immediate after Raqayah. [SPEAKER_00]: And then there is Fatima. [SPEAKER_00]: And we said Fatima is born around the year 610 when the Prophet ﷺ received revelation. [SPEAKER_00]: And then there is Abdullah who died at birth. [SPEAKER_00]: Okay, or very close to birth, and then there's the last son of the Prophet Saisam who was born, of course, in Medina, the only son not from Khadija but from Maria, and his name was, the Burahim, very good, okay?

11:14 [SPEAKER_00]: So those are the seven children of the Prophet Sallallahu alaihi wa salam. [SPEAKER_00]: So Khadija is the only child that actually grew up in Islam, okay? [SPEAKER_00]: That was born and raised in Islam, whereas the others were not. [SPEAKER_00]: What's going on in the household of the Prophet Saisam at the time?

11:31 [SPEAKER_00]: Rokayya and Omkul Fum were both engaged on the Prophet's High Salam, received revelation. [SPEAKER_00]: Anyone know who they were engaged to? [SPEAKER_00]: The children, the two sons of Abu Lehab, that becomes very difficult. [SPEAKER_00]: The man who cursed the Prophet's High Salam, who stopped him and humiliated him in public his uncle Abu Lehab, [SPEAKER_00]: who humiliated him and then I lead all the Allah on Heros to his defense that young child, both of the prophesies and arms daughters were engaged to Ritba and Ritaba, the children of Abulahab, Ritba and Ritaba.

12:08 [SPEAKER_00]: Engaged, now engagements at that time, of course, would take place very early on. [SPEAKER_00]: These marriages were arranged very early on. [SPEAKER_00]: So Rokaya was only about seven Uncle Thun was about six. [SPEAKER_00]: When you say engaged, that just means that it's understood that when they come of age, they'll be married.

12:23 [SPEAKER_00]: they'll be married to these people. [SPEAKER_00]: Zainab was already married, and her husband's name, anyone know, serial tests, Al-Azab-Nurabiyah. [SPEAKER_00]: So Zainab, the oldest is married to Al-Azab-Nurabiyah. [SPEAKER_00]: Rukaiya is engaged to Rutsbah, Ibn Abilahab. [SPEAKER_00]: Umkhul film is engaged to Rateba, Ibn Abhi Lahab, and you just have now Faltima, O'odhi Allah, O Ta'adanah.

12:49 [SPEAKER_00]: When Faltima was born, the Prophet ﷺ, and again it could be the timing of it. [SPEAKER_00]: I mean, that could have a lot to do with it. [SPEAKER_00]: The Prophet ﷺ immediately looked at her in a different way, absolutely fell in love with this baby girl of his. [SPEAKER_00]: And it's so much so that when Allah revealed, what end did Ahsirat-e-Kalakrabim warn your closest relatives, call out to your closest relatives and warn your closest relatives, the Prophet ﷺ stood up and he said, he only called two people by name.

13:26 [SPEAKER_00]: was the mother of Azubair, okay? [SPEAKER_00]: Safiya is the mother of Azubair, the aunt of the Prophet ﷺ and she was very close. [SPEAKER_00]: Ya Safiya, bint Abdel Muttalim. [SPEAKER_00]: Ya Faltima, bint u Rasulillah. [SPEAKER_00]: O Faltima, the daughter of the Prophet ﷺ. Sallani Masha'i t-minmali.

13:45 [SPEAKER_00]: Ask me anything that you want of my wealth, anything that you want of my property. [SPEAKER_00]: La amnikulakum min Allahi shay'a. [SPEAKER_00]: I cannot testify on your behalf, or I can not do anything for you with God on the day of judgment. [SPEAKER_00]: What that means is that you know how much I love you, my closest, and you know, I've been had to have says the fact that the Prophet ﷺ named those two was for a reason.

14:07 [SPEAKER_00]: Safiya was his favorite aunt close to him, Wa'ala, and she's a special aunt to the Prophet ﷺ, and Faltima was [SPEAKER_00]: You know, this unbelievably beloved child to the Prophet ﷺ. [SPEAKER_00]: So he's saying, even you too, and that's a message to everyone else. [SPEAKER_00]: You have a responsibility before a lot that is an individual responsibility.

14:29 [SPEAKER_00]: And it is not something that can be bought with money. [SPEAKER_00]: I can't protect you. [SPEAKER_00]: You have to do your part and answer the call of Allah, Subhanahu wa Ta'ala. [SPEAKER_00]: And that's why when the Prophet ﷺ was even asked, [SPEAKER_00]: When, if you remember, the 40 Hadith on social justice, and we talked about this narration, where there was a rich woman, a powerful woman that stole, and they asked Osama, Nose, to go talk to the Prophet's Lysam and see if he can let it go, because she's a very powerful woman, and it's not right to punish someone who's so powerful.

14:59 [SPEAKER_00]: And the Prophet's Lysam said, even if Fatima was distilled, she would be punished. [SPEAKER_00]: There's no favoritism here, because you know where Fautima is to me. [SPEAKER_00]: The fact that I would even punish Fautima, I'm not going to let someone go because or, you know, not hold someone accountable because they're from some powerful class or because they belong to something that is there.

15:20 [SPEAKER_00]: So, there's some elements now that come into the household of the Prophet ﷺ, later on. [SPEAKER_00]: Fast forward to the death of Khadija, Raudi al-Ahwana. [SPEAKER_00]: The mother of Fantima, Radya Llahu Tala Anha, the wife of the Prophet ﷺ. [SPEAKER_00]: When Khadija passed away, [SPEAKER_00]: Um, she was, and the profit-slicem would be attacked, because remember Hadida died around the same time, only three days apart according to some narrations from Ubaltada.

15:54 [SPEAKER_00]: So the profit-slicem would be viciously attacked in public at this point now. [SPEAKER_00]: He had no physical protection on the outside, and when the profit-slicem would come home covered in blood, which, by the way, according to some of the scars of Sierra, there were eight times that the profit-slicem was publicly beaten.

16:10 [SPEAKER_00]: eight times. [SPEAKER_00]: So we know I've thought if and we know but eight times that something was thrown on him or he was punched or he was hit. [SPEAKER_00]: So when the prophet's like some is in public he's fair game when he comes home wounded. [SPEAKER_00]: It's Fatiha, that takes the role of playing the role that Khadija of the Allah and He used to play.

16:29 [SPEAKER_00]: She's the one that really steps in, and that starts to protect the Prophet, it's Allah, how are you with Salam? [SPEAKER_00]: It has some of the Allah and who says that Fatiha would be the one to clean the wounds of the Prophet's islam. [SPEAKER_00]: And how old was she, about 10 years old?

16:46 [SPEAKER_00]: Think about that burden. [SPEAKER_00]: Ten-year-old girl walking up to her father, Salaalai Salaam, having to clean up his wounds and comfort him when Khadija all the Allahuanha was missing. [SPEAKER_00]: And everyone knew Fatima's closeness to the Prophet's life in that 10-year-old girl.

17:02 [SPEAKER_00]: And at the age of 10, what was she nicknamed Um Mu'abiha, the mother of her father? [SPEAKER_00]: Because of the Hanan, the love, and the compassion she would show to her father, when she would see the Prophet's life some struck Umwabihah. [SPEAKER_00]: It's like she was another mother to the Prophet, Salallahu alaihi wa salam.

17:20 [SPEAKER_00]: And one of the most painful narrations, the Prophet's life I'm hated to see her in pain. [SPEAKER_00]: Absolutely hated to see her in pain because he knew, this is a young girl that's been exposed. [SPEAKER_00]: She didn't see the the days. [SPEAKER_00]: of comfort and ease, which were really, you know, right before Prophethood, where the Prophet ﷺ was at the max of his wealth, of his credibility and society, she didn't have that childhood.

17:43 [SPEAKER_00]: Her childhood was all oppression. [SPEAKER_00]: Her childhood was witnessing her father, rejected, beaten her mother, becoming frail, dying, due to the boycott. [SPEAKER_00]: She witnessed all the hardship. [SPEAKER_00]: And the most, one of the most painful narrations, and this was the peak of humiliation of the Prophet ﷺ, was that because now he's fair game and they'd kick him in public, punch him in public, humiliate him, spit at him in public, Abu Jaha'al, challenge the Rukibaba and Abimua'i'it.

18:12 [SPEAKER_00]: Rukibaba and Abimua'i'it, who was a powerful man in Mecca, and these are now the elite's playing games with the Prophet ﷺ at this point. [SPEAKER_00]: Abu Talib was not here, we're not showing him any regard whatsoever. [SPEAKER_00]: And the Prophet ﷺ has been rejected from thought, he doesn't have anyone to protect him.

18:28 [SPEAKER_00]: Abu Jaha tells, he challenges Erkbab and Abu Mu'ayt, he says, you really want to humiliate him. [SPEAKER_00]: He said, next time he comes to the cabo, because the Prophet ﷺ would still walk to the cabo and pray, even as they'd kick him, even as they'd spit on him, he'd still go and pray by himself.

18:43 [SPEAKER_00]: He doesn't have Hathijaba, the Allah, Allah, and with him anymore. [SPEAKER_00]: He says to Rukuba bin Abi Morit why don't you take the insides of a camel, slaughter a camel and take all of its guts, all of its intestines, all of its nastiness, collect them, and the next time the Prophet ﷺ is praying in front of the cab, go dump them on his back.

19:03 [SPEAKER_00]: This is just, you know, complete humiliation, right, utter humiliation. [SPEAKER_00]: So Rukuba bin Abi Morit, of course, he says yes, and Rukuba bin Abi Morit was a huge man, [SPEAKER_00]: And so he collected all of that filth, and they watched the Prophet's license, waited for him to go into Sajda into prostration, and then he came and he dumped it all on the back of the Prophet's license.

19:28 [SPEAKER_00]: And it was so heavy on the back of the Prophet's license that it caused his body to collapse. [SPEAKER_00]: So it wasn't like just the filth, right? [SPEAKER_00]: Complete humiliation. [SPEAKER_00]: It been Mr. Ruh, although the allow I know he narrates this incident, because it been Mr. Ruh, was someone that was almost beaten to death or ready next to the cab, but we'll talk about him at some point.

19:47 [SPEAKER_00]: He was a small man, didn't have a tribe, didn't have any protection. [SPEAKER_00]: So he goes to the house of the Prophet ﷺ. [SPEAKER_00]: To let the household know what had happened. [SPEAKER_00]: The only one he finds, 10-year-old girl, Fatima, what they allow on him. [SPEAKER_00]: And tell us Fatima that your father, what's happening to her father, that your father's been crushed by these camel guts, he's being humiliated, everyone's laughing at him, mocking him.

20:14 [SPEAKER_00]: And Faltima, Oli Allahu Anha, comes running out of her house to the Haram, goes to the Prophet's Laisalam, crying so heavily and scratching the guts off of the back of the Prophet's Isam. [SPEAKER_00]: Think of that scene. [SPEAKER_00]: This is the daughter of the woman that held him when he received revelation and think about how painful it was for the Prophet's Laisam.

20:40 [SPEAKER_00]: This is, you never want to see your children see you like that, right? [SPEAKER_00]: This is a next level of humiliation. [SPEAKER_00]: So, and this is a long narration, the Prophet ﷺ. [SPEAKER_00]: This was one of the only times he actually prayed against [SPEAKER_00]: is people, meaning he prayed against Abu Jaha'a'a'a'a'a'a'a'a'a'a'a'a'a'a'a'a'a'a'a'a'a'a'a'a'a'a'a'a'a'a'a'a'a'a'a'a'a'a'a'a'a'a'a'a'a'a'a'a'a'a'a'a'a'a'a'a'a'a'a'a'a'a'a'a'a'a'a'a'a'a'a'a'a'a'a'a'a'a'a'a'a'a'a'a'a'a'a'a'a'a'a'a'a'a'a'a'a'a'a'a'a'a'a'a'a'a' [SPEAKER_00]: God will support your father.

21:22 [SPEAKER_00]: A lot will give victory to your father. [SPEAKER_00]: Don't cry, a lot will give victory to your father. [SPEAKER_00]: And it didn't calm her tears. [SPEAKER_00]: So the Prophet's life, some of that's when he raised his hands and he prayed against Abu Jaha'a'l and Abu Mu'a'ib and Abu Mu'a'it.

21:35 [SPEAKER_00]: And those that had humiliated the Prophet's life Salam in front of his father. [SPEAKER_00]: From another narration, after Khadija had died, where the Prophet's life said, I'm seeing Fatiha Marwadi Allah, and again, this is a girl that's been through what no girl should have to go through, right?

21:52 [SPEAKER_00]: That deeply loves her father, witnessed that pain, and he says to her, [SPEAKER_00]: And Namale Ta'amun Qulao, said in what's increasing my pain even, because we don't even have food to eat. [SPEAKER_00]: Right? [SPEAKER_00]: The Prophet said, some did not even have food, right? [SPEAKER_00]: It goes days and nights hungry.

22:21 [SPEAKER_00]: And she's saying, we don't have food, so I'm an emotional pain. [SPEAKER_00]: And I'm in physical pain. [SPEAKER_00]: So the Prophet said, Allah Almighty, who is selling response, and he says, oh my daughter, and I tell them, [SPEAKER_00]: Beautiful daughter aren't you pleased that you are the master of all women you are the leader of all women the women of all the world Look at the that the knowledge understanding Adab of this young girl father what will be a love and huh?

22:51 [SPEAKER_00]: She says yeah, Abatifa ain't a muddy. [SPEAKER_00]: I'm up next to I'm wrong. [SPEAKER_00]: She said oh my father, but then where is Mary the mother of Jesus? [SPEAKER_00]: What about muddy young? [SPEAKER_00]: How can I be the leader of the women of the world? [SPEAKER_00]: What about Mariam?

23:01 [SPEAKER_00]: So the Prophet ﷺ said, [SPEAKER_00]: And in that sense, Mariam was the best woman of her times, and Khadija was the best woman of her times. [SPEAKER_00]: So there's a difference between Saida and Khayidul. [SPEAKER_00]: The best woman of all time is Mariam. [SPEAKER_00]: And the best woman of her time is your mother Khadija.

23:30 [SPEAKER_00]: And Faltima, all the Allahuan, is one of those who perfected her faith. [SPEAKER_00]: So two, the Prophet ﷺ mentioned four women who perfected their faith. [SPEAKER_00]: Had perfect faith. [SPEAKER_00]: And that was Maria Asia Khadija Faltima. [SPEAKER_00]: So Faltima and her mother, imagined two women, women that had perfect email, that had perfect faith.

23:54 [SPEAKER_00]: And some of the scholars, they said, why Faltima? [SPEAKER_00]: Why does she have perfect faith in not the other daughters of the Prophet's lesson? [SPEAKER_00]: They were surely beloved to the Prophet's lesson. [SPEAKER_00]: But why Faltima, al-Ali Al-Ali Al-Ali Al-Ali Al-Ali Al-Ali Al-Ali Al-Ali Al-Ali Al-Ali Al-Ali Al-Ali Al-Ali Al-Ali Al-Ali Al-Ali Al-Ali Al-Ali Al-Ali Al-Ali Al-Ali Al-Ali Al-Ali Al-Ali Al-Ali Al-Ali Al-Ali Al-Ali Al-Ali Al-Ali Al-Ali Al-Ali Al-Ali Al-Ali Al-Ali Al-Ali Al-Ali Al-Ali Al-Ali Al-Ali Al-Ali Al-Ali Al-Ali Al-Ali Al-Ali Al-Ali Al- [SPEAKER_00]: like Faltima.

24:22 [SPEAKER_00]: She was a copy of the profits license, and that translated also into her nobility, her worship. [SPEAKER_00]: Some of them said because she was born into the days of hardship. [SPEAKER_00]: And as opposed to her sister, she grew up watching her father tortured and she was the one playing the role of Khadija supporting the Prophet ﷺ.

24:41 [SPEAKER_00]: She spent her three years of her childhood in the boycott. [SPEAKER_00]: She never saw the days of wealth, like the other children of the Prophet ﷺ. [SPEAKER_00]: She made the hijra with her father, so she actually migrated with the Prophet ﷺ to Medina. [SPEAKER_00]: at the age of 13 years old.

25:01 [SPEAKER_00]: And she migrated with her sister, Omkul Thun, the Prophet's Laisalam, Sada, Bintu Zama. [SPEAKER_00]: Ah, Isha, Wadi Allah Hutaila and Ha, and Ah, Isha's mother Umrahman, which is the wife of Abu Bakr. [SPEAKER_00]: May Allah be pleased with them all. [SPEAKER_00]: So they all migrated to Medina together.

25:19 [SPEAKER_00]: So Fatima is attached to the Prophet ﷺ throughout his most difficult days. [SPEAKER_00]: She is a woman who perfects her faith. [SPEAKER_00]: I mentioned the qualities, the names. [SPEAKER_00]: Does anyone remember from what were her other two names? [SPEAKER_00]: is coming. [SPEAKER_00]: Some of you are going, say it.

25:42 [SPEAKER_00]: It's okay. [SPEAKER_00]: Zahalat, which means the radiant face. [SPEAKER_00]: She had a radiant face like her father. [SPEAKER_00]: Faltima will be allowed on how when you look at her face, it was just full of north, full of light, just like the face of the Prophet Salaam. [SPEAKER_00]: And also, there's one more.

25:57 [SPEAKER_00]: Fatul, someone was listening to my ultimate. [SPEAKER_00]: Hamdul al-Batul, which means the one who's turned back to Allah, speaks to her worship, turned back to God. [SPEAKER_00]: So speaks to her worship, speaks to her zuhat, to her sadisism, and her shut off, her nobility. [SPEAKER_00]: So anyway, they get to Medina.

26:18 [SPEAKER_00]: And now we start to see how does Ali and how did the Ali and Fatiha story happen? [SPEAKER_00]: By the time they migrated, Ali was too old to live in the house of the Prophet's license at that point. [SPEAKER_00]: Because he'd become old enough to wear he was of age. [SPEAKER_00]: And so he was separated from Fatiha, even though he grew up with Fatiha.

26:37 [SPEAKER_00]: And he was close to Fatiha and age. [SPEAKER_00]: So they grew up together. [SPEAKER_00]: But alir al al al al al al al al al al al al al al al al al al al al al al al al al al al al al al al al al al al al al al al al al al al al al al al al al al al al al al al al al al al al al al al al al al al al al al al al al al al al al al al al al al al al al al al al al al al al al al al al al al al al al al al al al al al al al al al al al al al al al al al al al al al al al al al al al al al al al al al al al al al al al al al al al al al al al al al al al al al al al al al al al al al al al al al al al al al al al al al al al al al al al al al al al al al al al al al al al al al al al al al al al al al al al al al al al al al al al al al al al al al al

27:03 [SPEAKER_00]: So in the Prophet's place, I'm got to Medina at that point. [SPEAKER_00]: Again, Ali Raudi Al-A'l-A'l-A'l-A'l-A'l-A'l-A'l-A'l-A'l-A'l-A'l-A'l-A'l-A'l-A'l-A'l-A'l-A'l-A'l-A'l-A'l-A'l-A'l-A'l-A'l-A'l-A'l-A'l-A'l-A'l-A'l-A'l-A'l-A'l-A'l-A'l-A'l-A'l-A'l-A'l-A'l-A'l-A'l-A'l-A'l-A'l-A'l-A'l-A'l- [SPEAKER_00]: Okay, and Aliyd Aliyd Aliyd Aliyd Aliyd was one of them.

27:32 [SPEAKER_00]: Usam of Nuzed, Aliyd Aliyd Aliyd Aliyd Aliyd Aliyd says that one day I was sitting. [SPEAKER_00]: So this is now before Aliyd Mary's Fatima. [SPEAKER_00]: We were in Medina, and Aliyd Aliyd and Aliyd Aliyd Aliyd Aliyd Aliyd Aliyd sought permission, uncle of the Prophet ﷺ and Aliyd sought permission to enter.

27:48 [SPEAKER_00]: So they came in, and [SPEAKER_00]: The Prophet says, I'm asked who some of you know why they're coming at this time. [SPEAKER_00]: They said, no, so they came in and they sat. [SPEAKER_00]: And they said to the Prophet, it's like some that we've come to you to ask you, who is the most beloved of your family to you?

28:07 [SPEAKER_00]: We were having a debate, trying to figure out who do you love most from your family. [SPEAKER_00]: Now, there's a similar narration where Ahamada bin Ma'am asked the Prophet Salli Salli Salli Salli Salli. [SPEAKER_00]: I had bin Nasi'i late because the most beloved of people to and he said, ah, isha, isha, isha, isha, isha, isha, isha, isha, isha, isha, isha, isha, isha, isha, isha, isha, isha, isha, isha, isha, isha, isha, isha, isha, isha, isha, isha, isha, isha, isha, isha, isha, isha, isha, isha, isha, isha, isha, isha, isha, isha, isha, isha, isha, isha, isha, isha, [SPEAKER_00]: He said, ah, ah, ah, ah, ah, ah, ah, ah, ah, ah, ah, ah, ah, ah, ah, ah, ah, ah, ah, ah, ah, ah, ah, ah, ah, ah, ah, ah, ah, ah, ah, ah, ah, ah, ah, ah, ah, ah, ah, ah, ah, ah, ah, ah, ah, ah, ah, ah, ah, ah, ah, ah, ah, ah, ah, ah, ah, ah, ah, ah, ah, ah, ah, ah, ah, ah, ah, ah, ah, ah, ah, ah, ah, ah, ah, ah, ah, ah, ah, ah, ah, ah, ah, ah, ah, ah, ah, ah, ah, ah, ah, ah, ah, ah, ah, ah, ah, ah, ah, ah, ah, ah, ah, ah, ah, ah, ah, ah, ah, ah,

28:56 [SPEAKER_00]: We get you love your daughter, Faltima, there is no comparison to her. [SPEAKER_00]: And in this narration, the Prophet ﷺ sees Usam of Nuz'aith and the Prophet ﷺ says, [SPEAKER_00]: who was the son of the adopted son of the Prophet ﷺ. [SPEAKER_00]: Who was Usam as mother? [SPEAKER_00]: See if someone can catch it.

29:30 [SPEAKER_00]: We talked about her on Aiman. [SPEAKER_00]: Good. [SPEAKER_00]: So, Usam of Nuzayh. [SPEAKER_00]: So, the Prophet ﷺ was talking about Salam Nuzayh. [SPEAKER_00]: And then the Prophet ﷺ said, Fumma Ali Ibn Abi Thalab, then he said, and Ali Ibn Abi Thalab. [SPEAKER_00]: So, the abbas said to the Prophet ﷺ, [SPEAKER_00]: And he talked about Faltima and the Nusanam than Ali, and then he left me out.

29:52 [SPEAKER_00]: I'm your uncle. [SPEAKER_00]: So the Prophet ﷺ, the end of Ali, Qad-Sad-Aqqa bin Hijwai, said, Ali made Hijwai before you. [SPEAKER_00]: Ali migrated before you. [SPEAKER_00]: It took about some time to embrace Islam and to come. [SPEAKER_00]: So the Prophet ﷺ said that. [SPEAKER_00]: What does this mean now?

30:07 [SPEAKER_00]: What are the implications? [SPEAKER_00]: Here are some beautiful narrations about what this would look like in Medina. [SPEAKER_00]: So, bound with the Allah, I don't know. [SPEAKER_00]: He narrates. [SPEAKER_00]: He said, when the Prophet ﷺ would leave Medina, the last person he would sit with is Fatima.

30:20 [SPEAKER_00]: And when he returned, the first person he would sit with was Fatima. [SPEAKER_00]: Anytime the Prophet ﷺ left Medina, last person he's going to sit with is his daughter, Fatima. [SPEAKER_00]: First person he's going to sit with when he comes back. [SPEAKER_00]: is his daughter Fatima. [SPEAKER_00]: Abu Thalaba gets more specific.

30:37 [SPEAKER_00]: He says when the Prophet ﷺ used to go on a journey or a battle. [SPEAKER_00]: The first thing the Prophet ﷺ would do was he'd go to the Masjid, pray to Iraqis, then he would go to the house of Fatima and he'd take his time. [SPEAKER_00]: So it's not like he just kind of go say something like, this is after Fatima would move on, obviously, and get married.

30:56 [SPEAKER_00]: But it just shows you the love and the preference. [SPEAKER_00]: And then he would visit his spouse, Isala Lahua, and he would send him. [SPEAKER_00]: So before he would even go to his, as watch, before he even goes to his wife, he'd go to his daughter, Fatima, or the Alahatata, and the last person to see before traveling, the first person to see when he got back, [SPEAKER_00]: even when she got married, that was the place of Fatima, or the Allah Allah, and what a father the Prophet's license is.

31:22 [SPEAKER_00]: We want to lessen in father, just like everything else. [SPEAKER_00]: He sets the standard. [SPEAKER_00]: Here's what Aishal of the Allahah and He says about Fatiha and the relationship of the Prophet S.A.S. [SPEAKER_00]: She says Ma'ara A to Ahadhan, Ashbaha Samtan, Wala Dallan, Wala Hadyan, Bira Surilah, He saw Allahah, A.S. Fiir Piyamihi, Wakuraudihi, Ben Fatiha, Ben Surah Surilah.

31:43 [SPEAKER_00]: She said, I've never seen a person who resembled the Prophet S.A.S. [SPEAKER_00]: in his look, in his walk, in his guidance, in his character, in everything that he did. [SPEAKER_00]: Even in his standing up and sitting down, the way the Prophet ﷺ would sit down and the way he'd stand up, Fatima looked exactly like him.

32:03 [SPEAKER_00]: She acted exactly like him. [SPEAKER_00]: She was, she was a copy of the Prophet ﷺ. [SPEAKER_00]: And then Haishas says, Wa Canath, Ida, dahal, alayhi, Qama ilayha. [SPEAKER_00]: When she would enter into a room, no matter what the Prophet ﷺ was in the middle of it, he would stand up for her.

32:19 [SPEAKER_00]: Qabbeleha, and then he'd walk up to her and he'd kiss her on the forehead. [SPEAKER_00]: And then he would hold her hand for Adjlassaha Firmajlisi, and the Prophet ﷺ would sit her down where he was sitting. [SPEAKER_00]: Look at this honour. [SPEAKER_00]: And she says, about Fatiha, al-Aliha.

32:37 [SPEAKER_00]: She says, Waqanat, i.e. [SPEAKER_00]: dahalah al-Aliha. [SPEAKER_00]: And when the Prophet ﷺ would enter upon any gathering or any setting that she was in, [SPEAKER_00]: She would rush, komat, min majlisiha, she would stand up, she'd rush to the Prophet's laizalla, kabbaratu, she'd kiss him on the forehead, she'd hold the Prophet's laizan's hand, a zilasa tu fi majlisiha, she'd sit him down in the chair or where she was sitting, and she adds one thing, Wakana tu kabbilu, Wakana tu kabbilu, yadahi, she would kiss both of his hands, right?

33:10 [SPEAKER_00]: That's just a special relationship that everyone sees. [SPEAKER_00]: you admire it, you love it, and this was a society where people used to bury their daughter's alive. [SPEAKER_00]: You think about that, right? [SPEAKER_00]: Where a lot talks about the way they treated their daughters that when they would get the news that they had a daughter or a girl, you would see their faces darkened.

33:36 [SPEAKER_00]: And this isn't that society that the Prophet's life sent them is honoring his daughter [SPEAKER_00]: What a father, right? [SPEAKER_00]: And I can't think of any father that does that for his daughter to that extent, right? [SPEAKER_00]: And that's a lesson for all of us, especially. [SPEAKER_00]: So, Palala, you know, it's part of that, part of that was certainly the loyalty of the Prophet's life in him.

33:57 [SPEAKER_00]: The same way with Hadeja that he has to honor her, because Hadeja did things for him that no one else did. [SPEAKER_00]: Faulting my did things for the Prophet's life, some that no one else did. [SPEAKER_00]: And the Prophet's license, I'm honored that to a great extent. [SPEAKER_00]: So anyway, IDN Fatima grew up together.

34:15 [SPEAKER_00]: Now, let's get to the marriage. [SPEAKER_00]: One does the marriage take place. [SPEAKER_00]: The Battle of Beather just took place. [SPEAKER_00]: They're in Medina. [SPEAKER_00]: There was a great incident of sadness, of tragedy that happens on the day of Beather. [SPEAKER_00]: Does anyone know what it was?

34:35 [SPEAKER_00]: Anybody they called it the day of great joy and the day of great sadness because it was the victory of the battle of bedit But there was a day of great sadness to the death of Rokaya the daughter of the Prophet's son Rokaya got sick Before bedit and that's why if man of an aphan did not go to the battle of bedit He stayed back and he took care of Rokaya took permission from the Prophet's likes to them to take care of Rokaya And Rokaya died on the same day that bedit was won [SPEAKER_00]: So while the Sahab are celebrating, and this was a great victory from Allah, the news comes that the daughter of the Prophet ﷺ has died, and that Rukhliya, and that Rufman was the Allah, and who was in great sadness.

35:13 [SPEAKER_00]: And they were sad both for the Prophet ﷺ, and for Rufman, because Rufman was a very special and beloved person. [SPEAKER_00]: What did the Prophet ﷺ do after the death of Rukhliya? [SPEAKER_00]: Rufman was the Allah, and the Nureen, the possessor of two lights married, [SPEAKER_00]: the next daughter of the Prophet's Lysala.

35:33 [SPEAKER_00]: So at this point now, Zainah Bustil and Makkah, she's with Al-Azab and Rabiyah. [SPEAKER_00]: Okaya was married to Erfman, actually went to Abbasinia with Erfman, passed away. [SPEAKER_00]: Umkhul Fumm has moved out from the house and lives with her husband, Erfman, or the Al-Ahataraan, so Fatima is the last one in the household of the Prophet's Lysala.

35:56 [SPEAKER_00]: Now, can you imagine if you love the Prophet's Lysala? [SPEAKER_00]: right and you saw how much he loves this girl and she is the female version of him. [SPEAKER_00]: Can you imagine how many people wanted to marry Fatima while they allow her and so at the top of that list, Abu Bakit and Omar both proposed for the hand of Fatima.

36:19 [SPEAKER_00]: Right, both of them came to the Prophet's life alone. [SPEAKER_00]: First Abu Bakr, and then Omar, and they asked for her hand. [SPEAKER_00]: Prophet's life, and I'm said, in Talib, Bihal Qadai. [SPEAKER_00]: He said, just wait, give me some time. [SPEAKER_00]: And then the Prophet's life, I'm said, she's young.

36:34 [SPEAKER_00]: Meaning he had someone else in mind. [SPEAKER_00]: When the profit size sum turns away, I will bucket it and I'll let it sum things up. [SPEAKER_00]: That means he has someone else in mind for her, right? [SPEAKER_00]: Because you're not gonna turn away, I will bucket an omelette unless there's something special planned.

36:50 [SPEAKER_00]: And of course, I will bucket an omelette closer to the age of the profits license. [SPEAKER_00]: So there's someone else that the profits license has his eye on. [SPEAKER_00]: So how do we get ID into the picture? [SPEAKER_00]: One of the coolest things about this long narration is narrated by Al Hassan.

37:06 [SPEAKER_00]: So it's how I met your mother narrating from Ali Faatima, how my parents met her, how they got married, right? [SPEAKER_00]: So Ali Idle the alarm and who says that I thought about it. [SPEAKER_00]: But I was like, he turned away, I'll go back in an omelette. [SPEAKER_00]: No way I have a chance, right?

37:25 [SPEAKER_00]: So whoever he's got his eye on, it's not me. [SPEAKER_00]: Right. [SPEAKER_00]: I lead all the along. [SPEAKER_00]: I'm home. [SPEAKER_00]: Thought there is no way the profits like someone was thinking about me. [SPEAKER_00]: So the year is this is right after bed at actually it's the year 622 or 623.

37:38 [SPEAKER_00]: I lead all the along. [SPEAKER_00]: They're still young. [SPEAKER_00]: I lead about 23. [SPEAKER_00]: Foughty was about 16 years old. [SPEAKER_00]: They're still pretty young. [SPEAKER_00]: Now, marriage age was much younger than 16. [SPEAKER_00]: People would get married 10 to 11 12 13 at that time.

37:52 [SPEAKER_00]: children are different at the time, right? [SPEAKER_00]: So, Adi will be allowed, and he tells this narration. [SPEAKER_00]: He says that I was sitting in the household of someone from the family. [SPEAKER_00]: So, I was like his aunt or uncle, one of the hashamites. [SPEAKER_00]: And he said that the family started to talk to Adi.

38:08 [SPEAKER_00]: He said, why don't you go ask for the hand of Fatima? [SPEAKER_00]: He said, particularly, there was an old female servant in the household. [SPEAKER_00]: We don't know her name from the narration, but you can kind of get the picture. [SPEAKER_00]: She said to Aril the Allah, and I think the Prophet ﷺ has his eye on you.

38:25 [SPEAKER_00]: And Aril the Allah, and he said, bad that I be back in the Ummah, I think he is going to marry his daughter to me if he turned away, I will back in the Ummah, no way. [SPEAKER_00]: So he said, she kept on pushing me. [SPEAKER_00]: Until finally I said to her, well, hello Hindi Shayyana Tazawaj, you think I have anything to get married with?

38:41 [SPEAKER_00]: I don't own anything, I'm poor. [SPEAKER_00]: Remember, we talked about the poverty of Ali. [SPEAKER_00]: So even if I went to the Prophet's license, I don't even have enough for a ma'am, for a dowry, for a gift, for a wedding, I can't afford anything. [SPEAKER_00]: How am I gonna go to the Prophet's license?

38:56 [SPEAKER_00]: She said, listen, if you go to the Prophet's license, he'll marry his daughter to you. [SPEAKER_00]: So maybe she had a hint or whatever it is, but she said he will do it. [SPEAKER_00]: And then Aliyd al-Illahi al-Alan who says, Abu Bakir, Umar, and sahibin wa'aith. [SPEAKER_00]: So I had one of the chiefs in Medina.

39:14 [SPEAKER_00]: They all encouraged me to go ask for a hand. [SPEAKER_00]: So meaning either the Prophet ﷺ, confided in Abu Bakir and Umar that he is the one, or they just had a feeling like he's, he's probably got his eye on you, right? [SPEAKER_00]: So after all of these people tell him to go to the Prophet ﷺ, he said, finally I gathered the Kurds to go to him to ask for a hand.

39:36 [SPEAKER_00]: So he said, I got to the house of the Prophet ﷺ, feeling confident. [SPEAKER_00]: I can do this, imagine the pep talks to himself. [SPEAKER_00]: He says, I sat in front of the Prophet ﷺ and he said, I completely went silent. [SPEAKER_00]: I could not say a word. [SPEAKER_00]: And he says, Jalal, attend Wahhab, attend i'dad al-Sudillah, just out of the glory and the respect, the love of the Prophet ﷺ. I couldn't say a word.

40:00 [SPEAKER_00]: So he says, I sat in front of the Prophet ﷺ. [SPEAKER_00]: And I stuttered a few times, mumbled a few words. [SPEAKER_00]: And the prophet's life, some was looking at me. [SPEAKER_00]: So after some time, the prophet's life, some says, magic, abicca, you have not met me. [SPEAKER_00]: What brought you to me was son of my uncle?

40:21 [SPEAKER_00]: And I read on the allow, and who was so eloquent, one of the most eloquent men amongst the companions of Prophet ﷺ, he said, I tried to say a few words, and I made no sense whatsoever. [SPEAKER_00]: And I was shaking, sweating, nervous, shivering. [SPEAKER_00]: The Prophet ﷺ said, Allah can be had, do you have, do you need something?

40:39 [SPEAKER_00]: Are you okay? [SPEAKER_00]: And he said that I still couldn't say anything. [SPEAKER_00]: So he said finally the Prophet ﷺ, he smiled at me. [SPEAKER_00]: And he said, [SPEAKER_00]: Maybe you came to ask for Fatiha's hand? [SPEAKER_00]: He knows why he's there, right? [SPEAKER_00]: So I'm going to make it easy for you.

40:58 [SPEAKER_00]: La, al al al al al al al al al al al al al al al al al al al al al al al al al al al al al al al al al al al al al al al al al al al al al al al al al al al al al al al al al al al al al al al al al al al al al al al al al al al al al al al al al al al al al al al al al al al al al al al al al al al al al al al al al al al al al al al al al al al al al al al al al al al al al al al al al al al al al al al al al al al al al al al al al al al al al al al al al al al al al al al al al al al al al al al al al al al al al al al al al al al al al al al [SPEAKER_00]: I don't have anything to get married with.

41:21 [SPEAKER_00]: So the Prophet ﷺ pointed to his data, pointed to shields. [SPEAKER_00]: He said, you've got that, right? [SPEAKER_00]: He said, yeah, Prophet ﷺ said, how much is it worth? [SPEAKER_00]: He said about four dirhams, just nothing, right? [SPEAKER_00]: Four silver coins, four dirhams. [SPEAKER_00]: Prophet ﷺ said, go sell it and come back to me and bring that as a Mahatah.

41:40 [SPEAKER_00]: That's good enough for a gift. [SPEAKER_00]: Subhanallah. [SPEAKER_00]: Now you see Faltima and then you see a whole community, [SPEAKER_00]: That is absolutely ecstatic to see this marriage of these two people that are so beloved to the Prophet's Listener. [SPEAKER_00]: So Prophet's Listener then went to Fatima.

41:56 [SPEAKER_00]: I need all the allowant home. [SPEAKER_00]: Easiest proposal ever. [SPEAKER_00]: Hardest and easiest ever. [SPEAKER_00]: He only had to say a total of like four words, walks out, and he got it. [SPEAKER_00]: He was the one that the Prophet's Listener had his eye on for Fatima. [SPEAKER_00]: So he goes out, now the Prophet's lesson has to go to Fatiha and ask Fatiha if she wants to marry Ali.

42:20 [SPEAKER_00]: Fatiha will be a law and wanted to marry Ali. [SPEAKER_00]: But to have your father come and ask you, what that means, the Prophet's lesson coming to her and asking her, saying, you know, Ali will be a law and who came and asked for your hand. [SPEAKER_00]: Are you okay with it, right? [SPEAKER_00]: Thoughting a lot of the law and had turned red completely overtaken by Hayat, by Modesty, which couldn't say a word.

42:42 [SPEAKER_00]: The province of Isam is dealing with two people that are not speaking and formulating this marriage, putting it all together, right? [SPEAKER_00]: So the province of Isalam, Akarwa, he made sure. [SPEAKER_00]: And this is where the filthy ruling actually that in marriage, because the woman has to consent, right?

42:56 [SPEAKER_00]: That's one of the rulings, right? [SPEAKER_00]: But if you ask her, and you're very explicit, and she doesn't want to actually say yes, but she kind of indicates, or she states, then that can suffice as her approval for the marriage, right? [SPEAKER_00]: Because the profits lie, so I'm said, do you have any objection, and she couldn't say anything?

43:14 [SPEAKER_00]: So the profits like, so let me took that affirmed that her quietness was not because of rejection. [SPEAKER_00]: He knows his daughter, but because of her modesty, her hiat, she just didn't want to come out and say yes. [SPEAKER_00]: Right? [SPEAKER_00]: So, and there's a very funny narration, while they were discussing arrangements.

43:32 [SPEAKER_00]: So now the profits like, so I'm going to add it all the law and when you got thought to him up. [SPEAKER_00]: And this is where the, I'm going to shatter your image of the Sahaba, physical image of the Sahaba a little bit, all right. [SPEAKER_00]: So the Prophet ﷺ was talking to Fatiha, the Allah al-Anha, about the marriage, and I lead all the Allah al-Anhu was known to have a big stomach, surprise, surprise.

43:52 [SPEAKER_00]: Big men, right? [SPEAKER_00]: I lead all the Allah al-Anhu's biceps, where the biggest biceps amongst the Sahaba, they said that if you put two hands around the bicep of Ili, you couldn't close your hands. [SPEAKER_00]: But he also had a stomach. [SPEAKER_00]: And Fatima Radi Allah, and her, joketh with the Prophet ﷺ, she says, zawajtani li'a l-Alimin bata'n.

44:11 [SPEAKER_00]: You married me to the man with the big stomach, right? [SPEAKER_00]: So the Prophet ﷺ laughed and he said, [SPEAKER_00]: beautiful description. [SPEAKER_00]: Prof. Eli Selam said he was the first of my companions to embrace Islam, the most of them in knowledge, Aktharoham Edman, Al-Alamahum Edman, and he has great patience.

44:35 [SPEAKER_00]: Edman is forbearance, the way you treat people, right? [SPEAKER_00]: Patients with people. [SPEAKER_00]: So, Prof. Eli Selam once took it as an even though it was a joke, he took it as an opportunity to praise him. [SPEAKER_00]: and to speak about his character. [SPEAKER_00]: So anyway, I deal with the Aloha Enho says, I went to the marketplace and I'm selling my ditter.

44:53 [SPEAKER_00]: The only thing I own is my shield, and I'm selling my ditter. [SPEAKER_00]: He says, so if Ma'am with the Aloha Enho saw me in the marketplace for sale on my shield that I'm selling my ditter. [SPEAKER_00]: If Ma'am is about to be his brother-in-law, right? [SPEAKER_00]: If Ma'am is married too, [SPEAKER_00]: So he says, if man will be allowed and who came to me and said, how much are you selling it for?

45:14 [SPEAKER_00]: How much could you pay for it? [SPEAKER_00]: Now, he told the Prophet ﷺ was only worth 4. [SPEAKER_00]: If man will be allowed and who said, I'll give you 400 for it. [SPEAKER_00]: He's trying to make things a little easier for him, right? [SPEAKER_00]: So I'll eat all the Allah, I know such sure.

45:28 [SPEAKER_00]: This is great, right? [SPEAKER_00]: If Mom's trying to be charitable, but hey, you like it and you value it. [SPEAKER_00]: If Mom is a rich man, I'll eat all the Allah, I know he's the opposite of ID in terms of his financial circumstances that I'll give you 400 for it. [SPEAKER_00]: So he gave him 400, and I'll eat all the Allah, I know such.

45:42 [SPEAKER_00]: So I gave him the data. [SPEAKER_00]: And then after he gave me the 400, did I have him, so he handed the shield to me, he said, this is my wedding gift to you. [SPEAKER_00]: So he got his 400 didhams from the marketplace and he kept his shields. [SPEAKER_00]: So he said, I went back to the Prophet ﷺ and I told him what happened.

45:59 [SPEAKER_00]: So he said the Prophet ﷺ, daad-e-e-r-thman. [SPEAKER_00]: He's one of the many occasions where the Prophet ﷺ made their out for his man. [SPEAKER_00]: And he said, Rahim Allah, Abah-amroh, may Allah be pleased with Abah-amroh referring to him. [SPEAKER_00]: And he said, he's the most generous of Sunnah.

46:14 [SPEAKER_00]: Raising again, the generosity of Erisman will be a lot. [SPEAKER_00]: This was Erisman. [SPEAKER_00]: Big heart always the first right to spend and to when he knows even that the Prophet's islam would love to see that charity. [SPEAKER_00]: This is Erisman will be a lot of Anah. [SPEAKER_00]: And then he uses his wealth, makes it easy for ideal to allow Ta'ala Anah.

46:32 [SPEAKER_00]: And then comes the wedding preparation. [SPEAKER_00]: Ideal to allow Anah said, I sold some other things. [SPEAKER_00]: Just whatever I could find. [SPEAKER_00]: Completely emptied out my house. [SPEAKER_00]: He said, I had 480 dirhams. [SPEAKER_00]: Okay, and so the prophets like some said, so what's the amount of going to be is at 480 dirhams?

46:50 [SPEAKER_00]: I want you to take a moment and think about this. [SPEAKER_00]: The amount of the queen of janna, leader of the women in paradise, is 480 dirhams. [SPEAKER_00]: Some people have abused this concept. [SPEAKER_00]: So much turned into a price, a value. [SPEAKER_00]: It's supposed to be a gift to symbolize a union.

47:14 [SPEAKER_00]: the gift giving of the husband to the wife and some people have abused this concept so much, turned it into like an insurance plan or something like that. [SPEAKER_00]: Like 20,000, they're like, where did this 20,000, 30,000, 40,000, where does this come from, right? [SPEAKER_00]: It's not the spirit of it is there.

47:30 [SPEAKER_00]: Now the profits lie some did not limit, he didn't top it off, but the profits lie some said the best of Mahat and the best of weddings are the ones that are the least expensive. [SPEAKER_00]: Right, there is hate, there is about a count. [SPEAKER_00]: There's something beautiful and blessed about a simple wedding, a simple Mahat, don't overdo it, you know, that money that you're spending to show everyone who you are and what you are.

47:56 [SPEAKER_00]: That money will die the same night. [SPEAKER_00]: It will go to waste and it might even be sinful. [SPEAKER_00]: Might even be a sloth. [SPEAKER_00]: It might even be an extravagance. [SPEAKER_00]: And then you could have used that money for something so much better, right? [SPEAKER_00]: So the profit slice of them, [SPEAKER_00]: in his own example, and that's why in the Hanafi school, many of the Hanafi became their history, right?

48:13 [SPEAKER_00]: Mahar al-Fathamir, right? [SPEAKER_00]: The Mahar al-Fathamir is the Mahar at the time of marriage, right? [SPEAKER_00]: Just the gift, the dowry at the time of marriage. [SPEAKER_00]: So this is the leader of the women in paradise. [SPEAKER_00]: Say you the Tunisat in the jenna, 480 silver coins, a few dirhams.

48:31 [SPEAKER_00]: I did all the law, and I didn't ask the Prophet's license. [SPEAKER_00]: He said, what should I do with it? [SPEAKER_00]: So it's not just that. [SPEAKER_00]: The Prophet's license, I said, I'd say you need to flee, be with food within Filmetat. [SPEAKER_00]: He said, use two thirds of it to buy her some perfume, and use one third of it to buy some furniture.

48:46 [SPEAKER_00]: Take the 480 and get it ready. [SPEAKER_00]: Go get her some perfume, go get her some furniture for her house. [SPEAKER_00]: So, I did all the Allah al-Hawnho. [SPEAKER_00]: This is where the community starts to come together now. [SPEAKER_00]: He said, so I had no idea how to buy perfume.

49:00 [SPEAKER_00]: Never bought perfume in his life. [SPEAKER_00]: He said, so beladdle the Allah al-Hawnho went with him and beladdle the Allah al-Tadah. [SPEAKER_00]: I know helped him buy some perfume for his wife, felt him all the Allah al-Hawnho. [SPEAKER_00]: And he said, and I gave the rest on Salama about the Allahuan.

49:14 [SPEAKER_00]: We're bringing in now some heavy weights, right? [SPEAKER_00]: Some senior Sahava. [SPEAKER_00]: This is the excitement of the community. [SPEAKER_00]: And I asked on Salama to use whatever it was left to buy what was necessary for the bride for her preparation. [SPEAKER_00]: The Prophet-Slai Salam then gave some money to Abu Bakr and he said to Abu Bakr to buy some clothes for Ali and Fatima.

49:35 [SPEAKER_00]: And then, he sent Amadab Niyasa to the Allah-Hutat. [SPEAKER_00]: And when he said, make the preparations for the wedding. [SPEAKER_00]: So when they went out to the marketplace, now you got Abu Bakr and Amadab Niyasa going out shopping for their wedding. [SPEAKER_00]: Amadab Niyasa said, I would show everything to Abu Bakr for approval.

49:53 [SPEAKER_00]: He would approve it. [SPEAKER_00]: We'd buy it. [SPEAKER_00]: We came back to the Prophet's Lysalam, brought the stuff. [SPEAKER_00]: The Prophet's Lysalam made your act for Baraka for blessing in the few items that we bought. [SPEAKER_00]: Masrukadhi ala ala'a'a'a'a'a'a'a'a'a'a'a'a'a'a'a'a'a'a'a'a'a'a'a'a'a'a'a'a'a'a'a'a'a'a'a'a'a'a'a'a'a'a'a'a'a'a'a'a'a'a'a'a'a'a'a'a'a'a'a'a'a'a'a'a'a'a'a'a'a'a'a'a'a'a'a'a'a'a'a'a'a'a'a'a'a'a'a'a'a'a'a'a'a'a'a'a'a'a'a'a'a'a'a'a'a'a'a [SPEAKER_00]: of Ali and Fatima.

50:14 [SPEAKER_00]: So look at how simple these people are. [SPEAKER_00]: Aisha and Umsalama took some mud from the valley. [SPEAKER_00]: They prepared it, they cleaned it, and they turned it into, they said, we made it into cushions with our hands, put a simple cloth over it, and we made it into cushions from our hands.

50:31 [SPEAKER_00]: They took some dates and some water. [SPEAKER_00]: They placed a wood in the, you know, I hope that the night out of one day we can actually create these simulations. [SPEAKER_00]: to show people this. [SPEAKER_00]: I know there have been some attempts to just be beautiful to see it. [SPEAKER_00]: They put a wood in the corner where they could hang their clothes and they could they also had some hooks on the wood so that you could hang some of your water vessels.

50:52 [SPEAKER_00]: And then the story of this marriage becomes Kitabul-Nikah, Babul-Walima in the sooner of Ibn-Majah. [SPEAKER_00]: Babul-Walima actually starts off with this. [SPEAKER_00]: The Prophet ﷺ himself made the bed. [SPEAKER_00]: How do you make a bed? [SPEAKER_00]: The Prophet ﷺ with his own hands.

51:10 [SPEAKER_00]: He took palm leaves, he took wood, he stuffed the wood with some of the palm leaves, and then the profits why some took a velvet cover. [SPEAKER_00]: a pillow that was made of animal skin, filled it with some of the palm fiber as well that was their cushioning on the inside, and the Prophet ﷺ left for them a pot, and he left for them a water skin, and he left them for them a couple of stones that they could grind grain with.

51:38 [SPEAKER_00]: This is the making of the house of Ali and Faltima. [SPEAKER_00]: Ali little the Allah and O'Narid, he said, we had one bed in our house, and he said it was everything for us. [SPEAKER_00]: He says it was our bed at night, [SPEAKER_00]: It was our couch during the daytime, and he said, and we would feed our animals off of it, and he said, we never had a servant.

51:56 [SPEAKER_00]: We never had a jadja in our home, which is a story that we'll talk about next week in Shalatize Week, as we continue. [SPEAKER_00]: So this is Subhanallah, the simplicity, [SPEAKER_00]: of that coming together, a smat will be allowed to add an anhasad, the best wedding I ever saw, the best Ualima ever saw, was the Ualima of Ali and Fatima, all they had was some barley, some dates, and some haste, haste's date paste, some haste, which they eat in the desert, [SPEAKER_00]: and that was the wedding meal of Ali and Fatima, and it was the happiest day that they remembered in Medias.

52:29 [SPEAKER_00]: And how long has seen that wedding, the joy of the Prophet ﷺ, the simplicity of this wedding. [SPEAKER_00]: That's setting the tone for everybody to how they approach the celebrations and how they approach their weddings. [SPEAKER_00]: Finally, [SPEAKER_00]: The Prophet ﷺ sent anus of the Allah, and we called Abu Bakr Rahman, Abu Abu Ansar, and some of the Ansat, they brought witness to the wedding, and the Prophet ﷺ says, [SPEAKER_00]: the first night.

53:14 [SPEAKER_00]: These two people who couldn't even talk, to express their desire to marry one another, that was a hard wedding day. [SPEAKER_00]: So the Prophet ﷺ told Adid-al-al-al-al-al-al-al-al-al-al-al-al-al-al-al-al-al-al-al-al-al-al-al-al-al-al-al-al-al-al-al-al-al-al-al-al-al-al-al-al-al-al-al-al-al-al-al-al-al-al-al-al-al-al-al-al-al-al-al-al-al-al-al-al-al-al-al-al-al-al-al-al-al-al-al-al-al-al-al-al-al-al-al-al-al-al-al-al-al- [SPEAKER_00]: I came home and he said, um, amen, brought Fatima to the house.

53:47 [SPEAKER_00]: So the Prophet's life, some son, I lead to the new house, the bed, Fatima, or the Allah-Hutata, and how went home with um, amen or the Allah-Hutata. [SPEAKER_00]: And he said, we sat there and we just waited for the Prophet's life to them. [SPEAKER_00]: Super nervous, I mean, anxious, what's he gonna say?

54:04 [SPEAKER_00]: This is, it's hard, right, to be the son and law of the Prophet's life, I'm sad, and as your father and law. [SPEAKER_00]: He said, so the Prophet ﷺ walked in and we were both sitting there and they were both shaking, nervous, anxious. [SPEAKER_00]: The Prophet ﷺ said, don't stand up, he told them to stay there, he took the water in their house, the water jug, this is so beautiful, Subhanallah.

54:32 [SPEAKER_00]: He made Wudu with the water, Prophet ﷺ told them, then he made Wudu into the jug. [SPEAKER_00]: So, He told the ideal of the Allah and who to come. [SPEAKER_00]: A little of the Allah and who came. [SPEAKER_00]: The prophets like some poured the water on Him and made you out for Him. [SPEAKER_00]: Then He sent an ideal of the Allah and said down, He told Fatiha, to come.

54:54 [SPEAKER_00]: Fatiha, the Allah and He was shivering from her high up. [SPEAKER_00]: when the Prophet saw some call there. [SPEAKER_00]: So the Prophet saw some comforted her. [SPEAKER_00]: He said to her, do not worry. [SPEAKER_00]: He said, I've married you to the most beloved person in my family. [SPEAKER_00]: I'm marrying you to someone's, don't worry.

55:10 [SPEAKER_00]: You're okay. [SPEAKER_00]: I'm marrying you to someone special. [SPEAKER_00]: I'm marrying you to Aditya Al-Alanha. [SPEAKER_00]: And the Prophet saw some maid will do, and he poured water on Fatima Al-Alanha. [SPEAKER_00]: He embraced her and listened to this beautiful, they're at and we'll end with this in Shalala.

55:24 [SPEAKER_00]: What a father, Subhanallah. [SPEAKER_00]: He said, Allah Muhammad Barik Fihima, Allah Blastam, Fihima, Wabbarak, Arahima, Allah Blastam, what in Fihima is what is between them and upon them, Blastam and what is between them, and Blastam and what is upon them, Wabbarak Fih, Shabli Hima, and Blastam in their offspring.

55:46 [SPEAKER_00]: So the Prophet ﷺ did his will do, he wiped the water over, poured the water on her, made that deer out for her, anani, and then the Prophet ﷺ walked out. [SPEAKER_00]: And that was the way that this blessed union came together, we ask Allah ﷻ to make beloved to us the Prophet ﷺ and his family and his companions and to allow us to be like the Prophet ﷺ and his family and his companions to allow us to not just love them.

56:12 [SPEAKER_00]: but to allow us to also manifest those beautiful noble qualities that we speak of and we ask Allah's part to join us with them all. [SPEAKER_00]: Allah, Meen.