E257: Am I The Asshole? Oversharing, Snoring, and Body Shaming

One of our favorite series is back.

You sent us your wildest, messiest, most "wait… am I the problem here?" relationship stories. And we have opinions.

We're talking about a wife who's been sharing intimate details about her husband with her entire family for years (but only good things, so it's fine… right?). A partner who was a little too honest about his wife's body (brutal). Neighbors banging on the ceiling mid-sex. And a whole lot more.

Some of these had us genuinely torn. Others? Not so much.

💛 In this episode, you'll hear:

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Is it okay to talk about your sex life with friends and family… even if your partner doesn't know?

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When "just being honest" about attraction crosses a line

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The initiation that was so bad it killed the mood instantly

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What happens when your neighbor tries to police your sex life

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Our honest takes on every single one (and we don't always agree)

Whether you're here to feel validated, get a reality check, or just enjoy some relationship drama that isn't yours… this one's a fun ride.

🔗 Links & Resources

Catch up on past AITA episodes:

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vmtherapy.com/episode199

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vmtherapy.com/episode187

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vmtherapy.com/episode155

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vmtherapy.com/episode135

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vmtherapy.com/episode125

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