74 | When Is Teasing Funny? Understanding How Teen Boys Joke with Friends | Parenting

Sometimes the way boys joke with their friends can sound a little mean to us as moms. They tease each other, roast each other, and bring up things we might never dream of joking about—and somehow everyone is laughing.

Recently, I came across something called Benign Violation Theory, and as soon as I heard it explained, I recognized something I’ve seen many times in boys and male friendships.

In this Mom’s Perspective™ episode of Raising Boys with Purpose™, we’re looking at what Benign Violation Theory can teach us about teen boy humor, teasing between friends, and that sometimes-fine line between something being funny and something becoming hurtful.

Because understanding why our sons joke the way they do doesn’t mean anything goes. It can help us understand their friendships a little better while also helping our boys learn when a joke has crossed the line.

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