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Self Obsessed

why quitting man hating was the most feminist thing i ever did

Montag, 29. Juni 2026 · 13 min

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this video is for the woman who believes that hating men is the same thing as healing. somewhere along the way, man-hating became synonymous with female empowerment. it became the proof that you had healed, evolved, and finally de-centered men. but what if true feminism requires something entirely different? in this video, i break down the 7 reasons why letting go of man-hating changed the way i viewed healing, self-worth, dating, and female empowerment. from emotional attachment and unresolved hurt to avoidance, resentment, and the surprising similarities between man-hating culture and the manosphere, we unpack why the goal was never to spend your life loving men or hating them. the goal was always to make yourself the main character.

♡ WHAT'S IN THIS VIDEO:
01 — STILL OBSESSED
02 — THE OPPOSITE OF LOVE
03 — HEALED OR HURT?
04 — THE AVOIDANCE STRATEGY
05 — PICK-ME IN REVERSE
06 — SAME OBSESSION
07 — FREEDOM

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