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[SPEAKER_01]: Hello, everybody. [SPEAKER_01]: Welcome to another episode of Altacol here to talk about love is blind Poland episode 9 and 10 and here with me is Brian from match virgin hi Brian. [SPEAKER_00]: Hey, what's up? [SPEAKER_01]: Well, this dude is again. [SPEAKER_01]: What what was that? [SPEAKER_00]: I don't have anything fun to say about this one.
[SPEAKER_00]: I don't I don't have any like a fun quip [SPEAKER_01]: It's like, hey, it's up. [SPEAKER_01]: Come on. [SPEAKER_00]: I mean, like, it's something fun. [SPEAKER_00]: I'm just like, this was the weddings or nothing to me. [SPEAKER_00]: The wedding, the bad, the bad, the party was whack. [SPEAKER_00]: The bad, the party's even fun.
[SPEAKER_01]: Yeah. [SPEAKER_01]: I mean, this is kind of why we did 9 and 10 together. [SPEAKER_01]: Imagine if this was just the wedding. [SPEAKER_01]: So it was just, you know, just what happened there. [SPEAKER_01]: Yeah. [SPEAKER_01]: So we're going to get through that last episode. [SPEAKER_01]: I had a question about what like the culture is regarding mental health.
[SPEAKER_01]: And I got an answer from [SPEAKER_01]: They said, it's acceptable and fairly common in cities, but not as much in the rural areas, but Poland has a pretty big city village people divide, but people see it all the time in social media and then it's like politicians, celebrities, usually reference, you know, mental health.
[SPEAKER_00]: Sounds like here. [UNKNOWN]: Yeah. [SPEAKER_01]: Sounds about right. [SPEAKER_01]: Okay. [SPEAKER_01]: So we pick up from the dress fittings where Julia's mom and her friend, her best friend, allegedly, decides to be haters and they're just like hell bent on making everything horrible for Julia.
[SPEAKER_01]: Malina, the best friend, is standing her bitchy ground and saying like, guys, because everyone is like, oh, it looks great. [SPEAKER_01]: You look wonderful and she's like, please, let's not talk her into something if she doesn't feel it. [SPEAKER_01]: And [SPEAKER_01]: I'm lying. [SPEAKER_00]: Why are you lying to her?
[SPEAKER_01]: Wow. [SPEAKER_01]: And then I'm like, is it editing? [SPEAKER_01]: Does she mean the dress? [SPEAKER_01]: So does she mean like Camille? [SPEAKER_01]: Like, what would be talk about here? [SPEAKER_01]: And it just seems like terrible timing. [SPEAKER_01]: How can someone say, oh my god, you look wonderful.
[SPEAKER_01]: You're great and you're like, stop it. [SPEAKER_01]: Don't make her so good. [SPEAKER_00]: Like, why don't she look good? [SPEAKER_00]: You're on no shows like shit, right? [SPEAKER_00]: Why do you want this to her? [SPEAKER_01]: So Julia is like in Shambles emotionally and she goes back to change and Darya is the one with a great advice telling her like, listen, it's overwhelming.
[SPEAKER_01]: You're allowed to have doubts, but you know, I loved ones are scared to and, you know, it comes out in different ways. [SPEAKER_01]: You know, for them, right? [SPEAKER_00]: Yeah, well, I mean, what's her best friend going to say like, and another thing like she's not going to make it better.
[SPEAKER_01]: Yes, and Camille, go with Phillip for his fittings. [SPEAKER_01]: If you don't remember, Phillip was working. [SPEAKER_01]: So he didn't make the fittings with the rest of the guys and I don't think I've ever seen anyone look so terrified this man looks like he can breathe. [SPEAKER_00]: The only one I've got since we're covering Boston right now.
[SPEAKER_00]: This is what Elijah Wan looks like on his wedding day. [SPEAKER_00]: Just so terrified and scared and sad, just upset. [SPEAKER_01]: Yeah, I got to say I am impressed with the fittings for the men in Poland like I just I like the tailoring I like the fit. [SPEAKER_01]: I like like it doesn't look like just the same thing five times in different How do we're going to blackst a black talks with the same cuts?
[SPEAKER_01]: Yeah, yeah, so they all look nice and Philip is going for what? [SPEAKER_01]: They're also calling Philip Johnny Bravo [SPEAKER_00]: Yeah, I wonder, well, I know, okay, technically there's two Johnny Bravo's here, there's the cartoon Johnny Bravo and then on the Brady Bunch that was Greg Brady's like rock star alter ego was also Johnny Bravo.
[SPEAKER_00]: So I'm wondering if it's a third Johnny Bravo. [SPEAKER_00]: I don't know about. [SPEAKER_01]: I believe it's the animated Johnny Bravo. [SPEAKER_01]: I don't know. [SPEAKER_01]: I don't have the same body type, so I don't know when it's coming from, so I don't know, but that's what they're calling him.
[SPEAKER_01]: Maybe there is a police Johnny Brown with them. [SPEAKER_00]: They're gonna be out. [SPEAKER_00]: I don't know. [SPEAKER_01]: Um, they're saying goodbye because I think they're all going, they're separating now for their bachelor, bachelor at party and then before the weddings. [SPEAKER_01]: Julia tells Camille no strippers and that she has no regrets choosing him and she tears up.
[SPEAKER_01]: She is conflicted because her family or her mom. [SPEAKER_01]: has said the same about her past relationships and they turned out to be right, so she's like, is this right to her mom is clearly stated that she doesn't trust him, he manipulated her, and it's not going to work. [SPEAKER_01]: And I just want to know why they wanted to be single so bad.
[SPEAKER_00]: I don't know. [SPEAKER_00]: I think they might hate or guts. [SPEAKER_00]: Like I don't have an answer for this. [SPEAKER_00]: This is not even if you have concerns. [SPEAKER_00]: This is not the way to handle that. [SPEAKER_00]: They're being, it feels like they're being deliberately mean to her about it.
[SPEAKER_00]: Or it's not just like, hey, I'm looking out for your best interest. [SPEAKER_00]: It's like, look, if you do this, you are stupid. [SPEAKER_00]: I'm just like, woof! [SPEAKER_01]: It's very strange, and also I don't know if it's a cultural thing. [SPEAKER_01]: Anyway, it comes off like as being very stern, but I'm like, what are the odds that every single person she's dated, they've hated, is her picker that bad or they're just no one's good enough and didn't realize that's hurting more than helping?
[SPEAKER_00]: Is it a 90-day Pedro situation where it's just like we reflexively hate everyone when you bring around? [SPEAKER_00]: I just don't know. [SPEAKER_01]: Like we don't want to mess up the dynamic that we have, but I'm like, okay, I am like, hey, Camille, in this moment decides to make a joke and is like, oh, I could put a chair in your gap.
[SPEAKER_00]: I'm like, oh, um... Why would you say that? [SPEAKER_01]: I don't know how she feels about her gap, but we've learned that whatever Camille cracks jokes. [SPEAKER_01]: Rarely does she find it funny? [SPEAKER_00]: No, almost never. [SPEAKER_01]: You sent her into a tail spin, but yeah, I don't know, fun fact.
[SPEAKER_01]: I closed my gap. [SPEAKER_01]: Insane to have a gap and I got braces and I closed it up because he was getting wider and wider. [SPEAKER_01]: I could put a chair or table for an extra. [SPEAKER_00]: My brother has one, but it's not huge. [SPEAKER_00]: It's noticeable, but it's not, it's not big.
[SPEAKER_01]: Yeah, I mean, came to find out, I don't know how you got here. [SPEAKER_01]: Came to find out like, I had to sit and it was just widening and white because at some point I was like, OK, if I'm whistling, just lust by sitting, something's wrong. [SPEAKER_00]: I believe you've crossed a line here.
[SPEAKER_01]: This is not right. [SPEAKER_01]: Shouldn't feel the breeze this much. [SPEAKER_01]: So I turned out, yes, it was since then it was widening it. [SPEAKER_01]: So it wasn't like just a natural gap anymore. [SPEAKER_01]: But anyways, Mata and Damian are going skydiving. [SPEAKER_01]: And I do, again, one thing I would never do my life.
[SPEAKER_01]: I'm scared of heights. [SPEAKER_01]: And usually I try to tell myself, oh, push through your fears. [SPEAKER_01]: And then I went, what's the one, not skydiving? [SPEAKER_01]: The one where you, [SPEAKER_01]: go through the ropes in the jungle, it's like a zipline? [SPEAKER_01]: Yeah, I was deflighting and I thought I was gonna die.
[SPEAKER_01]: And I didn't, they pushed me, brine. [SPEAKER_01]: I don't know why we had to go seven times. [SPEAKER_01]: We had to climb these things and he was like seven times. [SPEAKER_01]: And I was there freaking out. [SPEAKER_01]: The man says, giving me a speech and he's like, I'm not gonna do his accent because I don't want to offend anybody.
[SPEAKER_01]: He's like, remember, you're a strong black woman. [SPEAKER_01]: I'm like, it's just deflighting. [SPEAKER_01]: Oh my god, and she was holding up the line and so they just pushed me and I'm like, oh my god, I'm going to die. [SPEAKER_00]: We got to get it on here. [SPEAKER_00]: I see I've got a deal with my son that when he graduates from college will go skydiving together.
[SPEAKER_00]: This is this is a deal that I made off hand when he was like three and he has brought it up. [SPEAKER_00]: Maybe once a week ever since then, so it's it's ingrained in him now that we're doing this. [SPEAKER_01]: No, I got to a point where I'm just like, I don't have anything to prove. [SPEAKER_01]: I'm not doing any of these activities.
[SPEAKER_01]: I repelled over a building for a special Olympics, and I thought they were just trying to calm me down. [SPEAKER_01]: It is not fun, and I'm like, why am I doing this? [SPEAKER_01]: I'm gonna don't. [SPEAKER_00]: I'll free with it. [SPEAKER_00]: We don't enjoy it. [SPEAKER_00]: So, I don't have a problem with heights.
[SPEAKER_00]: My problem is the open ocean. [SPEAKER_00]: So, if somebody was like, hey, let's go like, free diving over the million on a transit. [SPEAKER_00]: Like, the fuck outta here, I'm gonna do a map. [SPEAKER_01]: Am I scared of that? [SPEAKER_01]: I don't know if I'm scared. [SPEAKER_01]: No, I'm more scared of heights.
[SPEAKER_01]: Then put it that way because I went It's not deep sea diving. [SPEAKER_01]: It's like also in Bali. [SPEAKER_01]: They give you like this helmets where you can breathe through it But my brain couldn't make it act that you can breathe. [SPEAKER_01]: Hey, and I'm just like I'm gonna die [SPEAKER_01]: I can't do it, but it's also weighted so that it weighs you down and takes you deep into the ocean.
[SPEAKER_01]: And so I've got over that pretty quick when I realize I'm not going to die. [SPEAKER_01]: And then they feed the fish like red crumbs and then all the fish just come around you. [SPEAKER_01]: And it's pretty cool, but there was just a set amount of time. [SPEAKER_01]: After a while, I was like, okay, okay, give me out of here.
[SPEAKER_01]: So, but I don't do that. [SPEAKER_01]: I'll only get over heights, anything [SPEAKER_00]: I get that. [SPEAKER_01]: So good for them is what I'm trying to say. [SPEAKER_01]: He's there. [SPEAKER_01]: Jump out of a plane, but I did think that it was pretty cool that they get to pick out like these fun onesies that you could jump out of, but that he also thought about the fact like how often are they getting dry cleaned or washed like everyone's left.
[SPEAKER_01]: Yes, like imagine if West from Sonny House got into it, [SPEAKER_01]: So the whole time Damien is being childish. [SPEAKER_01]: To my knowledge Damien did not share with us that he has any kind of ADHD or cannot sit still But he cannot still he cannot do that. [SPEAKER_01]: He's being childish.
[SPEAKER_01]: He's cracking jokes. [SPEAKER_01]: He's like look at my tail I'm gonna play with your tail. [SPEAKER_01]: He's taking out his tongue the instructor like I'm not the one marrying you I don't need to be polite to you. [SPEAKER_01]: He's basically irritated. [SPEAKER_01]: He's life [SPEAKER_01]: No stop.
[SPEAKER_00]: It's like when you watch the watch those videos of like blippy going to somebody's job and like act like a jackass and the person just like get the fuck out of here. [SPEAKER_00]: I already you already a telephone. [SPEAKER_01]: Yeah, so is Marta Marta. [SPEAKER_01]: She is like visibility related to and he just wouldn't stop because it's one thing to be you.
[SPEAKER_01]: It's another thing to not read the room. [SPEAKER_01]: and be right. [SPEAKER_01]: Okay, maybe I need to reinit it. [SPEAKER_01]: But he can help it. [SPEAKER_01]: He's a bundle of energy. [SPEAKER_00]: So yeah, this is who he is. [SPEAKER_01]: Julie, tell him, can you stop being yourself?
[SPEAKER_00]: Yeah, you just not be yourself for a while. [SPEAKER_01]: Oh, I got, I think that was the name of the episode actually, and it was like, yes. [SPEAKER_01]: But I mean, yes, she's not. [SPEAKER_01]: I feel her, though, like you just got to know when to turn it off, but I know he doesn't need any harm.
[SPEAKER_01]: That's the other thing. [SPEAKER_01]: It's like you consider that he doesn't need any harm, but she's like, I'm not on the same level as you are. [SPEAKER_01]: I'm nervous to do this. [SPEAKER_01]: I'm not in any joking mood. [SPEAKER_01]: Like I need you to like calm me down, but instead you're adding to all of the heightened emotions.
[SPEAKER_01]: That I'm viewing right now. [SPEAKER_01]: So, I don't know, that's a sidebar because, you know, they always post what they do. [SPEAKER_01]: Do nail techs get paid that much. [SPEAKER_00]: like he pulled that thing. [SPEAKER_00]: I don't because we had a meal tech on 90 day, um, it was that black man that was a nail taken Florida.
[SPEAKER_00]: Um, she did not seem to be living lavishly. [SPEAKER_01]: Um, yes, but I'm thinking like because he said, I'm well financially, but she's doing much better, but she said nail tech and she does nails in her home. [SPEAKER_01]: So I'm just wondering, like, how much is that? [SPEAKER_01]: How [SPEAKER_00]: Is it such thing as like a like a viral nail tech person, where it's like she just booked up all the time?
[SPEAKER_00]: I don't know. [SPEAKER_01]: Okay, putting the call out guys and pulling like is nail tech like something that's very lucrative, like they make a lot of money or is it like just average of what is it, what it wears and stuff. [SPEAKER_00]: Yeah, maybe just a brokeie, we don't know. [SPEAKER_01]: Yeah, which is that maybe he just broke out.
[SPEAKER_01]: Yeah. [SPEAKER_01]: Okay, so they're having, okay, they've landed. [SPEAKER_01]: It was also also unusual. [SPEAKER_01]: They wanted to start diving in and then they landed. [SPEAKER_00]: It was like, yeah, seem fine. [SPEAKER_01]: Yeah, so they're having a kind of picnic just sitting on the grass and she's trying to have a serious conversation, but he is all over the place and he's like, I'm just worried because it was like you're walking less and less.
[SPEAKER_01]: I think it's a situation where. [SPEAKER_01]: Let's eat your talk. [SPEAKER_01]: You're talking as someone is silent and you're nervous and you just want to feel the silence and you know it's not talking to you. [SPEAKER_01]: Just like I think I just got to talk to you. [SPEAKER_00]: Yeah, yeah, no, they call that brain crux disease.
[SPEAKER_00]: That's how I am at all times. [SPEAKER_00]: I just I can't stay in silence. [SPEAKER_00]: I'm going to feel it and you need to catch up at some point in time. [SPEAKER_01]: Anyways, that's almost happening like he knows that she's annoyed and he knows that he should shut up This is like I get because did I have to deal with being serious and no, I'm not doing it.
[SPEAKER_01]: So So by the time they get back and they're saying they're good boys, you could tell that Marta is just ready to go He's trying to be okay. [SPEAKER_01]: See and she's like bye. [SPEAKER_01]: Go. [SPEAKER_00]: Yeah, just tired at this point fed up [SPEAKER_01]: Um, Philip and Daria go on a boat dates and I'm like, why don't you give this man this date?
[SPEAKER_01]: He has to do work. [SPEAKER_01]: He's jet-like. [SPEAKER_01]: Then he's exhausted. [SPEAKER_00]: Right, and your date is pushing this big rock up a hill. [SPEAKER_01]: See, speaking to your open body of water, I was thinking about that, just sitting on the boat, just sitting like, what if it tips over as you mean the cameraman is somewhere and their divers, I don't know, but they're just sitting there and I'm like, what?
[SPEAKER_00]: You see, when I see this and it's a pond, I'm always like, I hope a swan does not come up because swans are mean as shit and they don't stop attacking. [SPEAKER_00]: So if a swan shows up, you're gonna lose and you're gonna wind up in the water with a swan trying to drown you. [SPEAKER_01]: There's nothing you can do.
[SPEAKER_01]: She's she's telling him all the things that, you know, she likes all his all the sides of him She's looking forward to the wedding and y'all know Philip One trauma every hour Philip is like same things like I assume like you wouldn't have looked at me if it wasn't for the experiment and then he quickly adds and vice versa too.
[SPEAKER_01]: I'm like yeah [SPEAKER_01]: Jesus man and then he's like oh, I want to take myself seriously I just need to get to that point and she's like oh, I respect that like you know trying to get yourself there And then she goes no but for real though I haven't been this happy in a while and then he's like stop don't say that she's like up wait He's like why not say that because I'm so scared like don't say good things We only talk about the negative talk that's what we need here and I'm like oh, oh my god This dude's a mess [SPEAKER_01]: girl, don't sign up for a lifetime of managing feelings because I'm not sure what's happening and the song in the background, I think it was saying something like run girl.
[SPEAKER_00]: I'm trying like that. [SPEAKER_00]: Get out. [SPEAKER_01]: That's so subtle. [SPEAKER_01]: And I'm just like, I don't know, Philip, you're exhausting me at this point. [SPEAKER_01]: Like it's not just a jet lag. [SPEAKER_01]: So, Yulita and Yasa go go cart racing and they watch the sunset, they talk about it, whatever you learn from each other.
[SPEAKER_01]: He says he learned patience from her and his diplomacy leveled up and she's like, okay, say something nice, like, and he's like, okay, will you write your own bells? [SPEAKER_01]: Like you're not going to run away? [SPEAKER_01]: I'm like, oh man. [SPEAKER_01]: Um, we can have a conversation without him bringing out of communication.
[SPEAKER_01]: So that's why he does. [SPEAKER_01]: He brings up communication. [SPEAKER_01]: He's like, yes, um, better communication. [SPEAKER_01]: And she's like, I don't want to fight. [SPEAKER_01]: I just want to let things go. [SPEAKER_01]: And I'm like, that's not good either. [SPEAKER_01]: You can't see things.
[SPEAKER_00]: No, because you're about to get married. [SPEAKER_00]: So like, if you get married, going into it with all these unresolved issues in your head, it's not going to work anyway. [SPEAKER_01]: Yeah. [SPEAKER_01]: She does tell him that it's hard to imagine life without him now. [SPEAKER_00]: And then they cheers and then they say, oh, they love saying, oh, is that just like a big catchphrase right now in Poland or like something that we just don't, I've never said, I'll woo with my friends.
[SPEAKER_00]: But they have to do that in Poland. [SPEAKER_00]: I'm saying like I hope you have it's I would imagine it's like dude's yelling out yellow like 12 years ago. [SPEAKER_00]: Where it's like, does everyone know what that is? [SPEAKER_00]: Is that just an American thing for now? [SPEAKER_01]: Call out guys is a woo, is that a yassick thing or is it just it's like a thing.
[SPEAKER_01]: So the way I imagine it is like something I know I say a lot is like let's say my friends has said something that's cool. [SPEAKER_01]: I'm like, hey, that's how I Equate to be but I don't say that as much as they do it's like even that's like all a lot. [SPEAKER_01]: So yeah, let us know is a woo and thing or is it a yassick thing And then you ask her like are you gonna say I love you at the altar?
[SPEAKER_01]: And I'm like, what are you doing? [SPEAKER_01]: She's asked you to say something nice, and you've asked her like 10 questions. [SPEAKER_01]: Are you going to write your own bowels? [SPEAKER_01]: Are you going to run away? [SPEAKER_01]: Are you going to say I love you? [SPEAKER_01]: Are you going to, what do you want?
[SPEAKER_01]: What are you doing? [SPEAKER_01]: Sir? [SPEAKER_00]: This is so sabotage. [SPEAKER_01]: I mean, I think Julia is so conflicted and Camila is just like he's a fight to the death kind of person and he just needs to know that she's going to make an effort Yes, I can you Lisa actually seem good because from the last that we saw they weren't good.
[SPEAKER_01]: I mean, they talked me on the door, but they kiss goodbye [SPEAKER_01]: and she just tells him to be good at the party, but overall, I feel like everyone looks so sad saying goodbye and not like in the, oh, miss him going to be separated more like, man, I don't know what I'm doing. [SPEAKER_00]: And if I want to spend the rest of my with you, I'm like, boy, I made a big mistake coming on this show.
[SPEAKER_00]: It's kind of no one looks. [SPEAKER_01]: So that was it before the party, so I will take a break now and I will be right back. [SPEAKER_01]: Okay, we're back. [SPEAKER_01]: So they have the, you know, are we in the wrong for calling it a bachelor and a bachelor at party? [SPEAKER_01]: Or is it just a gathering of the brides in the room?
[SPEAKER_00]: We're not wrong because they had a really quick shot in the batch the right party where they had balloons that said batch the right party. [SPEAKER_00]: And frankly, the wrong part about this for me was that they were all in black and jolita was in white and I'm like, it looks like she's the batch the red and guys are all proctmades.
[SPEAKER_01]: Yeah, yeah, well, I'll start with the guys. [SPEAKER_01]: They go ATV writing, Philip is still a wreck. [SPEAKER_01]: Like the man still looks like oxygen is not making its way into his body. [SPEAKER_01]: And even sadder, none of his friends that he invited showed up, and he's like, maybe it's a sign, and I'm like, my goodness, Eor.
[SPEAKER_01]: Like, I can't take it anymore. [SPEAKER_00]: Like, it's a sign of your friend's suck, that's, it's my family. [SPEAKER_00]: Really real friend, it's right. [SPEAKER_00]: I mean, time to re-evaluate your friendships, but I don't think it's a sign about your marriage. [SPEAKER_01]: Okay, but when things like this happen, when people don't show up for you, [SPEAKER_00]: Yes, it should be and it that in this moment, I'm sure that it feels extra bad to be like, oh, I'm the problem here, but like, yeah, if people routinely don't come to shit that you're working I say, it's probably a you problem.
[SPEAKER_01]: Yeah, I know Camille says he feels inner peace and he knows what he's doing, but he doesn't know what's going on with Julia, then they go paint ball in a little bit. [SPEAKER_01]: It's a nice set of events like, you know, they're setting up for them. [SPEAKER_01]: I don't know. [SPEAKER_01]: But Damien doesn't want her to be sure because if you are sure he's talking to his brother, because if you are sure, then you would stop trying.
[SPEAKER_00]: It's not a little thing. [SPEAKER_01]: Okay. [SPEAKER_00]: You can still, because he's basically describing a fear-based marriage. [SPEAKER_00]: We're like, I can only be a good, attentive romantic husband if I'm afraid he's going to leave me. [SPEAKER_00]: I'm like, that's not, you could also just be those things because you love her so much.
[SPEAKER_01]: Yeah, um, yes, I tell his friend that, you know, they keep missing each other him and you Lita and the friend says you don't just mean physically, right? [SPEAKER_01]: I don't like, okay, wait, back up. [SPEAKER_01]: Why did you say that? [SPEAKER_01]: Like, what was he told? [SPEAKER_01]: There's missing context here.
[SPEAKER_01]: What has he said, like, why did he go straight there? [SPEAKER_01]: Because if someone tells me, we keep missing each other. [SPEAKER_01]: My first thing is communication. [SPEAKER_01]: Like, we don't understand each other. [SPEAKER_01]: And it's not necessarily, and again, maybe lost in translation, the verdict I would use to describe, like, we're not compatible, sexually, or physically, I don't know.
[SPEAKER_01]: But the friend was just like, [SPEAKER_00]: You mean physically, right? [SPEAKER_00]: I was like, yeah, but that's not the first thing I would go to. [SPEAKER_01]: Yeah. [SPEAKER_01]: And so, yeah, I think it's like, well, in the confessional, I used to form relationships based on things that happened at night.
[SPEAKER_01]: And I'm like, what a translation. [SPEAKER_01]: Because... [SPEAKER_01]: I think he means sex, which doesn't only happen at night, but I also thought he doesn't mean like, uh, paid person, like, what does he do? [SPEAKER_00]: I don't know if this was different on the dubbed version and the subtitles.
[SPEAKER_00]: What we got was I used to judge relationships on things that happened in the night, things that a gentleman wouldn't talk about or something like that. [SPEAKER_01]: He said, he said, he said, gentlemen, doesn't kiss and tear. [SPEAKER_01]: So clearly he's talking about sex, but I'm like, okay, what a translation.
[SPEAKER_01]: Exactly. [SPEAKER_01]: And it says that happened at night. [SPEAKER_01]: And I'm like, why, why, like, why do we just say things? [SPEAKER_01]: Or intimacy or whatever else, it was just a very interesting choice of translation. [SPEAKER_01]: And then he brings up communication. [SPEAKER_00]: So drink.
[SPEAKER_01]: He does say that he can see that she's changing and that she cares, but maybe he's expecting a lot from her and then he says, Oh, I was doing it. [SPEAKER_00]: I'm not even appropriate to say it right now. [SPEAKER_01]: It is not a yes exciting. [SPEAKER_01]: If he's not saying communication and if he's not saying, oh, it's early season Carl's saying more life.
[SPEAKER_00]: Just try to make it a thing. [SPEAKER_01]: Okay, moving on to the girls. [SPEAKER_01]: The girls are the spa. [SPEAKER_01]: do with that right now, they have a massage, they go into a pool and like, uh, so I was like, Evan, Darya shares that she is not meant Phillips family and it's a sensitive topic and you know, no one seemed to show any interest and you know, if she had this as a red flag, I would not blame her.
[SPEAKER_01]: But I want to believe that hopefully, Philippe is giving her a more context [SPEAKER_01]: of camera. [SPEAKER_01]: Because if his family doesn't want to participate on camera, I can only assume that they don't want to be talked about. [SPEAKER_00]: On television. [SPEAKER_01]: And it's best not to stoke the fire because it is very important how you introduce your significant other to your family.
[SPEAKER_01]: um you have to get one chance of this yes and then that's it so um people again always look for who to make the mascot of whatever problem there is and if he goes ahead and talks about it but like this girl made him talk about it causing chaos and our family and stuff so this is all my hope I don't maybe I'm gonna feel it too much credit I don't know but [SPEAKER_01]: If he saw it as a red flag like listen, I would make your family, I don't know your family dynamic, I don't know anything, do I fit in, will they accept me?
[SPEAKER_01]: It's too grave for me to want to do this. [SPEAKER_01]: I think it's totally valid. [SPEAKER_00]: So yeah, no, very, I could not marry somebody not having met their family first. [SPEAKER_00]: And I would say even beyond that, without having like, had a real conversation with somebody in their family.
[SPEAKER_00]: It's not enough to like meet them at like a dinner and say hello and like whatever. [SPEAKER_00]: Like I need to sit down and talk to you guys before we move forward with anything. [SPEAKER_01]: Yeah. [SPEAKER_01]: So, she says that she sometimes doesn't believe that he's ready to take this step and, you know, taking it into account, then because of that, she's taking it into account that he might say, you know, at the altar.
[SPEAKER_01]: Although I was like, I mean, it's 50, 50. [SPEAKER_00]: Right. [SPEAKER_01]: It's not that you see it. [SPEAKER_01]: Sorry. [SPEAKER_01]: No. [SPEAKER_00]: So, if I'm a coin here, man, you have to go with that. [SPEAKER_01]: So, then we see the women in a party limo and they're headed to a bar for their party.
[SPEAKER_01]: I guess this is where the balloons were. [SPEAKER_00]: Yeah, it was like when they go into the bar they had like a panning camera shot And one of the blue and said back to the reparty Okay, the only reason I noticed it was I was like, oh, I'm kind of surprised that wasn't in Polish Well, I mean a lot of things are now westernized, you know Yeah, I think it was Yosuke had the birthday band right his house.
[SPEAKER_00]: It's heavy birthday in English Oh, like yeah, I guess I mean, yes, yeah, yeah, if you're from Amazon so [SPEAKER_01]: Okay, so her friends play the match game with Marta, I believe. [SPEAKER_01]: And she's like, I got to know Damian Way more than I needed to know, you know, it's the game where she asked him questions and she's going to see her answer matches.
[SPEAKER_01]: And one of the questions was three words to describe himself. [SPEAKER_01]: And she's like, yeah, I have to censor one of the answers. [SPEAKER_01]: And Marta doesn't seem happy. [SPEAKER_01]: Again, I was editing, but one of it was funny. [SPEAKER_01]: and she says like she wants to feel calm to the core and with him there's an energy that's very hard to understand.
[SPEAKER_01]: What were you thinking about this at this point? [SPEAKER_00]: I mean, I know what she's talking about because I would not be able to have fun with a guy like this. [SPEAKER_00]: There's a guy in my extended friend circle who behaves like this. [SPEAKER_00]: I'm just like, how do I want that to do it around?
[SPEAKER_00]: Like it's [SPEAKER_00]: and it's the kind of energy that would have resonated with me when I was like 20. [SPEAKER_00]: And at this stage in my life, I don't need that kind of like frenetic energy around. [SPEAKER_00]: And if I'm her, I'm saying like, yeah, this is not even in this moment.
[SPEAKER_00]: You have to make some kind of a joke or a comment that like, we can't just say on TV. [SPEAKER_00]: Like, I don't want to be with somebody that is always kind of a liability like that. [SPEAKER_00]: You know, I'm not more. [SPEAKER_01]: Yeah. [SPEAKER_01]: um jolita we see jolita with her friends and she's like it's too calm for her right now and she misses the intimacy and the friend is like when you say intimacy, TV, so we're both or physical and then the friend is just like [SPEAKER_01]: Yeah, yeah, yeah, it's a language saying no, no, no, but it was just so funny.
[SPEAKER_01]: She was so animated about it She had she was basically clutching invisible pearls. [SPEAKER_01]: She had her hand on her chest and she's like, yeah. [SPEAKER_01]: Yeah, like you didn't sleep together at all And she's like, no, he did and then she said, oh, oh, thank god [SPEAKER_00]: I'm like, oh my god, relax.
[SPEAKER_01]: Okay, relax. [SPEAKER_01]: She says like, no, they did. [SPEAKER_01]: It's just like, it's reduced. [SPEAKER_01]: And she isn't attracted to him. [SPEAKER_01]: And when they had sex, it was like, wow. [SPEAKER_01]: I don't know. [SPEAKER_01]: It made it seem like, did they have sex just once?
[SPEAKER_01]: Or did she mean any time we did have sex? [SPEAKER_00]: I interpreted it as any time that they've had sex, but I also interpreted it as it might have been like weeks at this point. [SPEAKER_00]: Like maybe in the very beginning, well, I think when they were in Greece, they all kind of alluded to we've all been knocking down.
[SPEAKER_01]: Yeah. [SPEAKER_00]: So like maybe in the first couple of weeks and it's really tapered off and maybe it's been like once in the last six weeks of like that. [SPEAKER_00]: Yeah. [SPEAKER_00]: But it sounds like she's. [SPEAKER_00]: frustrated about it, which not to take his side, but like this is communication.
[SPEAKER_00]: Let him know you don't like this, and that it's missing and like you got to work on this. [SPEAKER_01]: I'm making fun of him for saying communication all the time, but I think like they just don't mesh, they don't have the same style. [SPEAKER_01]: She is close. [SPEAKER_01]: Yeah. [SPEAKER_01]: I don't think she realizes it.
[SPEAKER_01]: She thinks like, if I like you, that should be enough because I don't usually like people like this. [SPEAKER_01]: So if I like you, be grateful, but you don't know each other. [SPEAKER_01]: He doesn't know that. [SPEAKER_01]: He needs words. [SPEAKER_01]: And you are still the same person that he was sharing his diagnosis with that you were like a, I gotta go.
[SPEAKER_01]: Thanks so much. [SPEAKER_01]: so there's that. [SPEAKER_01]: This trip I showed up and that was it for them, I guess. [SPEAKER_00]: Yeah, well, I found it ironic that Julia was like, hey man, no strippers. [SPEAKER_00]: And here she is, just legs a Kimbo on this man's shoulders. [SPEAKER_00]: Like, I mean, rules for him, not rules for me.
[SPEAKER_00]: Right. [SPEAKER_00]: Okay. [SPEAKER_00]: And I thought for a second, I thought Martin was going to kiss that dude. [SPEAKER_00]: She didn't, but it looked like she was going on. [SPEAKER_00]: She was like gently, compressing his face and everything. [SPEAKER_00]: I'm like, oh, no. [SPEAKER_01]: Hey, what happens at the Bachelor at parties days at the Bachelor's party?
[SPEAKER_00]: Yeah. [SPEAKER_00]: I mean, you do you. [SPEAKER_00]: I love it. [SPEAKER_00]: Yeah, they had a good time. [SPEAKER_00]: Everybody's sticking the mud where it's like, oh no, stripper is gross. [SPEAKER_00]: They all had a good time with it. [SPEAKER_01]: It was better than Sweden. [SPEAKER_01]: I think by Sweden by this time, we had two brights.
[SPEAKER_01]: That's it. [SPEAKER_00]: Oh my god. [SPEAKER_01]: Oh my god. [SPEAKER_01]: Oh my god. [SPEAKER_01]: The whole time. [SPEAKER_01]: So, you know, there we have it. [SPEAKER_01]: Okay, I'll take you quick break and I'll be right back. [SPEAKER_01]: Talk about the weddings. [SPEAKER_01]: Okay, we are back.
[SPEAKER_01]: With the first couple is Darya and Phillip. [SPEAKER_01]: I mean, I think I want to say that. [SPEAKER_01]: I don't think the whole rule. [SPEAKER_01]: Back in the day, you used to think that love is blind. [SPEAKER_01]: Oh, if you're going to say yes, you start first. [SPEAKER_01]: If they're going to say no, they're not going to put your last.
[SPEAKER_01]: So all these little rules of whatever opponent is like, fuck that. [SPEAKER_00]: We're going in the order that we want to. [SPEAKER_00]: And there's no right word for this, towards it. [SPEAKER_01]: The house looks so nice. [SPEAKER_01]: The ground looks so very perfectly manicured. [SPEAKER_01]: Like for the view from a bob was just like great.
[SPEAKER_01]: So Darian Phillip, we start with. [SPEAKER_01]: fully fully expected this man to pass out. [SPEAKER_01]: He is so nervous. [SPEAKER_01]: He's not said anything positive. [SPEAKER_01]: He's just said all the things that could go wrong. [SPEAKER_01]: He's talking about how he wants to do with ones.
[SPEAKER_01]: He wants to get it right. [SPEAKER_01]: And I don't think this man was told that nothing in life is guaranteed. [SPEAKER_01]: And if you want it to be so sure in that this is too fast, you want to get to know them. [SPEAKER_01]: Don't come on the show. [SPEAKER_01]: Your family already said they weren't interested.
[SPEAKER_01]: You knew all this and you still chose to come on. [SPEAKER_01]: Don't stop. [SPEAKER_00]: Yep. [SPEAKER_01]: Um, she's worried that she's more ready for marriage than he is. [SPEAKER_01]: And then Brian, he's grooms man or wife. [SPEAKER_01]: And I'm like, I'm not talking to you. [SPEAKER_01]: Where were you from?
[SPEAKER_01]: My bachelor, my bachelor part. [SPEAKER_00]: Right. [SPEAKER_00]: Right. [SPEAKER_00]: Who are you? [SPEAKER_00]: You can be any audience, everybody else. [SPEAKER_01]: So I did not understand that like why are you here for the wedding and you where you left me out to dry when everybody else had their friends and their family and I was there like a loser who didn't have any friends.
[SPEAKER_00]: Be petty rucks been you go stand over there like don't get your face on camera. [SPEAKER_00]: I don't know you. [SPEAKER_01]: Um, it is Phillip. [SPEAKER_01]: So they come in, how are you doing? [SPEAKER_01]: Of course, he's such to say, you know, all this happened to quickly, I don't know if we're going to do this and I'm like, oh my goodness, she broke up before this and it's just like, I think the vibes you want on the day of your wedding like I just when you look back at it, it's just no not good.
[SPEAKER_00]: I didn't say anything like this on my wedding day. [SPEAKER_01]: So then we go out to the wedding and oh dear, we have a child here. [SPEAKER_01]: Her nephew is there and I'm like, we've talked about this. [SPEAKER_01]: How, I don't know, kids could be traumatized as big as this. [SPEAKER_01]: And it's Philip.
[SPEAKER_01]: He gets there, stands at the altar. [SPEAKER_01]: Turns to the crowd and says, show off hands. [SPEAKER_01]: Who expected me to run off today? [SPEAKER_00]: the fuck are you doing? [SPEAKER_00]: I'm sick. [SPEAKER_00]: I'm sick. [SPEAKER_00]: I'm sick. [SPEAKER_00]: I'm sick. [SPEAKER_00]: I'm sick.
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[SPEAKER_00]: I thought so too. [SPEAKER_00]: I'm just like, why are you keeping this? [SPEAKER_01]: And as if that was his standing there and instead of just being nervous, just say, oh my god, like everybody else, like, woo, what's going on? [SPEAKER_01]: He's just like, what the fuck did I get myself at?
[SPEAKER_01]: What the fuck did I get myself at? [SPEAKER_00]: Over and over again. [SPEAKER_01]: And, you know, Daria is there. [SPEAKER_01]: She's ready, her daddy comes out, her daddy is a handsome man. [SPEAKER_01]: I think they probably have kids young because he looks pretty good. [SPEAKER_01]: I don't even know how old he is, so I can't say for his age, but he looks pretty good.
[SPEAKER_01]: He tells her, no matter what happens, we are here for you, she cries, and then she thinks same and she's like, thank you for being a part of this madness, but she does believe that she's doing the right thing. [SPEAKER_00]: Yeah. [SPEAKER_01]: I appreciate her doing that. [SPEAKER_01]: I always say this.
[SPEAKER_01]: The family members are dragged into whatever mess these people decided to be kidnappy at all. [SPEAKER_01]: Like let's say, someone like me and was like, oh, I don't want to be on camera. [SPEAKER_01]: My kid is like, Mom, I'm getting married somewhere. [SPEAKER_01]: I talk to him and I'm like, God damn it.
[SPEAKER_01]: I have to support you. [SPEAKER_00]: So then I'm going to go out and I don't be Michael's mom. [SPEAKER_00]: We're just like a member on camera with like I hate him and everything. [SPEAKER_00]: I was like, I guess so. [SPEAKER_00]: Okay. [SPEAKER_01]: Um, I do got to say for all of the thoughts in the beginning, I ended up really liking Daria just for the many times that she talked to Julia of a ledge for the many times she had good advice for the turnaround that she had because Last I knew that wasn't her type that is not who she wanted.
[SPEAKER_01]: She basically seemed like she had the ache and it seemed like [SPEAKER_01]: She really liked him, and she just seems reasonable, you know? [SPEAKER_00]: Yeah, I fully agreed. [SPEAKER_01]: So, um, they do their vows. [SPEAKER_01]: She does mention in her vows that her beautiful boy, despite all his good qualities, things he's not good enough.
[UNKNOWN]: I can't. [SPEAKER_01]: I can't. [SPEAKER_01]: I don't know. [SPEAKER_01]: I don't know. [SPEAKER_01]: But you know what? [SPEAKER_00]: Very frank. [SPEAKER_01]: This is the language that Phillip speaks. [SPEAKER_01]: She's not the ugly positive, and he's like, okay, facts, facts. [SPEAKER_01]: That's true.
[SPEAKER_00]: Yeah. [SPEAKER_00]: I know you think you suck. [SPEAKER_00]: You're all right. [SPEAKER_01]: And then she says, but I come in white telling you that you are enough for me, and I'm like, oh, that's so sweet She is being so kind and he can't stop crying. [SPEAKER_01]: And then of course his vows.
[SPEAKER_01]: He's like, I lost faith in people Wanting each other. [SPEAKER_01]: They say you have to want each other and then he just kept saying this is like this is your spouse Like last night, I'm like what did I get myself into even this morning? [SPEAKER_01]: I'm telling myself what did I get myself into?
[SPEAKER_01]: This motherfucker is going to say no, isn't he? [SPEAKER_00]: Yeah, that's what I thought. [SPEAKER_01]: And, but then he wraps it up beautifully and he goes, and now I know the answer. [SPEAKER_01]: I got myself into something insanely beautiful, something exciting, stable, and mature, and she deserves the best in the world.
[SPEAKER_01]: Felix came back even if it ends today. [SPEAKER_01]: And I'm like, I hate this guy. [SPEAKER_00]: I hate him too, and I noticed the music didn't change. [SPEAKER_00]: So the music stays like serious, like violin music with like drums and shit, I'm just like, you got to like bring in a musical crescendo when he says, but I got, no, it's like, oh God, he's gonna say no anyway, I said he.
[SPEAKER_01]: But that's crazy. [SPEAKER_01]: Just say something else, and he's like, even if it ends today. [SPEAKER_01]: Why would you even do that? [SPEAKER_00]: So, man. [SPEAKER_01]: They ask, you know, today in the laws of the Poland law, I'm making shit up, but whatever. [SPEAKER_01]: And what do you say?
[SPEAKER_01]: And Darius says, which means I didn't just say. [SPEAKER_01]: And I like Darius went first. [SPEAKER_01]: It's Phillips turn is like Philip. [SPEAKER_01]: What do you say? [SPEAKER_01]: You guys, Philip said, Doc, Philip said, I do. [SPEAKER_01]: I can't- I can't- I don't know why he did that.
[SPEAKER_00]: I can't. [SPEAKER_01]: I can't. [SPEAKER_01]: I was so surprised. [SPEAKER_01]: I cannot believe it. [SPEAKER_01]: But I do, but she can't believe it. [SPEAKER_01]: She's like, yeah. [SPEAKER_00]: like a word. [SPEAKER_01]: Yeah, so we get our first I do they go to their reception, the dancing was so cute and honestly it's a shame that his mom and his family missed this, like screw that.
[SPEAKER_00]: Yeah, yeah, this was a lovely day for everyone that was there. [SPEAKER_01]: So now I have a question. [SPEAKER_01]: This might have been later so, you know, I'm sorry for bringing it up early. [SPEAKER_01]: was he setting up at some point, right? [SPEAKER_01]: They were dancing and singing to a song.
[SPEAKER_01]: And they were singing to what did I get myself into? [SPEAKER_01]: Was it his original song? [SPEAKER_01]: Was this all promo all along? [SPEAKER_01]: Like what I do use that I don't know what is happening right now? [SPEAKER_00]: Personally, I hope so. [SPEAKER_00]: I hope this is him pulling off his Jesse Solomon and trying like launching in career based on reality show I have no idea if that's what it is like, who do you think you are what what are you trying to pull off?
[SPEAKER_00]: You're exactly. [SPEAKER_01]: Oh, well, I mean, okay. [SPEAKER_01]: They both need the words, so is it a popular phone or something? [SPEAKER_01]: But also it's just so there's a song that's what did I get myself into? [SPEAKER_01]: I mean it's a call out. [SPEAKER_00]: I'm asking is there a popular Polish song that is what did I get myself into or is it an original song because I I didn't understand what it was I hope it's a big hit over there Because that would explain why you kept on saying it over and over again like if it was if this was like 1976 or whatever And he's saying I'll be there over and over again.
[SPEAKER_00]: Oh the Jackson five song. [SPEAKER_00]: I guess that makes sense in this context I hope it's a big hit and I think this makes sense to the Polish audience because otherwise it was like you are a bummer [SPEAKER_01]: Yeah. [SPEAKER_01]: But anyways, that's how we did for them. [SPEAKER_01]: We move on to Yulita and Yasek.
[SPEAKER_01]: And Yulita shows up to her waiting in a pantsuit. [SPEAKER_01]: It's white. [SPEAKER_01]: And you know, their inner pantsuit is like a tube top that doesn't cover anything. [SPEAKER_01]: So I don't know. [SPEAKER_01]: Just hope it's natural before you do that. [SPEAKER_01]: Her sister, who's basically her twin, they're not twins, but they look like a lot.
[SPEAKER_01]: Tell her, you know, be scared, but still do it, you know? [SPEAKER_01]: Yes, success, he thinks there will be a happy ending. [SPEAKER_01]: And he wants to stay out loud that he is proud of her. [SPEAKER_01]: Um, this grown man referring to Yulita's son is still saying like he doesn't want her to get married, but as long as she's happy, I don't he's been saying this all season long that I don't get it.
[SPEAKER_01]: Yeah. [SPEAKER_01]: Like she's made it known that she doesn't want to be single. [SPEAKER_00]: Yeah. [SPEAKER_01]: He wants to be with someone and you keep saying I don't want to say, okay, you don't want to get married. [SPEAKER_01]: You wanted to date. [SPEAKER_01]: I guess maybe is it the legality of it?
[SPEAKER_01]: Like, I don't get it. [SPEAKER_00]: Can she have a boyfriend? [SPEAKER_01]: Yeah. [SPEAKER_01]: So he says he knows he knows what he wants to say, but who knows what will happen at the altar. [SPEAKER_01]: She comes down the aisle. [SPEAKER_01]: She looks so pretty. [SPEAKER_01]: I like her makeup and they will start tearing up.
[SPEAKER_01]: She tells a story of how he woke up one morning and promised to make her happy forever. [SPEAKER_01]: And it's a moment that she would never forget. [SPEAKER_01]: And everyone is crying. [SPEAKER_01]: So my pessimistic mind is like, is this emotional black male? [SPEAKER_01]: Like, you don't should dare say no to me.
[SPEAKER_01]: And like, you promise me that it may be happy forever. [SPEAKER_01]: Remember that morning? [SPEAKER_00]: Yeah, it feels that way. [SPEAKER_00]: So man, I was still half sleep. [SPEAKER_00]: I don't know what I said. [SPEAKER_01]: So before he does his vows, I think this man had a panic attack.
[SPEAKER_01]: I don't see my soul fast, but basically yes, I couldn't breathe, yes, I guess it's like, is he the one who did all that during the reveal? [SPEAKER_01]: What's it? [SPEAKER_01]: Yes, it's. [SPEAKER_00]: think it might have been. [SPEAKER_01]: Yeah, we were just like, oh, and we're like, okay, what's happening?
[SPEAKER_00]: Yeah, yeah, because she was like, you can't make those noises, man. [SPEAKER_01]: Yeah, yeah, I didn't like he couldn't breathe. [SPEAKER_01]: He was trying to catch his breath. [SPEAKER_01]: He's starting around making all his noises, trying to wipe the tears away. [SPEAKER_01]: His mom is practically praying under her breath and it's just the speed of chaos.
[SPEAKER_00]: At this point, we're gonna have to read. [SPEAKER_01]: Yeah, he was like, I can't read this man. [SPEAKER_01]: I can't do this. [SPEAKER_01]: I'm now functioning. [SPEAKER_01]: And then you need to just go over and hugs him, because you know, she's cool from a collective, no matter what happens, she just forgets this way too much emotion for me.
[SPEAKER_01]: What's happening? [SPEAKER_01]: What's she goes over and she hugs him? [SPEAKER_01]: And I'm terrible. [SPEAKER_01]: I'm just like get it together like we don't have all day to sit here and wait you like just I don't know So for me all this the atrics and stuff I'm like okay, he's gonna say no and he feels bad.
[SPEAKER_01]: So you know just say no He tells her that he is proud of her and that he demanded a lot from her So he must have been double the pressure He says he is grateful for all of this and he couldn't have chosen better and he's happy that they went through with this and thank you [SPEAKER_01]: Now, I have a, I have an unwritten rule about love as mine.
[SPEAKER_01]: When they do the vows, if someone says, thank you, that's it. [SPEAKER_00]: They're not going to say that's like a, thank you for his experience. [SPEAKER_01]: Pat your head, like, thanks, buddy. [SPEAKER_00]: You were a good stepping stone for me. [SPEAKER_01]: Thank you for being a friend.
[SPEAKER_01]: She says her vows, she says she didn't think that he could have feelings. [SPEAKER_01]: but she did, no, that she could have feelings for him when she came to this experiment, but she did, it's not gonna pick people in mind, these people that come and say, I need anything I could find someone that I could like, I think I could have said what, why would I write you here, that's the whole point.
[SPEAKER_01]: And even now, she's standing here with a broken heart, broken into a thousand pieces, and it's not how she imagined marriage, and that's why she has to say, no. [SPEAKER_01]: I believe I saw her son, Smark, but it could have been so, okay. [SPEAKER_00]: I think so. [SPEAKER_01]: He stands there, he thinks everyone, and then he walks away.
[SPEAKER_01]: Her sister follows through, and I'm like, is her sister wearing a sheer white dress? [SPEAKER_00]: Sing to be here. [SPEAKER_01]: OK, I want you to look good, but I'm like, OK, cool, cool. [SPEAKER_00]: I knew it was my ear. [SPEAKER_01]: her son goes to comfort her and she says like I'm so hurt that I have to drag you into this again so I guess they've been through breakups and at this point I just want to know if Jessica is going to say yes or no I already thought no but I just want to know because I did not expect Philip to say yes so here we are.
[SPEAKER_01]: He walks outside, takes off his jacket, and pulls off pretzel sticks that he had in there. [SPEAKER_01]: He's like, I have pretzel sticks. [SPEAKER_01]: One more snack. [SPEAKER_01]: He says it's not like there were bad times. [SPEAKER_01]: I'm like, are you there? [SPEAKER_01]: But hey, what do I know?
[SPEAKER_01]: But they just didn't click, and he would have said no. [SPEAKER_01]: And I was like, ah. [SPEAKER_01]: So, okay, she said, she said, she said, she said she feels she did because she felt strongly that he would say no. [SPEAKER_01]: They see each other, they hug, and she says like she felt like he was going to say no, and she was ashamed, and then she just didn't want to go through that.
[SPEAKER_01]: So, it felt like she wanted to say yes, but all signs were pointing towards no, and she's like, yeah, I'm not doing that. [SPEAKER_01]: And then they asked her to go first, so she's like, [SPEAKER_01]: Um, she says that he's that she feels like he's known for a long time that he was going to say no that she's not the one But he wanted to trust the experiment and dragged her along with it and The unfortunate thing is that she just kept catching feelings the more that he dragged her into it and that she could just feel the coldness and then he's like, I felt coldness from you, too Nope, it's not 10 to one up [SPEAKER_01]: But he's at he kept on so that they could say no with complete confidence that they've fully truly tried their best and You know, it won't be a what if situation, but yeah I thought they were doing well.
[SPEAKER_01]: I mean even when they had their final day, they had like a passionate kiss They were talking about stuff, but it's probably for the best, you know, I think so these these two are not compatible And I don't think either one of them is a bad person. [SPEAKER_00]: I don't think that they don't make any sense together [SPEAKER_01]: Hmm, agree.
[SPEAKER_01]: Moving over to Marta and Damien. [SPEAKER_01]: They talk about his sense of humor and her friend is just like always choose yourself. [SPEAKER_01]: And although some Damien has the medics for oxygen, I don't think I noticed the medics, maybe they were meant to be off camera, but he goes over it as some for oxygen.
[SPEAKER_01]: He puts it on. [SPEAKER_01]: He's like, I think it's blocked. [SPEAKER_01]: It's not coming out. [SPEAKER_01]: It's not working. [SPEAKER_01]: I mean, they humor him and they give him oxygen. [SPEAKER_00]: Yeah. [SPEAKER_01]: And then, you know, they walked down the aisle. [SPEAKER_01]: I thought Martin looked so great.
[SPEAKER_01]: I just wish she had better colored undergarments or bra or whatever. [SPEAKER_01]: That dress. [SPEAKER_01]: It should have been white. [SPEAKER_01]: I don't know why it was nude or whatever was meant to be, but she looked great. [SPEAKER_01]: Yeah. [SPEAKER_00]: Because it, it wasn't, I wasn't at all at any point in time.
[SPEAKER_00]: Like, I wonder if she's naked under this, which is me as the idea behind something that's like flesh colored like that. [SPEAKER_00]: I'm just like, no, I can just tell it just to, [SPEAKER_00]: No man, white would have been the only one to go. [SPEAKER_01]: Why would have it? [SPEAKER_01]: Yep, it would have.
[SPEAKER_01]: I make up a little heavy handed, but you know, I don't know. [SPEAKER_01]: I don't think you should say people because um, you least has was really nice. [SPEAKER_00]: And she looked great. [SPEAKER_01]: Yeah. [SPEAKER_01]: Um, Damien, I don't know. [SPEAKER_01]: He's so serious when he said his vows.
[SPEAKER_01]: And I'm like, oh, who is, man? [SPEAKER_01]: And I just wish he trimmed his beard more. [SPEAKER_01]: It's still like a lot was going there. [SPEAKER_01]: And then they asked them, they go to Damian first and like what say he and he says, doc, I do. [SPEAKER_01]: And then they go to Marta and I'm like, okay, she's having thoughts like she comes the note.
[SPEAKER_01]: Here he comes. [SPEAKER_01]: And she's like, [SPEAKER_00]: Yeah, hey, hey, good for y'all. [SPEAKER_01]: I don't know, I think they need time, yes. [SPEAKER_01]: I do think they're compatible. [SPEAKER_01]: I just don't know if it can rain it in. [SPEAKER_01]: And I don't know if over time it could be raining whatever it is that he does or if she's just going to be like you know what the good outweighs the bad because I really do think like he loved her so much and he just wants to be there for her but I also think that she's also eager to start her own family after all the losses and stuff so.
[SPEAKER_01]: I don't know, we'll see by the beginning. [SPEAKER_00]: Yeah, I hope they're, I hope that together rather a union, but I could, if they are, I'm going to assume there was a moment where it's like, okay, we had to have a serious conversation about like, when it's time to turn it off because you can't, I can't be married to Jim Carey at all time, essentially.
[SPEAKER_00]: Like, I need you a calm down sometimes. [SPEAKER_01]: How do you turn off something we don't even know it's on? [SPEAKER_00]: I think you point to specific examples. [SPEAKER_00]: I think you say like, when we were out at this thing, because we saw how serious he was when they like released the balloons for her mom.
[SPEAKER_00]: So like, I think there's gonna be a time where it's like this would have been an occasion where I really needed you to not do these specific things that you did that made me feel uncomfortable or made me feel out of sorts or whatever. [SPEAKER_00]: Cause he needs to, he can't read her right now.
[SPEAKER_00]: I don't know why, because I can't, I don't even know her. [SPEAKER_00]: like he needs to be able to understand when it's time to dial it back a little bit because she's not enjoying the way that you're behaving. [SPEAKER_01]: Well, you get the benefit of seeing different angles in a confessional.
[SPEAKER_01]: He does. [SPEAKER_01]: He's not to eat to that. [SPEAKER_00]: So this is very true. [SPEAKER_01]: He actually does live with her, but you know, so it takes a while. [SPEAKER_00]: Well, I am so. [SPEAKER_00]: So yeah. [SPEAKER_01]: When they say I do, his side of the family is falling apart, emotional crying.
[SPEAKER_01]: Her side doesn't seem so happy, so I don't know what that's about. [SPEAKER_01]: Um, I'm sure this was for your sake, Ryan. [SPEAKER_01]: He does call her a monkey multiple times. [SPEAKER_00]: Sure does, at the altar, man. [SPEAKER_00]: Like, would you, she has a name. [SPEAKER_00]: He's called her by her name.
[SPEAKER_01]: She liked it because he said it. [SPEAKER_01]: She does. [SPEAKER_01]: I can't believe it. [SPEAKER_01]: Oh my god. [SPEAKER_00]: I hate it. [SPEAKER_00]: I hate it so much. [SPEAKER_01]: They go to the reception. [SPEAKER_01]: They're cute. [SPEAKER_01]: They do a Polish tradition with bread and salt and they take a shot and then you throw the glass over their shoulders and then you dance.
[SPEAKER_01]: I don't know why nobody else did it. [SPEAKER_01]: They're the only ones or maybe they didn't want to show it to us multiple times and they wanted to show it with Marta and Damian, but it was cute and then they do like a LOV dance and it's like, oh, oh, there we are so. [SPEAKER_00]: It was very cute.
[SPEAKER_00]: It was a very cute. [SPEAKER_00]: Again, I was the head and showed me that that first impression of him that tainted everything for me, but this was very cute. [SPEAKER_01]: Well, get over it, Brian. [SPEAKER_01]: You raised those memories and make new ones about Damian. [SPEAKER_00]: I hope she doesn't have kids who soon get all stretched out and loose.
[SPEAKER_00]: Like this was what that's what you said. [SPEAKER_01]: That's not Brian. [SPEAKER_01]: Damian said you got to put it out there. [SPEAKER_01]: Damian said it's. [SPEAKER_00]: Damian said it and they forced me to watch him say it. [SPEAKER_01]: Okay. [SPEAKER_01]: We have our final couple, Camille and Julia.
[SPEAKER_01]: Julia found out on their wedding day, or the night before, that Camille cheated on his long-term partner for a very long time with another lady, and then said dating the person that he cheated on with. [SPEAKER_01]: she said she found out from the source who the source be the person that he was close with okay these people in their secrets we're watching love is blind and we have secrets okay how mom and her best friend show up and i'm like listen Julia if you're planning on saying yes please don't tell them what you found out last night but we know she can help herself [SPEAKER_01]: She's gonna tell them everything because she hasn't realized that these people are her ops, but you know, whatever How mom's name is kinga as well and I it made me think like is this a case?
[SPEAKER_01]: Like is it like common well there are common names, but it's not as big as the U.S. where Did you're more likely like in a room of three people having like the same name because we even had like multiple people being Camille multiple people being kinga So it's like is it just [SPEAKER_00]: Uh, I will say I did go to high school with a Polish girl named Kanga.
[SPEAKER_00]: Oh, she's half Polish, half Mexican, so her last name was Mexican, but her first name was Kanga. [SPEAKER_01]: So then the other question I have is like, I got a bunch of multiple people telling me that, um, Julia is Romani Romani and, you know, the gypsy. [SPEAKER_00]: Okay. [SPEAKER_00]: Yeah.
[SPEAKER_01]: So, do other Romani names or do they still also still just have Polish names? [SPEAKER_01]: Does that make sense when I'm asking? [SPEAKER_00]: Yeah, no, so I guess I don't know. [SPEAKER_00]: But what, um, the punky or... Like nicknames? [SPEAKER_00]: Yeah, yeah, yeah. [SPEAKER_00]: There are some things where they're real names on the show.
[SPEAKER_00]: Yeah. [SPEAKER_01]: So that's what I'm wondering, is it like, is it her dad that is maybe Julius half? [SPEAKER_01]: Romney because again, we've seen the other kanga who has the traditional pull this look and her mom's also ping and so I don't know that was the other question that I have um how mom is like well she tells her mom everything that happened and she's like her mom says um he'll do it again and it's not going to get better and he's terrible like he came here with a girl and you need someone that respects you [SPEAKER_01]: But I'm like, you hate everyone.
[SPEAKER_01]: So no one respects her. [SPEAKER_01]: So I'm like, what is she supposed to do? [SPEAKER_01]: And also what was his goal? [SPEAKER_01]: That's what I wanted to know. [SPEAKER_01]: Like when you say he came here with a goal, what was his goal? [SPEAKER_01]: I don't know if they're flying.
[SPEAKER_00]: He wanted to be on TV. [SPEAKER_01]: That's what I was doing over there. [SPEAKER_01]: Do they find more fame after? [SPEAKER_00]: I don't know. [SPEAKER_00]: Perhaps. [SPEAKER_00]: Yeah. [SPEAKER_01]: Okay, they tell her that, you know, I'm seeing this nicer than her mom did. [SPEAKER_01]: How mom is like, you are sensitive, you're delicate.
[SPEAKER_01]: Like, you know, basically they can run over you because you're you're pushed over. [SPEAKER_01]: Like, she won't, that you're not going to be happy with him. [SPEAKER_01]: Like, just end this. [SPEAKER_01]: I don't know what you're doing. [SPEAKER_01]: She's like, I'm telling you my last words.
[SPEAKER_01]: I don't like him. [SPEAKER_01]: I don't want you to marry him. [SPEAKER_01]: and then she leaves and then we see Julia sobbing like her makeup is already done but she's crying crying and they're adding like a soap opera because it's dramatic we were playing in the background and the hairdressers or stylists are just doing her hair like she is like she's literally sobbing and no one's like are you okay?
[SPEAKER_01]: they're just like what do we do? [SPEAKER_01]: do we just we're gonna schedule it? [SPEAKER_01]: we're here like this is so [SPEAKER_01]: And then we see Camille talking to his dad, I believe, or brother, one of them. [SPEAKER_01]: And that's when I realized Brian, he doesn't know what she found out.
[SPEAKER_00]: No, he has no idea, he's in the dark. [SPEAKER_01]: Oh no, they talked about it, and then they're like, we're still gonna move her head. [SPEAKER_01]: But then he was talking to them like this man has no idea what this girl found out. [SPEAKER_01]: So she found out, says she found out from a source, did not think that it might be smart to talk it over with the person that she claims to want to spend the rest of her life with and just took it as truth and moved them with her like, oh my God, that's crazy.
[SPEAKER_00]: at a minimum, be like, hey, is this true or not? [SPEAKER_01]: That is crazy. [SPEAKER_00]: Yeah. [SPEAKER_01]: She says she still doesn't know what she's going to say because she can't snap away her feelings. [SPEAKER_01]: Her intuition tells her to say no, but she can't snap away her feelings for him overnight.
[SPEAKER_01]: And again, she's crying. [SPEAKER_01]: She's been crying all morning. [SPEAKER_01]: Um, can we walk out into the crowd in the church? [SPEAKER_01]: He does not know that he's walking into the lion's den. [SPEAKER_01]: He walks out there, [SPEAKER_01]: He thinks everyone for being there, for being supportive, for all that.
[SPEAKER_01]: I'm like, that is crazy. [SPEAKER_01]: You put him in a situation where everyone's looking at him as this big bad guy. [SPEAKER_01]: And he has just oblivious. [SPEAKER_00]: Look at idiot. [SPEAKER_00]: That's crazy. [SPEAKER_01]: They have a lot of flowers. [SPEAKER_01]: I don't think I noticed the favorite one else.
[SPEAKER_01]: They had like this purple flowers. [SPEAKER_01]: Every purple on white flowers. [SPEAKER_01]: So she gives her vows and or she said thank you in her vows. [SPEAKER_00]: So they asked. [SPEAKER_01]: So do you say I do and they start with Julia and Julia is like, you know, I can't. [SPEAKER_01]: And her mom single handedly uploads.
[SPEAKER_01]: When it started I'm like, oh, the applause feels in bad taste like that doesn't mean yes Like his sisters are shocked because remember the sister was already crying saying like, you know I'm scared he doesn't deserve to be heard again I don't know what's happening but the mom applause and is smiling even if she's yeah Honey, maybe the best friend Marlena did too.
[SPEAKER_01]: Yeah There's no explanation. [SPEAKER_01]: She doesn't say no I don't this and it just says no and she walks away and leave [SPEAKER_01]: And Julia's like, you know, maybe I just won't love so much that I'm cleaning into anything. [SPEAKER_01]: And I'm just, you did not discuss with this.
[SPEAKER_01]: I'm still in shock because I just have the realization before she walked out that she did not discuss this with the man she claims that she loves and is her fiance and she wants to spend the rest of her life. [SPEAKER_00]: I'm waiting for the reunion when they bring it up. [SPEAKER_00]: And he's like, this woman has been trying to ruin every relationship that I've been in for the last three years.
[SPEAKER_00]: Like, this is what she does. [SPEAKER_00]: And if she would have come to me, I could have shown her all the receipts of like different times that she's done this nothing. [SPEAKER_00]: Just like, no, you are a cheater and I am out of here. [SPEAKER_01]: that's crazy. [SPEAKER_01]: We have seen that she's been emotionally immature, but this was the icing on the cake.
[SPEAKER_00]: Well, not absolutely. [SPEAKER_00]: This was the... No. [SPEAKER_00]: The show cake. [SPEAKER_01]: Yeah. [SPEAKER_00]: The diary of a cake. [SPEAKER_01]: Ew! [SPEAKER_01]: Ew! [SPEAKER_01]: So, um, they talk, they get together and he says, what had to happen for her to say, I do. [SPEAKER_01]: And she says, I don't know, maybe they asked you first, and you know, I've always said this.
[SPEAKER_01]: Your feeling should not depend on what the other person is going to say. [SPEAKER_01]: Like, stop. [SPEAKER_00]: No. [SPEAKER_01]: Um, she asked him if he was sure of his decision. [SPEAKER_01]: And he's like, why are you asking? [SPEAKER_01]: Like, it's not like you were thinking about my decision.
[SPEAKER_01]: It made no difference. [SPEAKER_01]: And then she brings up the cheating thing. [SPEAKER_01]: He's so confused. [SPEAKER_01]: Like he saw in his face and he's like, what, what are you saying? [SPEAKER_01]: What are you talking about? [SPEAKER_01]: And he cannot make accusations of me like that.
[SPEAKER_01]: And he's like, who did he hear this from? [SPEAKER_01]: He's like, she's like, oh, from someone that's close to you. [SPEAKER_01]: And he's like, I won't engage in gossip. [SPEAKER_01]: I'm not doing this. [SPEAKER_01]: Like, I didn't do it. [SPEAKER_01]: I don't want to talk about it. [SPEAKER_01]: Like, this is out of context.
[SPEAKER_01]: Like, chapter close. [SPEAKER_01]: And then I was like, wait, is he lying? [SPEAKER_01]: Or is he telling to truth? [SPEAKER_01]: Because, [SPEAKER_01]: out of context is a damning statement to say he don't protest loudly and too much think yeah so it was happening right now so I don't know it was just it was crazy he's like if you wanted to insult me you wanted to make me feel bad you have succeeded and it gets up [SPEAKER_01]: He walks away, he leaves, he slams the door.
[SPEAKER_01]: She goes behind him, they're in close doors, but they're still mic'd, thank God. [SPEAKER_01]: And then he says, like, you just did the worst thing that you could do to me. [SPEAKER_01]: And then he's like, I need to be alone. [SPEAKER_01]: Then you fell for a lie. [SPEAKER_01]: I didn't do it.
[SPEAKER_01]: And then she's like, okay, just did you do it? [SPEAKER_01]: Did you not? [SPEAKER_01]: He's like, how many times? [SPEAKER_01]: I told you that I did not do it. [SPEAKER_01]: But these are the questions that you should have had before him. [SPEAKER_01]: Like, what? [SPEAKER_00]: Yeah. [SPEAKER_01]: See, but this is where the groundwork her mom had laid.
[SPEAKER_00]: Exactly. [SPEAKER_01]: Was there? [SPEAKER_01]: And she was looking for an out and she's like, oh, this is it, mom was right. [SPEAKER_01]: And then it's, that's it. [SPEAKER_01]: Like I just feel that some kind of sick imbalance with a mom wants to be the one picking up the pieces and like you can't count on it, anyone except me.
[SPEAKER_00]: Yeah. [SPEAKER_00]: No, it feels like an unhealthy relationship, perhaps codependency, but it doesn't, it doesn't [SPEAKER_01]: And don't ask me why, but I think this ties into why she's child, like the bulls and the hair, the tendrons, the mood up and down and it's like you're going to want to be white and you're like you're the best thing baby, you're like the awesome thing you do no wrong and it's like, just me only mama and the people like this is just something yeah, the whole thing so.
[SPEAKER_01]: There are much later, it seems like they have a conversation because she's in different clothes, maybe her party clothes that she was going to wear and he's taking off his talks and everything. [SPEAKER_01]: And he's like, this is what happened. [SPEAKER_01]: We had breaks. [SPEAKER_01]: We had many breaks where we broke up.
[SPEAKER_01]: Like the first four years in the relationship was good. [SPEAKER_01]: The last four years not so great. [SPEAKER_01]: So we were talking eight years. [SPEAKER_01]: And then we became that break. [SPEAKER_01]: And during the breaks, we could do whatever we wanted, granted. [SPEAKER_01]: If you watch friends, we were in a break.
[SPEAKER_01]: Ross is like, we can do whatever. [SPEAKER_01]: Rachel is like, I don't care if we were in a break. [SPEAKER_01]: We're together and we're taking a break. [SPEAKER_01]: Doesn't mean you should go fill in the breaks with another woman. [SPEAKER_01]: So that's what he says that happened. [SPEAKER_01]: And he asked like, why would you believe Gossip Over Facts?
[SPEAKER_01]: And he tells her like, I just want you to know that my intentions with you were very genuine. [SPEAKER_01]: And she goes, hmm. [SPEAKER_01]: And he's like, wait, wait, like, hmm. [SPEAKER_01]: And he's like, okay. [SPEAKER_01]: And then I think she laughed a little bit and I was like, oh, you're laughed.
[SPEAKER_01]: That's disrespectful. [SPEAKER_01]: And then he's very disappointed. [SPEAKER_01]: Like, which is her the best? [SPEAKER_01]: And thank you for the conversation. [SPEAKER_01]: And then he leaves. [SPEAKER_00]: Yeah, he's he's very hurt by this. [SPEAKER_01]: Yeah. [SPEAKER_00]: You know, he shows he's he's not behaving, you know, rationally.
[SPEAKER_00]: He's acting out of emotion right now because like he obviously thought this was going to go one way and for it to not only not go that way, but to not go that way from something that completely blindsided him that would make anybody I think a little bit short with somebody. [SPEAKER_01]: I think the other part of it is like not wanting it to be on camera because it's going to live forever now.
[SPEAKER_01]: And it's almost like you never know, again, not getting in the benefit of that because we don't know. [SPEAKER_01]: When we get to reunion because sometimes these people will just act one way and then we find out like they're a whole other personality. [SPEAKER_01]: On the other side, what is true or what is not, but I think he just didn't want that to come out.
[SPEAKER_01]: But also, like, I'm listening to that podcast, the Love Trap podcast, where Clayton the Bachelor. [SPEAKER_01]: And it's like, everyone just figured, like, you were the villain on the Bachelor. [SPEAKER_01]: So, of course, you're in the wrong and you're the villain and you're the bad guy.
[SPEAKER_01]: But, [SPEAKER_01]: She was basically a woman scorned. [SPEAKER_01]: It's like you didn't want to date me so I'm gonna ruin your life So there is that possibility that that's happening because we now have people who are playing into that like, you know, believe me Like I'm not lying, but I We never know I can I'm more focused on the fact that [SPEAKER_01]: It's not wrong for you to make that decision that, hey, there's even the possibility that this man cheated.
[SPEAKER_01]: I don't want to be remotely associated with something. [SPEAKER_01]: That's fine. [SPEAKER_01]: Like you do what you want to accept to make. [SPEAKER_01]: Go be your mama, but not having a conversation. [SPEAKER_01]: That's crazy. [SPEAKER_01]: That's that's what it's saying. [SPEAKER_00]: To make this decision based on one person's testimony without talking to your partner at all is rash.
[SPEAKER_01]: Yeah. [SPEAKER_01]: Like on Sweden, we had a couple where it seemed like there were sure, yes, she was like, oh, I can imagine my life, but on the day of the wedding, she pulled him out and they had a conversation out there as before they actually had the wedding. [SPEAKER_01]: So like, let's say you were still processing the night before, but the day of the wedding like, hey, before I walked down the aisle, I have to have this conversation with you.
[SPEAKER_01]: So like you also know, blindsided. [SPEAKER_01]: Like if I say no, it's because last night someone reached out to me and there's so unclear about how this happened. [SPEAKER_01]: because if someone finds out that your participant in love is blind and they're like, oh, hell, no, I'm going to ruin your life.
[SPEAKER_01]: A U D M her. [SPEAKER_01]: The timing of it is very suspicious that you have to be like, okay, why isn't somebody I don't talk to? [SPEAKER_01]: I'm sending you something now. [SPEAKER_01]: Why do you think that person has your best interests at heart? [SPEAKER_01]: So again, it's fine to get the information, but if you say that you have feelings for this man, have a conversation and then [SPEAKER_00]: and absolutely talk to him.
[SPEAKER_00]: Yeah. [SPEAKER_01]: Yeah. [SPEAKER_01]: So, um, I mean, that was it, but how mom got into her head, but he got saved from an immature person regardless of what the situation was and. [SPEAKER_00]: Right. [SPEAKER_01]: That was it, you know, for the weddings, um, they do like a little round robbing, Yulita says, like, you know, she's still open, you know, for love.
[SPEAKER_01]: And I'm like, I hope you are and I hope you've gone it because I don't know. [SPEAKER_01]: I mean, the beauty of doing a reality TV is that you get to watch [SPEAKER_00]: You see things in yourself, he didn't know where they're. [SPEAKER_01]: Yeah. [SPEAKER_01]: Yes, X says like he just really didn't want to hurt her.
[SPEAKER_01]: It was the best decision, but he just didn't want to hurt her. [SPEAKER_01]: And Camille says like he knows he's going to find the one. [SPEAKER_01]: And I fully expect Camille to be like, I'm dating someone. [SPEAKER_01]: And we've been dating by the reunion. [SPEAKER_01]: Yeah. [SPEAKER_01]: Like dating for a while.
[SPEAKER_00]: And you know, I'm engaged. [SPEAKER_00]: She's so much better. [SPEAKER_01]: we have had a pregnancy for the last Europeans like Sweden we had a pregnancy by the reunion so they do end with Mata and Damian and their love is blind, personalized song that they said. [SPEAKER_01]: Yes. [SPEAKER_01]: So [SPEAKER_01]: You know, it was a great season.
[SPEAKER_01]: I will. [SPEAKER_01]: It was great. [SPEAKER_00]: It was a great first half of the season. [SPEAKER_00]: The pods I thought were very good and the grease part of it that was very good. [SPEAKER_01]: Yeah. [SPEAKER_00]: Things tapered off after that. [SPEAKER_00]: But this was one of my favorite pods because I got what I wanted.
[SPEAKER_00]: I got a love rhombus that was messy his health. [SPEAKER_01]: Yeah, um, I just think the European love is mine just need to throw in some love in there. [SPEAKER_01]: Like at the end, they all act like they don't want to be with each other. [SPEAKER_01]: So whenever they do get married, I'm surprised because the story telling is not that great.
[SPEAKER_01]: And I'm like, oh wait, you, you actually like teach other. [SPEAKER_01]: Yeah, could have fooled me. [SPEAKER_00]: That part's better. [SPEAKER_01]: Yeah, so that's it. [SPEAKER_01]: So, all right, any last thoughts? [SPEAKER_00]: No, no, I think this was, this is, you know, I'm waiting for South Africa to ever come out.
[SPEAKER_00]: That's my only thought this point. [SPEAKER_01]: I don't know, Netflix is telling me that Netherlands is coming up next and I'm like, give us South Africa. [SPEAKER_01]: I wonder if they started South Africa and everyone was just like, no, we don't like each other and they broke up and they have South from scratch.
[SPEAKER_01]: I just, I don't know. [SPEAKER_01]: We got no engagements. [SPEAKER_01]: So, or it could be a case where they're not promoting it, and next we know that we like coming up in two weeks. [SPEAKER_01]: Love us next time. [SPEAKER_00]: Yeah. [SPEAKER_00]: Do you have a lot of that? [SPEAKER_00]: So who knows?
[SPEAKER_00]: Yeah. [SPEAKER_00]: So we'll see. [SPEAKER_01]: Okay. [SPEAKER_01]: Um, reading is coming out on Sunday. [SPEAKER_01]: So we are going to cover that and that should be out. [SPEAKER_01]: It's next week for that. [SPEAKER_01]: So, okay. [SPEAKER_01]: Thanks guys. [SPEAKER_01]: We'll talk to you next time.