Love is Blind Sweden - Season 3 Eps. 10-11

[SPEAKER_00]: Hi everybody, welcome to another episode of Altacol. [SPEAKER_00]: I'm your host Tane. [SPEAKER_00]: Today we're going to be talking about love is blind Sweden season 3 episodes 10 and 11 aka the wedding episodes. [SPEAKER_00]: Usually I don't cover the wedding episodes for love is blind but this people.

[SPEAKER_00]: They have a lot going on and we barely even had a wedding. [SPEAKER_00]: In fact, look, guys, we have one wedding, which is one better than I thought was even going to happen. [SPEAKER_00]: So I have to cover this and I have to talk about this. [SPEAKER_00]: So before I go into that, a little housekeeping reminding you that if you'd like to support the pod, [SPEAKER_00]: I do have a patreon patreon.com slash autocoll mfs where you can get bonus episodes at free episodes and you can also get episodes early some bonus episodes up there 90 day fiancee is up there [SPEAKER_00]: Richardson part two is up there.

[SPEAKER_00]: The E version sorry part one of Richardson is up there, but it's unlock now on the regular feed. [SPEAKER_00]: The E version of the tower doc is also there dirty rotten scandals and most recently inside the man is fair with Brian is also up there reminding you that on the regular feed going to be covering welcome to Placville.

[SPEAKER_00]: that is premiering on April 1st. [SPEAKER_00]: You guys are watching Loves Blanc Sweden, and I love it. [SPEAKER_00]: I got some comments this week. [SPEAKER_00]: Thank you to Sophie D for sharing a fun fact that Angelica's friends, if you remember Julia and Samar, who came together, and I think I had said, [SPEAKER_00]: I don't know if they were friends or if they were a couple, but they were a couple.

[SPEAKER_00]: She says that they are married now and that Samir is actually a big celebrity in Sweden because he's done like reality shows, TV, singing, and game shows. [SPEAKER_00]: And I'm like, huh, that's very interesting. [SPEAKER_00]: I'd also kind of give me a little insight on Angelica because I think I said, like, I'm not sure.

[SPEAKER_00]: If she's fully here, just for the cloud, I'm not quite sure, but we'll see. [SPEAKER_00]: I'll tell you guys what happened this episode. [SPEAKER_00]: I'm also confirmed that a toast master is kind of like an MC, but it is a lot of work and a lot of like. [SPEAKER_00]: wrangling that has to be done at events.

[SPEAKER_00]: Also, thank you to Karen B for telling me that Daniel, our beloved, Daniel, I'm saying that sarcastically, has been on several Swedish TV shows before, so she doesn't think that he's here for love. [SPEAKER_00]: He was on a show that was like Jersey Shore, but on a smaller scale in 2011, [SPEAKER_00]: and basically just go out and party on a smaller town.

[SPEAKER_00]: He's also been on like a cooking show. [SPEAKER_00]: I was wondering like if he's done those like has does he know some hair? [SPEAKER_00]: I mean they didn't cross paths but maybe in the circuit the reality show circuit. [SPEAKER_00]: But also the question is if you know Daniel has done a couple of reality shows, why did you cast it?

[SPEAKER_00]: Like what about him made him authentic or was it stunt casting? [SPEAKER_00]: I don't know the level of his celebrity so maybe they were just trying to bring some [SPEAKER_00]: publicity to the show. [SPEAKER_00]: I don't know, but it's just quite interesting that they would go that route.

[SPEAKER_00]: All right. [SPEAKER_00]: We are picking up what we left off with Denne Leona and him saying that he'd rather be in the military than being this experience. [SPEAKER_00]: So she confront him and was like, oh, so you'd rather be in the military. [SPEAKER_00]: And he was like, [SPEAKER_00]: No, I said, I would rather do that than being this experiment.

[SPEAKER_00]: Like we didn't hear what he just said. [SPEAKER_00]: He says like he's just being honest, but the thing is that she's part of the package and she's worth it so it's okay. [SPEAKER_00]: I don't know why Danielle think it's okay to say terrible things and then quickly like think that you're smoothing it over.

[SPEAKER_00]: And that's okay. [SPEAKER_00]: It would regardless of what you said before you're supposed to just forget what he just said. [SPEAKER_00]: As always, they're eating. [SPEAKER_00]: Again, I don't know if this has always been the case, but they're eating a lot in this season, but mainly because they're stressed, so they're just eating their feelings.

[SPEAKER_00]: So he brings up talking about the recording. [SPEAKER_00]: If you guys remember, he had told her not to bring it up, but she went ahead and told her friends. [SPEAKER_00]: She told Rania and Angelica, [SPEAKER_00]: and they just want straight to him and Daniel is obsessed like looking like the good guys.

[SPEAKER_00]: So he's really upset that this came up. [SPEAKER_00]: He says we agreed not to, but you came up and talked about the recording. [SPEAKER_00]: His fixator on the fact that it was her idea, but anybody with a brain can understand that she meant it's flippantly. [SPEAKER_00]: Like you're just talking to someone and you're like, oh my god, we're just talking in circles.

[SPEAKER_00]: We don't understand each other. [SPEAKER_00]: We should record each other. [SPEAKER_00]: We should probably record each other and listen to this. [SPEAKER_00]: And then maybe we'll make sense. [SPEAKER_00]: She didn't literally mean hit record and listen to what we just said and then do it in a weird way.

[SPEAKER_00]: And also when it was hitting record, you didn't go ahead and say, okay, I'm just going to hit record and maybe that is a good idea. [SPEAKER_00]: You recorded her for an hour secretly and then afterwards you're like, ha, Gacha, I was recording you and this is what you said. [SPEAKER_00]: He rambles on for what feels like forever because Daniel doesn't know how to have a conversation, a conversation meaning that the other person has to talk, meaning that he has to pause, and let the other person say something, and then he responds to what that person says.

[SPEAKER_00]: No, Daniel just goes on and on and on, that she made him look like he was a crazy person, that he didn't say that it was high idea, that it doesn't matter what he did, they should land in love. [SPEAKER_00]: And then, like I told you guys earlier, [SPEAKER_00]: He's like, well, I'm falling in love with you.

[SPEAKER_00]: I'm like 10 hell. [SPEAKER_00]: I just, you literally just said that you'd rather be in the military. [SPEAKER_00]: And now I'm supposed to believe that you're falling in love with her. [SPEAKER_00]: You look miserable all the time. [SPEAKER_00]: She looks miserable all the time. [SPEAKER_00]: What is she supposed to do with that information?

[SPEAKER_00]: You had as light as all the way off. [SPEAKER_00]: It's not deemed as all the way off. [SPEAKER_00]: And she just looks miserable and it's like, you know what? [SPEAKER_00]: I'm going to go visit my mom. [SPEAKER_00]: This man is like, why we're not fighting? [SPEAKER_00]: And I think I don't know, do we have a case of a rest of development here?

[SPEAKER_00]: Because he doesn't want to tap into his emotions. [SPEAKER_00]: He doesn't want to live in reality. [SPEAKER_00]: He thinks he's going to create his own reality. [SPEAKER_00]: And he says all these words and think that because he says it, it's real. [SPEAKER_00]: Like they were squabbling.

[SPEAKER_00]: He was accusing her of things of making him look bad. [SPEAKER_00]: How is he saying that they're not fighting? [SPEAKER_00]: Because this is what he was [SPEAKER_00]: He thinks that they're just talking and disagreeing, but she calls it a fight and everything is a fight. [SPEAKER_00]: But that's because after the time you're the one talking, you're not listening to her.

[SPEAKER_00]: So she starts packing her stuff and he follows her for a bit, but then he leaves her and then he goes to make a call again. [SPEAKER_00]: And I've like, yeah, I don't know why you're on it, still here, she needs to go. [SPEAKER_00]: Um, after a while, we see that Johanna has texted Daniel and told him that they need to talk.

[SPEAKER_00]: She's meeting up with him at like a outdoor, I think like a cafe or something. [SPEAKER_00]: Before he comes, she's so nervous. [SPEAKER_00]: Her legs are shaking. [SPEAKER_00]: Like, she's bouncing her legs up and down. [SPEAKER_00]: So you know that she's anxious. [SPEAKER_00]: Daniel comes and is telling us that everything was fine since the engagement party.

[SPEAKER_00]: So he's not sure what's going on. [SPEAKER_00]: So he sits down and she tells him that she tries to tell him that. [SPEAKER_00]: They've had too many bumps in their relationship and such a short while. [SPEAKER_00]: And he's like, yeah, but we've had good moments too. [SPEAKER_00]: And she's like, yeah, okay.

[SPEAKER_00]: She's like, you're a beautiful person, but I can't do this anymore. [SPEAKER_00]: Like, finally, free yourself of this shackles. [SPEAKER_00]: Like, go back to Australia and be happy. [SPEAKER_00]: Like, Daniel is not the one. [SPEAKER_00]: If you guys remember who she really wanted was Ebay, Ibrahim.

[SPEAKER_00]: And [SPEAKER_00]: He dumped her and went to Anila and then she wanted to leave, but they convinced her to stay and give Daniel a chance. [SPEAKER_00]: I also think that the lead is the season, give really terrible advice. [SPEAKER_00]: I wish it wasn't so, but when someone's made up their mind, they keep trying to course you into doing something different, and I don't understand why.

[SPEAKER_00]: So Daniel is crying, I don't know if it's real or if it's fake, and he's saying that he's so sad that she feels that way, but if he wasn't enough, like, yeah, who was me, that he can perform magic, and it's nothing he can do. [SPEAKER_00]: they can do magic tricks, but not here. [SPEAKER_00]: And I'm like, hmm, okay.

[SPEAKER_00]: She says she's grateful for their time. [SPEAKER_00]: He keeps saying I'm gonna miss you so much. [SPEAKER_00]: But when a woman's fed up, she's truly fed up and she's done and she's so moved. [SPEAKER_00]: And she's like, yeah, okay. [SPEAKER_00]: She drops the ring on the table, says I'm going to leave this here, and when she leaves, she holds herself, but when she leaves, and she's outside, she completely breaks down, and then she starts crying.

[SPEAKER_00]: But honestly, I think it was tears of relief, like she's been holding so much on her shoulders and just putting up with this man's bullshit. [SPEAKER_00]: That this is probably just a sign of relief. [SPEAKER_00]: Yes, she might feel like she failed and she probably should have just gone home when she wanted to But it's okay.

[SPEAKER_00]: It's all done now. [SPEAKER_00]: She said she doesn't feel good about what happened, but it's what's best The relationship doesn't make her feel good. [SPEAKER_00]: So she doesn't have to keep up with it. [SPEAKER_00]: She said she is glad that she tried He says that he doesn't feel good and it's like down another one that didn't work [SPEAKER_00]: that he probably could have been better at communicating and he did try his hardest.

[SPEAKER_00]: He does throw in that you want to, the test of the fact that I did try my hardest. [SPEAKER_00]: She knows that I did. [SPEAKER_00]: I was like, does she though, and that he even asked AI how he can become more emotional and AI was like, yeah, even I can help you with that one. [SPEAKER_00]: I don't know if he thought he was being funny with that, but there's a pattern for those of you who watch some of my house.

[SPEAKER_00]: He would recall that, um, [SPEAKER_00]: Craig, instead of seeing an actual therapist, went to AI and says he had a great therapy session with AI. [SPEAKER_00]: So it's like, please, just do the actual work and stop saying it. [SPEAKER_00]: And AI does not equal like actual valid therapy.

[SPEAKER_00]: So I don't know how a man at 42 is not embarrassed to see this out loud from his mouth. [SPEAKER_00]: From his brain, out of his mouth, [SPEAKER_00]: Well, international television with a straight face to say that he tried his hardest and his hardest involved asking AI to help him. [SPEAKER_00]: That's insane.

[SPEAKER_00]: He's so annoying. [SPEAKER_00]: Well, I'm glad that's the last of it. [SPEAKER_00]: He does have a great head of hair, though. [SPEAKER_00]: I will say that. [SPEAKER_00]: Loss, Eric, and Brania, [SPEAKER_00]: They are talking about after the engagement party and they're both praising Ibrahim and Anila and saying how they're so great and they're a short thing at this time.

[SPEAKER_00]: I'm gonna talk about them, but Ibrahim and Anila are going through their own bumps right now. [SPEAKER_00]: They have no idea what is going on. [SPEAKER_00]: So Lars Eric and Rania are just saying good things about them. [SPEAKER_00]: She asked Lars Eric how it was to see Dunnet. [SPEAKER_00]: and he says that he's not thinking about it that you know it was a connection that he had now he has the connection that he wants to be with and he has a woman in front of him that he wants to explore and that he wants to focus on.

[SPEAKER_00]: So it's not really a thing. [SPEAKER_00]: He does tell us that [SPEAKER_00]: It was easy going with Darnette, but he's committed to making work with Rania, but he has a feeling that Rania does not want this and it just feels like she's one foot in one foot out. [SPEAKER_00]: I mean, I will say Rania kept saying things like, we have been easy, easier with her.

[SPEAKER_00]: like, you know, things about with the faith, yes, it would have been easier, unless Eric does admit that, but he's just like, but, you know, I'm with you. [SPEAKER_00]: So I'm here now and that's the commitment to this new point looking into the past, which is the right approach that there was a connection.

[SPEAKER_00]: What are we looking into the past for? [SPEAKER_00]: Like, what is that going to do? [SPEAKER_00]: I still, again, feel that Rania is looking for her way out and just doesn't know how to do it. [SPEAKER_00]: So speaking of Abraham and Anila, and they let things that Johanna and Daniel are alike because they're both hard nuts to crack, but I kind of feel like Daniel is a hard nut to crack because he's not deep and he's just shallow and Johanna is just a hard nut to crack because she's with the wrong partner and she's miserable and she's trying to manage her emotions internally and when they're out and also Daniel's emotions.

[SPEAKER_00]: So there's nothing to say and when she does open up, you guys give her a bad advice by saying that. [SPEAKER_00]: you believe Daniel and now he's in it to work for it's a why which he opened up to that. [SPEAKER_00]: So she brings up Ibrahim moving because he did say that he was going to move and he's like yeah I hope I move and she's like excuse me he's like yeah I need to find a job and she was like you're a doctor you can find a job anywhere and then he says like he has to finish residency and he doesn't even know if he's going to be done by August.

[SPEAKER_00]: And that, you know, this is making it, she's making it difficult for him because she promised that she wouldn't stress him about it. [SPEAKER_00]: I'm just like, oh, what is happening? [SPEAKER_00]: I don't think I knew that he was doing his residency. [SPEAKER_00]: I also don't know if it's just a translation.

[SPEAKER_00]: And if that means something different in Sweden, because [SPEAKER_00]: Yeah, that makes sense. [SPEAKER_00]: He has to, he can't move in the middle of his residency. [SPEAKER_00]: So, what are we talking about? [SPEAKER_00]: Because he told her that he would be done by August. [SPEAKER_00]: Now he's saying like it might be longer and it might be in February.

[SPEAKER_00]: And so, she's taking a back by, I thought we had a plan. [SPEAKER_00]: I thought we had a time and now you're back peddling and he's like, well, I'm the one making the move. [SPEAKER_00]: So, clearly this man does not want to move, but I'm just, [SPEAKER_00]: Don't make big promises in the pot.

[SPEAKER_00]: Like I said, I feel like everyone just wants to go on the getaway, because just be realistic so you can work through it. [SPEAKER_00]: People are usually like flexible, but everyone is saying all this big things. [SPEAKER_00]: Remember he was scared of losing her. [SPEAKER_00]: after he dumped Johanna and you're making all this big thing so that she believes in this echo can I'm gonna pick him because he wants to do it and now you want to backpettle yes one could argue that the reality and the gravity of everything hit him later but then again be honest about this like this is all very overwhelming I think I'm willing to move but [SPEAKER_00]: It's just stop making big promises because you don't know how you're going to feel later on.

[SPEAKER_00]: So then he throws it at her, like you're not the one that has to turn your life around. [SPEAKER_00]: Then I'm like, see, I don't like that. [SPEAKER_00]: If you're going to do something, do it, but don't keep throwing at in her face. [SPEAKER_00]: Are you going to do that forever? [SPEAKER_00]: When something happens and you say, well, I'm the one who gave up my life.

[SPEAKER_00]: And you're not the one who did this, like, just you made that choice, you told her, and she made a choice to choose you based on the fact that you were willing to move. [SPEAKER_00]: But also guys, if he's doing his residency, how is he able to take this much time off? [SPEAKER_00]: Because you do have to take time off for all of the things, for the pods, for the getaway, for the living together.

[SPEAKER_00]: And I'm just, well, I want to know. [SPEAKER_00]: I want to know the logic of that. [SPEAKER_00]: Well, how that works for him to take time off of medical school. [SPEAKER_00]: I just always thought like, medical school was so rigid. [SPEAKER_00]: So you can't do all this in and out. [SPEAKER_00]: So yeah, okay.

[SPEAKER_00]: So Anila says like this big feelings. [SPEAKER_00]: She has really big feelings for him. [SPEAKER_00]: And she's scared of losing him. [SPEAKER_00]: And she just wants this to work so bad. [SPEAKER_00]: Anila is still so sure about marrying him. [SPEAKER_00]: And she feels very secure. [SPEAKER_00]: about it and he brings up the moving.

[SPEAKER_00]: When even when he brings up the moving, she still feels secure about it. [SPEAKER_00]: She tells him that while they're along the stands, that there has to be effort and they have to make sure they're communicating very well. [SPEAKER_00]: They talk about an apartment and it's like, oh, what would you want for an apartment?

[SPEAKER_00]: He says he would want a two bedroom in case someone visits and she's like, oh, I don't think that's what you mean. [SPEAKER_00]: And he's like, no, that's not what I mean, [SPEAKER_00]: I think the season has people who are obsessed with reunion babies. [SPEAKER_00]: They're just comments of like, oh, by the reunion of you, baby, or having a baby immediately.

[SPEAKER_00]: Honestly, these people are bulls, like you barely know each other. [SPEAKER_00]: They're really, really to have a baby together. [SPEAKER_00]: There's money at each other, so it seems like the tension that they had earlier is all done. [SPEAKER_00]: once again they're eating and I don't know that's another part of reality TV is the fact that everyone gets to watch eat what if you're an ugly eater and it's just like you know those people who smack everywhere like I think Daniel is an ugly eater and I remember that one time Lars Eric was eating yogurt and it was just everywhere and he was smacking and he was like but yeah you have to be bold enough to let everyone see you eat okay I'm going to take a

[SPEAKER_00]: Okay. [SPEAKER_00]: They're meeting her mom and as always, Angelica is overcome with emotion. [SPEAKER_00]: I understand being anxious, I understand being nervous, but it's kind of crazy how overcome she is by emotion by every little thing. [SPEAKER_00]: So she's nervous as usual, making all these comments saying all you have to hug my mom, like she's just a tiny thing.

[SPEAKER_00]: She's saying that she doesn't want to disappoint her parents or make them think that she's not happy. [SPEAKER_00]: And once again, it's giving that she's embarrassed by him. [SPEAKER_00]: I don't know why she has this big feelings whenever she has to introduce Aaron to her friends or family.

[SPEAKER_00]: Like I get being anxious, like I said, but she always goes overboard and he just feels like she feels like they're going to think like he's not good enough. [SPEAKER_00]: But the thing is no one thinks that except her. [SPEAKER_00]: um it's when her parents come in and she gives them a hoax she literally starts crying but it seemed to go well they seemed to get along with Aaron because who doesn't get along with Aaron [SPEAKER_00]: and everything was okay.

[SPEAKER_00]: They go on their final date and on their final date he tells her that he's grateful and wants to thank her for making him feel loved and understood. [SPEAKER_00]: He says that she's smart and he wants to have a future with her. [SPEAKER_00]: He doesn't know if he's good enough for her but he's going to try his hardest and that he loves her.

[SPEAKER_00]: She laughs, because she was does that nervous laughter thing. [SPEAKER_00]: And she said, she thought that he was going to break up with her. [SPEAKER_00]: But she also tells him that she loves him. [SPEAKER_00]: She gets up gives him a kiss and says that she loves him. [SPEAKER_00]: She says that she's bad at expressing her feelings, but she feels the same thing and she's looking forward to this with him.

[SPEAKER_00]: She asks him, once again, if he's scared. [SPEAKER_00]: And he says, nope, that unless she switches at the altar, then he's going to be really sad. [SPEAKER_00]: and he's going to wonder if his perception of this was real or not. [SPEAKER_00]: And she tells him that he doesn't have to worry.

[SPEAKER_00]: I understand what he's coming from. [SPEAKER_00]: I think a lot of the times when this happens, what happens is the people involved who get dumped, question their sanity, like how could I think this was so real? [SPEAKER_00]: And the other person was so riddled with doubts when I thought that.

[SPEAKER_00]: You know, this was the best thing ever. [SPEAKER_00]: Like what does that say about me? [SPEAKER_00]: So I understand him saying like he would wonder if his perception of this was real Okay, we go wedding dress shopping and the ladies are there and they're talking about Johanna not being there and they don't know if she was going to be there or not [SPEAKER_00]: Spoiler alert, she does not show up because they have broken up.

[SPEAKER_00]: Ronja says how she feels uncertain and didn't expect to feel this way. [SPEAKER_00]: And he will say that she's scared shitless, but she's excited to try and address. [SPEAKER_00]: Larger tells his friend that he doesn't feel okay. [SPEAKER_00]: And what do you do when you feel like it's not a hundred percent?

[SPEAKER_00]: Like she validated him, that's Rania in the pods. [SPEAKER_00]: But ever since they came out the pods, she has not validated him at all. [SPEAKER_00]: Aaron tells his friend that he thinks that he has found his person and that he's looking forward to this and look very excited to get married.

[SPEAKER_00]: Um, they come out in their dresses. [SPEAKER_00]: I liked Angelica's dress, but I didn't think it was for her. [SPEAKER_00]: I don't know. [SPEAKER_00]: It's very pretty on its own, but it just didn't seem like it was for her. [SPEAKER_00]: It really looks good. [SPEAKER_00]: He says that he's happy.

[SPEAKER_00]: Anila's dress. [SPEAKER_00]: It was cute. [SPEAKER_00]: It was all right. [SPEAKER_00]: Lazaric says like, it's not about what he can do anymore. [SPEAKER_00]: It's what she can do. [SPEAKER_00]: He doesn't feel appreciated or affirmed and this doesn't feel right. [SPEAKER_00]: I think he's just had like seeing the talks and everything, just gave him a lightball moment and he's just waking up to everything.

[SPEAKER_00]: Once again, he says that maybe this is a lesson, he wishes he was happier than he is, but the man looks very stressed. [SPEAKER_00]: He has like bags under his eyes, his face looks very, very stressed. [SPEAKER_00]: Ronia comes out in her dress and her dress is bringing people to tears.

[SPEAKER_00]: She thinks that she wants to fix things. [SPEAKER_00]: She thinks wanting to fix things on the dress or thinking about him and their means that she's thinking of the future. [SPEAKER_00]: Because she was like, [SPEAKER_00]: you know, I would do this on the arm, I would do this on the waist and since I want to fix things on the dress, that means I have to be thinking about the future.

[SPEAKER_00]: Angelica asked her if she can see herself getting married to a large area, can ship it to him at the end of the altar, and she says right now, I can picture him at the end of the altar. [SPEAKER_00]: she wants to go home and talk to him now and tell him how she feels. [SPEAKER_00]: I'm like, I don't understand these emotions or just up and down all the time.

[SPEAKER_00]: Like, at some point he has to be stable. [SPEAKER_00]: We're now like a few days out from the wedding. [SPEAKER_00]: She gets home and she wants to talk to him and she's excited, but I think he's been spiraling all day and he's just ready to let it out. [SPEAKER_00]: And he speaks first.

[SPEAKER_00]: He seems very frustrated. [SPEAKER_00]: And says like, you know, she seems to be avoiding him, like it's one thing if you love language is physical touch, but like she's actively avoiding him and he feels like she just doesn't want to be here. [SPEAKER_00]: And she's like, if I didn't want to be here, then why am I still here?

[SPEAKER_00]: And he's like, I don't know. [SPEAKER_00]: So she's trying to talk, but he does that thing that he does, where he talks over her. [SPEAKER_00]: And she's like, the thing is like, they're all these things that we still need to talk over. [SPEAKER_00]: they're going back and forth about what it is and then she's like finally we need to talk about your faith like it's just like the elephant in the room and i'm like you think because i said this guy remember i said like they were so annoying because i'm like you are not aligning anyway why are we here at all you can't get over this hump that is his faith and she doesn't even believe in the same thing [SPEAKER_00]: And she says, like, anytime I want to talk about your faith and when we talk, you just think that I'm attacking you.

[SPEAKER_00]: Like for example, do you think that if we have kids and they're gay, they're gonna go to hell? [SPEAKER_00]: He was like, I have answered this many times. [SPEAKER_00]: It is not up to me if they're going to go to hell. [SPEAKER_00]: Like, I'm gonna love my kids no matter what it is up to God.

[SPEAKER_00]: And she's like, I don't know if two people can be, [SPEAKER_00]: not wrong. [SPEAKER_00]: I'm not going to say right if two people can be not wrong at the same time because she just feels like if you have your kids how can you say you love them but every time you look at them you think that they're going to hell.

[SPEAKER_00]: How much of the acceptance is that? [SPEAKER_00]: Is the acceptance going to be [SPEAKER_00]: partial and not complete and that's what her concern is and he's just like that's not a me like their eternal life after that on their earthly life. [SPEAKER_00]: I'm with them after they died that has nothing to do with me.

[SPEAKER_00]: I don't care what happens after that and that seems to be a problem for her. [SPEAKER_00]: She says that he's answer makes her feel like they shouldn't have kids at all and he's like I'm gonna love my kids no matter what like I'm not forcing my views on anyone But I don't know how he doesn't understand like [SPEAKER_00]: If you're gonna be teaching your kids' values and you're teaching your kids that, oh, if that's what you believe, you know, he's just not saying it, because more than likely, that is what he believes.

[SPEAKER_00]: Because if he doesn't believe that, if they ask you, do you think it's good to help? [SPEAKER_00]: You would say, no, I don't think so. [SPEAKER_00]: But if you do believe that they are going to go to hell, like, how do you teach them that? [SPEAKER_00]: And every day you look at your dad, you're like, oh my dad, things like, [SPEAKER_00]: I'm gonna go to hell.

[SPEAKER_00]: Like, it's just a weird place to be in. [SPEAKER_00]: And if they're not aligned on that, they are not on the same page. [SPEAKER_00]: And again, from jump, they should never have been together. [SPEAKER_00]: That was on him. [SPEAKER_00]: That was on him and her. [SPEAKER_00]: You knew about his faith.

[SPEAKER_00]: I know he tried to tell you like, no, he's not judgmental. [SPEAKER_00]: And he pulled the IVG friend. [SPEAKER_00]: But, [SPEAKER_00]: you shouldn't have done it. [SPEAKER_00]: You just wanted to win. [SPEAKER_00]: You wanted to go in the getaway from the getaway. [SPEAKER_00]: I don't even think she's physically attracted to him.

[SPEAKER_00]: Honestly, again, she lights up more. [SPEAKER_00]: She talks about Aaron. [SPEAKER_00]: Then she talks about Lars Eric. [SPEAKER_00]: I think she thinks that he's a cute guy. [SPEAKER_00]: He's an attractive guy. [SPEAKER_00]: but he just doesn't do it, you know, for her. [SPEAKER_00]: And she should have admitted that from the beginning.

[SPEAKER_00]: And like I said last week, it's not like I feel like she should have been with Darnet because I don't think that. [SPEAKER_00]: He has a romantic spark with Darnet either. [SPEAKER_00]: But it's just guys, let's just be truthful and honest with each other. [SPEAKER_00]: He says that right now, there are no kids.

[SPEAKER_00]: So she can't use as an excuse that right now, there are no kids for them to argue about. [SPEAKER_00]: And even if they're going to think that they're gay, you'll be 20 years. [SPEAKER_00]: So allegedly, Lars Eric thinks that it's going to take 20 years before they realize that they are gay.

[SPEAKER_00]: And she says she doesn't understand why it's not important right now. [SPEAKER_00]: He should give her a way to understand. [SPEAKER_00]: And he says, like, he can't. [SPEAKER_00]: And she goes, fine, if you can't, that's okay. [SPEAKER_00]: And then she walks away. [SPEAKER_00]: It should never have gotten to this place.

[SPEAKER_00]: So that's on them. [SPEAKER_00]: We see him crying on the couch. [SPEAKER_00]: And I do feel bad for him because he's filled with emotion. [SPEAKER_00]: And he says, right now, he misses his mom, because she loved him unconditionally. [SPEAKER_00]: And he just wants to be loved for who he is.

[SPEAKER_00]: And for the last time, I just want to say, [SPEAKER_00]: walking to, this might be a terrible metaphor, but you can't walk into a lion's den, get bit and say, oh my God, it's not fair. [SPEAKER_00]: I went there to just pet them and to admire them. [SPEAKER_00]: It's not fair that I got bit.

[SPEAKER_00]: You can't walk into that into a person who does not share the same beliefs and faith with you. [SPEAKER_00]: And when they share theirs, you are hurt that they're expressing theirs. [SPEAKER_00]: Because you also have yours, which, by the way, you are ignoring [SPEAKER_00]: just to make you work with this person, wouldn't you even want to be aligned?

[SPEAKER_00]: So yes, you felt whatever you felt for her, but you should have just told yourself like a few days ago, I didn't know this woman. [SPEAKER_00]: So I can live without her and I'll be okay and just walk away from that. [SPEAKER_00]: So, you know, and that's where we are here. [SPEAKER_00]: The next morning, they speak.

[SPEAKER_00]: They're in the balcony. [SPEAKER_00]: I don't know why they're here because the sun is shining straight into her eyes. [SPEAKER_00]: Like she has [SPEAKER_00]: But they speak in Rania says they need to be honest we have the feel on how they don't talk about the future and it is not sustainable to turn a blind eye because it is not enough to get married.

[SPEAKER_00]: He talks about the pods and she was like listen, we cannot go back to the pods. [SPEAKER_00]: We were great in the pods now where I'll hear in real life we have to focus on the now. [SPEAKER_00]: She has realized that they like each other as people but they don't like each other enough to get married and there's no need to drag this out [SPEAKER_00]: he says he will remember the good times and she says it's sad but honestly it's a relief because she knows they're not right for each other and you guys can guess what I said.

[SPEAKER_00]: Duh! [SPEAKER_00]: So he says for a moment he was sure that she was so made so this is very sad. [SPEAKER_00]: He quotes the book of Job and Job was a person in the Bible who uses everything and gets it back and he hopes that happens to him. [SPEAKER_00]: Um, that was funny to me because guys, I struggle a lot with the book of Joe because that was a lot in there for someone to go through that much suffering And just have everything because there were being tested.

[SPEAKER_00]: So when he quoted that I was like, well, I don't know. [SPEAKER_00]: I was there. [SPEAKER_00]: I don't know why you feel like you have to suffer to find goodness. [SPEAKER_00]: Um, well, they're dropping like five skies so right now we have just two couples left. [SPEAKER_00]: What is season like they just need to do better.

[SPEAKER_00]: Um, everyone is moving out the apartment and I can't believe you guys. [SPEAKER_00]: I blanked out. [SPEAKER_00]: I was like, have we ever seen this where they all have to move out? [SPEAKER_00]: We just see like the wedding is coming in the next thing they're at the wedding. [SPEAKER_00]: But they're all like packing, moving out like master.

[SPEAKER_00]: And once again, Angelica is overthinking and just worried about what's going to happen. [SPEAKER_00]: My thing with Angelica is I really wish you would pinpoint or spell out what the issue is with Aaron. [SPEAKER_00]: The only thing she said is that he's slow. [SPEAKER_00]: Like even if she mentions the part where he says that [SPEAKER_00]: He wants someone to be with him while he builds.

[SPEAKER_00]: I can maybe understand that, but she's not really saying what the problem is with Aaron and things that she's saying are not our superficial things that I'm like, I don't understand what is happening right now. [SPEAKER_00]: I do know like bits and pieces come out every now and then and the fact that she was not his physical type.

[SPEAKER_00]: I don't know if he still isn't. [SPEAKER_00]: Higher type. [SPEAKER_00]: I don't know, but there's so much hesitation and so much like I just think yes she gets anxious but when you're with the person that you want to be, which you feel a sense of calm, a sense of peace and delicate is not having that.

[SPEAKER_00]: In fact, she's having the opposite reaction and she just panics a lot when it comes to him. [SPEAKER_00]: So and she's not good at expressing herself, all she does is laugh, cry, or throw a tantrum. [SPEAKER_00]: Okay, I'll take a quick break and I'll be right back. [SPEAKER_00]: All right, we are back with the Bachelor of Bachelor at the party because they're now two.

[SPEAKER_00]: And then there were two. [SPEAKER_00]: For the ladies, the friends are in their robes. [SPEAKER_00]: I think they're by a lake or something. [SPEAKER_00]: But they have face masks of their fiances and Angelica's friend Jackie's asking her what her fears are. [SPEAKER_00]: And Angelica says there has been ups and downs.

[SPEAKER_00]: And there's truly nothing about him. [SPEAKER_00]: She feels will be a problem that he's everything that she wants and, you know, in some way that she needs, but he's very calm. [SPEAKER_00]: Jackie keeps proving her and is like, just say, speak your mind. [SPEAKER_00]: Don't worry about it.

[SPEAKER_00]: Just say, speak your mind. [SPEAKER_00]: What is the issue? [SPEAKER_00]: Like, what are the issues? [SPEAKER_00]: She says, like, she's very silly and very crazy and so are her friends. [SPEAKER_00]: And she feels like she can't be here so fully in that way. [SPEAKER_00]: Her friends are like, yeah, you have us for that.

[SPEAKER_00]: Like, you need a stable partner. [SPEAKER_00]: and then you can be silly and crazy with us. [SPEAKER_00]: And Jackie feels like Erin and Angie are a match made in heaven and that he brings peace and harmony to her. [SPEAKER_00]: And she's been with the high octane guys and he didn't work and he'll be like a teacher for her.

[SPEAKER_00]: like David like Aaron and they're just trying to convince Angelica that he's a good guy for her. [SPEAKER_00]: The guy is also seem to be by the lake as well. [SPEAKER_00]: They're in something that it looked like a jet ski but isn't a jet ski they can literally like squat in it. [SPEAKER_00]: It was like a mini boat jet ski.

[SPEAKER_00]: I don't know what it is. [SPEAKER_00]: But it just seemed weird at the time to me that they're having this bachelor and bachelor party without people from the pods, like people who have actually been through the experience and seen them through the whole thing. [SPEAKER_00]: Not there, but I guess that also doesn't beat the friends even though much longer than them, you know so one of Ibrahim's friends asked if things moved so fast that he hadn't had time [SPEAKER_00]: to reflect on the doubts.

[SPEAKER_00]: And I'm just bothered by this because the same with Angelica, why are we focusing on the negatives? [SPEAKER_00]: This is the day before their wedding. [SPEAKER_00]: Why can we talk about what are the things that you love so much? [SPEAKER_00]: And maybe they did, and they didn't show it, but they just felt like they kept digging at them to talk about the things that they were worried about which in turn is the negative.

[SPEAKER_00]: Abraham says that they haven't really run into any troubles and like huh? [SPEAKER_00]: Why is this men lying? [SPEAKER_00]: Like we've literally seen you look so scared all the time. [SPEAKER_00]: You talk about, you don't feel validated from after the pause. [SPEAKER_00]: You talk about, you're not gonna move without getting a job.

[SPEAKER_00]: You saying everything is going so fast, but you're saying that you haven't really run into any troubles. [SPEAKER_00]: So maybe he just wants to look like the perfect couple outside. [SPEAKER_00]: Aaron says they have argued, but the thing is that they know how to communicate. [SPEAKER_00]: So they've, you know, straightened it out.

[SPEAKER_00]: While he's talking, the camera spends a lot of time in a brain. [SPEAKER_00]: So I was like, are they trying to tell us something? [SPEAKER_00]: I don't know. [SPEAKER_00]: The girls are like in like a hot tub and they actually split in two. [SPEAKER_00]: So Angelica is with her friends and Angelica is with her friends as well.

[SPEAKER_00]: I wanna tell you guys that at some point on Angelica's scene, we see someone, [SPEAKER_00]: And I'm looking at the person. [SPEAKER_00]: I'm like, oh my god, is this the first time we're seeing a needle without makeup? [SPEAKER_00]: She looks like a completely different person. [SPEAKER_00]: And oh, who knew her natural hair is curly.

[SPEAKER_00]: And then I realized that it was a needle a sister. [SPEAKER_00]: It was not a needle. [SPEAKER_00]: And I was like, oh, okay. [SPEAKER_00]: I was like, well, that's crazy. [SPEAKER_00]: Like, what a drastic change for which he has make up or which he doesn't have make up, but he was her sister.

[SPEAKER_00]: Just a pretty bit to me. [SPEAKER_00]: All right. [SPEAKER_00]: Ibrahim said that the things that he didn't know were still with Anila. [SPEAKER_00]: And they're asking again, sticking on the negative theme. [SPEAKER_00]: What are the things that he said that he didn't want when he was coming here?

[SPEAKER_00]: Why aren't we saying what are the things that he said he wanted? [SPEAKER_00]: Like, this is just, I don't know, I don't like it. [SPEAKER_00]: So I knew it says he said he didn't want a musician, which he is, remember, she was one who sang the song and he proposed that he said he wouldn't move to Stockholm.

[SPEAKER_00]: And then the sister says, oh, what about the nose piercing? [SPEAKER_00]: And she's like, yeah, he had an issue with the nose piercing. [SPEAKER_00]: And she's like, if you notice, I'm not wearing it anymore. [SPEAKER_00]: They seem to gloss over that really quickly. [SPEAKER_00]: She's just like, oh, just like when I was wearing it, I wasn't thinking about it.

[SPEAKER_00]: The way I'm not wearing it anymore. [SPEAKER_00]: I'm not thinking about it. [SPEAKER_00]: It's not a big deal. [SPEAKER_00]: I thought it was a big deal. [SPEAKER_00]: Why does he have an issue with that and then for her to take it off, you are kind of altering yourself in some bit to make him happy and you know, I already think that he bringing this kind of insecure.

[SPEAKER_00]: And I just didn't like that. [SPEAKER_00]: They seemed okay with it, but I don't know. [SPEAKER_00]: To me was like, hmm, side eye. [SPEAKER_00]: She talks about the tattoos also. [SPEAKER_00]: That he would have preferred if she didn't have them. [SPEAKER_00]: I mean, there's nothing she can do about that now.

[SPEAKER_00]: But I don't know if it was the sister or somebody who says, oh, he loves you for who you are. [SPEAKER_00]: It's not like he's gonna make you laser them off. [SPEAKER_00]: And I'm like, honestly, I don't put that past. [SPEAKER_00]: It bring him. [SPEAKER_00]: But I don't know. [SPEAKER_00]: I feel like his insecurity is going to make her want to do.

[SPEAKER_00]: He's going to make what her to dim her light. [SPEAKER_00]: Like to me it's a big deal. [SPEAKER_00]: She took off her piercing. [SPEAKER_00]: You guys let me know. [SPEAKER_00]: What do you think? [SPEAKER_00]: Like I just think like it wasn't a [SPEAKER_00]: It seems little but it could lead into bigger things and I just feel like he might also throw in her face like, well, I moved, well, I moved.

[SPEAKER_00]: So, you know, if that's what you show, I love you and use the hang-hang that over her head. [SPEAKER_00]: The party continues and Rania shows up. [SPEAKER_00]: I will note that two people are getting married, right? [SPEAKER_00]: Rania and [SPEAKER_00]: um, Angelica. [SPEAKER_00]: No, not Ryan.

[SPEAKER_00]: Just sorry. [SPEAKER_00]: Angelica and Nila, I get married. [SPEAKER_00]: Ronia shows up, and she only brings one bouquet of flowers for Angelica. [SPEAKER_00]: Like, it's just two people. [SPEAKER_00]: The least you could have done was brought two flowers. [SPEAKER_00]: Yes, you're the guest of Angelica, but you knew these people all along.

[SPEAKER_00]: You know the two of them, you should have just brought two bouquets of flowers and given one each. [SPEAKER_00]: I don't know, that bothered me. [SPEAKER_00]: I just thought that was rude. [SPEAKER_00]: Maybe I just don't like her on here. [SPEAKER_00]: I don't know what it is. [SPEAKER_00]: But that was annoying.

[SPEAKER_00]: So the friends keep hyping air and like this is Angelica's friends. [SPEAKER_00]: Like they're even saying like they will punch her if she doesn't marry him. [SPEAKER_00]: But I feel like all this is probably more of a reason why she's going to say yes. [SPEAKER_00]: Versus how she actually feels like from jump.

[SPEAKER_00]: We can tell that. [SPEAKER_00]: She's not feeling air, and I don't know what it is. [SPEAKER_00]: She wants to, she feels like she should, like she likes the fact I said this last time that he's considered the hottest person here, so to all this person is the kindest, is the smartest, and he's everything, and she's the one who kind of got the prize, but something is off for her, which I feel like she's not vocalizing.

[SPEAKER_00]: We, well, I think what it is though is, again, the superficial thing of, she wants a crazy guy that she can party with. [SPEAKER_00]: I guess she wants a party guy. [SPEAKER_00]: She doesn't want someone that's grounded and that's kind of wild to me. [SPEAKER_00]: And she's dirty. [SPEAKER_00]: So it's not like she's young, young, so I don't know.

[SPEAKER_00]: What maybe there's more? [SPEAKER_00]: Maybe there is more. [SPEAKER_00]: Maybe they had sex in his whack. [SPEAKER_00]: And she just doesn't want to say it on TV. [SPEAKER_00]: I don't know, but I hope we get more clarity [SPEAKER_00]: reunion as to what it is that she was struggling with.

[SPEAKER_00]: So we get all the party clips. [SPEAKER_00]: We see them, you know drink. [SPEAKER_00]: We don't get so much of them from Anila, but we get a lot of it from Angelica. [SPEAKER_00]: Maybe to point out how crazy she and her friends are. [SPEAKER_00]: So Angelica and Anila sit and have a conversation and Angelica asked Anila if she had never had doubts.

[SPEAKER_00]: Anila says no. [SPEAKER_00]: An Angelica says that she is an [SPEAKER_00]: um, standing at the altar that she has never thought of saying no, but if she did, then she knows that, once she says no, that they're never going to date because Aaron is never going to get over it. [SPEAKER_00]: So, Anila says that if Abraham says no, she would feel very, very deceived.

[SPEAKER_00]: Um, Abraham tells Aaron that, you know, he can be vulnerable with Anila and he can show when he's [SPEAKER_00]: And, you know, he did not mention the move. [SPEAKER_00]: He did not say how he feels weird about the move and he feels like he's giving up a lot because again, I think he just wants to present like they're good front.

[SPEAKER_00]: So as always, Aaron says nice things about her. [SPEAKER_00]: That's one thing about Aaron. [SPEAKER_00]: Even if she's not there, he says very nice things about Angelica. [SPEAKER_00]: That he has never felt like wanting to be better for someone until he met her. [SPEAKER_00]: But anyways, I feel like the girls definitely had more fun.

[SPEAKER_00]: They're a Bachelor at party, you know, so. [SPEAKER_00]: Okay, onto the weddings. [SPEAKER_00]: It is the day of the wedding, Ibrahim and Nila go first. [SPEAKER_00]: She says that she feels very secure on what his answer is going to be. [SPEAKER_00]: He's saying like emotionally, he's 100% there, but he's nervous that he might have missed something in their relationship.

[SPEAKER_00]: I'm like, what? [SPEAKER_00]: This man who keeps saying that they don't really have any issues, suddenly has so many doubts and is like, they don't know each other inside out. [SPEAKER_00]: The friends this season have much better sense because they're like, no, you have that ahead of you.

[SPEAKER_00]: Like it's not about the timing. [SPEAKER_00]: Like you can always get to know each other there but you know what you feel. [SPEAKER_00]: Everything after the experiment wasn't impulsive. [SPEAKER_00]: Like you've gone through experiences so you have enough data to make that decision. [SPEAKER_00]: His friend does say that he's not really himself today.

[SPEAKER_00]: And you can say his friend was trying not to say like, I don't know, it's not looking good, but he didn't. [SPEAKER_00]: He said, this is a bream that in hindsight, it was naive of him to think that he could come this far relationship wise and know if they could be together forever. [SPEAKER_00]: Anila on the other hand, her mom and sister come in.

[SPEAKER_00]: And they're like, hey, he could say no. [SPEAKER_00]: And then he lives like, nah, he's not going to say no. [SPEAKER_00]: I know that he's going to say yes. [SPEAKER_00]: And I'm like, what is this negativity? [SPEAKER_00]: Can we prop people up again, another sidebar? [SPEAKER_00]: She is sipping on her drink on the gold cup.

[SPEAKER_00]: And this is after her makeup is done. [SPEAKER_00]: Her lipstick has been applied. [SPEAKER_00]: Can someone get her a straw? [SPEAKER_00]: So she doesn't mess up her makeup. [SPEAKER_00]: Um, it's raining cats on dogs the day of their wedding. [SPEAKER_00]: So, you know, everyone's walking in with an umbrella.

[SPEAKER_00]: I'm sure it would have been an outdoor wedding, but somehow they had a contingency plan and it was indoors. [SPEAKER_00]: She has a nice moment with her mom before going in and she walks in, walks down the aisle without a veil. [SPEAKER_00]: I might add and the song that's playing is, I hope I'm the one.

[SPEAKER_00]: I'm a little nervous because I feel like I'm bringing this going to say no and they're the first to go and usually they save the happy moments for the end and I know that she wants this so bad and I don't know if this is a hot take but I want her to say no I really do it I'm still stuck on the taking off her nose ring that really bothers me.

[SPEAKER_00]: So she's reading her vows and she says that the last time she sang this song he proposed. [SPEAKER_00]: Remember I told you that the song was so good he proposed even though he said he didn't feel like he had enough information and he wants to know more. [SPEAKER_00]: And so now she says I'm going to finish the song and I'm going to sing this song.

[SPEAKER_00]: And I was like, you're going to like emotionally blackmail him to say yes, by singing the song, but yes, he starts to sing. [SPEAKER_00]: And are there any little so good? [SPEAKER_00]: Or they play the recorded mix over her, but it really was nice to grow, can't sing. [SPEAKER_00]: Like it was really good.

[SPEAKER_00]: But it really is a bold move doing that because there's a chance that you do that. [SPEAKER_00]: And he says, no, and it's just like you just sang in front of everyone in there. [SPEAKER_00]: But he's crying. [SPEAKER_00]: And, you know, many people in the room are moved, they are crying.

[SPEAKER_00]: Like people are just, you know, wiping their eyes and not sobbing. [SPEAKER_00]: That's an exaggeration, but they're truly crying in there. [SPEAKER_00]: And my type ad, you know, in the last love is mine. [SPEAKER_00]: Brandon, I talked about bringing kids to this love is blind weddings and traumatizing these kids.

[SPEAKER_00]: There are a couple of kids in the crowd, so I'm just like, oh boy, how is this gonna go? [SPEAKER_00]: Of course she goes first, of course she says yes. [SPEAKER_00]: And then when it's time for e-bring him, [SPEAKER_00]: They give us like the longest fake outs like I'm so prepared for him to say no, but he says I do and everybody's so happy and I'm like, I'm surprised that he says I do so we'll see if they made it through the reunion, but there we go one marriage in the books for the season one more marriage and I thought there would be I was absolutely convinced that it was going to be zero.

[SPEAKER_00]: So then we have Aaron and Angelica. [SPEAKER_00]: As always, he's saying nice things about her to his friends, and that includes large eric. [SPEAKER_00]: I don't think I realized that they were the closest and large eric shows up to his wedding. [SPEAKER_00]: He says he's ready to stand up there and say his last words as a single man.

[SPEAKER_00]: And Jennifer walks in looking devastated. [SPEAKER_00]: and she's crying and I'm like, okay, her nerves are getting the best of her, her friends walking and she tells them like they're not like dressed up or anything and she tells them that this feels very frightening and she's worried about how things are going to turn out and that's not how I should feel in my wedding day.

[SPEAKER_00]: She's like at the bachelor read everyone was so happy for her to the point where Julia was crying and she's like, uh, I want to feel the way Julia is feeling, I don't feel that way, but guys, where is Julia? [SPEAKER_00]: Julia was not there [SPEAKER_00]: I don't, was Julia mad at her, did she tell Julia and she's like, I'm not going to show her for this mess.

[SPEAKER_00]: You're making a terrible decision, but Julia wasn't there. [SPEAKER_00]: And if I missed her, let me know, but that's what I wanted to know was like, where is Julia? [SPEAKER_00]: She doesn't think she, she'd, she'd feel the way she felt at her bachelor rep party. [SPEAKER_00]: Like I said, they all tell her, this includes Rania.

[SPEAKER_00]: This is all wedding nerves. [SPEAKER_00]: It's going to fade away. [SPEAKER_00]: Nothing is perfect. [SPEAKER_00]: Like, you know, it'll be worked out that you'll be all right, like Aaron is the best. [SPEAKER_00]: the how he is as a person is completely new to her and her friends says like you know you should do what's best you know for yourself considering like your people pleaser that was um good advice like you know just go talk to him and everything would be okay but you'd be alright i mean Ronny says all the things about Aaron and how great he is how good he is and unlike guys you have to take you to consideration the person that has the issue it has the conflict because you may think

[SPEAKER_00]: So they're out on the steps when she calls out to speak to him. [SPEAKER_00]: And then they hug. [SPEAKER_00]: I don't know if you guys have ever heard this phenomenon where it's like you can tell if someone is into someone when they hug, if your pelvis is away from them, then you're not attracted to them, but then if you're like together, then it's like, oh, you're attracted to them.

[SPEAKER_00]: I don't know how true it is, but all I know is that when they hug, she hugs him with her pelvis away from him. [SPEAKER_00]: At this point, if I were him, I would be freaked out. [SPEAKER_00]: Why are you trying to talk to me? [SPEAKER_00]: And why are we seeing each other before we get married?

[SPEAKER_00]: She says that, you know, he's calm, and she can be crazy. [SPEAKER_00]: and she doesn't feel like she can be her jokey, lighthearted self with him and that basically she tells him that this doesn't feel right and it doesn't feel right for them to get married. [SPEAKER_00]: She says she understands that this is sudden and that she's sorry but it is not right for either of them and she doesn't feel like she's there to the point where she feels like they can be married.

[SPEAKER_00]: The song playing is, you can't break me. [SPEAKER_00]: with Aaron looks broken. [SPEAKER_00]: He looks absolutely shattered and he says, please answer this question. [SPEAKER_00]: Those times that you laid with me and you said I was the best person. [SPEAKER_00]: Did you mean that? [SPEAKER_00]: I was the best person and then you were in love with me.

[SPEAKER_00]: Did you mean that? [SPEAKER_00]: And she says, yes, I did that I am in love with you. [SPEAKER_00]: but I'm not so in love to the point where I will marry you and it's not anything that he did wrong but it doesn't feel right and she's actually disappointed in herself and he's just like, I don't know what you want, I don't know what you mean, I don't understand what you're saying.

[SPEAKER_00]: and she's like, now I've made this decision, it doesn't feel good, I don't feel good about it, and now I have to process how I feel. [SPEAKER_00]: I just want you to respect that I can't say yes. [SPEAKER_00]: And he's like, of course, I respect what you're saying. [SPEAKER_00]: All I'm saying is like, I don't understand it.

[SPEAKER_00]: Like, how can you say that you love me? [SPEAKER_00]: And you've also said that the worst thing about it, [SPEAKER_00]: people is when they go from 100 to 0. [SPEAKER_00]: And this lady has the audacity to be defensive. [SPEAKER_00]: She's being all defensive like no, have to process everything that's going on.

[SPEAKER_00]: You made the call. [SPEAKER_00]: You're the one who did it. [SPEAKER_00]: And he says like right now, it doesn't even sound like you even want to be with me. [SPEAKER_00]: And you know, why would she say that she loves him? [SPEAKER_00]: And he says that, you know, he wants to be with her.

[SPEAKER_00]: And that's the crazy thing that he wants to be with her because was it even real? [SPEAKER_00]: And he says again, like, I don't understand and I just want to understand what was happening. [SPEAKER_00]: And she's just like, well, this is a big mess. [SPEAKER_00]: I can't talk about this anymore.

[SPEAKER_00]: I have to go. [SPEAKER_00]: I'm like, okay, Brad, like, you know, woman up, you said all this, you have to give him space for how he feels. [SPEAKER_00]: He's the one who just got the rug pulled out from under him. [SPEAKER_00]: Which he just says. [SPEAKER_00]: He was like, you just pulled the rug out from under me.

[SPEAKER_00]: I thought today was gonna be one of the happiest days of my life. [SPEAKER_00]: And then you come from nowhere. [SPEAKER_00]: I will never, you don't have to worry about that. [SPEAKER_00]: I'm not going to say no. [SPEAKER_00]: Last night when she was talking with Anila, she was like, she has never thought about saying no.

[SPEAKER_00]: So which is the lie which is the truth? [SPEAKER_00]: Like this just came from, [SPEAKER_00]: nowhere. [SPEAKER_00]: I mean I'm glad she didn't want to go down the altar and say no to him in his face but it's just she has to understand that this has to be like from left field for him and completely surprise.

[SPEAKER_00]: I'm glad that she did it because he deserves better but I'm just saying like I think [SPEAKER_00]: She's just immature. [SPEAKER_00]: I said that many times that time. [SPEAKER_00]: I just think that she's not ready to have a calm life. [SPEAKER_00]: She doesn't know What dating a non-toxic person is so she keeps saying like she doesn't know what to do with him That's just because he's not putting her through a roller coaster of emotions.

[SPEAKER_00]: Remember that time they had that fight Where she was cooking and he spoke up for himself [SPEAKER_00]: and she was like, oh, I'm so glad you spoke up and he was like, don't test me. [SPEAKER_00]: Like, I just let you do these things because I like you. [SPEAKER_00]: But don't try to test me or try to push my buttons to see what I'm going to do.

[SPEAKER_00]: So she wants that toxicity, I think. [SPEAKER_00]: And she's equating it to, oh, I can't be crazy. [SPEAKER_00]: I can't do it. [SPEAKER_00]: He's like, I'm not going to go out with you, but you go out and have a good time with your friends. [SPEAKER_00]: What do you want your... [SPEAKER_00]: You're husband to go wild and crazy with you for not to say that it's not possible.

[SPEAKER_00]: It's not happening But if you have someone who it may not be you're not gonna get someone this hundred percent. [SPEAKER_00]: You're not gonna be hundred percent alike But I just think like there are other reasons and she's focusing on that reason because I think as her friend soldier They're like you want the husband the father of your children to at least have some kind semblance of [SPEAKER_00]: of stability and sense which he does have, like you're not going to party forever.

[SPEAKER_00]: So why is I retreat that you're looking for that you want someone who can party forever. [SPEAKER_00]: So like I said, I still think there's more. [SPEAKER_00]: Maybe something just didn't feel right. [SPEAKER_00]: I'm not saying she doesn't have the right to feel that way. [SPEAKER_00]: And just because someone is like a good guy doesn't mean they're the good guy or the right guy for you.

[SPEAKER_00]: Maybe something was off. [SPEAKER_00]: It's just that I don't really trust [SPEAKER_00]: um decision making skills and intent because I think that's just immature. [SPEAKER_00]: So it's either she wanted to use the show to get a spring up on the the fame train because if Julia and Tamir already like famous people in that in that regard, I don't know, maybe she wanted to get on that, I don't know.

[SPEAKER_00]: but hopefully the reunion gives us more insight into that. [SPEAKER_00]: Which by the way, they have not given us a date for the reunion, but anticipate it will probably be like sometime soon in a few days, I don't know. [SPEAKER_00]: Oh, the one last thing. [SPEAKER_00]: I do the guests get the memo, they never showed up.

[SPEAKER_00]: We just saw the empty chairs and I'm like, did they just tell them don't worry about it? [SPEAKER_00]: Don't come here, it's fine. [SPEAKER_00]: So just like Julia did and didn't show up to comfort her friend. [SPEAKER_00]: So yeah, so that's it for Sweden. [SPEAKER_00]: miserable seasons for the couples but it was actually quite entertaining so we'll just wait out and see what happens when the reunion comes out and as always I will be back to give you guys the recap on that if you have any thoughts feel free to send them my way I always love hearing from you guys also called MAFS on all the socials until next time guys bye

Love is Blind Sweden - Season 3 Eps. 10-11

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