Love is Blind Sweden - Season 3 Eps. 6-8

0:12 [SPEAKER_00]: Hi everybody, welcome to all-to-call, it's a new episode of Love as Blind, Sweet and Season 3, Episode 6 to 8. [SPEAKER_00]: It is your host, Tane, here is solo with this season. [SPEAKER_00]: And the season continues to be what it is from the last time. [SPEAKER_00]: So I'm just going to accept that that's what it is.

0:29 [SPEAKER_00]: Everybody just seems miserable. [SPEAKER_00]: they don't seem happy to be here and be just have to wait and see how this unfolds by the end of the season. [SPEAKER_00]: Some updates from Love is Blind Italy. [SPEAKER_00]: If you guys remember, if you watched it, Brian kept saying he was going to try to be on Trader's Italy or something like that.

0:54 [SPEAKER_00]: Turns out it wasn't that, and thank you to Giovanni, the listener slash, [SPEAKER_00]: Love is mine Italy consultant for updating me that Giovanni is now on celebrity Big Brother Italy. [SPEAKER_00]: So I mean, I guess it paid off for him that he gets to be on other shows and be a menace on other shows.

1:14 [SPEAKER_00]: And still in Love is mine Italy, if you remember Ludovica and Nicola are together. [SPEAKER_00]: Ludovica was Nicola's other choice, so they were in a triangle together, Ludovica ended up with WD and Nicola was with Karen, and they seemed to have found their way with each other, and she's very close friends with Giovanni.

1:37 [SPEAKER_00]: I mean we kept wondering how they kept being friends with Giovanni, but I mean I guess it's different when he's not a character, and the last thing Giovanni told her was, don't have a waiting until I'm out of the big brother house, [SPEAKER_00]: there's that. [SPEAKER_00]: Very, very interesting.

1:55 [SPEAKER_00]: Just wanted to update you guys. [SPEAKER_00]: If you guys happen to watch, love is blind, Italy. [SPEAKER_00]: So back to love is blind Sweden. [SPEAKER_00]: Just going to go through the highlights for each couples and the highlights of what happens when they pot squad all meet up. [SPEAKER_00]: So we have Daniel and Johanna.

2:12 [SPEAKER_00]: Remember Daniel is the one that is 43 years old. [SPEAKER_00]: Ghana is the one who lives in Australia but is back as a Sweden if she found someone that she would want to move for once it's been the rest of her life or by the way it's looking it is not Daniel. [SPEAKER_00]: So remember by the end of the last batch of episodes she told producers that he told her that he wanted to quit.

2:34 [SPEAKER_00]: and he told him that when he went to the bathroom, but he comes back and she asks, she just acts like nothing has happened and he does too until she brings it up and tells him like, he shouldn't easily want to leave and he's just like, yeah, I don't like it when, you know, we kiss and you were saying, don't steal my lipstick.

2:54 [SPEAKER_00]: And it feels like she doesn't want him to kiss her. [SPEAKER_00]: Which is what I was reading. [SPEAKER_00]: Like these two keep saying with their mouths, their mouths are moving and saying like, I want to be with you and I want to make this work. [SPEAKER_00]: But everybody language is saying otherwise.

3:08 [SPEAKER_00]: But she tries to tell them that it's a joke. [SPEAKER_00]: Like, you know, every time you kiss me, and they still comes off. [SPEAKER_00]: So I'm just joking. [SPEAKER_00]: And it's not that serious, but he says it makes him spiral. [SPEAKER_00]: So I don't know if he's picking up, [SPEAKER_00]: a buddy language thing we can't see that.

3:22 [SPEAKER_00]: Well, maybe we can't through the screen because that's what I'm seeing, but they're saying otherwise. [SPEAKER_00]: She also brings up that it's difficult to bring up deep questions with him and they're just being surface. [SPEAKER_00]: And if you remember, this was the same criticism that Ellen had for him.

3:34 [SPEAKER_00]: Ellen was his number two. [SPEAKER_00]: He's real number one for real for real. [SPEAKER_00]: but he doesn't know how to go deep. [SPEAKER_00]: He says that he is interested in everything and the thing is like when he feels like she's not showing any interest at the walls come up. [SPEAKER_00]: So he says that okay he takes it to heart and he got engaged to her for a reason and he's sorry and they seem to be fine [SPEAKER_00]: because I don't know, we switch from him saying that he wanted to go home to them saying, oh, I want to make it work and I'm going to work hard for you for this.

4:09 [SPEAKER_00]: He says he doesn't want to look through the rear view mirror. [SPEAKER_00]: He wants to look through the cracked windshield and I'm like, okay, enough for the metaphor. [SPEAKER_00]: It's just go work and how to be deep on your emotions. [SPEAKER_00]: So they have a cocktail hour. [SPEAKER_00]: I'm just still in Greece at this point.

4:25 [SPEAKER_00]: Yes, and all the couples come together for a cocktail hour. [SPEAKER_00]: And Ely shares that all as well with Abraham. [SPEAKER_00]: She shares that like their little hiccup that they have, where Abraham is beginning to show doubts, but I'm going to talk about them in a few. [SPEAKER_00]: They don't show them a lot compared to everyone else.

4:45 [SPEAKER_00]: that's all she shares with the group and says that everything is fine. [SPEAKER_00]: They call out Lars Eric, Lars Eric is the one who's a Christian and is with Rania, who is not. [SPEAKER_00]: And he shares how hot and cold, you know, she is being and she made a seven days comment where she's just like, [SPEAKER_00]: when they move back to when they go back to Sweden and move to the comment if she doesn't have feelings for him in seven days she's just gonna leave and he says like it's just a weird comment and he wants to love her the way that he wants to um she shares the same thing when she's with the ladies and saying that something is off and i'm like duh because you guys are incompatible i don't know why that's so hard

5:26 [SPEAKER_00]: To see Daniel shares about her complaint about his lack of depth and Ibrahim says so in all of this have you asked her what her love language is and of course he hasn't and Aaron is wondering if outside influences would affect how Angelica feels about him You want to share is the issues that she's having with Daniel with the ladies [SPEAKER_00]: And Rania, of course, is talking about Aaron and how he's so great, of course.

5:53 [SPEAKER_00]: Camila and Ludrig arrived late, and because at that time everyone is like, oh, where are they? [SPEAKER_00]: Remember the last thing that we saw with them, we're trying to have a conversation, and we couldn't tell how they're broken up or how they not. [SPEAKER_00]: But they come up late, they will show us them and the elevator and things like that.

6:08 [SPEAKER_00]: But as soon as he comes, he goes off with his bestie Daniel. [SPEAKER_00]: Then Ludrig tears up and tells the guys that, [SPEAKER_00]: She doesn't validate him physically and they broke things up. [SPEAKER_00]: He says that he knows it will come later, but he already knows the kind of girl that he wants and he just wants it to be natural and he doesn't think that it's going to happen with Camilla.

6:29 [SPEAKER_00]: Camilla is with the girls and tearing up as well. [SPEAKER_00]: And she takes Anila aside and tells her how he broke up with her that he didn't even give it time, give them time to try. [SPEAKER_00]: and see if, you know, it was going to work out. [SPEAKER_00]: The girl's also supporting her, letting her know that, you know, he didn't try, he didn't give her a space that he made the complaint and broke it off.

6:48 [SPEAKER_00]: And Johannes says, like, listen, even for us, like, we're not being physical. [SPEAKER_00]: And I was confused. [SPEAKER_00]: I thought Ludwig meant like PDA not sex, but these people are very cagey about intimacy, like listen, we are on episode eight. [SPEAKER_00]: I don't know which couples are having sex or not or how far gone.

7:09 [SPEAKER_00]: So I guess this season they're choosing not to talk about that. [SPEAKER_00]: So I'm confused as to what Ludwig meant, whether it was PDA because all along, I just thought it was PDA. [SPEAKER_00]: I have no idea. [SPEAKER_00]: So Camilla says it's funny that she says that because they being Camilla and Daniel at the couple that Ludwig brings up the most.

7:33 [SPEAKER_00]: I told you all that he loves him some Daniel. [SPEAKER_00]: Daniel tells the guys that yeah they've been having the same conversation that they're having and Ludwig is like, what? [SPEAKER_00]: Really? [SPEAKER_00]: I don't think he believes it. [SPEAKER_00]: You Hannah tells Camilla that [SPEAKER_00]: and that the ring isn't a leg spreader.

7:51 [SPEAKER_00]: It's an engagement ring. [SPEAKER_00]: That's funny. [SPEAKER_00]: The guy is trying to tell him to give it time and he was like, no, I don't feel well. [SPEAKER_00]: This is what the translation says. [SPEAKER_00]: And I don't want to be in a relationship where I don't feel well. [SPEAKER_00]: So Daniel says that he's going to the bathroom.

8:05 [SPEAKER_00]: I'm been instead. [SPEAKER_00]: He grabs Johanna and tells her how upset he is that everything that's going on with Ludwig and Kimilla, I'm like, wow, feeling for your friends. [SPEAKER_00]: Kind of like, worse than him, just in for a match when he was so upset. [SPEAKER_00]: He's crying as he, you know, rubs up on her.

8:22 [SPEAKER_00]: It tells us like he doesn't want them to be that way. [SPEAKER_00]: He doesn't want it to end up that way that they have to keep fighting and making this work. [SPEAKER_00]: Lars Eric tells Ludric that he's in the same boat and Ronny Ellison Sinnilla talk about all the things that, you know, Ludric needs to do.

8:40 [SPEAKER_00]: for Camilla. [SPEAKER_00]: And I think she's seeing herself in that role as well. [SPEAKER_00]: And Logic seems surprised that more people are going through the same stuff because in his mind everybody's further along and that's what's really eating him up is the fact that everyone else is further along.

8:59 [SPEAKER_00]: Ibrahim calls out [SPEAKER_00]: Ronia about the way that she's shooting Lars Eric and she's stuck on goal. [SPEAKER_00]: I mean, I don't want to lie. [SPEAKER_00]: I want to be very honest with him. [SPEAKER_00]: Yes, I said so if I don't have feelings for him in seven days, then I will be gone.

9:13 [SPEAKER_00]: So I think it tries to give Daniel advice. [SPEAKER_00]: He's not listening, and he's just like, I'm not a deep person. [SPEAKER_00]: I'm not gonna force myself to think of things that I've been through to talk about if I don't have them, they're just not there. [SPEAKER_00]: He says that while she's there, he's just like, okay, I'm gonna find out her love language and then I'll figure it out.

9:32 [SPEAKER_00]: And they're like, she's right there, why don't you just ask her what her love language is? [SPEAKER_00]: He's talking about, you're gonna find out. [SPEAKER_00]: And it turns out to be access service and quality time. [SPEAKER_00]: Ronnier tells Ludwig that she is the Camilla in their relationship and he's like, well, she's not even telling me that she likes me, that, you know, and someone else tells the same thing to Camilla and they were like, just tell him that you like him, you're willing to work on it and she goes to talk to him.

9:58 [SPEAKER_00]: Basically, everyone is in everyone's business. [SPEAKER_00]: Like, you'll see someone takes someone out and they'll be like, oh, let's go talk and then someone else will just come in, join the conversation and everybody's just giving their two cents. [SPEAKER_00]: or there are two chrono, what is the currency in Sweden, whatever it is in there, and then it just becomes like a whole project.

10:15 [SPEAKER_00]: So Camilla tries to tell Ludwig that he's idol couple, general, and Johanna haven't done anything either, and that she still wants to try, and that's how they're working on it. [SPEAKER_00]: And he's just like, yeah, I don't know if I believe that. [SPEAKER_00]: And he's just like, what?

10:28 [SPEAKER_00]: And he's like, yeah, I don't think I believe that. [SPEAKER_00]: Like, I think they're just saying things to make us feel better. [SPEAKER_00]: So there's no way. [SPEAKER_00]: They're all LovyWee, and I'm like, [SPEAKER_00]: She's telling you this because Yohana said so Daniel told you himself and you're just like, whoa, but you are lovely, that can't be true and you're choosing to believe what you want.

10:47 [SPEAKER_00]: So if you just don't want to be with her, then just say that. [SPEAKER_00]: So she tries to talk, he keeps cutting her off and saying that she's not taking initiative. [SPEAKER_00]: And again, he just doesn't want to be with her anymore. [SPEAKER_00]: She gets frustrated and she just says, [SPEAKER_00]: And as if it was not enough interaction with this group, they all meet again for breakfast the next day.

11:13 [SPEAKER_00]: The host Jessica comes by and lets them know the Ludwig and Camilla left the experiment and that's it. [SPEAKER_00]: Ronia thinks Largerick for being patient when she said that she wanted to leave, that she realizes that that was a strong statement and she's committed to trying with their relationship.

11:32 [SPEAKER_00]: And yeah, so that was the first interaction that they all had and then everybody, they move go back home to Sweden and they've all moved into their apartment. [SPEAKER_00]: I think it's the same apartment that they've been using every season. [SPEAKER_00]: It's pretty nice. [SPEAKER_00]: They moved in and you want to still look so miserable as Daniel is regarding her with details for a party while it seems like she's sick.

11:57 [SPEAKER_00]: she's drinking tea and honey and he's going somewhere. [SPEAKER_00]: I'm not sure where he's going. [SPEAKER_00]: Well, when he's telling her about the party, he's just saying, like, oh, this is going to be this. [SPEAKER_00]: This is going to be that. [SPEAKER_00]: And she's like, I'm just trying to feel better and he's like, well, just drink lots of tea and honey, so you can feel better.

12:12 [SPEAKER_00]: But he just seems detached. [SPEAKER_00]: He doesn't seem like he's present in there. [SPEAKER_00]: So he's headed somewhere. [SPEAKER_00]: I'm not sure, but maybe for his job, he's a toast master. [SPEAKER_00]: I'm interpreting it as him being an MC. [SPEAKER_00]: If someone is familiar with this, let me know if I'm correct in that.

12:30 [SPEAKER_00]: So I think he needs to go out of town for a wedding. [SPEAKER_00]: So when he's gone, he's supposed to be back, I guess the next day. [SPEAKER_00]: He, she still has heard of him, but he heard from him. [SPEAKER_00]: to tell her that yeah he hasn't come home he hasn't said anything and her mom is like well just call him and find out what's going on and you know she's like I guess I have to try that and I'm like what are you guys doing how are you engaging you don't want to call and he doesn't want to call to say hey or text or anything this is just so bizarre so she does call but when she calls he's like oh I was just trying to give you space because I didn't want to be in your space

13:11 [SPEAKER_00]: to let you think and she's like, okay, I'll come home. [SPEAKER_00]: So he comes home, they still look miserable. [SPEAKER_00]: She says it was hard being alone with her thoughts and he's like, yeah, I don't want to come back and then you have these complaints, it makes me insecure, that we're just staying at home staring at each other.

13:27 [SPEAKER_00]: This is so painful to watch, that I can't imagine that it's not painful to live. [SPEAKER_00]: They to live through. [SPEAKER_00]: They talk about him [SPEAKER_00]: He just wouldn't listen. [SPEAKER_00]: You can't tell that this man is a 40-year-old man because it doesn't feel like he's learned anything.

13:47 [SPEAKER_00]: I think he just wants to live life on his terms and when things don't work out, he's just like, oh, well, I did my best. [SPEAKER_00]: Because he keeps every now and then berating himself, like, [SPEAKER_00]: Am I such an idiot? [SPEAKER_00]: Why can't I see these things that is so simple?

14:00 [SPEAKER_00]: Kind of like when Abraham was just like, okay, do you know her love language is something so simple? [SPEAKER_00]: But you haven't done it. [SPEAKER_00]: You haven't asked, you haven't done the work. [SPEAKER_00]: You just want everything to be easy, but you're gonna have to put in work to do that.

14:11 [SPEAKER_00]: She says I feel like you don't understand me and he says I agree. [SPEAKER_00]: And then he just flips it and it's like, I've missed you, I've missed you so much and he says he's not going anywhere that they have to, you know, work things out. [SPEAKER_00]: And they're eating as usual to eat a lot on this series, maybe it's always been that way, but the season.

14:31 [SPEAKER_00]: It's very noticeable to just always eating and he's eating his one of those as his eating, he's like, mmm. [SPEAKER_00]: And she says some things have happened and she doesn't know if she can trust him and that's a terrible feeling to sit with. [SPEAKER_00]: So that's the highlights for them.

14:48 [SPEAKER_00]: We are going to talk about it. [SPEAKER_00]: She eventually shares about what happens with them. [SPEAKER_00]: So I will take a quick break and I will be right back with the other couples. [SPEAKER_00]: Okay, I'm back. [SPEAKER_00]: Let's go with Lars Eric and Rania. [SPEAKER_00]: he says that he's good at reading people, but she's not easy to read and he didn't understand what she said yesterday about where they're headed.

15:12 [SPEAKER_00]: If you recall, this is the couple that annoys me so much because it's very obvious that they're not meant to be together and they just [SPEAKER_00]: forcing it, you could say that very couple, but these people in particular, I don't know what they're doing. [SPEAKER_00]: He tells her that, he can't read her, he doesn't understand what she said yesterday.

15:32 [SPEAKER_00]: And she said, and it seemed like you were upset that if we get to Stockholm, and I don't have feelings in a week, then she doesn't want to continue. [SPEAKER_00]: Which is an insane thing to say, by the way. [SPEAKER_00]: I just want to point that out. [SPEAKER_00]: you're basically giving your fiance an ultimatum like I just sometimes don't say everything out like just fill it out and just oh be nice yes you're being honest and I know you people get obsessed with being honest but consider the fact that somebody else is absorbing that honesty and there are human being with emotions [SPEAKER_00]: He says that when she says things like that to protect herself and if she keeps saying things like that they'll never fall in love and that it's just added pressure.

16:12 [SPEAKER_00]: He doesn't know what to do because he likes her. [SPEAKER_00]: He doesn't know how he can make her fall in love with her and now he seems like she's pulling back. [SPEAKER_00]: She tries to explain how she felt trapped after he mentioned that he needed attention. [SPEAKER_00]: I don't know what he said was a he needed attention.

16:28 [SPEAKER_00]: He said when they were in the beach party with the other couples that it would be nice. [SPEAKER_00]: If she if she just came by, you know, give him a kiss here and there and just felt like she wanted to be around him and she just felt like she wanted to be around other people, which again, not an ask they just met you are in your quote unquote honeymoon phase.

16:49 [SPEAKER_00]: That's not a big ask you know to ask of your partner and he says like after that like since you pull back I don't know how to approach you like can I be near you? [SPEAKER_00]: Can I not be near you? [SPEAKER_00]: Do you need space and she's like I mean I'm not gonna say oh we can kiss today we can hug today I was like well maybe you should put it for chart because we don't know and I do think she was kind of Rallying him up and I'm saying rallying because I don't want to use a word gas light [SPEAKER_00]: But he does have a point in what he's saying and body language is very heavy because that is the vibe that I was getting to You just seem to know it when you were around like honestly.

17:25 [SPEAKER_00]: There's a difference between wishes or winchers around him And wishes around Aaron when she was around Aaron all my god. [SPEAKER_00]: She was glowing For lack of a better word. [SPEAKER_00]: So [SPEAKER_00]: She does say that he's talking over her again, which is true. [SPEAKER_00]: I was Eric tends to talk over her.

17:42 [SPEAKER_00]: And she says sometimes you sit there smiling and saying, oh, you're so cute. [SPEAKER_00]: And it's like, treat me like the person that I am. [SPEAKER_00]: And I'm like, huh? [SPEAKER_00]: Like, [SPEAKER_00]: It's bad. [SPEAKER_00]: I mean, remember she's the one who thinks that he's love bombing her.

17:56 [SPEAKER_00]: And so I guess giving compliments is a bad thing. [SPEAKER_00]: I don't know, guys, I don't know. [SPEAKER_00]: So he says, you know, I want to see you happy and you happiness seems to be with hanging with other people. [SPEAKER_00]: So I'm glad we're having another get together. [SPEAKER_00]: So you can be with people and be happy.

18:15 [SPEAKER_00]: I'm like that is such a strange thing to say. [SPEAKER_00]: And then they sit in awkward silence. [SPEAKER_00]: And yes, this couple still annoys me. [SPEAKER_00]: They move in, they're back in Stockholm and back in Sweden, and then I don't know there's been a shift They are laughing and she says she's beginning to feel like she has feelings for him He comes home and she says I think human for like something He went to work, maybe he didn't even go away for days.

18:41 [SPEAKER_00]: He's a coach or something He comes home and she's like I missed you. [SPEAKER_00]: She says all these nice things about him and I'm like, okay [SPEAKER_00]: all as well what do we know so then they have friends and family his sister Victoria comes by her friends come by and you know they ask her she's in love but she doesn't really answer she said the thing is she trusts her gut because our friend is like your gut instinct is usually right and she said she doesn't know what her gut is saying and you know our friend is like well your gut should not be saying anything like you even overwrite anything [SPEAKER_00]: If you're thinking it, like you're feeling should take over and you would even have time to check your gut.

19:20 [SPEAKER_00]: She says she feels strongly for him, but what happened and she knows they're going to make it to the altar, but what happens is she says no. [SPEAKER_00]: And I'm like, why are you worrying about what happens if you say no? [SPEAKER_00]: Because you're no means you're not getting married.

19:32 [SPEAKER_00]: That's what happens. [SPEAKER_00]: I love it. [SPEAKER_00]: So he tells his sister that he feels questioned by her friends, because they had a conversation about religion, which is their bone of contention, which is the thing that annoys me. [SPEAKER_00]: You know this thing is so important to you.

19:48 [SPEAKER_00]: You know, Ronnie, that you rolled your eyes when he said no sex, and you know that you have no problem with not having sex right now. [SPEAKER_00]: Well, we don't know what is happening, but I'm assuming maybe because he did say that he was celibate and we know that you're okay, that the fact that you're having sex because you don't like him like that.

20:06 [SPEAKER_00]: So you're you can go along with it. [SPEAKER_00]: So there was talking about the faith thing and how, you know, they're going to come to a compromise and he's like there's a lot of questions and he just feels like the questions are challenging his character. [SPEAKER_00]: And his sister was like, yeah, it doesn't feel right.

20:22 [SPEAKER_00]: I think that's on point in the conversation. [SPEAKER_00]: She was like, I just wouldn't date someone who doesn't shit the same faith as me. [SPEAKER_00]: That's just what I would do. [SPEAKER_00]: And [SPEAKER_00]: you know, he says like he doesn't want to feel like when she says things like maybe you were in my life to realize that not all men are bad and then I learn less and he's like I'm not a lesson to be learned.

20:41 [SPEAKER_00]: So I don't know, Lars is just not realizing that his Christianity is a cool and cool problem and you know that she says that he's too extreme and he doesn't think that he's that extreme. [SPEAKER_00]: He just thinks that she wants to weigh out. [SPEAKER_00]: Um, I don't feel bad for him because she was very clear about what she stood and you wanted to hide behind God teaching you a lesson and whatever else he was saying.

21:04 [SPEAKER_00]: And now it's your problem to deal with it. [SPEAKER_00]: So good luck. [SPEAKER_00]: Um, Ibrahim and Anila, um, they are excited about moving in together, he says they're going to date and he says it's impossible to know, um, their thoughts and opinions in the pods because it's very different from when they come out and I'm like, uh, all you do is talk in the pods.

21:27 [SPEAKER_00]: That's all you have to concentrate about. [SPEAKER_00]: Like, what is it? [SPEAKER_00]: And I think that is the [SPEAKER_00]: Love is blind in general how things are so great in the pods and then immediately they come out. [SPEAKER_00]: It's like It's not the same at all. [SPEAKER_00]: So Maybe the show should not be is love blind or the question should not be is love blind is Is love blind outside the pods put that outside the pods in parentheses because It's a problem with these people come out the pods and all of a sudden that cocoon is that safety net gone creates a whole bunch of problems.

22:02 [UNKNOWN]: So [SPEAKER_00]: Um, I wonder if the show would be different if they are still in the pods, but they get to do every day life, well, I guess it is diluted it didn't it doesn't count, but it's just a stark difference between the pods and outside is so stark that it's even because they find it so jarring I'm finding it so jarring like it's like what is the point of the pods.

22:24 [SPEAKER_00]: if it doesn't translate and it doesn't give you some kind of foundation. [SPEAKER_00]: Not to say it doesn't work, but this Swedish season season 3 is so extreme in the way that everyone is so unhappy that it's just like a gloom and doom. [SPEAKER_00]: It's not like [SPEAKER_00]: There's no romance or a loveie to be here.

22:42 [SPEAKER_00]: Even when there, loveie to be, I don't know that it is genuine because someone's always complaining about something and it just feels like all the time they spent in the pod was for nothing. [SPEAKER_00]: So he says that he's questioning their dynamics and she asks if he thinks that she's too outspoken and if he thinks that, then he should speak up.

23:06 [SPEAKER_00]: I'm like, great answer. [SPEAKER_00]: great answer, do not demulate for anyone else. [SPEAKER_00]: He says that he felt more seen and heard in the pods, and he sure that she feels the same way. [SPEAKER_00]: And she's like, I don't like, I feel the same way I felt in the pods. [SPEAKER_00]: I felt safe there.

23:23 [SPEAKER_00]: I feel safe now with you. [SPEAKER_00]: And he says that, you know, he has a tendency. [SPEAKER_00]: She tells him that he has a tendency to be in his thoughts, like even now that they're talking, that he keeps looking around and maybe him not focusing is what's making him [SPEAKER_00]: That's great because I don't I just I said it last batch of episodes I think your brain him is insecure like right from the very beginning.

23:46 [SPEAKER_00]: He's just insecure and he's not Sure about his thoughts and his feelings and instead of just dealing with it and admitting that it's a him problem He's trying to project it on her but she has more confidence and is sure in which he stands on what she feels So he's not shaking her and somehow I think [SPEAKER_00]: that affects him like why is she not shaking and I'm just like in shambles.

24:12 [SPEAKER_00]: about this whole thing. [SPEAKER_00]: Then he throws out, he's just throwing out anything. [SPEAKER_00]: I don't feel seen. [SPEAKER_00]: I don't feel heard. [SPEAKER_00]: And I don't know our thoughts and opinions in the pods and our dynamics and you're outspoken. [SPEAKER_00]: And then he's like, you know, I just wonder if you know who I am.

24:29 [SPEAKER_00]: And then he confesses that, you know, things are starting, this isn't a confessional. [SPEAKER_00]: That things are starting to get serious. [SPEAKER_00]: So he doesn't know, like he's beginning to get scared. [SPEAKER_00]: So [SPEAKER_00]: she says like he he asked her she has any concerns and she's like I mean of course I do but it's not like I still know what I feel about you but because she says that you know she does have some doubts every now and then.

24:52 [SPEAKER_00]: Abraham the insecure feels better because now he's like, okay, I feel better that you have doubts and I'm like, so you only, this is crazy. [SPEAKER_00]: You only feel better when she's feeling down, but not when she's really confident about you guys. [SPEAKER_00]: So in the pot, they had discussed about moving.

25:06 [SPEAKER_00]: He said it was fine. [SPEAKER_00]: He was gonna move. [SPEAKER_00]: It's okay. [SPEAKER_00]: Now he tells her, like, oh yeah, like, you know, he told my coworker that was gonna move and, you know, I was just saying how hard it's gonna be for me to leave my job and yet again, it feels like this decision has been made so quickly.

25:22 [SPEAKER_00]: and I don't understand. [SPEAKER_00]: Was there not a thought before joining the show? [SPEAKER_00]: If you know you could move, why didn't you open your mouth and say, hey, I'm not gonna be able to move. [SPEAKER_00]: So then she can weigh out her options and who she's gonna pick. [SPEAKER_00]: You wanna have to pick you and now she's picked you and now you wanna go back on what you said.

25:41 [SPEAKER_00]: He takes her to his home, but his home is a mess because did he not expect to go home with someone? [SPEAKER_00]: And he actually makes her wait as a door while he does like a rush titing up and just gathers a whole bunch of stuff, pushes it, you know, we had to closet and dust things here and there and I'm like, good grief.

26:00 [SPEAKER_00]: But um, it was awkward. [SPEAKER_00]: But he says in a confessional that he did say he would move to [SPEAKER_00]: He doesn't know. [SPEAKER_00]: And I don't think about it, for him, is like, he just looks, he looks sketchy all the time. [SPEAKER_00]: You know how she mentioned that he's always looking around.

26:22 [SPEAKER_00]: He's always looking around. [SPEAKER_00]: She's not lying. [SPEAKER_00]: He just always looks like either he's in distress or he's looking around like, oh, he's gonna be hard like looking over his shoulder and it just never feels like he's there. [SPEAKER_00]: And then even when he's there, he looks like he just needs her to hold him and say like, oh, you're never gonna go.

26:38 [SPEAKER_00]: That he's just always full of insecurity and doubts. [SPEAKER_00]: I don't know, I don't know if these two are going to make it, but we'll see. [SPEAKER_00]: I'll take a quick break and I will be right back. [SPEAKER_00]: Alright, Erin and Angelica. [SPEAKER_00]: So last week, Lars Eric and Ronnie, I were the couple that really, really enjoyed me.

26:59 [SPEAKER_00]: This week, it is Erin and Angelica. [SPEAKER_00]: 100% because of Angelica. [SPEAKER_00]: They showed them a lot on this episode. [SPEAKER_00]: And you know, they're sitting together. [SPEAKER_00]: He asked her if anything has been on her mind. [SPEAKER_00]: And she says that she's been panicking, thinking about home, thinking about what will people think.

27:18 [SPEAKER_00]: And I wish they told us more on what she means, what will people think about what? [SPEAKER_00]: Aaron being too tall, you being on the show, [SPEAKER_00]: you being engaged, you getting married, what is the part that you're really concerned about? [SPEAKER_00]: She says she's worried about it because she cares about what people think and he says that what people think is not gonna affect his decisions that he's doing what is best for him and she says like, oh, they're not gonna get it and I'm like, this is so annoying.

27:50 [SPEAKER_00]: This is what I mean by this cast, not knowing what show [SPEAKER_00]: they have come on. [SPEAKER_00]: And now this really convinces me that everybody on this franchise is just aiming to go on a free trip, because it's just like there's something that just clicks. [SPEAKER_00]: I'm not saying that it's not realistic, like it's not understandable that once the honeymoon is over, you're like, oh my god, whatever I done, you have to face real life, but you knew that.

28:18 [SPEAKER_00]: So what do you mean what people would think? [SPEAKER_00]: Like, you knew you were signing up for a show. [SPEAKER_00]: You knew there was a chance you were gonna get engaged while you were an experiment, while you were getting proposed to, you could say no, look at Ellen, she said no. [SPEAKER_00]: But you said yes, and then now you're just like, people are not gonna get it.

28:33 [SPEAKER_00]: If you cared about what people think, don't come on this show, it's not that hard. [SPEAKER_00]: You know, so there's a weird transition to them getting their phone back. [SPEAKER_00]: Um, we don't really see anything. [SPEAKER_00]: We just see that they'll have their phones back and then Aaron asks, she's that's crying all of a sudden she's crying and she's like crying because she's seeing all the names and then Aaron asks how he can help her but she says that she's scared and she wants to call her parents but she wants to talk to them by herself.

29:12 [SPEAKER_00]: He consults her. [SPEAKER_00]: He tells her like, you know, if you ever need anything, you can just come to me. [SPEAKER_00]: You don't need to even say words, just sit there and even if you can't talk and I'll just hold you and that's okay. [SPEAKER_00]: And I'm so annoyed at this point because why are you here?

29:28 [SPEAKER_00]: Like if you really really cared this much about people's thoughts, I just don't think that this is the show for you. [SPEAKER_00]: And he's being understanding. [SPEAKER_00]: And nothing about this is [SPEAKER_00]: gonna help your partner's confidence because he just feels like you are embarrassed like he's embarrassing you and so you're not proud to show them off and again I wish we had more clarity like are you embarrassed by him or are you embarrassed like you are on the show I am not quite sure how much of your parents how much do they know about you coming on this show [SPEAKER_00]: And that's the other thing, there's not a lot of, like we see some family and friends, but it's not the same, like where we saw the mother, the father.

30:10 [SPEAKER_00]: I don't even think we see any parents, and the next batch is going to be, I believe, the weddings, I could be wrong, but yeah, we haven't seen any parents yet. [SPEAKER_00]: So then she talks about, um, she's planning her workout sessions with Johanna and Ronja that they have classes that they have to do and I think in a noise him, but he doesn't say anything and then when she asked like, you know, are you worried she hasn't this a lot are you worried like do you want him to be worried and he says like it depends on how much you plant things with other people versus.

30:41 [SPEAKER_00]: versus me and you. [SPEAKER_00]: She starts picking at him and then she'll laugh about it, but he's calm, but I am enraged at this point. [SPEAKER_00]: Like, he was cutting kick and buzz, and she's just like, why are you cutting it that way? [SPEAKER_00]: Why are you doing this? [SPEAKER_00]: Like, she'll just do something.

30:57 [SPEAKER_00]: It's like when someone says something mean and then they add it LOL at the end, that's what she was doing. [SPEAKER_00]: She'll just do something in their life, and he's like, okay. [SPEAKER_00]: I think at some point he just left it just kind of walked away and then she says like you're so calm Like I'm not even used to it like you just seem to be too calm and he's like you want me to yell at you And then she goes, no, I'm not saying that he's like I'm not always calm Then you that at some point it will come out, but I'm okay for now and then she goes like well When is it gonna come out how long do I have to wait?

31:28 [SPEAKER_00]: And I'm like oh my god [SPEAKER_00]: It's so sad that a woman or so damn hitch that when you get an even kill person, you just assume that something is wrong and I kind of feel bad for Aaron at this point. [SPEAKER_00]: They talk about plans for the next day since they just moved into the apartment.

31:45 [SPEAKER_00]: She says, oh, I told you I have a workout class and he goes, okay, afterwards and then she goes, oh, yeah, I'm seeing a friend afterwards and then [SPEAKER_00]: She's like you can tag along if you want and he's like I don't like this like I don't want to tag along and then she planned please don't when he says I don't like it and she's like what you don't like that I'm planning things I'm like oh my gosh, this is so annoying, but he does speak up and he's like listen, I've been there before where I didn't say anything and I was taking for granted and I'm not going to do it again and I'm just saying that.

32:14 [SPEAKER_00]: So they're eating and then she's like, well, I'm glad that you spoke up for yourself. [SPEAKER_00]: And he's like, was it a test? [SPEAKER_00]: Because I don't appreciate that. [SPEAKER_00]: Like, I've told you that don't test me. [SPEAKER_00]: Don't think that I'm a pushover because I'm not.

32:26 [SPEAKER_00]: I like you. [SPEAKER_00]: So I listen to you, but when he gets too much, I'm not going to be the same. [SPEAKER_00]: Like, don't test me. [SPEAKER_00]: And then, again, she's laughing. [SPEAKER_00]: I guess it's Mexican food night because they're also eating a burrito, which Yohana and Daniel were eating as well.

32:45 [SPEAKER_00]: So her friends are coming over to see them, and she's very, very nervous. [SPEAKER_00]: And as usual, she's like, are you worried? [SPEAKER_00]: And he's like, no, I am not worried. [SPEAKER_00]: Her friend, her best friend Julia and Samir, [SPEAKER_00]: It was not clear to me if Julia and Samir are a couple or if they're just her friends, but they come by.

33:03 [SPEAKER_00]: Julia and the past has hated the people that she's dated, but when they meet, Aaron is like, oh, I've heard so much about you, and Julia says like, oh, that's great because I haven't heard anything about you. [SPEAKER_00]: We just strange for someone who is concerned about what people think and what's the approval of her best friend.

33:25 [SPEAKER_00]: So I don't know. [SPEAKER_00]: So they have conversations. [SPEAKER_00]: They are just joking around. [SPEAKER_00]: And Jelika goes to talk to Julia and Julia says, you know, so how is it been? [SPEAKER_00]: What's going on? [SPEAKER_00]: What are your concerns? [SPEAKER_00]: And Jelika says things something like he's very slow.

33:40 [SPEAKER_00]: And Julia is worried about, oh, is it going to be as wild and crazy as we are? [SPEAKER_00]: And I'm like priorities. [SPEAKER_00]: Like, I don't think in Jelika is ready for marriage. [SPEAKER_00]: I just [SPEAKER_00]: I actually reach your leap here. [SPEAKER_00]: I actually think that she might be here for the cloud to be honest with you.

33:59 [SPEAKER_00]: She just happened to be with a man who is attractive and is hot and is like, oh, how can I pass this up? [SPEAKER_00]: But I don't know that she's ready for marriage. [SPEAKER_00]: Which is funny because they are one of the front runners to actually get married, but we'll see. [SPEAKER_00]: So she actually tells Julia that when he walked out she was like, [SPEAKER_00]: Like he's not her type and Julia is actually the one who says like um he's gorgeous And you are going to have competition and I do feel that he's a bit guy and you are the queen on his throne And you know when they come out some air says it's up to you for work and you shouldn't overthink it and just go for it [SPEAKER_00]: And, you know, Angelica is still talking to Julia and says, like, you should see him in the gym, that when you see him, he's a dream, and honestly there's really nothing wrong with him, I'm the problem.

34:47 [SPEAKER_00]: Julia is like, oh, when you see him in the gym, do you want to have sex with him, or you turn on, and she's like, yes. [SPEAKER_00]: And I just think that Angelica likes the aesthetics of Aaron, and, again, not ready. [SPEAKER_00]: She's just shallow, like she likes the fact that [SPEAKER_00]: Presumably she has the hottest man in the experiment and when she walks you know down the street like people are gonna be looking at them, but everything else that comes with A marriage.

35:13 [SPEAKER_00]: I don't know that she's ready and I don't know if she likes him because she makes a comment about that slow thing a lot and let's not forget what he said in the past that he's looking for someone to grow with [SPEAKER_00]: She's looking for what I think is self-made man, so we'll see how this works.

35:30 [SPEAKER_00]: Again, I always tell you guys, I cannot predict love is blind, love is blind is a one where you think you know you have no idea and then there's the ones who's probably gonna last forever, but [SPEAKER_00]: based on this, these are my observations. [SPEAKER_00]: They're doing cake tasting for the wedding and they have different flavors in front of them.

35:49 [SPEAKER_00]: She says she likes to chocolate, but she's like, oh, but let's not do it because a lot of people are not going to like it. [SPEAKER_00]: And then she's like, oh, my dad doesn't like it. [SPEAKER_00]: She named somebody else that doesn't like it. [SPEAKER_00]: And Erin is like, this is the one that you like.

36:01 [SPEAKER_00]: And you're removing it because other people won't like it. [SPEAKER_00]: It's about us. [SPEAKER_00]: That doesn't make any sense. [SPEAKER_00]: Like stop doing things for other people and do things for yourself, which I think is going to be a problem. [SPEAKER_00]: Um, the funny part is one of the flavors was red velvet and she asked like, what kind of flavor is red velvet and he's like, it's some American nonsense.

36:23 [SPEAKER_00]: Yeah, as a flavor we're catching strays for no reason, but it's so funny when you reminded like, you know, red velvet is a staple flavor for us, but it's another country and another culture and over there is American nonsense. [SPEAKER_00]: But the gag is that is what they end up choosing.

36:40 [SPEAKER_00]: I mean red velvet kind of is technically chocolate, but They end up choosing that and you can see the relief and her face is like oh you like it and I like it because she definitely does not want to choose the chocolate And she's like let's just go with that [SPEAKER_00]: So they're going for a walk and he after eating the cake he's like, oh, I'm full.

36:57 [SPEAKER_00]: I don't want to go anywhere and she's like a get up. [SPEAKER_00]: He's like, I'm feeling like this. [SPEAKER_00]: I don't need to get ready. [SPEAKER_00]: She's like, change your clothes. [SPEAKER_00]: They change your clothes. [SPEAKER_00]: They're going out. [SPEAKER_00]: They're walking and then she's just again nitpicking.

37:08 [SPEAKER_00]: She asks like, is he hard to go out because people are looking at us and he's like, [SPEAKER_00]: don't care. [SPEAKER_00]: I just how does she live her life? [SPEAKER_00]: It's one thing to care about what people think, but the way Angelica's level is, it's a lot. [SPEAKER_00]: It really is a lot.

37:22 [SPEAKER_00]: And again, it's unclear whether she feels like people are staring at them because [SPEAKER_00]: He's so famous, or the cameras up with them. [SPEAKER_00]: So people are looking at the cameras, or he's so tall. [SPEAKER_00]: What is the thing about it being hard to go out because people are staring at them?

37:44 [SPEAKER_00]: But [SPEAKER_00]: Again, I'm so confused as to why she cares about everything, then she switches to like your diminishing my feelings and he's like, I don't know what you want for me. [SPEAKER_00]: You asked me do I care and I'm like, I don't care. [SPEAKER_00]: And you're saying that I'm diminishing your feelings and he's like, you're not telling me what it is that you want me to comment on or to care about.

38:03 [SPEAKER_00]: And she's like, and she really isn't saying what the issue is, but she's so annoying and she's like, give it a kiss, give me the my phone, and I'm going home and she literally just walks away and leaves him there on the trail and even I'm confused. [SPEAKER_00]: I don't know what the issue is.

38:21 [SPEAKER_00]: So. [SPEAKER_00]: the next day she's like so what happened after I left you like nothing happened because they all know how to pivot so quickly before I know how to gather my feelings together um she says it was just a lot for her and she was like this is how our marriage is going to be and he says like it worried me that you know you could lose your feelings so fast and like one minute you're in love and next minute low I don't care about you because of just one reason or the other and she claims that she doesn't do that all the time I'm like okay [SPEAKER_00]: again, I think she's immature.

38:53 [SPEAKER_00]: So he says like he understands, but even with this, again, Aaron is always very understanding. [SPEAKER_00]: He says he understands and he just wishes that she would communicate. [SPEAKER_00]: And you just know that deep inside she's like, stop being so good to me and let's something bad.

39:08 [SPEAKER_00]: So I have an excuse to just walk away and feel good about that. [SPEAKER_00]: So that was their highlights. [SPEAKER_00]: they're hanging out yet again because they have an outdoor engagement party. [SPEAKER_00]: So they're all together again guys this way girls that way. [SPEAKER_00]: And Jalika says that she's in love, but I guess she can say that now because she got approval from her friends and if they didn't approve, she'd probably be like, oh, I don't know how I feel, but [SPEAKER_00]: they've given her permission to feel so therefore she's allegedly in love.

39:43 [SPEAKER_00]: Daniel says like they're having all these disagreements that he's never ever raises his voice at Yohana, but she considers them fights, but he needs her to be lighthearted and it's just everything is so serious. [SPEAKER_00]: And this guy is a fool because [SPEAKER_00]: One of the fights that they had was she offered him a night of no stress.

40:01 [SPEAKER_00]: I was so when he didn't come back or yeah, or maybe he went out and she said, come home and tonight we're not going to talk about anything heavy. [SPEAKER_00]: We're just going to relax and just enjoy each other's company. [SPEAKER_00]: And he was just like, well, I have a lot of my mind.

40:15 [SPEAKER_00]: I have to get this out. [SPEAKER_00]: He has come out tonight. [SPEAKER_00]: She's like, yes, if you need to, then you can, but she did offer him a night of no stress and he said he had to get it off his chest and now he's complaining that he needs lightheartedness from her. [SPEAKER_00]: which is it, Daniel?

40:28 [SPEAKER_00]: Ugh. [SPEAKER_00]: So, other people who have left sack coming by Camilla comes by and she tells them that she and Ludwig have been talking, but I am unclear if it's done or not. [SPEAKER_00]: They didn't come together and she's all like, oh, let's talk about you guys and talk about me. [SPEAKER_00]: And then he walks in and he walks in by himself, so I'm guessing they're not together.

40:49 [SPEAKER_00]: But then he walks straight to the true love of his life who is Daniel. [SPEAKER_00]: Who immediately asked him like so do you have feelings for Camilla and he's like yeah I don't know we just been talking she is easy going. [SPEAKER_00]: That's one of the things She's very very easy going and Daniel is like man.

41:03 [SPEAKER_00]: That's when I'm looking for And then Ludwig is like he doesn't know if he If he should see Hannah like if he's gonna have anything when he feelings going on in Hannah Camilla, it's also girls that she and Ludwig have been talking a lot and he feels like the pods and it's just like [SPEAKER_00]: It looks like the pods feel good because you're not seeing each other and you don't have to do any action.

41:25 [SPEAKER_00]: It's just a lot of talking and we all know that action speaks louder than words. [SPEAKER_00]: So you've done it before. [SPEAKER_00]: I don't know what they're doing. [SPEAKER_00]: You've done it before where it was great in the pods. [SPEAKER_00]: It was bad outside. [SPEAKER_00]: So why are we talking again on the phone and not interacting outside?

41:39 [SPEAKER_00]: What is the point when you know that when we're in person, it doesn't. [SPEAKER_00]: Um, they're talking about has he has it felt good being with your person. [SPEAKER_00]: Have you never felt no before and and Jelika is like, no, I felt no twice and when he walks low ha ha ha ha ha ha.

41:57 [SPEAKER_00]: She's laughing, but I don't think she's [SPEAKER_00]: Joking on to see that walking slow things and he moving slow really really annoys her But she realizes that it's such a my new thing that she has to make a joke out of it Fabian and his resting terrified face comes in He talks with the guys tells him how she said no and then of course naturally Ellen comes in and he's so scared that he says I don't even want to look [SPEAKER_00]: If you remember, Ellen is Daniel of the 42 year old real first choice, even though he said, oh, I'm just gonna go with Yohana, but he knew that Ellen was about to break up with him, and he didn't want to be the one left behind, and he wanted to make it to the trip.

42:35 [SPEAKER_00]: Daniel is surprised that Ellen is just as beautiful outside as she is inside, and wonders what would have happened if they were together. [SPEAKER_00]: Also, Ellen did not walk in like somebody who dumped someone at the reveal. [SPEAKER_00]: She was just, hey, hi! [SPEAKER_00]: So Hannah comes by also, she and Ludwig are chatting.

42:53 [SPEAKER_00]: He tells her like he would be good to get to know her better. [SPEAKER_00]: She says the same, that it would be good to get to know him better. [SPEAKER_00]: Not a thought about being second choice, not a thing for her, just great. [SPEAKER_00]: Ellen comes by to chat with Fabian and they have an conversation and she's saying, oh, I don't want it to seem like I tricked you, but he was like, you know, I had hope that we would see after the experiment.

43:14 [SPEAKER_00]: And she basically rounds things up. [SPEAKER_00]: She's a politician. [SPEAKER_00]: She's very good at this talking thing. [SPEAKER_00]: And she's like, you know, things don't always work out the way that we want it to. [SPEAKER_00]: We don't have to beat ourselves about it. [SPEAKER_00]: And I'm like, Ellen, you were the break-up artist.

43:29 [SPEAKER_00]: You're the one who broke it off. [SPEAKER_00]: You don't get to say that. [SPEAKER_00]: You don't feel anything. [SPEAKER_00]: You did well, it was right for you. [SPEAKER_00]: So, you don't get to tell him that. [SPEAKER_00]: Me will do it. [SPEAKER_00]: Fabian is so torn up. [SPEAKER_00]: He was like, oh, I respect you.

43:40 [SPEAKER_00]: I hope you're doing well. [SPEAKER_00]: And you know, that's it. [SPEAKER_00]: um she speaks with Daniel and Daniel is yep yep yapping away as usual about you know it's important to know you know how we made our decisions how we got here and Ellen is like uh before I answer you're engaged right how we're things going now and is like oh yeah we're good we have our problems and then it starts yapping away about their problems [SPEAKER_00]: And Ellen the politician is just like, well, I'm glad you're doing well, glad to see you, glad I got to talk to you, I'll be on my way now, and she's gone.

44:17 [SPEAKER_00]: So, you know, the guys have told Fabian that it is kind of weird that she says, like, oh, she's not ready to date anyone, she's not seeing anyone. [SPEAKER_00]: But honestly, all of it was nothing burger, nothing happened, the Swedes don't have drama, they all talk with their exes. [SPEAKER_00]: there was no biggie with anyone in that regard, um, Hannah, uh, comes by, no, no, I had already, um, tried to do with them.

44:41 [SPEAKER_00]: So, you're on a share with Rania that she had an argument with Daniel about him, you know, and she tells him how, he'm not showing interest in the people she loves and the things she loves. [SPEAKER_00]: It's a big deal to her and he was very dismissive and he usually makes her feel silly like she's just nagging She says it was 2 a.m. and she just told him like I don't want to do this before a bed But he just kept pushing and telling her like you know for an hour like just say it say what you have to say and then she made a comment That says the way you're pushing could be compared to a rapist who keeps pushing when the woman says no Oh my god [SPEAKER_00]: Ma, I gasped.

45:24 [SPEAKER_00]: I was like, whoa, whoa, whoa, whoa, um, as if that wasn't bad enough, then she realizes that he recorded everything on his phone. [SPEAKER_00]: And then he was like, Gotcha. [SPEAKER_00]: I was like oh my god. [SPEAKER_00]: Oh my god. [SPEAKER_00]: Oh my god. [SPEAKER_00]: Oh my god. [SPEAKER_00]: Oh my god.

45:40 [SPEAKER_00]: Just quit guys. [SPEAKER_00]: Just quit. [SPEAKER_00]: It's okay. [SPEAKER_00]: If you are at the point where you are making comparisons to your fiance's style of communication to being like a rapist and you are on the other end recording your fiance talking. [SPEAKER_00]: Call all time out, just time of death, just end it, just end everything.

46:03 [SPEAKER_00]: She says the next morning, he tells her, don't use the word gaslighting. [SPEAKER_00]: She had told him that he was gaslighting her. [SPEAKER_00]: And he tells her, don't tell anyone about this. [SPEAKER_00]: I just want to move on and we're all good. [SPEAKER_00]: She says that all of this are triggers for her.

46:18 [SPEAKER_00]: And she doesn't think she can get over it. [SPEAKER_00]: Just a paint of picture. [SPEAKER_00]: Every time you see Johanna, she looks upset. [SPEAKER_00]: There's no time you see Yohana and she looks like she is happy. [SPEAKER_00]: Like everything looks like a chore and it's just a pleasant to watch.

46:37 [SPEAKER_00]: Ronye just gets up, goes straight to Daniel and asks, why did you record her? [SPEAKER_00]: She's having a conversation with him and I think Angelica just comes and plops herself beside them and joins the conversation. [SPEAKER_00]: And he goes, yes, I did. [SPEAKER_00]: That she said that she would record and he was like, okay, I will too.

46:53 [SPEAKER_00]: I will too, but she didn't follow through to be fair, but I did, like, you, I think was a great idea. [SPEAKER_00]: And then they tell him that, you know, you say that you've been crying, you want this to work out, but they don't get that picture at all. [SPEAKER_00]: And I'm like me too sister like I've been watching me this man is always telling us that he's crying about them And he wants them to work, but it just looks like they both are just struggling through this And then from nowhere the stunning denet comes in denet was the lone black girl on the season and she came in in a red dress And Lars Eric is like wow in a red dress She says hi to one girl and immediately goes to talk to Lars Eric and then he's like oh do you want to say hi to everyone she goes now

47:36 [SPEAKER_00]: And they go talk, he shares that a lot of the issues he and Roniera facing right now is their faith. [SPEAKER_00]: And it kind of feels like an attack on his character of him trying to ask a lot of, why do you believe that? [SPEAKER_00]: Why do you believe this? [SPEAKER_00]: And she just feels like it's an attack on his character.

47:54 [SPEAKER_00]: And I think I have a better understanding. [SPEAKER_00]: Because part of what annoyed me was him saying that he didn't know if it was a test from God. [SPEAKER_00]: Like maybe, and now I understood him understood it to mean that he feels like God would test him [SPEAKER_00]: to be with someone who's a non-Christian, so he can stand up for his faith.

48:10 [SPEAKER_00]: So when she asks all these questions, he can still, he won't be like swayed, but he still believes whatever it is that he believes, I don't know. [SPEAKER_00]: I, this is what I think I understood. [SPEAKER_00]: And she tried someone like, I wouldn't have had this issue with you. [SPEAKER_00]: Because we believe in the same thing, we would have prayed together, would have laughed together, so all this would have been great.

48:31 [SPEAKER_00]: So nothing disrespectful, they just had that conversation. [SPEAKER_00]: I think the main thing is, like, I don't think Lars Eric is attracted to that net. [SPEAKER_00]: So even though they shared the same faith, he didn't want to do the single single voter or single issue connection, like they would have had.

48:48 [SPEAKER_00]: a commonality in faith, but nothing else would have been there. [SPEAKER_00]: So I don't know, it's a matter of him picking his poison. [SPEAKER_00]: He's attracted to her. [SPEAKER_00]: I don't think Rania likes him, and they don't even share the same faith, and he claims that his faith is important to him.

49:00 [SPEAKER_00]: I mean, there was an option of not matching with anyone, but, you know, I like I said, they're all vying for this trip, I've convinced. [SPEAKER_00]: So Rania decides that she's going to play therapist between Yohana and Daniel, but she gets wrong because even as they sit down, they're talking about the recording thing.

49:17 [SPEAKER_00]: She says like, what I said to you guys earlier is that he said that she said she was going to record so they could hear themselves and hear how they fight. [SPEAKER_00]: But Rania is like, that's not what you said that, you know, he, she, you said that she said she was going to, that she started recording first that basically she got it wrong completely.

49:39 [SPEAKER_00]: Johanna is like, yes, I said as a suggestion, but I did not say I was going to go ahead and record, but also if you were going to record, you're going to ask me first before you do that. [SPEAKER_00]: So run your tries to tell them that, you know, they're similar in the fact that they need a safe space because of their past.

49:55 [SPEAKER_00]: And he says that you knew, I wanted this bad, I asked you for a kiss and I'm like, yeah, you always asked for a kiss. [SPEAKER_00]: He was like, I couldn't sleep and she's like, yeah, because you were worried about me spilling about what happened today. [SPEAKER_00]: That's what you were nervous about and how you looked.

50:10 [SPEAKER_00]: And then he says all these nice things, like, I just want to fight for you. [SPEAKER_00]: I just wanted this to work. [SPEAKER_00]: This is why I'm here. [SPEAKER_00]: I wouldn't be here if I didn't want things to work. [SPEAKER_00]: And all of a sudden, these two women run in Angelica and like, [SPEAKER_00]: Oh, now we believe him.

50:23 [SPEAKER_00]: They, you know, in the past, we said we couldn't see him fighting for this. [SPEAKER_00]: But listening to him now and seeing you guys in person, I believe that he really wants it and maybe there's a chance. [SPEAKER_00]: And like, you guys can make it work. [SPEAKER_00]: They, he's not like your other relationships.

50:36 [SPEAKER_00]: You don't need to bring your past relationships into this. [SPEAKER_00]: And I felt so bad for Yohana because I feel like she was cornered. [SPEAKER_00]: She was just backed into a corner by these two people believing his manipulation because she doesn't have the same He thinks she just kind of laughs and goes for her drink because it's like what the fuck?

50:53 [SPEAKER_00]: I've been telling you guys everything all along. [SPEAKER_00]: He says one or two words. [SPEAKER_00]: He sniffles and cries a little and all of a sudden It's like oh, yeah, I believe that there's a chance now [SPEAKER_00]: Uh, I, anyways, I mean, she should quit, but that's a whole other thing.

51:09 [SPEAKER_00]: So we go back and they're in their apartment, Daniel is on the phone with his AirPods on. [SPEAKER_00]: He's on the balcony and he's telling someone, we don't know who he's talking to, that, you know, it was an emotional day. [SPEAKER_00]: They had participants who didn't get it getting engaged, come over to a party and they were there to just mess things up.

51:26 [SPEAKER_00]: and that Johanna is out now she went to go buy kebabs for them. [SPEAKER_00]: She comes back. [SPEAKER_00]: She's like, hello, but I guess he didn't hear it. [SPEAKER_00]: So he just keeps talking because Danielle is a yapper. [SPEAKER_00]: And then he keeps going and he's saying that, you know, Johanna is, again, this is a translation.

51:43 [SPEAKER_00]: Johanna is a tough bastard and she's triggered and then the others when he comes to emotions. [SPEAKER_00]: and that, you know, the thoughts are horrible, and that you would rather do military service, and that was really hard, and he'd rather do that than to be here with her, and that was fucking tough.

52:01 [SPEAKER_00]: And then he comes to show whoever the apartment like, oh, do you want to see the view? [SPEAKER_00]: Do you want to see what it is because he was on FaceTime? [SPEAKER_00]: So he goes into the apartment. [SPEAKER_00]: He comes in and he was like, oh, this is it. [SPEAKER_00]: And then he turns around and she's there and she's like, he's like, hi.

52:14 [SPEAKER_00]: And he's like, oh, hi, then he sends by to whoever comes back. [SPEAKER_00]: And it was like, oh, I didn't know you were there. [SPEAKER_00]: And then she smiles. [SPEAKER_00]: He was like, oh, this is some decent kebabs. [SPEAKER_00]: And then she just says, you would rather do military service than be with me, huh?

52:29 [SPEAKER_00]: And then he just looks at her as the music is playing and the music lyrics say dead man walking. [SPEAKER_00]: And that was it, that was it for the batch. [SPEAKER_00]: So I don't know, this season is like I said, a lot of people who aren't unhappy and it's not like the most pleasant and it doesn't feel like there are people who actually like each other, but it is a lot of drama.

52:53 [SPEAKER_00]: So I think what I'm looking forward to is the reunion. [SPEAKER_00]: I should be having the wedding soon. [SPEAKER_00]: The previous further weddings. [SPEAKER_00]: I think we only see Yohana on there. [SPEAKER_00]: We see. [SPEAKER_00]: No, no, no. [SPEAKER_00]: There's no Yohana on there.

53:11 [SPEAKER_00]: I, there's Rania. [SPEAKER_00]: think Angelica and then Anila. [SPEAKER_00]: So I'm not sure that Johanna is going to make it to the wedding. [SPEAKER_00]: Like after this, I believe they probably have to quit. [SPEAKER_00]: And that would be it. [SPEAKER_00]: So we'll see what happens.

53:27 [SPEAKER_00]: I'm just curious to the reunion because the hostess is very good at asking all of the questions. [SPEAKER_00]: And so we'll see what happens. [SPEAKER_00]: So if you're watching, let me know. [SPEAKER_00]: I know Love is blind Sweden is in for everyone and some people don't like watching the international versions.

53:43 [SPEAKER_00]: Let me know if you have any comments and what your thoughts are on there. [SPEAKER_00]: You can find me on the socials, also call MEFS, Blue Sky, Instagram, Twitter, and please give me a 5 star rating on Apple Podcast and Spotify, and stay subscribed so you don't miss out on any new episodes.

54:01 [SPEAKER_00]: Until next time, guys, bye.