Patriarchy demonized gossip because it hates when women speak

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Most of us think of gossip as something malicious. However, for centuries, gossip had no negative connotation. A woman's "gossip" were her close friends, and female friendships were a form of social power that gave women's lives fulfillment and security.

It all became topsy turvy in the 16th century, when the church combined forces with labour guilds (you'll see what I mean). That's when gossip became demonized into something malicious, aggressive, and bitchy. Because patriarchy and early capitalism needed quiet, subservient women in order to function.

In this episode, we'll discuss:
• Why patriarchy & controlling men are so scared of female friendships
• The violent history of silencing women
• How men continue to silence women
• The role of gossip in human evolution
• How to reclaim gossip in your life starting today

Sources:
• Gossip in Evolutionary Perspective (allegatifac.unipv.it/ziorufus/Dunbar%20gossip.…)
• The Feminist Origins Of Gossip (thegoodtrade.com/features/benefits-of-gossip)
• The scandalous origins of gossip (unbabel.com/the-scandalous-origins-of-gossip)
• Witches, Witch-Hunting, and Women (goodreads.com/book/show/39090931-witches-witch…)
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👸 About Neeki: I earned my Bachelor’s in Public Policy with High Distinction and went on to complete my Master’s in Political Science, both at the University of Toronto. I've been invited to present my research on how underdogs build and leverage power at conferences across North America. Before launching this podcast, I worked in management consulting, advising senior executives at some of Canada’s largest companies.

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