How a Mormon Kid From Texas Became a Mexican Cartel Sicario

From a strict Mormon upbringing in Texas to the violent world of cartel-connected crime, Tyler’s story is one of the wildest we’ve heard.

In this episode, Tyler explains how he went from being a high school kid making money transporting drugs to working around human-smuggling networks along the Texas–Mexico border. He describes witnessing extreme cartel violence at a young age, moving migrants through border towns, becoming involved in violent contract work in Mexico, and later building a large drug business back home.

Tyler also opens up about the side of that lifestyle people rarely talk about—the paranoia, emotional numbness, PTSD, memory problems, prison, and the difficulty of returning to a normal life after years surrounded by violence.

We discuss:

• Growing up in a strict Mormon household

• Getting recruited into drug transportation as a teenager

• Witnessing cartel violence for the first time

• How human-smuggling networks operate along the border

• Coyotes, safe houses, spotters, burner phones, and cartel organization

• His descent into increasingly violent criminal work

• Building a drug business through Snapchat

• His 2019 arrest and prison sentence

• The lasting psychological effects of the lifestyle

• Therapy, family, faith, and trying to rebuild his life

This conversation contains descriptions of violence, drug trafficking, and other criminal activity. It is presented for documentary, educational, and entertainment purposes and is not intended to promote or encourage illegal behavior.

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00:00 Intro: Mormon Kid to Cartel Hitman

01:27 Growing Up in a Strict Mormon Household

03:13 Rebelling Against Church Rules

04:16 First Adventure: Driving Heroin

06:40 Close Call: Witnessing a Chainsaw Murder

09:07 The Psychological Aftermath

12:32 Understanding the Cartel's Organization

15:10 Mental Health Struggles and Trauma

20:35 This Episode Is Sponsored By BetterHelp

21:55 Getting Back into Smuggling

23:23 Human Smuggling Operations and Safe Houses

27:18 Evolution into a Hitman

29:04 Cartel's Control and Police Corruption

31:52 The Job: Contract, Payment, and Preparation

36:27 The First Hit and Moral Numbing

40:33 This Episode Is Sponsored By Mood

42:33 Avoiding Addiction and the Double Life

45:08 The Worst Thing Seen: Four Days of Torture

52:00 The Drug Business and Burner Phones

01:10:11 Getting Busted and Going to Prison

01:17:00 Building the Snapchat Drug Empire

01:22:26 Why Keep Doing Hits?

01:24:07 The Last Job and Quitting

01:27:01 Arrest and Prison Sentence

01:30:09 Life After Prison and Redemption

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