743: Why Americans Stopped Having Friends with Rich Villodas

Americans are spending more time alone, inviting fewer people into their homes, and struggling to build meaningful friendships. What's behind the decline of hospitality, and what can the church do about it? Live from New York City, Phil, Skye, and Kaitlyn are joined by pastor Rich Villodas to discuss the loneliness epidemic, our growing preference for digital entertainment, and why real community requires more than just joining a small group. They also explore the difference between feeling fear and being controlled by it, and why following Jesus means risking vulnerability and even getting hurt. Plus, can Skye and Kaitlyn pass Phil's news quiz?

Holy Post Plus:
Ad-Free Version of this Episode:
holypost.substack.com/p/20ad4f8c-1863-493d-bd7…

Bonus Q&A Video:
holypost.substack.com/p/bfa4011c-d648-48fd-bc1…

0:00 - Show Starts

1:44 - Ukeleles and Airports

5:40 - Theme Song

5:20 - BetterHelp - This episode is sponsored by BetterHelp. Give online therapy a try at betterhelp.com/HOLYPOST and get 10% off your first month!

6:19 - AG1 - Heavily researched, thoroughly purity-tested, and filled with stuff you need. Get the AG1 $76 Welcome Pack for free when you order from drinkag1.com/HOLYPOST

8:05 - New York, New York

11:14 - Phil's News Quiz Show

19:39 - Rich Villodas!

22:28 - Cancelled Livestreamed Execution

31:30 - Sponsor - PolicyGenius - Secure your family's tomorrow so you have peace of mind today. Go to policygenius.com/HOLYPOST to find the right life insurance for you

32:34 - Sponsor - Rocket Money - Find and cancel your old subscriptions with Rocket Money at rocketmoney.com/HOLYPOST

33:22 - The Death of Hosting

50:32 - Obligation and Community

1:11:17 - End Credits

Articles Discussed in News Segment:
Grandmother Breaks Planking Record:
people.com/grandmother-breaks-own-record-plank…

AI Causes Illegal Hunt: alaskabeacon.com/2026/09/28/misleading-google-…

Traffic Blocked by Giant Object:
nypost.com/video/giant-inflatable-pumpkin-brea…

Finnish Chef Sets World Record:
guinnessworldrecords.com/news/2026/10/chef-chu…

Man Sets World Record for Catching Something in His Mouth:
upi.com/Odd_News/2026/10/13/guinness-world-rec…

The Decline of Dinner by Derek Thompson:
theatlantic.com/ideas/2026/10/americans-social…

Resources:
Rich Villodas on Lanterns:
substack.com/home/post/p-218929631

Holy Post website: holypost.com

Holy Post Plus: www.holypost.com/plus

Holy Post Patreon: patreon.com/holypost

Holy Post Merch Store: holypost.com/shop

The Holy Post is supported by our listeners. We may earn affiliate commissions through links listed here. As an Amazon Associate, we earn from qualifying purchases.