STEM, Speaking Up, and Redefining Motherhood: Emily Calandrelli (The Space Gal) on Breaking Barriers and Raising Science-Loving Kids

What does it look like to raise kids who believe they belong in science, who feel confident speaking up, and who see women as leaders in fields that have long pushed them out?

I first came across Emily Calandrelli’s work years ago on social media, and her mix of joy, honesty, and curiosity pulled me in immediately. Her voice reminded me that advocacy doesn’t have to be loud to be powerful and that our kids are always watching how we chase our own dreams. She is now one of my favorite examples of what it means to model confidence and curiosity for the next generation.

On today’s episode, Emily and I talk about finding her way in a male-dominated STEM world, what she learned from losing her Netflix show, and how creating her own YouTube series changed everything. She also shares the story behind her viral TSA moment, how it sparked federal legislation, and what it meant to finally launch into space after dreaming about it for two decades.

We discuss:

✔️ How representation in STEM shapes kids’ beliefs about what’s possible ✔️ Why speaking up matters, even when it’s uncomfortable

✔️ The pressure mothers face when they pursue big goals

✔️ What her spaceflight taught her about wonder and perspective

✔️ How parents can spark scientific thinking and curiosity at home

To connect with Emily Calandrelli follow her on Instagram @thespacegal and check out all her resources at thespacegal.com

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00:00 Intro
00:51 Welcome + How Emily Sparked TSA Policy Change
01:50 Raising Confident Science-Loving Kids
03:22 Emily’s Path From MIT to TV
05:03 Breaking Into Science Media as a Woman
06:25 Losing a Netflix Show and Starting Over
09:30 Building Emily’s Science Lab on YouTube
11:22 Redefining Success Beyond Algorithms
14:44 Motherhood, Identity, and Letting Go of Guilt
18:36 The Spaceflight Story She Worked 20 Years For
22:31 How She Funded Her Own Ticket to Space
24:11 What Seeing Earth From Space Feels Like
25:00 The Gendered Backlash After Her Spaceflight
31:01 The TSA Incident That Went Viral
32:31 Turning Viral Attention Into Real Legislation
38:12 STEM Representation for Kids Today
43:13 How Parents Can Model Curiosity at Home
46:47 Why Meeting Girls in STEM Fuels Her Work
49:21 Closing Thoughts + Where to Find Emily

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