My Husband Didn’t Die Suddenly… I Watched Him Disappear for 6 Years

If you looked at her life from the outside, it was perfect.

A brilliant Harvard-trained doctor. Four beautiful children. A marriage built on love. And then, slowly… it wasn’t.

In this episode of The Rollercoaster Podcast, I sit down with Andrea Suchin, caregiver, entrepreneur, and co-founder of Wuggle. For six years, Andrea watched subtle changes in her husband Craig, slowly unravel into something far more devastating. What began as small personality shifts spiraled into financial chaos, misdiagnosis, rage episodes, and ultimately a diagnosis of behavioral frontotemporal dementia (FTD).

Craig showed symptoms for nearly six years. For the final four, Andrea became his full-time caregiver, managing medications, protecting their children, advocating when doctors dismissed her concerns, and standing by him until his final breath.

This is a story about dementia, caregiver burnout, anticipatory grief, and the trauma of watching a mental death before a physical one.

But it’s also about purpose.

Andrea shares how survival mode led to the creation of Wuggle, a sleep solution now helping caregivers around the world.

If you’re navigating caregiving, dementia, exhaustion, or profound loss, this conversation is for you.

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Key Moments:
0:00 The Night I Knew He Was Dying
3:45 Caregiver Surgery… Then Crisis
9:05 The Hospice Call That Never Came
12:40 His Final Words to Me
15:10 Holding Him After His Last Breath
18:05 Relief, Guilt & Grief Collide
24:15 22 Credit Cards & $170K Debt
30:00 The Devastating Diagnosis: FTD
36:00 Caregiver Burnout Nearly Broke Me
39:10 The Sleep Breakthrough That Saved Me
42:30 From Grief to Mission: Creating Wuggle
45:40 The Text That Changed Everything
51:00 Anxiety, Migraines & Better REM
54:20 The Trauma Caregivers Don’t Admit