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As the manosphere rises and men continue to terrorise us, how will you decide what your own happy ending looks like? Join Chidera Eggerue aka The Slumflower on her debut, much-awaited podcast The Slumflower Hour - the domain for disobedient women who date men! Is he really 'busy' or is he bored of you? Do you have the patience to practise your own boundaries? Should you follow your instincts or should you follow your impulses? Watch and listen to The Slumflower Hour every Friday! WARNING: This podcast might just be your man's worst nightmare, beware...
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PRICE HIM OUT OF YOUR LIFE
Does money make you feel uncomfortable? Are men taking advantage of your nervousness to ask them for stuff? Is it too daunting to make a man feel like he needs to be materially beneficial to your life? In this episode, join The Slumflower a
PASSIVE MEN
Is that man still loitering even though you rejected him? Does he seem to conflate debating with flirting? Are you getting the vibe he's trying to throw subtle jabs? In this episode, join Chidera as she warns us all to watch out for the 'sa
HE'S JEALOUS OF YOU
These men secretly want to be us so bad. Watch out for men who will seek your hand in courtship just to COMPETE with you... In this episode, join The Slumflower as she drags men for filth! Join my pa
REALISING YOU WERE TOO GOOD FOR HIM
Why do we always realise we were too good for these men after things end? In this episode, join The Slumflower as she discusses the post-breakup clarity we all need to pick up where we left off and take our power back once and for all! Join
PUNISH HIM
When was the last time you punished a man and why was it so long ago? What can women do to gain and hold more leverage in their relationships with men? And what can women do to enjoy holding the power and administering punishments without f
THE UNMARRIABLE WOMAN
There are just some women in this world who are far too complex, untameable and powerful to be confined to the limitations of 'wife'. The power that comes from embracing being a disobedient, 'unmarriable' woman who cannot be bent or manipul
PROTECT YOUR VULNERABILITY
Do you tend to wear your heart on your sleeve? Do you often find yourself giving more than you get from men? Is your vulnerability something that is often rough-handled and treated with impatience? In this episode, join Chidera as she discu
GIRL, SLOW DOWN...
Do you have a tendency to rush things with men? Do you find that things tend to start intensely then burn out fast? Does long distance really deserve the bad rep it gets? In this episode, Chidera recounts her experience being long distance
THE MALE EGO
In a world that is governed by men's weak egos, what steps are you taking to make the world a tougher place for them? In a world where men select women based on the praise and validation they'll receive from other men, what can you do to mo
TRAIN HIM!
Did you know that men are a breed of dog? Did you also know that it's your responsibility to dictate how you deserve to be treated in a world where men already feel entitled to overriding your rules? In this episode, join The Slumflower as
DATING AS A MAN HATER?
Is it possible to hate men and still date them? Yes, just like men are misogynists who still relentlessly chase the comfort, warmth and love of women! Sarcasm aside, in a world where women face brutal consequences for being so loving, kind
THE WOMAN WHO IS WILLING TO WALK
Have you finally had enough? Have you finally developed the backbone to leave these men behind? Does your ability to walk away scare men? This episode is most certainly for YOU! Join my patreon
THE PERFORMATIVE MAN
Is that man wearing allyship like a costume? Does he suddenly become a 'feminist' when the bill comes? Is he selective with your empowerment whilst being threatened by you feeling good about yourself? This episode is going to be a spicy one
OPTIMISING YOUR DATING EXPERIENCE
Let's talk about making dating work for you in an already terrible dating pool! Are you utilising the men in your life properly? Are you open to the idea of a roster and if so, are you diversifying these men's roles to their full potential?
THE ALPHA WOMAN
Do you fear your own power? Do you 'naturally' feel inclined to defer to men? Does the idea of a powerful woman who makes men question themselves entice you or does it make you uncomfortable? In this episode, we talk all things power and fe
BECAUSE OF A MAN
The things women do for men...are they even worth it? Of course not but alas, here we are! In this episode, join Chidera as we talk about the sacrifices and leaps women take all because of men... Join my patreon
YOU ARE IN DENIAL
How long will you keep lying to yourself? Is it finally time to interfere with the story you've been telling yourself? Are there certain delusions keeping you bound to that man? In this episode, join Chidera as she discusses the ways we all
MAINTAINING COMPOSURE
How do you manage when someone puts you on the spot and tries to bully you? Or if you're caught in a situation where you have to stand up for yourself without bursting into tears? In this episode, join The Slumflower as she shares her exper
FEMALE RAGE
Do you allow yourself to be angry or do you repress it? In a society where women's rage is stifled and suppressed, it's time we have a conversation about allowing ourselves to feel it all in full. In this episode, join Chidera as she talks
MEN MAKE YOU SICK!
*TRIGGER WARNING*: R*pe is discussed in this episode where we talk about why men value leverage over us, how they siphon our souls and health through osmosis, and why it's important to start giving men PTSD back. Prepare yourself to hear so
MAINTAINING THE STANDARD WHEN THINGS ARE GOING WELL
Do you feel inclined to self-sabotage in a healthy relationship? If so, what does that sabotage look like? How about balance? Would you consider yourself a secure skeptic? Or are you prepared to jump into love with both feet? In this episod
THE NEXT GIRL
Scared the next girl will get a better version of him? Worried that all your hard work sent building him will be enjoyed by another woman? Paranoid that the next girl will be so amazing that she will transform him? In this episode, join Chi
BLACK CAT VS GOLDEN RETRIEVER
Is your boyfriend a good boy? Should we train him? Or is it time for him to be handed to the dog home for someone else to take him on as a problem? In this episode, join Chidera as she talks about the importance of the black cat-golden retr
SO YOU HAVE A PAST...
Do you feel self-conscious about having a sexual history? Have men tried to make you feel shame for having been 'ran thru'? Should we start judging men for their sexual pasts in the same way they judge us? In this episode, join Chidera as s
THE HOT GIRLFRIEND
Are you the hot girlfriend? Do you find that men try to chip away at your confidence? Has a man ever tried to out-shine you? In this episode, join The Slumflower as she discusses the plight of the hot girl - and why we should never be afrai
THE PRIDEFUL MAN
Have you been victimised by a prideful man? This episode may be for you! Join Chidera as she recounts her experiences with prideful men - and why we all need to guard and protect ourselves from men who are too weak to resist competing with
WIFEY MATERIAL?
Does the idea of 'dating to marry' resonate with you? Are men using 'wifey material' as a way to lure you in? What even is 'husband material'? In this episode, join Chidera as she disassembles this whole 'wife material' phrase and reminds u
REBELLION
How can we explore rebellion in a way that keeps us safe and aligned with our standards? In this episode, join Chidera as she discusses the importance of rebelling against the rules men have assigned us - and why collecting money from men i
BREAKING UP WITH HIM
Is it time to step away from him? In this episode, join Chidera as she discusses the cons of breaking up with him - and why frequent breakups might not be the worst thing in the world... Join my patreon
THE CHASE
They say men love the chase but women love being chased too! In this episode, join The Slumflower as she talks about the ways women can leverage the chase - and why we should be more selective of the validation we give men. Join my
