375- Parenting a Spicy One: Raising Big Personalities with Compassion and Boundaries, with Mary Van Geffen

You’re listening to Voices of Your Village, and today we’re talking about those spicy ones. The kids who are big in personality, big in emotion, and big in challenging parents. Maybe you're raising one—or maybe you were one. I’m joined by parenting coach and author Mary Van Geffen, whose book Parenting a Spicy One is part memoir, part survival guide, and completely validating for the parents who feel like they’re doing everything “right” and still getting steamrolled by meltdowns, back talk, and constant negotiating.

We talk about what it actually looks like to parent a strong-willed child, why traditional discipline often backfires, and how to stay connected even when your kid is pushing all your buttons. Mary brings humor, honesty, and so many practical tools to this conversation—and I think it’s one that so many of us need right now. Alright folks, let’s dive in.

Connect with Mary:

Instagram:@maryvangeffen (instagram.com/maryvangeffen)

Website: maryvangeffen.com

Order the book:Parenting a Spicy One (a.co/d/0a15YrSB)

Or, Preorder here to access Mary’s Affirmations Masterclass and the Meltdown Meditations for Moms:maryvangeffen.com/parentingaspicyonebook

Are you a spicy one quiz:Here (maryvangeffen.com/quiz?mcp_token=eyJwaWQiOjc0N…)

Connect with us:

Instagram and TikTok: @seed.and.sew (instagram.com/seed.and.sew)

Seed and Sew's NEW Regulation Questionnaire: Take the Quiz (quiz.tryinteract.com/#/63bc2ee1daebab0016f17b3e)

Order Big Kids, Bigger Feelings (harpercollins.com/products/big-kids-bigger-fee…) now!

Website: seedandsew.org

Credits:

Host: Alyssa Blask Campbell

Co-host: Rachel Lounder

Production/Editing: Kristin Mork-McVeigh

Graphics: Kayla Kurland-Davis/ Beki Rohrig

Music by: Ruby Adams (instagram.com/rubygoldentiger) and Bensound (bensound.com)

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