Jane Grey - Authenticity, Validation, Business Models and Anaesthetising the Ego for Joy

Meet Jane Grey, Dominatrix and Co-Founder of the Scene and Unscene events. Listen in as Jane opens up about how validation, agency and recognition, drivers behind her acting career, influence her approach to domination; about her plans for the Edinburgh Fringe Festival; and how acting school shunned female sexuality. Eva Oh and Jane discuss the place of acting in a session, if they might be able to submit and how they've tried to escape the ego through the names that they've chosen. We hear about cultural theatrics and how they could shape a Dominatrix's ability and the different ways these two Dominatrices structure their businesses. A very thorough episode of the #teakink Podcast.

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HIGHLIGHTS:
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(00:00:00) - Welcome. What is #teakink
(00:00:23) - Jane Grey - Dominatrix, Event Organiser and on a Good Path
(00:02:20) - How The Scene and UnScene Events Came About
(00:09:15) - The Scene Difference, the Bartenders Bar for Kink
(00:14:00) - Authenticity as a Purpose
(00:16:10) - How Acting and Drama School Shuns Sexuality
(00:20:15) - Validation, Agency, Recognition and the Similarities in Acting and Domination
(00:25:10) - South East Asian vs British Theatrics and Social Cohesion
(00:27:35) - Growing Star Quality in Professional Domination through Improv Classes
(00:29:00) - Moving Around and Growing Adaptability
(00:30:35) - Anaesthetising the Ego for Joy
(00:32:00) - The Stage vs The Session vs Being a Woman, Is There a Difference?
(00:36:30) - How to Go From Personal Kinkster to Professional Dominatrix
(00:38:30) - The De-Centring of Our Names - 'Oh' and 'Jane Grey'
(00:44:30) - Finding Our Version of Dominance, Visually
(00:46:05) - Eva Craving Submission?
(00:50:20) - Our Visit to the Edinburgh Fringe Festival and Jane's Show Plans
(00:54:50) - Who Do We Tell About Our Job?
(00:57:00) - Jane's Subscription Model
(01:00:30) - Eva's Cis-het Male Clients vs Her Femme Friends
(01:03:50) - The Evolution of Eva's Business Model
(01:04:50) - Jane's Plans with the WMH&I Branding Agency, Show Writing and Event Planning
(01:09:00) - Eva's Plans on Labours of Love