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Sex Work VS Dating

Dienstag, 24. Juni 2025 · 21 min

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Dating apps. New relationship energy. Getting paid for your time. In this first episode of the Sex Work VS miniseries, I explore how sex work reshaped my expectations of dating, romance, and emotional labor. From valuing my time to filtering partners like my client applicants, I unpack why I still date—and what I refuse to give away for free.

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() - Welcome. What is #teakink
() - Sex Work VS Dating
() - A Changed Dating (App) Landscape, but Similar Motivations?
() - The Emotional Benefits of Both
() - How Getting Paid Taught Me About My Value and Gave Me Choice
() - Why I Still Date (for free); Entertainment and Aesthetic
() - How I Keep Dating Relevant in a Frivolous Culture
() - My Dating Application Process
() - The Disadvantage of Unpaid Dating Labour
() - Oxytocin, New Relationship Energy and Infatuation
() - The 'Neatness' of Getting Paid
() - Wasting My Resource and Being Valued
() - A Cis-Het Lens Focus, for now

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