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Ask Lisa: Untangling Family Life

von Dr. Lisa Damour

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Parenting a tween or teen? Buckle up. Ask Lisa: Untangling Family Life tackles the questions that keep parents up at night — academics, friendships, mental health, screens, meltdowns, and more.

Every week, psychologist Lisa Damour teams up with a different expert to answer a real parent's real question — no fluff, no judgment, just practical, evidence-based advice you can actually use. Dr. Damour and her colleagues also turn their attention to the emotional rollercoaster of raising kids — the moments that leave you feeling uneasy, overwhelmed, or just plain alone.

You don't have to have it all figured out. You just have to hit play.

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  1. 295: Situated: How Your Choices Today Shape Your Child's Tomorrow | Angela Duckworth

    A lot of us grew up believing the hard way is the better way, so when our kids struggle (or we do), we assume that the answer is to exert more effort. That can leave you feeling like you’re failing at something you “should” be able to power

  2. How to Handle Halloween Group Costume Drama | Dr. Tori Cordiano

    Your seventh grader walks in the door in tears because the group chat just made it painfully clear she’s being pushed out (this time, over Halloween costumes), and now you're wondering whether to coach her on what to say or stay quiet so yo

  3. 293: Olympic Mom on How to Keep Club Sports in Check | Lauren Regula

    You're thinking about signing your kid up for a travel-heavy club team with a price tag that makes you wince - and a co-parent who sees the whole thing differently. Might saying yes to club sports support your talented kid while undermining

  4. 292: How Pornographic Content Harms Sexual Development | Dr. Tori Cordiano

    Right now, a lot of families are thinking about how to talk with their kids — especially their sons — about consent and how sexual partners deserve to be treated. And if you find something graphic on your teen's screen, you face another cha

  5. 291: How Your Kid’s Exclusion Hurts You Too | Michelle Icard

    Your sobbing middle schooler has just seen a Snapchat of their friend group hanging out without them and feels devastated …and you have no idea whether you should call the other parents, try to help your child cheer up, or just stay out of

  6. 290: How to Prevent Failure to Launch | Dr. Mark McConville

    Perhaps your kid has left college before graduation and seems to be drifting along. Or maybe your high school student doesn’t seem to be “lit up” about anything. If this is your teen, every well-meaning "how's your kid doing?" from a friend

  7. 289: Signs Your Teen is Heading Towards an Eating Disorder | Dr. Kelly Bhatnagar

    Your kid announces they’re cutting out sugar. No cookies or dessert, just carrots and hummus for lunch on repeat. You notice they’ve lost a little weight. And somewhere in the back of your mind, a voice keeps asking: is this fine, or is thi

  8. 288: Getting Your Disorganized Teen on Track | Dr. Tori Cordiano

    You may know this scene: your kid forgot practice gear again, an assignment vanished into the void, and you're wondering if your teen is just disorganized — or is there something more serious going on? That mix of exhaustion and frustration

  9. 287: ENCORE: Best of Ask Lisa: Confidence, Self-Esteem & Self-Compassion

    If you've ever wondered whether you're doing enough to help your child feel good about themselves, Dr. Lisa Damour has curated her most essential guidance on confidence, self-esteem & self-compassion into one episode for you. This encore “B

  10. 286: ENCORE: Getting into College with Rick Clark

    The college admissions process doesn't have to consume your family. If it already feels that way, this episode is exactly what you need. Dr. Lisa Damour and Reena Ninan revisit their conversation with Rick Clark, higher education leader, co

  11. 285: ENCORE: How Do I Help My Kid Develop a Work Ethic?

    If you've repeatedly asked your kid to help out and they still don’t follow through, this is the episode you’ve been waiting for. Dr. Lisa Damour breaks down why nagging doesn't build a work ethic — and what actually does. From linking priv

  12. 284: ENCORE: Screens, Toxic Stress & Staying Connected with Dr. Nadine Burke Harris

    You know screens and social media can be risky for your kid. But do you know exactly what harm looks like… and what actually protects them from it? Dr. Lisa Damour revisits her conversation with Dr. Nadine Burke Harris, pioneering pediatric

  13. 283: ENCORE: Best of Ask Lisa: Friendship Breakups & Conflict

    Your kid comes home devastated after being left out, dropped, or caught in the middle of a friendship blowup. You may want to help, but don’t know what to say—or whether you should step in at all. Take heart: this episode will help you navi

  14. 282: ENCORE: How to Help Kids Build a Healthy Relationship with Food

    If mealtimes in your home feel like a power struggle, or you're exhausted from worrying whether your kid is eating well, this episode will come as a relief. Dr. Lisa Damour and Reena Ninan revisit their conversation with Dr. Reshma Shah, a

  15. 281: ENCORE: Talk to Your Boys: Raising Confident, Caring Young Men

    If your son is shutting down, pulling away, or turning to the internet to answer questions you wish he'd brought your way, this episode is for you. Dr. Lisa Damour and Reena Ninan revisit their conversation with Joanna Schroeder and Christo

  16. 280: ENCORE: Dream School: How Do You Find the Right College for Your Teen?

    Is your family stressed, anxious, and fixated on getting your teen into a "dream school"? What if that's the wrong goal entirely? Dr. Lisa Damour and Reena Ninan revisit their conversation with Jeff Selingo, bestselling author and higher ed

  17. 279: ENCORE: The Summer of Building Independence

    If you feel like you're doing too much for your kids — and it’s time for them to do more for themselves — this episode is your roadmap out. Dr. Lisa Damour makes the case for using summer to foster independence in our kids. The summer month

  18. 278: ENCORE: How to Stay Connected When Teens Pull Away

    Does your teen seem more attached to their friends and their phone than to you? That's not just a feeling, and it's not a phase you have to wait out. Dr. Lisa Damour and Reena Ninan revisit their conversation with two of the world's leading

  19. 277: ENCORE: Embracing ADHD with Penn and Kim Holderness

    If your child has been diagnosed with ADHD (or you suspect they might have it) this episode will change the way you see them. Dr. Lisa Damour and Reena Ninan revisit their candid, funny, and genuinely moving conversation with Penn and Kim H

  20. 276: ENCORE: Lessons from Netflix’s “Adolescence”

    If watching "Adolescence" on Netflix left you feeling worried about your son, this episode will help you turn your concerns into action. Dr. Lisa Damour breaks down what the show gets exactly right about adolescent boys: why they're emotion

  21. 275: ENCORE: How Do I Support My LGBTQ+ Daughter?

    If your child has just come out to you — or you sense they might be questioning their gender identity — you may be wondering what to say, what to do, and how to get this right. This episode is here to help. Dr. Lisa Damour walks parents thr

  22. 274: ENCORE: S.U.N.: Lisa’s Three Keys to a Happy Summer

    Does your family hit September feeling more exhausted than when summer started? You're not alone — and it doesn't have to be that way. In this episode, Dr. Lisa Damour shares her research-backed S.U.N. framework — Sleep, Unplug, and Nature

  23. 273: Best of Ask Lisa: Confidence, Self-Esteem & Self-Compassion

    Does your tween or teen struggle with low confidence and self-esteem? Do you want to cultivate healthy self-compassion and self-worth in them — and in yourself? In this special "Best of Ask Lisa" compilation, clinical psychologist Dr. Lisa

  24. 272: Why Is My Teen Bombing Tests?

    Your teen does everything right. Homework done. Pays attention. Stays organized. Has study skills. And still struggles with tests. ​​Sound familiar? You're not alone, and this is not your kid's fault. In this episode of “Ask Lisa,” clinical

  25. 271: Prom Night: Do I Trust My Teen—or My Instincts?

    It's prom season, and one mom is facing a tough call: her son wants to go to an unsupervised after-party two hours away. Other parents are saying yes. Her gut is saying no. And her son is saying he'll skip prom entirely if she doesn't let h

  26. 270: Should I Let My Kid Make In-App Purchases in Video Games?

    Loot boxes, in-app purchases, Robux, skins — and a kid who won't stop asking for them. If you're a parent of a tween or teen gamer, you already know this pressure. But are these purchases actually harmful, or are you just out of touch with

  27. BONUS Episode: How Do I Talk With My Teen About Fentanyl?

    In recognition of National Fentanyl Awareness Day, we're bringing back one of our most critical episodes — because every family needs this information. Illicit fentanyl has contaminated the drug landscape and is causing record deaths among

  28. 269: Why Is Basic Hygiene Such a Battle With My Tween?

    Your tween won't shower, won't change their clothes, or lies about having brushed their teeth or washed their face...Sound familiar? If you're in the middle of a hygiene battle with your tween or young teen, you're not alone, and you're not

  29. 268: Should I Let My Teen Take Supplements?

    Creatine for teens, supplements for teen athletes, and navigating gym culture pressure on social media… Dr. Lisa Damour answers the question parents of teen athletes are searching for. Your teen's teammate is taking creatine. Now your kid w

  30. 267: My Kid Has Been Accepted to College. But Is She Ready to Go?

    Your teen got into college. Now comes the harder question: are they actually ready to go? If you're wondering whether they have what it takes to handle a difficult roommate, navigate the college party scene, or make real friends on their ow

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