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Episode 286: Our Best Christian Dating Advice--that you've all been asking for!
Send us Fan Mail (https://www.buzzsprout.com/242918/fan_mail/new) After a recent social media AMA, we noticed a ton of you wanted us to tackle dating - red flags, green flags, how to choose a great partner. Rebecca and I have been avoiding
Episode 285: Are Soul Ties Real? Overcoming a Purity Culture Teaching
Send us Fan Mail (https://www.buzzsprout.com/242918/fan_mail/new) “Soul ties” refers to the belief that when you have sex with someone, you are now joined in the spiritual realm, and that “tie” impedes your ability to ever experience freedo
Episode 284: The Problems with the Book His Needs, Her Needs by Willard Harley
Send us Fan Mail (https://www.buzzsprout.com/242918/fan_mail/new) Let's take a close look at the book His Needs, Her Needs by Willard Harley! Bethany Jantzi and Ngina Otiende join me to look at some of the things that we find problematic ab
Episode 283: When the Church Stole Your Sex Life
Send us Fan Mail (https://www.buzzsprout.com/242918/fan_mail/new) What happens when church doesn’t seem safe? Or when, in retrospect, you realize it wasn’t, even if you threw yourself into it at the time? Today Dr. Andrew Bauman joins us to
Episode 282: What Makes Men Cheat? New Research Spotlight
Send us Fan Mail (https://www.buzzsprout.com/242918/fan_mail/new) It's time to walk through some super interesting studies that have recently been published--and see what they say about the intersection of infidelity and beliefs in male hie
Episode 281: You Shouldn't Iron Your Cheating Husband's Clothes--Plus We Answer Your Questions!
Send us Fan Mail (https://www.buzzsprout.com/242918/fan_mail/new) It's an Ask Me Anything episode! Keith and I open talking about the viral video where a woman claims that she felt called by God to iron her husband's clothes before he left
Episode 280: The Problems with the Book The Love Dare--And How It Papers Over Real Problems
Send us Fan Mail (https://www.buzzsprout.com/242918/fan_mail/new) The Love Dare, based on the movie Fireproof, has been a huge best-selling marriage book for two decades. But does it actually contain good advice? Today on episode 280 of the
Episode 279: Saving Face: Finding My Self, God, and One Another Outside a Defaced Church (feat. Aimee Byrd)
Send us Fan Mail (https://www.buzzsprout.com/242918/fan_mail/new) What if vulnerability and authenticity are vital for true community? And what if we can never truly know God, and each other, until we know ourselves? It's episode 279 of the
Episode 278: Why Don't Evangelical Women Want to Marry Evangelical Men?
Send us Fan Mail (https://www.buzzsprout.com/242918/fan_mail/new) Al Mohler, president of Southern Baptist Theological Seminary, recently did a podcast bemoaning the fact that young women, unlike young men, are giving up on the "creation or
Episode 277: Why Emotions Aren't Feminine (and Why Women Aren't More Emotional!)
Send us Fan Mail (https://www.buzzsprout.com/242918/fan_mail/new) So many evangelical pastors teach that men are rational while women are emotional. But is this true? And if women are more emotionally mature than men, then doesn't that mean
Episode 276: Is Reading Romance Novels for Women the Same as Watching Porn?
Send us Fan Mail (https://www.buzzsprout.com/242918/fan_mail/new) We know watching porn is wrong--but are romance novels just as bad? We've often heard that comparison made: Sure, guys watch porn, but remember that women read novels! Today
Episode 275: Becoming the Pastor's Wife feat. Beth Allison Barr
Send us Fan Mail (https://www.buzzsprout.com/242918/fan_mail/new) What if marriage replaced ordination as a woman's path to ministry? What if we've systematically erased the stories of women ministering in the past, and in so doing silenced
Episode 274: The Marriage You Actually Want
Send us Fan Mail (https://www.buzzsprout.com/242918/fan_mail/new) The Marriage You Want is LIVE! Our book launched this week, and in this week's podcast we take a broad, investigative look into the state of evangelical marriage publishing,
Episode 273: Are Traditionally Christian Marriages Linked to More Immaturity? The Data Speaks!
Send us Fan Mail (https://www.buzzsprout.com/242918/fan_mail/new) It's episode 273 of the Bare Marriage podcast! We found that certain beliefs are correlated most with emotional immaturity--passive aggressiveness; outbursts of anger; emotio
Episode 272: Is "Acts of Service" Love Language Really a Cry for Help? All New Bonus Stats!
Send us Fan Mail (https://www.buzzsprout.com/242918/fan_mail/new) What if the "acts of service" love language is masking something else--the totally unequal division of labor that many couples have, and Gary Chapman ignores? Plus does the "
Episode 271: What the Unfairness Threshold Tells Us About Marriage (and Mental Load!)
Send us Fan Mail (https://www.buzzsprout.com/242918/fan_mail/new) PREODER THE MARRIAGE YOU WANT • Pre-Order on Amazon (https://amzn.to/3C8xit5) • Get other links to Pre-Order (https://baremarriage.com/2025/01/marriage-you-want-launch-team/)
Episode 270: What Does Prioritizing Marriage Look Like? Plus Do You Have to Choose Between Being a Good Wife and a Good Mom?
Send us Fan Mail (https://www.buzzsprout.com/242918/fan_mail/new) Prioritizing your marriage can be tough. How do we spend enough time together? Do we need more date nights? And MOMS—don’t forget to be a wife first and a mom second! But in
Episode 269: The Marriage Hierarchy of Needs—and Why Compromise Doesn’t Work
Send us Fan Mail (https://www.buzzsprout.com/242918/fan_mail/new) Ever tried to find a compromise when you’re having an argument—but even the compromise doesn’t seem fair? In today’s podcast we explain why—using what we call The Marriage Hi
Episode 268: Why Data Shows That Teamwork, Not Hierarchy, Is the Key to a Great Marriage!
Send us Fan Mail (https://www.buzzsprout.com/242918/fan_mail/new) What is the biggest key to a great marriage? Teamwork! Let’s talk about how teamwork is associated with all the good outcomes we want for marriage—better sex; feeling close;
Episode 267: Why Evangelical Marriage Advice Often Backfires
Send us Fan Mail (https://www.buzzsprout.com/242918/fan_mail/new) In our research looking at marital and sexual satisfaction among evangelicals, we’ve found that over and over again our best-selling books, and our megachurch pastors, teach
Episode 266: Demolishing the Love and Respect Dichotomy Definitively (with Data)
Send us Fan Mail (https://www.buzzsprout.com/242918/fan_mail/new) The idea that men need respect while women need love has been treated as gospel truth in the evangelical world. Best-sellers have been written based on it; it informs almost
Episode 265: Culture Wars vs. Jesus: How to Not Get Sucked in To Toxic Teachings
Send us Fan Mail (https://www.buzzsprout.com/242918/fan_mail/new) So many of us got sucked into believing toxic stuff about marriage and sex in the evangelical church! But unless we figured out WHY we believed that, we’re likely to get suck
Episode 264: It’s the Peer Reviewed Celebration! Plus a Plea to Respect Science
Send us Fan Mail (https://www.buzzsprout.com/242918/fan_mail/new) Our big announcement: We’re peer-reviewed! Our dataset for The Great Sex Rescue has now appeared in the November 2024 Sociology of Religion Journal. So let’s talk about what
Episode 263: Even After Everything—Loving Anyway, Despite the Risks
Send us Fan Mail (https://www.buzzsprout.com/242918/fan_mail/new) Advent is normally a time of hopeful expectation. But what does it mean when our hopes have been dashed in the past? Stephanie Duncan Smith shares her stories of miscarriages
Episode 262: Problems with Marriage on the Rock by Jimmy Evans
Send us Fan Mail (https://www.buzzsprout.com/242918/fan_mail/new) Jimmy Evans started XO Marriage over 30 years ago, and his book Marriage on the Rock became a best-seller. He leads marriage conferences around the country. But for years he
Episode 261: Her Rites: The 6 Rites of Passage in a Woman’s Life feat. Christy Bauman
Send us Fan Mail (https://www.buzzsprout.com/242918/fan_mail/new) Ever feel like your body is a stranger to you? Like you’re plagued with insecurity, can’t find peace in your relationships? What if it’s because we’re running away from part
Episode 260: Shame Must Switch Sides: It’s Not Shameful to NOT Want Pornified Sex
Send us Fan Mail (https://www.buzzsprout.com/242918/fan_mail/new) Gisele Pelicot famously said that "shame must switch sides"--and I think that applies to the evangelical church! Over and over again over the last few years ,when male teache
Episode 259: Avoiding Power Struggles with Your Kids (Plus are you an unintentionally permissive parent?)
Send us Fan Mail (https://www.buzzsprout.com/242918/fan_mail/new) Do you find yourself in constant power struggles with your kids? Do you feel like your kids too often set the terms of their cooperation? Or are you worried that you are too
Episode 258: They’re Coming After Bluey Now? What’s Wrong with Involved Fathers?
Send us Fan Mail (https://www.buzzsprout.com/242918/fan_mail/new) Why are writers for The Gospel Coalition coming after the dad in the cartoon series Bluey? He’s an involved dad who loves his kids. Why are they so offended? Rick Pidcock joi
Episode 257: Little Girls in Church Parking Lots in BaptistLand
Send us Fan Mail (https://www.buzzsprout.com/242918/fan_mail/new) Christa Brown was sexually assaulted dozens of times by her youth pastor when she was 15. She was made to repent and apologize to his wife. The pastor just got moved around f
