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Divorce, Prenups, Daddy Issues & Healing: Real Talk with My Girls Martha, Vita, Isabela, and Camila

Dienstag, 9. Dezember 2025 · 51 min

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In this special “Miami Besties” episode of Not Alone, Valeria brings together the most memorable, honest, and vulnerable moments from her conversations with the women closest to her. The episode begins with friend Vita Sidorkina, whose conversation dives into raising resilient kids, the value of honesty with children, and the Russian cultural principles she still carries. Plus, an open conversation about how “daddy issues” can shape who we choose to marry and life with a husband who is 20 years older. Next, Isabela Grutman reflects on what marrying young taught her, navigating the early modeling world, and the reality of “high-value” men. We also get into long-term partnerships, and what it means to renegotiate your marriage as you evolve. Then, Martha Graeff opens up about her first marriage, the courage it took to prioritize her mental health, and the financial realities of leaving, including why she believes prenups are empowering, not limiting. Finally, Camila Coelho shares her deeply personal experience growing up with epilepsy, from getting diagnosed as a child to managing her condition as an adult, and the stigma that still surrounds it.

Together, these conversations reveal the raw, real, and resilient sides of womanhood, friendship,and the stories that shape us.

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What we talked about:

- Setting up the “Miami Besties” Episode

- Introducing friend Vita Sidorkina

- Start of Vita

- Bringing back honest communication with children

- People being too soft

- Russian values Vita holds on to

- Not growing up with childhood trauma

- Daddy issues & marital age-gaps

- Introducing friend Isabela Grutman

- Start of Isabela

- Wasting people’s time

- Marrying young vs. later in life

- Modeling at a young age

- Women looking for high-value men

- Lessons from marriage

- Not taking everything personally

- Renegotiating the marriage terms

- Introducing friend Martha Graeff

- Start of Martha

- Early days with her ex-husband

- Prioritizing mental health

- Financial aspect of leaving your marriage

- Importance of a prenup

- Introducing friend Camila Coehlo

- Start of Camila

- Getting diagnosed with epilepsy as a child

- Managing her type of epilepsy

- The stigma around epilepsy

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