The Baffling Behavior Show {Parenting after Trauma}· Folge 270
EP 270: What is Your Kid's Nervous System Predicting? (Part 3 of 3)
Dienstag, 16. Juni 2026 · 46 min
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We've been in a three-part series on sticky behaviors (behaviors that don’t seem to change, no matter WHAT you do!), and today we're doing the detective work: what is your specific child's nervous system actually predicting?
In This Episode
• Three detective questions to help you identify what prediction might be driving your child's stickiest behaviors, and what those behaviors are actually protecting against
• Why you don't have to get the detective work exactly right, because the mismatched experience that changes the brain is almost always the same thing no matter what prediction is running
• How your working theory about your child's nervous system changes something in you first, and why this is so important (but also, no pressure. We’re all doing the best we can)
Resources Mentioned
• Raising Kids with Big, Baffling Behaviors (robyngobbel.com/book) — robyngobbel.com/bafflingbook
• The Club (robyngobbel.com/theclub) — robyngobbel.com/theclub
• Immersion Program for Professionals (robyngobbel.com/immersion) — robyngobbel.com/immersion
• Part 1 of this series: Why Sticky Behaviors Stay Stuck (robyngobbel.com/stickybehaviors1)
• Part 2 of this series: What Actually Changes Sticky Behaviors (robyngobbel.com/changesticky)
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