The Baffling Behavior Show {Parenting after Trauma}

{REPLAY} Is Co-Regulation Just Coddling??

Dienstag, 14. April 2026 · 39 min

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This episode originally aired in September 2024.
Almost every time I teach, especially if there are folks in the audience not already familiar with my work or the concept of co-regulation, someone asks the very valid question of-
“Isn’t this (co-regulation) just coddling?”
Fair question! There are a lot of underlying assumptions and fears in this question that we will deconstruct in today’s episode.
Spoiler: Co-regulation is NOT coddling!
In this episode, you’ll learn
• The difference between co-regulation and coddling
• Why asking this question helps us understand some of our fears
• What trust has to do with co-regulation
Resources Mentioned on the Podcast
• Self-Regulation Doesn’t Exist!! (robyngobbel.com/selfregulationdoesntexist)
• What Does Co-Regulation Really Look Like? {EP 81} (robyngobbel.com/coregulation)
• Enabling vs. Low-Demand Parenting {Ep 144} (robyngobbel.com/enabling)
Read the transcript at robyngobbel.com/coddling

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