The Jefferson Fisher Podcast· Staffel 2· Folge 85

Never Do This When Someone Gets Emotional

Mittwoch, 5. August 2026 · 17 min

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What do you say when you start to cry in an argument? Absolutely nothing. In this episode, I break down exactly what to do when your emotions run high and the tears start falling during a tense conversation. We talk about why you should never apologize for crying, how to label your tears so you can keep the conversation moving, and why crying is just your body releasing tension. I also cover what to do when someone else starts crying in front of you—and why handing them a tissue or asking if they need a break is actually the worst thing you can do.

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