I Answered Every Question About Reality Transurfing

0:00 What's up everybody? I'm at the State Botanical Gardens of Georgia. It's absolutely beautiful, gorgeous spring day, and I thought, what a perfect backdrop to do a quick QA with you guys. I want to answer some of the most common questions that I get on this channel, and I think it'll be a lot of fun. I'm gonna go into depth on many of the comments that I get and go into detail to help you to understand these concepts at a deep level.

0:27 If you're not familiar with me, my name is Bootsy Greenwood. I've helped thousands of people transform their lives with the principles of reality transurfing, and today I want to answer the most common questions. And the first one is can you manifest your hair back? Great question. Look, I'm not gonna say that's not possible, but when you look like this, there's no reason to.

0:49 Now, one distinction that I would like to make is that I don't teach manifestation. Manifestation has become a silly cartoonish term that means sitting down and visualizing for something that essentially is gonna come in the mail like it's an Amazon package. I don't teach manifestation, I teach materialization.

1:07 And so ultimately understanding that we can bring into this physical reality whatever it is that we learn to choose to bring into this physical reality. We're choosing all the time whether we know it or not. And by choosing, we're literally bringing things from the unmanifest or the infinite space of variations, what everything that ever was, is, or will be into the finite physical third dimension space.

1:37 So once you learn to choose and actually materialize reality as opposed to manifesting it, that is when things begin to seriously change. If I stop caring so much, will life stop testing me all the time? Well, here's the thing the reason why life seems to be testing you is because you care so much. It doesn't mean you can't care, but we want to take care without worrying.

2:00 When has stress ever helped you in any situation? When has cortisol being in your system or going into a fight or flight response ever actually saved you? The calmest fighter wins. So there's no reason to freak out. In fact, probably the reason why life seems to be testing you is because of your level of concern or worry.

2:23 So these two things are actually intertwined. What do you do when negative thoughts keep coming back? That's a great question. Here's what you do, first and foremost, you notice them. You become aware, you become aware of these thoughts that seemingly come out of nowhere, and you pattern disrupt them.

2:44 So once you start to notice them, that's when you say, Hey, wait, not so fast. No, no. This pattern, this loop of thought is not something that I'm interested in entertaining. And you mark that thought, using it as a thought marker. You disrupt the pattern, you notice it, and then you replace it with another thought.

3:04 So for instance, if you were thinking something like, Oh, you're such poo-poo head, then you say, Wait, I caught it, I got that thought, I'm not a poo-poo head. I love and accept myself truly, deeply, and for real. And then the next time that thought comes up, that pattern of I'm a poo-poo head, then you can simply stop it, notice it, become aware of it, and replace it with another thought.

3:30 What is the best way to detach from negative pendulums? Well, the best way is pretty subjective. The way I really like to do it is what is called the vaudeville lifeline. That is when you make a joke out of whatever it was that the pendulum's trying to hook you into. You can blow it out of proportion, you can exaggerate it.

3:49 There's an old saying that comedy equals tragedy plus time. But I like to say comedy equals tragedy plus more tragedy. You guys remember the three stooges? Yeah, things just got worse and worse and worse, and it became what they call a comedy of errors. Shakespeare coined that term, if I'm not mistaken.

4:08 And so that's something that you can literally use to your own purpose. If you can make something into a joke, it no longer has power over you. It just doesn't anymore. There are a couple other ways. One is to still the pendulum's sway, meaning you just stay neutral regardless of the reaction that the pendulum is seeking.

4:27 And the other is to act in a way that is unexpected. So the pendulum has a script that it plays out, it pokes you and it expects a certain response. When you don't give it that response, but something completely different or off the wall or silly or absurd, then you keep your energy. If you asked me to sum up what a pendulum is in the shortest amount of words possible, I would say anything that provokes a reaction.

4:52 So, how can you respond in a way that's suitable for you? What do you think the best way it is to respond to a pendulum? I'd love to hear your thoughts. Pop it in the comments. I've been trying to understand pendulums and I feel like social media might be one. How can I use social media without getting hooked by the pendulum of social media?

5:13 Now, social media is 100% for sure a pendulum. And this answer is pretty simple because, in a word, the answer is create, just create. Don't consume on social media, or at least consume way, way less. The more that you consume social media, the more you're intentionally putting yourself to sleep. When you're subconsciously scrolling, you are not building your awareness muscle, and that is keeping you asleep, and it's making it to where pendulums are going to much more easily be able to distract you and pull your attention into different thought streams.

5:54 Now, when you go onto social media and you use it to create, to connect, message people, run your business, that's creation. And so now you're intentionally using it with intention, true, pure intention, as opposed to being used by it. So how can you use social media without being used by social media?

6:14 The answer, in one word, create. How do pendulums affect relationships and friendships? Now this is sneaky because pendulums can be quite insidious when it comes to relationships. People who don't know about this concept don't realize that they're hooked into a pendulum. They don't realize that their thoughts are being harvested and directed in a certain energy stream or current of thought.

6:40 They don't realize that they're an adherent to whatever it is that they're obligated to, that they feel guilty to do. So their actions will sometimes be provoked by a pendulum. The only thing that you can do here is to just have empathy for the person. Just love and appreciate them and know that it's really not even them that's making a lot of those choices.

7:03 It's the pendulum itself. And then also reflect into your own self, your own behavior, your own psyche. What pendulums are you hooked into that you might not have realized? It's a great prompt for you to wake up and assess your own situation and your own relationship with pendulums. This is particularly challenging and can be because they are so insidious.

7:26 And if people don't know that they're working on behalf of a pendulum, then you can't really wake them up to that fact. But if you can just keep in mind, and if you can just stay empathetic and appreciate the person and love them where they're at, knowing that they're being manipulated and a lot of their behavior honestly has nothing to do with you, but only because they are connected to a pendulum, then you can keep your own awareness and you can also use this to stay observant of your own tendencies and your own relationship with the pendulums in your life.

8:00 How do I know if I'm following my own true path or someone else's pendulum? Such a great question. Here's how you'll know. If you are following a path that is very conventional, that doesn't have nuance, that isn't suited for you, that bores you to tears, that feels like drudgery, then you are following someone else's goal.

8:26 Now, if you are doing something that gives you energy, that really showcases your strengths, your talents, and your abilities, that is how you'll know that you are following your own goal. Now, just because something is conventional doesn't mean it's not your goal, but there's going to be some nuance there.

8:47 So in any endeavor, there are going to be some obvious signs that it's a true fit for your soul. Your soul has its own strengths, its own capabilities, its own personality, and it should feel easy and like you're operating out of your zone of genius, not like you're operating out of someone else's obligations, rules, and duty that's thrust upon you.

9:13 If it feels like that, it's someone else's goal. If it feels like doing something that is completely unique to you, that is how you know you're on the path to your true goal. I keep overthinking my future, especially about money and stability. How do I stay neutral when everything feels so intense? Understanding that the intensity is what is causing that loop and becoming aware of the sensations in your body, the tension that you experience when you think of these things, is a clear sign to detach, to move away from whatever is giving you that anxiety and give yourself the ability to have space and to breathe.

9:55 There's literally nothing that you will do better under stress or having a bunch of cortisol in your system or fight or flight, literally nothing that you will do any better with that type of stress and pressure. So do anything that you can do to detach, to go out and take a walk, take some deep breaths, maybe try some EFT tapping or you know, some breath work, and relieve yourself of the stress in order to be able to get back in and do whatever it is that you need to do without feeling like it's an obligation, without feeling guilty about it, without feeling like it's a duty.

10:37 Because those are the pendulum strings guilt, duty, and obligation. Sometimes when things start going well, I get excited and I panic and freak out because they are going well. How can I keep this from happening? So it's very common for us to have a success barrier, it's a conditioned response in our nervous system.

10:58 And what reality transurfing is essentially teaching us to do is to reset our nervous system at a new level. That's what jumping timelines actually is. It's a reset of your nervous system, it's an expansion of your comfort zone. So sometimes when we do have successes and we do have opportunities and things are starting to go our way, our nervous system will start to panic and freak out because we're literally about to level up our status.

11:27 And our nervous system wants to keep us safe, our brain wants to keep us safe. So it sometimes resists that level up, it sometimes resists that status increase just to keep itself safe. So just understanding that in the moment when it happens, breathing through it, being conscious about it, and marking that behavior, marking that feeling and saying and celebrating it and saying, hey, this is my nervous system trying to keep me safe.

11:54 This is good. I can continue through this threshold. And if I do with a positive outlook, then that is going to end with me leveling up. It's ultimately the biggest leverage being attitude when it comes to this particular problem. I won't even say problem, but situation. This is a thing to celebrate.

12:13 The tension and moving through that tension is a sure, sure sign that you are moving into a more successful state. And when you realize that, then you can have a little bit more emotional resilience when those things are happening. And instead of blocking yourself as you've done before, you can actually move through that stress, move through that resistance, and level yourself up to a new lifeline, resetting your nervous system at a new level.

12:41 I was thinking about what you said about dropping importance. How can I effectively drop importance if something is actually important to me, like a career or a goal or my family? Well, ultimately, no one actually said to drop importance. It says to reduce importance. Things are gonna be important. There's nothing wrong with you for wanting certain things, for pursuing certain things, and for giving certain things some importance.

13:11 But when you give them too much importance and you put them very high up on a pedestal, they become very hard to reach. And ultimately, you deserve all the things. Every good thing, you already deserve it. You're no better or worse than any thing or person. So when we highly, highly, highly, highly overvalue something, we're creating so much importance that our system won't allow us actually to have it.

13:37 So what we can do is reduce importance, just reduce it. Maybe even, this is another trick that we talked about earlier, hype up the importance. How can you make it even more important so that it becomes actually funny in your system? And then at that time, you begin to lessen that constriction. You begin to loosen up the stress and tension in your body, and that makes it much easier to actually move forward and attain the goal.

14:03 I've been thinking a lot about decisions, choices, and timelines lately. Do small decisions really affect us and put us on different lifelines? The answer is yes. We are put on different lifelines when we make even the smallest choice. And the reason why that is, is because we're creating new neural pathways in our brain every time we choose and we make it easier to make the same decision over and over again.

14:34 I'll give you a simple example. Let's say that you go out to dinner and you order a salad. Well, the next time you go out to dinner, it's going to be even easier to order a salad. Now, if you order French fries, then the next time you go out, it's easier to just go ahead and have the fries. And so incrementally and over time, these choices compound.

14:54 It's like compounding interest. And the more you choose it, the easier it gets. And the more you choose it, the easier it gets, creating either an upward spiral of success or a downward spiral of failure. Now, all can be overcome. It's not about getting upset with yourself for that small decision that you made, but instead celebrating the small wins, the great choices that you make, emphasizing those and giving yourself props and appreciation every time you make a great decision.

15:23 Up, up, up, up, up, little bit by little bit by little bit, reinforcing that and appreciating yourself for doing the thing that is moving you toward your goal, toward that which you would like to accomplish. Now, I want to say thank you so much for watching this video. It's been amazing to walk through the state botanical gardens of Georgia with you and see all these beautiful flowers, all these gorgeous trees, fountains, pieces of art.

15:56 Absolutely stunning and a beautiful day here in Athens, Georgia. If you're interested in learning more about reality transurfing, I can teach you this real quick. It took me 10 years. I can teach you in probably, you know, a few hours, honestly, how to do this stuff. If you're interested in that, click the link underneath this video and check out our school group.

16:17 It's absolutely free, and there are some amazing courses and incredible people inside waiting for you. Come check it out. Come connect with us. Also, you can click the other link and you can book a call with me where we can talk about how to put these principles into practice for you right now without a bunch of education and information.

16:41 We can start putting this stuff right into your system. We'd love to connect. Look forward to hopping on a call, chatting with you, and seeing you accomplish your goal. Thanks so much for watching this video. We'll see you guys on the next one. Peace.