How to Speak to Your Guardian Angel with Matt Fraser

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1:17 and statements expressed by our guests are their own and do not necessarily reflect the beliefs or positions of Next Level Soul, its host or any of the companies they represent. Now let's dive in to today's episode. I like to welcome back to this show, returning champion and finally here in Next Level Soul Studios, Matt Frasier, Man, how you doing.

1:37 God, I'm glad to be here.

1:38 The energy is great.

1:39 Thank you for having me.

1:40 Thank you so much for being here. Brother. I know we've been threatening to do this for quite some time, and you finally were in the vicinity of Texas and you made the trip down here, so I appreciate you. Well.

1:49 Listen, I think YouTube would have killed me if I didn't make my way to your studio for this. So I'm so happy. I'm so happy to all the followers too, who it was literally them who brought the two of us together.

1:57 Yes, absolutely, my friend. Well, you've been on the show a few times and every time you come on, your hit and people like our energy when we're going back and forth and talking about stuff. So, first of all, what has changed in your life lately since last time? I spoke to you. What is what's new now? Because the world is changing, the world has known new and I'm just curious about your personal journey and how you're what's changed in your life lately.

2:20 You know, what's amazing is that we all have chapters within life. There's certain there's certain ways that spirit works through us and with us. And one of the things that I've noticed is that in my readings that went from really helping people to heal to now also teaching people, teaching people that there was a gift deep within us.

2:35 There's so many people that come to me that are like, Matt, I just have had something happen in my life and I don't know what it is. And really what they're talking about is their psychic ability, this awakening. And I've seen so many people that have had an experience that they can't explain. Maybe it is that they've received a sign from the other side. Maybe it is that they've had, you know, a near death experience. Maybe it is that all of a sudden they've seen something and they know what they saw, right, but they're like, I need to know more now. And I think more and more people are going down the rabbit hole really figuring out that there's more to life than what's here in this world, and there's also a gift with me that's meant to

3:09 be shared with the world. And I think that's the one question that people come to me with, right is they keep people keep coming to me saying that I feel like.

3:16 I'm meant to do more, but I'm not sure what that is.

3:19 So my readings have literally changed in the fact where you know, it used to be ninety nine percent of connecting people with loved ones who had passed on, and now I feel like I'm helping people find their journey.

3:29 And I've seen that as well. A lot of people are. I mean, do you believe that because there's a there seems to be a vacuum right now in spirituality where before it was the church, the church, the church or religious you know, dogma of some sort from around the world, and there's a thousand religions out there, but there seems to people leaving traditional religions and organize religions in the data just shows it that people are not happy with the old ways, the dogma, the guilt. I'm talking from a Catholic point of view, but in other or other areas.

4:01 There seems to be a spiritual vacum, and people are searching for answers, and now they're being almost forced to look sometimes within themselves, but also to investigat and be curious about all these other things. Is that what you think is happening right now as well?

4:17 I think our soul is telling us something, right. I think your soul is feeling that it doesn't have to be this way. Right, Like I remember as a little kid telling my parents, well, what's the difference if I'm raised Christian? Right, but my friend is raised Protestant. We believe the same things. We believe in the same God, we believe in the same afterlife. Why is it that there's so many fine lines between this religion versus this religion? Right?

4:38 And then, oh, you can't believe this in this religion, but you can believe it in this religion. Your soul picks something up from all of the religions. I mean, I've learned this from all of the years of doing this work. You've learned this just from the guests on your podcast. And I think that people are really going with what their soul feels. For years, we've had to keep the secret for years. We couldn't talk about what we felt right, We couldn't talk about what we thought.

5:00 We couldn't talk about signs. We couldn't talk about our own psychic ability. My grandmother was one. My grandmother, my mom were psychics and mediums. In hiding, right, they couldn't talk about seeing the departed. Hearing that departed people would literally literally you know, x amount of society, So they kept it hidden. But as the world changes and as people start to you know, share their experiences, near death experiences, signs, mediums coming out with different gifts, you know, and understanding that there's more to life than what's here. I think together we're all raising our consciousness and people feel it.

5:31 Recently, what is the most surprising reading you've done that caught you off guard?

5:35 Oh my god, I think one of the most craziest readings that I've done is people actually, you know what it's as a whole. I've realized doing this that there's a good majority of people that don't realize that it's not just their loved ones reaching out to them. You have three groups of people that are reaching out to you.

5:52 Your guardian angels, which are there to help you spiritually and protect you. You have your spirit guides that are there to lead you and guide you, and then you have your loved ones in heaven.

6:01 So I kept hearing this feeling right.

6:03 It's crazy because I do meditations every morning and I always ask the other side what am I supposed to be doing? Is there are another chapters that I'm supposed to be opening? So I kept hearing you have to teach people about angels. You have to. You have to open people up and show them they have a guardian angel.

6:15 I don't go in and push aside what I'm hearing from the Spira. I know that it's always it's always right on, but I'm like, I don't know why I'm being told this. Like everybody knows they have a guardian angel. Everybody knows that you know, they have an angel that's there in guiding them. So I said, you know what I'm gonna test. I'm gonna put it out on Facebook.

6:29 So I started, you know, writing some posts about guardian angels, and then I realized.

6:32 Something that all the people who were responding.

6:35 Had no idea that they actually had a guardian angel, an actual individual being that's watching over them.

6:41 People got so upset Alex. It was crazy, right because I.

6:44 Started telling people like, you know, your guardian angel is a special being that was assigned to you by God and your guardian angels, but their whole life on the other side. And then all the comments came back saying, well, I know who my guardian angel is. My guardian angel is my dad, My guardian angel is my grandmother, My guardian angel is my sister or my aunt. And I'm like, well, wait a minute, you know, actually your sister, your aunt, they can act like as an angel, they can be a special, you know, angel type person in your life.

7:06 But your guardian angel is a soul, right, a being that has never walked here on earth.

7:12 So that's what I heard from Spirit will listen.

7:13 You gotta do angel readings, you know, show people that you actually have this being that's there. So I did my first ever angel reading where you know, I brought people in and we did messages just from angels on the other side, and it was amazing. I mean, people were in absolute tears because they realized something. They realized that they weren't alone. Even the people who spent years seeing psychics and mediums and saying I'll never get a reading because I didn't lose anybody in my life significant got readings that day and was like, wow, I'm really not going through this in life, and my life has meaning.

7:45 I went through these struggles and challenges for a reason and a meeting, and it also shows them that there is a pathway meant just for them, and I think those have been the most impactful readings.

7:57 Can you Okay, I've never heard of an angel reading.

8:00 You've never heard of Again, you're one of the ones.

8:02 This is okay, this is why we're talking about.

8:03 Okay, So I've never I've never I mean, I've heard of angels coming and we've heard of spirit guides coming through. I've had my spirit guides read on air, I've had you've read my grandparent. I'm sure they're hanging around right now, probably bothering you around all the time. But I've never heard of a Guardian angel specific reading, which is very interesting.

8:26 So do you mind like kind of given an example of it. I'll use myself as a guinea pick. I'm just curious on what will come through. I've never experienced that. Matt. You've surprised me, and it's rare to surprise me at all. In this space anymore after over seven hundred episodes, So let me know, let me walk you.

8:42 Through the process. So, first of all, guardian angel readings are completely different than a mediumship reading, and the reason why is that when you connect with someone in spirit, someone in spirit will come through and they will bring through memories that you shared with them. Right They'll talk about your first birthday, the time in which they died, who was by their bedside. They'll talk about their physical body, you know, what they died from, who was there. They'll talk about certain memories that they had with you, favorite songs, signs that they're using to reach you, and it's deeply personal between you and that person. Your guardian angel is different, and a guardian angel reading is different because your guardian

9:15 angel talks specifically about you, about watching go of you from the very beginning. And guardian angels don't speak the same way that your love's ones and spirit you because loves, ones and spirit will talk in conversation. Your angels are different. Your angels are tasked with you in life. They're there to help you discover your talent, skills and abilities. They're there to walk you through your challenges, through your biggest ups and downs, and your guardian angels are there to divinely protect you.

9:39 Right, So what do I mean by that, Well, your.

9:41 Guardian angel has been with you through this whole entire journey of life. So when they come through during readings, it's different. They might speak about your life journey. They might talk about, for example, what you're meant to do, like, for example, what I'm here with you right now. You have your guardian angel with you, and they're telling me that you've always meant to be a psycho breaker. That's who you are. You are the type of person that you're a cycle breaker. You're the person that you rise up, that you're you're not afraid to call things out, you're not afraid to go and it's with you and your guardian angel is pushing you through that because you've been You've never been the silent person in the room before

10:15 you even started this podcast, right, they showed me that you were always the one that was, you know, saying it doesn't have to be this way, let's switch things up. And they tell me that you used to get in trouble for this like all the time, because like you'd be brought into like a set, you'd be brought into a job and like you'd want to do things your way.

10:31 You know.

10:31 It's funny. When I was in like first grade, I would talk. I was in Catholic school and my kid and my teacher was like, I need you to do this, this and this, and I'm like, hold on a second, let's have a conversation. I'm first grade. I'm like, we need to discuss how we're going to do this. This is not and she would drive her nuts and she talked to my mom. She's like, he wants to argue everything.

10:51 He wants to discuss everything, like everything's up for debate. He doesn't understand that this is a dictatorship. Which is it, that's it, and he wants this to be kind of like no, no, the time of conversation. From the very since I was born, I has been a troublemaker.

11:04 Well, listen, you call it a trouble maker, right, your guardian angel calls a cycle breaker. Right, it's leading you to where you are right now, where like eventually you got sick and tired of all of it, and you're like, you know what, screw it, I'm done. Listen to everybody else, I'm going to do things my way and if I fail, I fail. Right, your guardian Angel was leading you through that journey. So that's just the tipbit, right. But when I go into these Guardian Angel readings, they'll show really the past of what we've.

11:25 Been through, and people have been through huge struggles.

11:28 Maybe it was that you were born into a family where you were the only one that didn't succumb to addiction, right, but you were around it your whole life, and your guardian Angel was tasked with moving you through that right and showing you that this was not the way, and from that experience you were able to help other people to heal. Maybe it is that your guardian angel once saved you that's happened during Guardian Angel readings where maybe it was that you had this near death experience and you're like, who saved me?

11:51 Who saved me? I give you an example.

11:52 There was this woman that was just recently reading for It was a crazy experience. When I went to read for her a Guardian Angel, her guardian Angel came through. Her guardian Angel had showed me that she was in this horrific accident, right, and her soul was almost passed over. Her soul had almost died. And when I was connecting with her, I said, you know, your guardian angel is coming through. She showed me this car wreck that had happened, and she said that was me. Well, her guardian angel said that she led her out of the car right and I kept seeing this guardian angel like literally taking her and helping her out of the car. Well, anyways, when ended up happening, she goes, this woman started crying

12:27 and she said, nap, I have searched for years for this woman. She said, I was in this horrible car accident. She goes, all I remember is the car being upside down and me having to get out of this car and crawl out, and there was this woman saying, come to me, come to me. She crawled out of the car. Right after that she blacked out. She remembers wake up in the hospital. I'm telling her she was in the accident, and she's like, I got to think that woman. I got to think that woman. Well, there was no woman.

12:49 You know, people who were there at the accident scene, you know, had said, we know as they were pulling up, they saw her exiting the vehicle, but she was all alone. Well don't you know that that guardian angel showed up, and that guardian angel took human form at that moment to help her out of that accident. And for years she had no idea who had helped her. For years she had spent looking for this person. Well, that person was actually her guardian angel. She was meant to do more and she had used that near death experience afterwards, knowing that it was a way to show people that they're not alone ours.

13:21 Do you mind? Do you want to do one real quick like an angel, a guardian angel reading for me, Yeah, explain to explain, to kind of show everybody exactly what it's like.

13:28 So the way that it works is that they talk in themes, right, So when guardian angels come through right away, they would tell me about you being a rule breaker. This was your entire life, that you've always been the type of person that was, you know, pulling yourself through different challenges and struggles when it came to other people, you were against opposition. That's really what it is. And they were showing me when I'm connecting that you are a may maker, that you're the type of person where you think outside the box.

13:49 Your thoughts don't go straight, they go.

13:51 Off to the side. They go to all different places and you're fully, fully, truly creative, and they show me that there's a big part of you that has to do with art. So even though you do this part right, they show me that you have this vision, this artistic vision, and that you see things in your mind and all of those things. Anytime we get creative, this creative mindset that comes to us, these creative thoughts, these creative images, it's always our angel speaking to us.

14:12 And they literally show me you right where you'll wake up in.

14:15 The middle of the night at like three in the morning and get a thought and like have to write it down. Like you'll get like these random thoughts three in the morning for in the morning, like crazy times when you're showering, when you're home alone with like these thoughts will come in.

14:26 You'll write it down and you are a downloader, right.

14:28 That's how your guardian angels are speaking to you through these little voices, these little downloads that come through your head, and anytime that you get those thoughts, it comes from them. They also tell me that it's hard for them to sometimes reach you because your mind is always going, going, going, go and go and go, and going. But that's the reason why they're coming to it those weird hours of the night. But they're telling me, they're sending you that creative ability, and they're actually sending you people that are meant to be on the show, that are meant to have their voices heard, like they your Guardian Needsles were the ones that led you to all of this, and it started before you even started the podcast. It started

14:59 when you were just that little boy in school back in the day, right talking back to your teachers, doing all of those things to where you are now.

15:07 We'll be right back after a word from our sponsor and now back to the show. That's amazing, that's amazing. So what just out of curios can I ask questions?

15:22 Yeah?

15:22 Yeah, so what kind of what is the where do the Guardian Angels see me and want me in the next stage of my life?

15:31 That's a good that's a good, good question. Your Guardian Angels really are showing you being transitioning into a teacher.

15:37 That's really what it is about.

15:39 Being a teacher, being this go to person that is a connector. You are meant to be a connector. You've been a connector your whole entire life, connecting one person to another, and that's what you're doing right now, and the angels are helping.

15:50 You with that, all right, any other any other messages or anything else that that are traditional in these kind of readings that client, if you will, needs to hear, is anything else that they would like to say just out of curiosity?

16:05 What's amazing is that doing this reading, you're already following your path, right, You're already following what the angels are laying out for you. The majority of people come to me don't have it figured out. The majority of people come to me are not living their path. They're in the state of I know I'm meant to do.

16:19 More, got it? But what does that mean?

16:22 And that's when your guardian angel is going to come through, Right, It's that I know I'm meant to do more. I feel stuck, I feel lost, I feel incomplete. My life has taken a turn I don't know how to rebuild. That's when your guardian angels are going to show up. So to get a guardian angel reading is really when you start to pivot, when the doors start to close, when you're like, what am I supposed to do? Why is everything going wrong? That's when your guardian angels appear.

16:46 And a lot of people don't like to hear this, but it's the absolute truth, is that when doors start shutting, yeah, that's a sign, right, and people like, well, guardian angels are supposed to be helpful and nice and powerful, and they're all of those things. But some times you have to have the door slammed in your face so that you take a different route, right. And a lot of times people will say to me this, well, Matt, you know, I get my messages. I feel I feel like I'm meant to be an author, or I feel like I'm supposed to be writing, or I feel like I'm.

17:13 Supposed to be doing this, but all the doors are closing.

17:16 Well, doors closing does not mean that you're not meant to take that path.

17:20 What it does mean is not now right.

17:23 Maybe it is that before you become that writer, there's certain things or certain experiences that you have to go through first. Maybe there's certain people you need to meet, there's certain things that you have to improve on before you take that path. So if you know something in your gut, if you know you're meant to be a teacher, you're meant to be a writer, you're meant to be a psychic medium, you're meant to whatever it is that you're meant to do. Open up a business and the doors start closing. It doesn't mean it's not It doesn't mean that you're wrong. It doesn't mean it's not for you.

17:48 It means it's just not time right now.

17:51 You know, it's fascinating because for me, you know, being in Hollywood for so many years and working in the film industry, I was in the room with big movie stars. I was in the big producers, and yet it never it never transitioned into something actual that really happened. It kept falling and fall But I'm like, why am I being brought And that was the anger I had at God, at the universe back then, and I'm going, why are you bringing me into the room with the biggest movie star in the world at the time and saying, Hey, he says, I want to make a movie with you, and it doesn't happen. Why torture me? What? Why torture me?

18:30 Just don't talk about this.

18:31 I'm so excited you said that. Yes, I'm so excited to say this to show you right, to show you that listen that you are powerful to show you that if you're in the same room with this person, you can be doing this too, right, you can be doing this on your own. People come to me with this question all the time, okay all the time, and they're like, Matt, I don't understand. I see so many people on this path that I want to take. Why is it not happening for me? Right? And the thing is is that guardian angels are really really amazing at sending you signs through other people. So when you see somebody doing something that you want to do over and over and over again, and it doesn't have to be in business or within

19:11 career or within your life, it could be in a different sector. For example, I had this client that was coming to me that was so upset because she's like, all of a sudden, seeing all these people around her getting engaged. No matter where she went, she kept saying billboard's of engagement rings, people getting engaged at the restaurant next to her, and she's like, this is what I want.

19:29 Why isn't this happening for me? And it was her guardian angel putting her in all those scenarios to say, this is what you want, but you have to change your focus. She was so career driven, she was so focused in working, working, working, that her guardian angel was trying to say, you can have this too. You've already built your business. Now focus on love, focus on bringing this into your life. When you see that happening around you, when you see successful people or people living the life that you want, and it keeps happening again and again and again, it's your guardian angel's way of saying, you can have this too. And that's some beautiful thing about the universe. And what I love so much about your podcast,

20:03 right is that there is enough room in the universe for everybody, everybody to share their gifts with the world, to share their books and writing, to share their creative thoughts. Right. But the thing is that you have to believe in yourself and you really have to go for And that's what your guardian Angel is trying to show you, right, is that if you're in the room with these most powerful people like you were, if you're in the room and you can make it into that room and you can be there with them, you can do things yourself.

20:30 What I found fascinating is that I got so angry because I kept getting into the rooms and again. It happened multiple times in my career, and yet nothing happened. So I was really frustrated on like why are you showing me? Why am I going through this torture. I really felt like Odysseus in The Odesty, like I've literally just run, like why are you constantly torturing me? I'm just trying to just trying to do what I want to do. But I did realize, and this happens as you get old, as you look back and go, oh my god, thank god I didn't have that happen, because if I would have gotten at twenty six, the biggest movie start in the world, being in your movie twenty million dollar budget, it would have destroyed because my ego

21:15 was out of control and I would have self destructed. And I'm sure I would have made a decent film of some sort. But I knew that if that would have happened at that time in my life, it would have absolutely crushed me. But when you're in it, you're so angry that this is not happening the way you want to. But only in retrospect if you're like, ooh, thank god, I didn't marry that girl. Ooh, thank god I didn't go out with that guy kind of thing, you know, with people, and and oh thank god I lost my job. And that's been sometimes when I lost my life. I've been fired from the only two staff jobs I've ever had in my life. And I'm very proud of my firings because both of them were catalysts for next stages of my life. But I was always

21:58 very frustrated about all of that, but only in retrospect, right, And I'm assuming that's happened with you in your life.

22:03 Oh yeah, I mean I see it happen in my client's life all the time. But I'll tell you we've all had that experience, and we can use any relationships as an example. Right, is that sometimes the reason why we're given a relationship that really sucks, that really is horrible, is to teach us how to find the right person.

22:19 You know, that happened with me. I remember that I was sating this girl and she was a great girl, right, great girl, beautiful girl, nice girl. But I kept thinking to myself, this isn't somebody that I could see marrying. This isn't somebody I could see having children with. This isn't to be honest with you, I didn't even think that I wanted kids. I didn't think I wanted to be a dad. I just didn't see it for myself.

22:39 And I remember after leaving this relationship being like, there's got to be something more. There's got to be something more. And what was crazy was is that I'd been in this relationship. I said, great girl, I just couldn't love her the way that you know love was described in books and movies. And then it wasn't until I met my wife that I was like, oh my god. And you know, I remember my mom always telling me when you meet the girl or the person that you're going to marry, She's like, you will instantly know.

23:09 When I was like, Mom, well how will I know? How will I know?

23:11 It's just like you'll feel it, you'll know, right and listen. When I was in that relationship, I thought I was in love.

23:17 I thought I had to figure it out.

23:18 Great girl, great career, great job, we were happy together.

23:22 But there was something that was missing. Well, it wasn't until I met my wife.

23:25 When I met my wife, it was like, oh my god, the choir of angels, right, the stars, the mood. I was like when I went and I never felt a love like that was a different love than I felt with anybody that I've ever experienced before. And I realized that if I were to meet my wife first, I would not have appreciated the relationship for what it was, because when I had to go through these past relationships and realize that this wasn't one, this doesn't feel right for when I got that feeling and I met my wife for the first time, I was like, this is different.

23:56 And then from there, you know, now we have three kids. Right, we've been married almost five years now. It's been this incredible journey. But I know what the journey was meant to show me, and that's what I want to show other people too.

24:07 Right, it's almost like when you have kids.

24:09 I remember my mom also saying to me, You're never gonna feel the love like when you have a child, and I'm like, what does that mean? What does that mean? Well, it wasn't until you know, I had my first child, when we had Royce and I held them that I cried and I was like, this is just a different type of love. It's something that you will never experience unless you have a child of your own.

24:28 Yeah, it's pretty magical. I mean, because I guess you needed to have the contrast, which is what life is about. You needed the contrast in order to understand what you have when you feel it and you see it. So you need bad relationships sometimes, or bad experiences at a job, or bad experiences in life, so when the good stuff does show up, you'll go, oh, this feels because if you've only eaten I always say this to people. I like, if you were born into a Michelin Star family where there's a chef, your parents are both Michelin Star chefs, and all you've ever eaten in your entire life is Michelin Star style foods, like the most amazing meals ever.

25:10 You would just that's normal. You wouldn't understand how special you have it unless you were born in a family that not only didn't have any couldn't cook well, but didn't have food. So you would need that kind of contrast. And that's what this is basically, right.

25:27 Oh, absolutely, you know that's really what your guardian angel wants to you. Your guardian angel wants you to write your next chapter, and your guardian angel wants you to create.

25:36 Your success story.

25:37 And you can really find what it is that you're meant to do and your life purpose and your sole purpose. By looking back on your challenges, challenges and struggles often become our sole purpose and are the next part of our story. What is it that you struggled with, Well, within those struggles, you're going to find your strength. Maybe it was that you were shy your entire life. You were the person that was always running away from everybody.

26:00 You're afraid to be noticed, You're afraid to be seen. And then after coming out of your challenge, going through some challenges, you found your voice right and you became this person that was unstoppable. And maybe from there you became a life coach and you taught other people. Maybe it was that within your life you've been through struggles and addictions, and then after that challenge, you went back to help other people overcome this. You know what's really amazing is that your challenges hold the secret and they hold the key to what your soul is meant to do.

26:27 Now, you mentioned a couple of times we say guardian angel, but then sometimes you say guardian angels? Do we have more than one?

26:35 We absolutely have more than one.

26:37 So can you explain the higher like not the hierarchy, but just in general. So we have obviously our loved ones, right, then we have our spirit guides, and that's more than one. I think there's from what I understand, there's one kind of like head spirit guide, and then you've got like others that are like part of the group that kind of help you in different areas of your life, like you know, intellectual or artistic or relationships. Just pulling this right out of you know where. So I want to hear your thoughts on it. And then with guardian angels, you know you always hear the stories of the one guardian angel. But there you said most so can you explain the hierarchy of our spirit team if you will.

27:14 So you have your angels, your loved ones, your spirit guides, and your pets all watching go of you.

27:19 You also have a guardian angel. Now you have multiple angels that.

27:21 Around you, but you have one lead angel that is your guardian angel. Now, your guardian angel is actually angel that was assigned to you by God. Your guardian angel has a specific purpose. Your guardian angel is there to help you discover your talents, your skills, and your abilities here on earth. So before we're born, we start with this pre planning session in heaven. We sit down with our guardian angel, with our spirit guide, with our team, right, and we're given little hints. We're shown during this planning session, who our soulmate is, right, the challenges that we're going through.

27:50 Oftentimes I hear in readings that there's times when we pick our families or pick certain struggles ahead of time. And then we also are shown our talent, skills and abilities that we're born with. Now listen, when we're born on earth, we forget about this, just like we forget about moving through the birth canal. Thank god, right, we don't remember. We don't hold on to those memories.

28:07 Thank God, we don't.

28:08 Right. But here's the thing is that even though you don't remember, your soul remembers.

28:14 Your soul has memories.

28:15 So that's the reason why when you get those deja vu moments when all of a sudden you're in a familiar place or and you're like, wait a minute, I've been here before. I feel like I know you, I feel like I meant you met you before. Are you sure? Are you sure that we didn't meet in you know, somewhere in the past. Those dajar Vu moments are your soul's remembrance, right, It's your soul's way of remembering the times that you were in that planning session, that you were showing certain people and certain things that were supposed to come.

28:41 Into your life.

28:42 So your guardian angel is there to help you discover your talents and skills, whether it is that you're a singer, songwriter, are artists, whether you're a visionary, whether you're an inner teacher, in your healer, whatever it may be, they're there and they're there to help you with finding that skill and ability.

28:57 They're also there to help you through the challenges and struggles that you're that your spirit guide is leading you through, because your spirit guide is the one that's leading you through the trenches and you and your guardian angel is the one that's telling you it's going to be okay. And then you also have I also have your loved ones that are your biggest cheerleaders that are on the other side. But your guardian angel is also there to help you with two things. Your guardian angel is there to help you and protect you against evil spirits and evil entities. And your guardian angel also sends you back before it's your time. So there is a certain mission that you're supposed to do here on earth. Right now,

29:32 Let's say, let's say that something happens, all right, and you know, all of a sudden you're in a tragic accident or something happens, and your guardian angel has the ability to save you. They will. That's the reason why so many people who have had near death experiences will have that moment where someone something has appeared and said it's not your time. Something has stopped them from going to the other side, and that is your guardian angel.

29:56 Now that does not mean that bad things don't happen, right We've heard men stories of people who have recovered from miraculous things, motorcycle accidents, jet ski accidents, all of these things. But what's so beautiful is that if you still have work that we've done here in this world, your guardian angel will send you back to complete that.

30:16 We'll be right back after a word from our sponsor, and now back to the show. The next thing I want to talk about it too, about is something that's really in the news a lot, and I've been seeing it a lot and people have been asking me for it, and like, hey, are you guys going to do something like this? And it's it's it's a term called grief tech.

30:39 Using AI to simulate someone who's passed in, or using AI in a way that it's talking to the other side now for somebody who is actually talking to the other side. From your point of view, what's your thoughts on on all of this stuff that they're that people are building bots or AI bots based on books and texts and emails and writings of the loved one to create a virtual version of them. And I understand the allure of it, no question. I mean, and it's kind of cool to like talk to Albert Einstein because you've pumped all the things he's ever written or said into one place and now he's kind of like talking like you.

31:27 But I'm curious what your thoughts on this.

31:29 AI is a great resource, especially especially for research. Right you can go and you can research anything. But also when going through AI, there's not always accurate data that's in there. And I will tell you that connecting with your loved ones in the spirit is a spiritual process. It is not something that can be done through AI.

31:47 So the thing is is that you know, obviously with AI there. It's pumped with all information. Right, there's everything that you've ever put out on the internet somehow can find its way into into the AI because the scrubs. But the thing is is that I fear. I fear that having these simulated conversations with loved ones is actually doing more damage, right, because the thing is that you don't need that to connect with your loved ones. The gift is within you. The connection to your loved ones in spirit is here. I don't trust putting that into a machine. To be honest with you, I gotta be honest.

32:21 I mean, I tell people all the time there was a safe way to do mediumship right, and there's a way that you can connect and speak to your loved ones and talk to your loved ones. But then there's other ways that don't ring true to the soul, and AI is unfortunately not one that's going to help you connect with your loved ones in spirit.

32:37 So let me ask you this because I believe that this is a possibility and I want to hear what you think. You know, Spirit talks to us throughout a million different ways. A song will come on, you're having a bad day, and all of a sudden. You know, I can see clearly now the ring and you're like really really, Like I'll say that out loud in the car.

32:58 I'll be driving, like really, guys, that's little on the nose kind of thing. So those kind of things, those coincidence and synchronicities happen. You're watching a TV show that answers the question that you are deep something like that. So Spirit uses technology in many other ways, like I'm using radio songs, TV, YouTube videos. Something will pop up on your feed, a book will show up that you need to read at the right time. Isn't it possible though, that Spirit can also answer or use AI as a technology to send a message here, not to have a come out of conversation, but to cue something kind of like what you're saying. With Spirit guides where they can, they'll like urge you in a direction here or there.

33:39 Is that a possibility.

33:40 So I've seen Spirit do amazing things. I mean, I've seen Spirit turn lights out and off. I've seen spirits come through through the radio, send signs, I mean, work with you know, send signals through electrical pulses of energy.

33:52 Spirit is energy. But to speak through an.

33:55 AI, no, you know, the thing is is that when you go and you use outside tools and technology. For example, one is a spirit box, and for a while they were very popular. They're still actually getting popular. You've never heard of a spirit box?

34:07 I vaguely here I remember hearing it. Is that, like is that paranormal? Like, yes, you have chasing ghost thing? Yes, okay, I've heard that.

34:17 So with spirit box, and this is actually something that everyone should know about. So spirit box has actually been gaining a popularity. It's basically a radio tuner that scans different frequencies, so it goes back and forth very quickly between AM and FM signals and it just scans like you know, when you're in the car and you're looking for a good station, you press the scan button and you see the dial move on its own, and the dial will go like through AM, all the AM stations and all the FM stations. You'll hear like little bits like one voice here, one song here, until it finds a good station. That's what a spirit boxes is that it's it's going through the radio right to try to go and pick up on a frequency.

34:52 So it literally uses AM and FM. And when you go and you use the spirit boxes, voices can come through.

34:59 So paranormal investigators will bring these boxes into really dark places, places that they know to be haunted, to communicate with the lower vibrations, because we have a lower vibration, which are souls that have not made it to the other side, and then you have a higher vibration right of souls that have crossed over. So the lower vibration are the souls that unfortunately did horrible things here in this world that did not cross over to the other side, and those are that's a very easy frequency to tap into.

35:26 So talking about the frequencies, we have your angels on one vibration, your spirit guides on another, your loved ones, and then the lower vibration, which are those souls unfortunately that did not do good things. So a spirit box picks up on those lower frequencies, on those lower vibrations. And you have to be very careful with this, okay, because a spirit box invites in any soul in the nearby area. It's very similar to a Wiji board. So a Wiji board, the reason why Oigi boards are so dangerous is that a Wiji board is literally like letting your front door open, right. Think of it this way.

35:59 The same way that when you go to bed at night, you lock the door, you turn on the alarm system, right, you keep yourself safe, and if somebody trust to inswer the house, the alarm's going to go off, the police are going to come in. Well, Luigi Born opens the door to your front door, and anybody, say that's in the nearby area is allowed to come in. Now here's what happens. You have guardian angels that are with you every day. So let's say that you walk into a haunted place. Let's say you walk into a place that you know is known to be haunted, your guardian angels are going to protect you. Nobody can just come in and you know, come in and possess you or do things to you. Your guardian angel is day to keep

36:34 you safe. You will not walk home with a hitchhiking spirit.

36:38 However, however, the souls, the souls that the souls that are in that lower vibration do try to communicate, right, They do try to cause disruption within our life, and if we let them in, we can get something called a spirit attachment.

36:53 I don't like talking about this because I don't like talking about the dark side, but I think it's important to know because there is a rise right now, Alex and people trying to become ghost hunters power normal investigators everywhere. But there's a huge danger to this because I will tell you that in all my years of a medium of doing this right, there's only been a handful of cases where people have come to me and they've had a negative soul attached to them. And guess what, every one of those cases was somebody who was doing something they shouldn't. They were going to haunted places, playing with these spirit boxes ouiji boards, trying to do these you know seances right, And really what they were doing is

37:29 when you do this, When you do this, it's pushing your guardian angel away and saying I'm allowing this.

37:35 So your guardian angel is naturally protecting.

37:36 You, but it's going to respect your wishes exactly.

37:39 So the thing is is that your guardian angel is there, just like your alarm system. Right, you can keep your alarm system on, arm it in the house, but if you see someone at the front door that you don't know, and you disarm the system, turn it off, and you open the door, the alarm is not going to go off. Right.

37:55 The alarm can only protect you if the alarm is on. So the same thing with your guardians angel is that your guardan angel's naturally protecting you. But if you take go to Wigi board or a spirit box and try to channel the other side and you're doing a form of unsafe mediumship, those negative souls can come through. So this is mediumship one on one, and a lot of the people who are paranormal investigators and people who go into these places, they have very very intense rituals of saving smudging, they.

38:24 Use a form of psychic protection.

38:26 There are paranormal investigators that I know that are brilliant at what they do, but they spend a lot of time alone, freer meditation, deep in spirituality to be able to do what they do right.

38:37 And then it's tough because there's so many.

38:40 Videos where we see somebody do it. We're like, oh, that's cool, let me pick that up.

38:43 Let me try a wigi board, let me try this.

38:45 And if you go on you type the word Wiji board right into the search engine, you will see all of the people who have had a near excuse me, a very scary debt, excuse me, a very scary experience, and the reason why is because they were tapping into something that they didn't know how to control.

39:00 So and there is ways to protect yourself. Obviously, it's a hundred different ways, different rituals, different meditations, different prayers, different things that you can do to do that. What is your take on you know, I've heard of the I've heard what you've said as far as like lower vibration souls, Souls who are chosen not to leave the earthly plane. Either they're lost, they don't know they're dead, and that's why they hang out at a house because you're like, why are you in my house? Is my house?

39:30 They don't even know that they're dead, kind of like that old movie The Others with Nicole Kidman? Is that what you is that basically what your understanding is.

39:39 Well, I think that we have to for the to find this right because there's also this part of this is part of mediumship that's going around that really just upsets me, and that is that there's you know, there's some mediums that go out there that say, oh, well, if your loved one loves you so much, sometimes they won't cross over because they want to stignify you and tell your grief.

39:59 Oh hold, I've never what. Oh, yes, I've never. No medium has ever said that on my show. Well, thank god, because I will tell you.

40:06 I don't get crazy if I don't get over twenty emails about this a month, my team fielding this. We don't get this at all about Oh, I went to see a medium and they told me that my loved one isn't at piece because I'm grieving and they can't make it see their side. And this is something that we get in the inbox in the comments every single day.

40:23 All right, okay, So I want to I want to dive into this because this is something that needs to be talked about. And I haven't spoken about this publicly before, but this is this is something I think is so important that needs to be discussed. So I was when I was younger. You know, my culture in general has been you know, had psychics and mediums and stuff in it.

40:44 We're Latinos, so Latino. It's in our culture, in our blood with Italian yeah exactly. It's something you know, and but it was also like Italians, they don't say much about it. It's very back in the quiet, especially the older generations. What you and I are doing is sacrilege. Oh, just having a conversation about this in public is insane.

41:02 You bo, you got a show talking about it and everything. So but so I've always known that. So I was raised with Hey, we need to go get a reading from the aunt our aunt, and hey, I want to go do this. It was always in this world. So when I was younger, I was, you know, very kind of scared about life and worried all about like what's going to happen next? And when am I going to make it big as a director and all this kind of stuff. So I saw it after many different psychics, and one I found was not very scrupulous and basically told me that I had an evil curse on me, that someone cursed me and she needed X amount of money to take it off and I needed to do these rituals and terrified me. Only after that when I

41:50 asked my I think I asked my mom, I go, do you know anybody that can come and help me after this debacle with this other psychic? And she's like, well, I know this one person. And that friend connected me with my spiritual teacher who has been with me since I was twenty three, Connie, who's she's been a channel and a psychic. I mean, she's ninety two now and she's still working, and she's the reason why this is here, because she's the one that told me to do this.

42:20 And then she kind of said everything straight. She's like, look, no, you're fine, there's no evil spirits around you. You're not cursed. Because I was really worried. Not that there's not a potential for that, but I wasn't dealing with any of that. So can we talk a little bit about not only the ethics of doing a reading a reading, but warning signs for people who go after medium going after readings from psychics and mediums, specifically mediums, because now you're really playing in an emotional, very vulnerable state, like I just lost my mom, I just lost my grandparents, I lost my kid or whatever that you were just like, I need to know, I need to know you're in such a vulnerable, raw place, and there are unscrupulous people who

43:05 might have a gift who just will take advantage of them because and that's the other thing I said so many times, just because you have the gift, and not the gift that you've developed the gift enough to do it in a professional capacity. Doesn't mean you're a good person, so to beware. So what do you let's talk?

43:23 What do you think?

43:24 Well, first of all, what's really scary is that I see emails like this all the time, where even in today's world, is people out there that have been convinced in some way that someone has put a spell on them, a curse on them after seeing a psychic medium, and when I tell you something, it doesn't happen. Now, do people think bad but think badly about us and sheer bad energy?

43:44 Absolutely right?

43:44 We can tell a bad thought right, someone thinks badly about you. It makes you stick to your stomach that people are setting negative energy to you.

43:51 You can feel it, right.

43:52 So the reason why we practice psychic protection and the reason why you know we have to keep our energy and learn to cleanse our energy, right, is that we.

43:58 Absolutely absolutely up on bad thoughts.

44:00 We pick up on energy when we go towards places, right, especially if you're empathic, you could be around a person who's having a bad day and feel all of that energy. But that does not mean, under any shape or form, that there's a curse or a hacks or anything on you. And you know, the sad part is is that there are mediums that are out there that you know, do try to take advantage and will tell people this. And I can't tell you how many people have come to me right where I've had to say, no, there is not a curse on you. There's nothing on you. You know, Yes, you may have had these bad experiences happen, but they were just that they were bad experiences, right, and you don't have to hang on to that energy. And there's

44:33 also been mediums that have said, listen, you know the reason why the reason why you're not sensing your son or your daughter or this one or that one is because they haven't crossed over because you're grieving, and I can help you. You have to look for those red flags. You also have to look for the red flags of a psychic or a medium guaranteeing that they can that they can communicate with somebody okay, or clear the curse or clearly right, like, oh, I can guarantee you who do you want to hear from? Right? I can guarantee that I'll hear from your mind. I can guarantee your connection with your dad. I can guarantee your connection with this person. I'm gonna tell you right now, even me as a medium, right, I can't guarantee that even my

45:08 own loved ones will come through. I get excited when I hear from my loved ones, just like when I hear from your loved ones. And that's the reason why I get so excited with the readings that I do. I never know who's gonna come through, what they're gonna say, and that's the fun part. But there's a reason why your loved ones come through. They have to have a message for you, right You have to be in a good place, and also at the same time, your loved one in spirit chooses that time to reach you.

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45:41 So sometimes your loved ones will hang back without delivering a message. Sometimes what happens is it takes some time for that loved one to fully fully you know, settle into heaven. And people get so upset when I say this, and they're like, Map, but I got a reading, you know, a week after my loved one passed. Listen, it can definitely happen. But when I was doing private readings back in the day, I always used to make people wait a year's time. I would never take anyone before a year, and I'll tell you the reason why, because there's no guarantee and before that year's time, it's hard to communicate with souls that first pass on.

46:12 Think of it this way.

46:13 Hones stuff going on they do, They just change in worlds, right.

46:17 Think about think about when we're born here on earth.

46:19 We're a soul.

46:20 We're born here on earth, right, we have to learn how to walk, how to crawl, how to eat, how to use our fingers, how to use our toes, how to speak, how to communicate.

46:28 We have to learn all these things, right, and.

46:30 It takes a bit of time for us to even you know, recognize the people around us, learn our name, learn how to talk, learn all these things. Well, when souls get to heaven, they go through this transition process where they're being they're really going through and they're meeting their spirit guide, they're meeting their guardian angel, they're meeting their their loved ones that have passed on before them.

46:49 And then what also happens is that as your loved ones go through that journey, they're also learning how their soul in the spirit world can communicate with us here on Earth. Part of that transition process is your loved ones choosing signs. They choose signs for each one of the family. You might get a message from ex just me, a certain sign from your dad. Your sister might get a totally different sign from your father.

47:10 Right.

47:10 They might choose divine ways to help you. There was actually a reading that I just did, actually two nights ago at my show went in Texas. There was this woman who came and her grandmother came through, and her grandmother showed me that she went through this horrible, horrible pregnancy where literally she was pregnant, she came to term with this child. She was just so sick during this pregnancy and this child didn't make it. And this child, unfortunately, you know, she had to give birth to this child that was already passed. Well. Anyway, her grandmother had seen this, She saw this deep pain that her granddaughter was in, and she came through and said, I helped my granddaughter get pregnant. This pregnancy is going to be okay, she's

47:48 gonna be fine. It's not going to be like the last time. And the woman started crying. She goes, I just found out I'm pregnant. I just found out that I have the baby right now, I'm pregnant right now. Well, her grandmother on the other side was helping her with us. Her grandmother left this world, knew that her granddaughter was going through the struggle and came back on the other side to help her. Well, that's happening within our lives.

48:08 I see this happen all the time, where you might be going through a struggle right now, your dad passes away, your mom passes away, and they come back to help you. That's the reason why a lot of times after people pass away, something might happen and you're like, oh my god, why didn't this happen? But my mom was here, my dad was here. For example, there was this woman I was reading for. She was looking for love for years and years and years. Her mother's like, I'm not going anywhere.

48:31 I just want to see you get married. I want to see you have kids. I want to see you start that chapter of life. While her mom got sick and her mom left this world watching her daughter go from horrible relationship after horrible relationship, never getting married, and her mom left this world watching her daughter go through that struggle. Her mom was actually very scared, right when she was leaving this world, while she was still present, wondering, you know what happens when I'm going we know, is my daughter still going to struggle? Is my daughter going to be Okay? I'm just I just hope that she finds the right man. Well, when her mom got to the other side, her mom realized something. She realized she

49:03 could help her daughter, right, she could put her in the pathway to meet that soulmate. And it wasn't even a year after her mom's passing that she met this amazing man. They had got married, right, got engaged, got married. He had chosen of her own she became, but she was later on in life, so you know, his kids became her kids. And she was like, I just wish, I wish my mom lasted one more year. Well, it was actually her mom. Her mom was the one that helped her from the other side. So when your loved ones pass on and they see these struggles that you're going through, they absolutely come back to help you.

49:36 Funny that I just spent last week Actually I was with my mom. I hadn't seen her in a little while, and I flew back home and we hadn't been together for a little while because for different reasons, but we just couldn't get together. And she was staying at a house that we were in and the whole family was there, and in the morning, for two days in a row, this blue jay would just show up and he was like, oh, and we were just both sitting there having a breakfast or something. We look out the wind that go, oh, look at that little blue jay. And then the blue jay would not only hang out on the fence, jumped onto the windowsill both days and kind of like said hi and then flew away. And when I said that,

50:18 I was like, oh, that must be Grandma. I instantly I'm like, oh, that's Grandma. She's sending us a message that she's happy to see us both together. And she's like and she knew exactly whatever. She's like, Oh, yeah, that's Grandma. Is that kind of what you were talking about that they used different ways of communicating and letting them know that I'm here.

50:36 Anything that reminds you of a sign is a sign. Anything that reminds you of your loved one. So when you see that bluechen, instantly the thought that comes to your head is that's my grandmother. Absolutely, that's a sign. But souls will also choose personal ways to connect with you, songs that instantly will take you back to a moment of you and that food, food smells, pennies, dimes, nickels.

50:55 You know, I was just connected with this woman, And it was funny that when I was doing this reading for her, I saw that her dad was sending her all this change penny stemes, Nichols quarters. And then he'd showed me this vision of in his house he had this huge, huge, huge jar right of all of these pennies and coins, and nobody was allowed to touch this jar. Well, actually he had passed away and he had never spent any of the money in that jar.

51:16 The jar was actually passed down to his daughter.

51:18 His daughter now has the jar and every time she finds penny stemes and nickels, she takes it home and puts it in the jar. And memory of Dad, well, because he knew that she had that jar, that was the sign that he was sending her to let her know during important life moments that he was there. These signs are set up beforehand. These signs are set up when your loved doing is transitioning on. They think back, They think back to their relationship with you. They think back to that time that you spend together here on earth, and your loved ones put these signs together based on what you did here in life. So, for example, if you and your dad used to fish together, chances are that he'll use something that signifies fishing to reach you.

51:56 If you and your dad used to sing together, he might use certain song lyrics to connect with you. And that's why signs are so individual and so unique. And here's what I want people to know. If you are not getting a sign, and you're saying, why is my sister getting a sign? Or why is so and so getting a sign? Why are they getting blue jays or dragonflies?

52:15 I don't see anything. I never see the dry agle flies. I never see the blue jays. Don't look at anyone else's sign. Don't look at anyone else's sign, because this is where people get so messed up, is that they are looking at someone else and they like, oh my god, their dad sends the blue jays all the time, Well, how come I don't get the blue jays? Well, your dad might be using another way to connect with you.

52:34 So the best thing that you can do is think about your relationship think about your dad's personality. Think about how he communicated, because all so souls communicate different. Right.

52:41 Was he a jokester?

52:42 Was he someone who was a more quiet Was he a nature lover? Was he somebody that was a music lover? Was he somebody that would come through in a smell like a cologne, or maybe maybe he was a smoker. Right, This is how you can kind of dissect and think about when your loved one goes to the other side and they're in that transition process and they have to pick signs they think back on their life. What are some signs that you think that your loved and would use to reach you. When you kind of put your mindset in that and you go back through that experience and think about what your loved ones went through, you can really start to piece together how they're using how they're using signs to reach you.

53:13 Now, I wanted to ask you. We've talked about spirit guides, angels, loved ones, but the one thing we haven't talked about from the other side is ascended masters. These general these lovely souls that are on the wall here and so many people obviously in your death experiences, I hear I always I always joke that Jesus is the hardest working man in show business because he shows up that everyone's near death experience. PA Buddha and Vishnu and all these other deities and masters, ascending masters connect with people, and they're from my understanding, they're also guiding us because we might have a very deep connection.

53:49 So I was raised.

53:50 Catholic, as I'm so many you were raised as well, right, absolutely, So I was raised Catholic, so Jesus was introduced. I wasn't raised Hindu, I wasn't raised Muslim. I wasn't raised you know, Confucius, you know, or or any of the other religions. I was raised Us. So I had a deeper connection with Christ, even though I might have not had a connection with the dogma and the religion. But I have very deep connection to Christ. But I also have deep connection to Yogananda, who's standing right behind me, not standing, but he's always behind me, very deep to this Indian guru who died I think in the fifties, if I'm not mistaken, not that long ago, makes no sense, Like why would I be so connected to him? I

54:27 read the book and I was just like, I'm in this is this is I love what he's doing and he's He's brought me down so many other paths. So can you talk a little bit about how people are connected to the ascended masters and how they can bring this ascended master energy into them for guidance and things like that of ascended masters that they might connect to, like a kwan Yin or a mother Mary or Buddha or something like that.

54:51 So what's amazing is that we have ascended masters, we have saints, and we have angels and these are universal, right, So these are universal souls that are on the other side that will help any person who calls on them.

55:04 Unlike your guardian angel.

55:05 Your guardian angel only cares about you, all right, just like my guardian angel only cares about me. So we can make things up people like, well, what happens if that person over there needs help, Well, you know they have their own guardian angel right now. Listen. Don't get me wrong. Sometimes guardian angels will send you to a certain place right, or call upon other angels or whatever it may be.

55:23 But you are their child.

55:25 Think about when you're at a playground, right, there's all these kids that are playing around, right, You're looking.

55:30 At your kid.

55:31 Yes, if there is another kid that falls down, you wait to see is their parent going to help them? Right?

55:36 You might come in and say, okay, let me help you find your parent.

55:39 But you have to make sure that your kids.

55:40 Say first exactly yes, exactly right, is that you will be there. You want good things for all the other kids, but your focus is your kid. You're watching your kid on the monkey bars, going down the slide. You're watching what they are doing. Right.

55:52 How many times?

55:53 Right when we're kids, our parents will say or say to our parents, you know.

55:57 Why is it that I can't do this?

55:58 You know Joey is doing that or you know Maria's doing that and their parents let them, And your parents says to you, yeah, but I'm your parent and you're gonna do as I say.

56:07 Right, that same.

56:08 Thing with your guardian angel. Now we have we have these ascended masters, right, we have angels. For example, we have we have Angel Uriel that's there that you can call upon for creativity.

56:21 We also have guardian angel getting angels.

56:25 Michael Michael Gabriel, thank you, Metatron. There's the one hundred of Yeah, well you also have so so you have archangels and you have a sended masters, but they all can kind of you can bring them into Michael. Let's say, if you want to bring in Michael or Gabriel.

56:40 If you yes, so Michael is for protection, so you call up upon Archangel Michael for protection. Right, So this is the goal to angel for police departments, for a fire departments. Right, so they'll call on Michael for protection. And it's actually funny. There's also saints that are there as well. For example, Saint Anthony. Saint Anthony is the patron saint that everyone goes to when you lose a law item. We also have Saint Francis, Francis of a CCI that you can go to if you have a sick or ailing pet, right, you can call upon Saint Francis to help you. We also have Saint Christopher. Now, Saint Christopher is also a saint that you can call on.

57:14 And each one of these saints and each one of these guardian angels actually have divine rolls. Right, So for example, Saint Anthony is always for lost or missing items. We have Saint Christopher that's for travel travel protection. So for example, if you go on any of my tour vehicles, I have a Saint Christopher metal and every single tour vehicle.

57:33 And the reason why is that I'm inviting Saint Christopher in. I'm inviting Saint Christopher in when we're on the road, to keep our vehicle safe, to keep the staff safe. Right, I'm bringing when you put something of a saint, an ascended master, right or an angel in your vehicle, in your car, in your home, you're inviting that energy in which I love that you have all the ascended masters here on the wall because literally you're inviting their teachings, you're inviting their energy into this space.

57:56 So it's something similar in like the Hindu tradition. They have literally I think a thousand, two thousand gods, So it's just another version of it. And you're using all these saints from basically from a Catholic background because that is what connects with you. And you're not bringing in Vishnu, and you're not bringing in Ganesh. Oh you might, I don't know sure, but if that connects with you. So every culture, every religion has versions of saints or gods.

58:19 It's just different names. But like specifically, like Hindus literally have thousands of gods and they have a god for everything. Yes, so we have a saint for everything. Literally, there's hundreds of saints in the Catholic religion or in the Christian tradition, and then you throw angels in there, and then you throw in just anything you need, there's a specific specialist for it, correct.

58:42 Oh, absolutely, just like you have Archangel Michael for protection, you have you know, Archangel Gabriel that you can go to when you need creative advice or a creative direction. There's all these different angels and saints and the reason why I bring them up is that you don't have to be Catholic to call.

58:54 Them in correct.

58:55 So many people like, well that's not my religion, and you can still call upon them. But what I love about the anel and saints that they have these specific roles that you could.

59:03 Almost like specialties. I call them specialties right, that they.

59:05 Can help you with like my favorite, my favorite, my favorite is Saint Anthony when you're losing something, because I lose everything, so honestly, if in my back pocket, I have the hotline to say Anthony all the time. And literally, if you are missing something, all you have to say is Saint Anthony saying Anthony, please look around. My blank is lost and I need it to be found or it can't be found, and then you just let it go and somehow, someway, as long as that item was not stolen, right, that item will find its way back to you. And it happens all the time, where you know, I'll try to Saint Anthony and then boom, all of a sudden, it'll just pop up in my head or.

59:40 You know, somehow it will just appear.

59:42 And I got to tell you, it's one of the most amazing things because you can let go, you can forget about it, and you can have the angels and the guides help you.

59:50 And what I find beautiful about what you just said is that you don't have to be a specific religion or follow a specific religion to bring in that energy. Because there's so many people who are Christian or Jewish who have ganesh in their house.

1:00:04 I'm one of them, right, you know, exactly right, Or.

1:00:07 You have Buddha becoming Buddha for god sakes, how many Buddhas are there in the world who are not for Buddhist you know, I think many people just want a peaceful energy they bring in a Buddha. So that's a very clear message of people who need to understand that you don't have to be of a certain religion to be able to bring these energies in for you. We'll be right back after a word from our sponsor, and now back to the show.

1:00:37 No. And you know, my grandmother, who is a medium, always, always, always, you know, encouraged us to, you know, honor the saints and honor the different religions. And you know, it's funny because it kind of worked, it worked its way into modern day culture in a way that we don't really see. For example, my grandmother always used to say that, you know, if you wear something, whether it be a medallion, a necklace, have a prayer card with that angel or say on it, right, it brings that energy into you. And for example, during holidays, for example, Saint Patrick's Day, we're in green. We don't realize that it does this, but it actually invites the Saints energy in. It invites in Saint Patrick's energy when

1:01:13 you wear that green and you you know, surround.

1:01:15 Just doesn't invite alcohol.

1:01:17 Well not only in Boston, only in Boston, right, but other parts of the world right, and other parts of the world right. So forgot I am Irish too.

1:01:26 In my house that invites corn, beef and cabbage.

1:01:28 But I remember my grandfather was saying, like, you wear the colors to honor the saints.

1:01:34 Of course, of course. Now, man, I want to ask you about you. What's your take on what's happening right now for humanity in general for the rest of this year. Do you see something in the next year, because there's so much talk about you know, and I don't want to go down deep rabbit holes with this, but disclosure, and there's so many different things happening and changing in the world, and there's so much information being throw up all this It's like, I use the example of the fish tank. It looks quiet and calm, but the second you try to change the water and you pour in a whole bunch of new water, all the crap comes up.

1:02:11 And I feel that's where we're at right now.

1:02:13 That's a great analogy.

1:02:14 So thank you. So where do you Where do you see us this year? Because this year's been every year since twenty twenty has been exponentially getting crazier and crazier, so it seems like we're ramping up to a crescendo. I don't know when that crescendo will happen. I have I've heard different dates within the next five or ten years, but I'd love to hear your thoughts on it.

1:02:36 Oh, the next five years is going to look completely different. Five years, it's going to look totally different than it does right now. But really, when we have these life events that are coming up right when we see all of the stuff coming to the surface as it is right now, really what's happening is that the world is looking for change. We need people to step up. We're looking for change. The universe is looking for change. It's already happening, and there's being people who There are people who are being quality make that change.

1:03:00 When you say people are being called to make that change, I mean you're talking about everybody in the planet in their own way. But there are also some larger than life figures that are change makers. Good and bad because you need both in order to get You can't see you can't you need that contrast. You can't see how good things can be unless you're brought down to a place you're like, oh, I don't want that in my life, like a bad relationship, like a bad job, and so on.

1:03:24 But now we're on a macro level with the whole consciousness of humanity.

1:03:28 Oh, one hundred percent. I mean that's how we learn. Right.

1:03:31 So many people come through it to me as a medium and they're like, well, you know, how come I have all these challenges go through my life. Well, it's part of your story. That's what makes your story great. You know, if you didn't have bad chapters within the story, you wouldn't be where you are now. Just like how you talked about, you know, people who are given this beautiful life where you could be you know, you could be given the powerball ticket right, or you could be given the powerboard tech and it bortant to a beautiful family that just has endless wealth and money. But you never truly grow, you never truely find yourself. Right. I've had a lot of people where, you know, they've been blessed with an amazing life. Everything was always taken care

1:04:07 of for them. But they were some of the lost souls that they just never found their calling, that I never found their gifts. And it wasn't until later on that they realized, oh my god, because everything was provided for me, because I never had to work for anything, I really am more lost than I could ever be.

1:04:21 So the thing is is that those challenges and those struggles are put in your life for a reason. And when we see this happening within the world itself, right, there's also this need.

1:04:32 To step up to fulfill a calling.

1:04:34 And I think that people are already starting to see that, right, both the big players and also people like me and you that are just starting to get into these different roles.

1:04:41 One thing I wanted to talk to you about is kind of it's this loneliness epidemic because things of the foundational foundational changes in so many areas of our life is humanity has shifted in the last ten years, twenty years. Things are so drastically different. People are stuck in the eighties and the nineties. In the early two thousands is like, oh, the good old days, because they're longing back for those things and what was old is now becoming new again.

1:05:12 But I feel that there's so much loneliness. People feel so disconnected, even though we're more connected.

1:05:17 Than we've ever been.

1:05:18 So it's an epidemic. Can you do spirits talk to you about that? Why why people are feeling so isolated right now more so than when you and I were growing up.

1:05:27 I'm gonna tell you this.

1:05:29 What's amazing is that I just talked to as psychologists and I was like, what is the number one issue that people come to? Is it relationships? Is it family drama? What is it that your clients are coming to you with? What do you see every day? And what he told me was loneliness, people feeling alone, people feeling isolated. I mean, listen, things have changed. Okay, things have changed so much from when we were kids. For example, when I was a kid, I remember every Sunday going to my you know, one of the aunt's house is having this big, huge Italian Italian feast. Right, everybody was there. Everybody was in and out.

1:06:05 There were some people that you know, some people that you didn't, some family members that would come in from out of state, some out of the country. Everybody would be there. It'd always be someone different, right, but there was huge, huge gatherings every Sunday. We also used to have it right back in the day. You all know on YouTube, who are watching this, You're gonna you're gonna be like, oh my god, that's happening to me right now.

1:06:22 How many of you remember going back to a wedding where everybody was invited, the butcher, the neighbor, this person, that person. You'd end up with a thousand people at your wedding. You'd be meeting people for the first time that you never met before. Right, if there was somehow connection to the family, they would be invited. Sure, now people are going down to these micro weddings where you have only twenty people, right, one hundred people.

1:06:42 Expensive now to that's true.

1:06:45 But also I think that people are focusing on these on these closer connections. I think that you know, people are more spread out than they were before. And also at the same time, I think that social media has also divided us in some ways. It's brought us closer together, where we are content seeing what other people are doing.

1:07:01 So you might not be in connection with somebody, but you're seeing their kids, right, it's popping up on Instagram, it's popping up on Facebook.

1:07:07 Should we though, man, that's the question, Like, just like Jeff Goblum said in Jurassic Park, just because we can, should we do it? Because do I really need to know about every aspect of a friend from high school's life popping up? Is that good for me?

1:07:22 It's not good for you.

1:07:23 That's my question.

1:07:23 That's my point, right, And here's the thing is that.

1:07:26 They want to share with you energy one O one okay, And a lot of people have a big question about this about karma, like if I block somebody or if I remove somebody from my life.

1:07:35 Is that bad karma? No, it's not.

1:07:38 You know. The thing is is this is that I remember back when I was in school. Okay, when I was when I was in school, I was I just went through this horrible bullying, bullying experience. I was bullied so bad, you know, when I was in high school, to the point where I did not even if you saw me in high school, you'd be like, there's no way this is the same person that's on the next Soul podcast right now. Because when I was in school, I just wanted to be invisible. I didn't want anyone to see me notice me because I was so afraid of people talking about me, saying things about me. Bullying made all of these things to the point where I actually had to go in change schools. So I changed schools, right,

1:08:10 And then it wasn't until I changed schools that I found friends and I found people that you know, accepted me and loved me. And I realized that it wasn't me, it was them, right, It was just the people that I was around. It was just I got involved with these toxic people. Well, anyway, for years, you know, for a couple of years afterwards, they were on my Facebook page, They're on my.

1:08:27 Instagram page, the toxic people.

1:08:30 The toxic people were on my page, and every time posts would come up, it would bring me down. I could feel it in my soul. I could feel the energy even though they weren't paying any mind to me. Right, every time I posted a picture, I was worried, oh are they seeing are they judging me? Are they looking at this? Are they looking at that? And then finally, why don't I giveing them that control? I heard from the other side, to remove them. You've already removed them from a part of your life, You changed schools, you let go of them. Let go of them now. So you know, I had this practice of any time that somebody didn't bring back that good energy into my life, I remove them off of social media. Remove them off

1:09:02 of social media, Block them off of social media. There is a block button for a reason. Right, you can unfollow. You don't need even have it's a block you can unfollow, you can let go of those people. If there's someone on your page, and this is a good spiritual cleanse to do. Right, go back through your friends list, look at how many people are looking in on your life and those intimate private moments that you have right sharing those quality times with your partner, with your kids, all of those things. If there are people on that page that you've had negative experiences with, that are toxic, that you just don't feel good about, it's okay to one friend them. It's okay to remove them from your friend's list.

1:09:39 You know, you don't have to go and to share your energy with anybody who doesn't want good things for you.

1:09:43 Is spirit have any advice for anyone who's feeling alone in life right now.

1:09:48 The best thing to do when you're feeling alone is one spending time by yourself as contradictorison, that is, getting back to the things that made you you, the things that you loved and cared about. Because sometimes people will lose a loved one, and when they lose a loved one, immediately they want to stop doing the things that they did with that person, whether it be dancing, whether it be going on vacations, whether it be cooking right, having gatherings, going to parties. What I can tell you is this is that when you're in that moment of isolation and you feel alone, start doing some soul work. Look back on your life, look back on the things that you happiness enjoy. Maybe some of those things you can't do

1:10:32 in the same way. Maybe it was that you were this amazing dancer and now you're too old to go and dance, But maybe you can be a mentor maybe you can be a teacher to somebody. Maybe it is that you can go and get involved with in the community. You have gifts that are meant to be shared with the world, and when you start to share those gifts, something happens. People in community form around you, just like with this podcast, right, people will find you, new friends will find you. When you subtract negative energy of your life, you make room for more positive energy to enter. I was once in that place. I was once in that place when I had gone and when I first started going in, you know, being a psychic medium, I thought

1:11:11 like everybody was going to open, you know, welcome me with open arms. It didn't happen that way. There was a lot of jealousy that happened. There was a lot of friends, friendships that went to the wayside, and I ended up.

1:11:20 Being alone because nobody understood nobody understood me.

1:11:23 Right, people were you know, jealous when I started to get media attention and whatnot, and all these people that I thought were my friends had fallen apart. Well, I heard this message from spirit. Spirit had told me math, they just didn't fall to the wayside, right. You outgrew them, your path outgrew them. But it's okay. Keep doing what you're doing, Keep moving towards your gifts. Were going to send you people, right, put people in your pathway that are going to share the same visions, beliefs and energy that you do. Well, all of a sudden, I started to really accumulate these friends, this friend group around me by just doing the work that I was doing of people who were like minded, people who were positive, people

1:11:57 with the same journey that I was on, and it helped me to grow. So the best thing is is that what we have, while we have everything online, don't be afraid to join meetup groups, don't be afraid to go in to meet people, to get involved with in community, whether it be volunteering at an organization, whether it be whether it be going to a meetup group, whether it is that you join a car club because you're into cars.

1:12:21 Surround yourself with people with the same energy with you, the same passions with you, and spirit will help you with those connections. But I think the hardest thing is taking that first step. We accept that isolation, that solitude for what it is. We're thinking, Okay, we're meant to be alone after my partner past. We're meant to be alone after the breakup. Spend some time by yourself, do some soul discovery, find out what really makes you excited or what used to make you excited, and put yourself back into it. Start to expand out. Because when we were allowed to see our loved ones, we weren't allowed to hug our loved ones. When we were allowed to be in the presence of our loved ones, I've seen

1:12:57 firsthand how people declined in their health, they declined in their cognitive ability.

1:13:03 Depression was on the rise.

1:13:04 We had all of these things that had happened, right, we also had the situation happen where everybody went and they worked remotely, and now and they were like, oh, this is so great.

1:13:12 You know, we can cut down on cost.

1:13:14 And now we see people bringing people back to the office because they need that sense of human interaction, that sense of community. And really that's what our soul thrives. Our soul thrives around being around other people, helping other people, building with other people, building friendships, building love, building trust.

1:13:32 It's who we are, right the reason why we're so connected to pets as well. We feel the energy of other people, we feel the energy of our pets. I'm gonna share with you a story about one woman who who was isolated and alone and how spirit helped her. There was a woman who came to one of my events. I'll never forget it. She had lost her son, and after losing her son, she just went into this horrible, horrible spiral of a depression. You know, she was a single mom and she was just in the worst of the worst place. She completely closed her doors. I isolated herself in. She didn't respond back to family members, to friends, to anyone. When I tell you she was a shut in, she was a shut in. She literally only left the

1:14:11 house to go to the supermarket refill the car with gas. Go to her doctor's appointments. That was it. Well, one day she was driving home and she saw this dog literally running back and forth in traffic, and she said, oh my god, oh my god, someone's gonna hit the doorg. She got out, she grabbed the dog. She put the dog in her car, and the dog was hot. She gave the dog water. She went from street to street looking to see if there was an owner, if there was anybody who had you know, uh lost, if they had lost dog. Posters out. She could not find the owner of this dog. So she checked the dog. There was no tag. She brought the dogs to the animal shelter.

1:14:43 There was no microchip. So she asked the shelter, you know what's going to happen, and they said, well, you know, we give the dog so many days and then if the dog, unfortunately doesn't find find an owner, they're going to be fourth to euthanize. Well, this dog had really taken to her. This dog, you know, was so protective already after just being in her for a few hours, that this dog was crying when she was going to hand the dog over to the shelter.

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1:15:16 So she said, you know what, I'm going to take the dog in with me and I'll try to find the owner. So she brought the dog home and she left her information at the shelter in case anybody called looking for the dog. She put poso online, She put posts up on the on the telephone poles right, took pictures of the dog.

1:15:31 Well, she'd waited and waited and waited, and nobody.

1:15:35 Had ever come. Well, in the meantime, the dog needed a bed. So here she was going to peck Coo with the dog, finding a bed for the dog. Right, the dog needed needed food and water. Okay, went back to Pecko, get the food in the water. The dog needed toys. Now she's getting toys for the dog. Well, now the dog has to go to the bathroom. Right, so she's out there with the doge, buying a leash, bringing the dog out for a walk.

1:15:53 Well, guess what she's doing this.

1:15:55 You know, every day she's the dog's waking her up, has to go aside, the dog has to be walked three times a day. Finally she was getting out. She was getting out in sunlight. She's walking the dog she's meeting other dog owners, people saying, oh, what a beautiful dog. Oh it's not my dog. Oh what happened? She's telling them the story, right, She's meeting different people, she's meeting the people in her community. Well, what ended up happening is that that dog pulled her out of this depression.

1:16:19 Nobody had ever come back for that dog. But that dog pulled her out of the depression to getting out every day, to meeting people, to exercising.

1:16:26 She came to my show. Her son had said, I sent.

1:16:29 You that dog. That dog needed love within its life. You needed love back in your life. I saw that that dog needed someone, so I sent that dog to you. I made sure you crossed paths right. And that dog had passed away. The sun had come back and gotten that dog. But what that dog left this woman with was.

1:16:46 A new way of living life.

1:16:49 That dog pulled her out of this depression just by being around people, by forcing her out of the house. So sometimes we're forced to do things that we don't want to do. We don't want to leave the house when wearing. We we don't want to go to meetups when wearing. We don't want to do any of these things.

1:17:01 We don't want to be around a happy people when we're in grief, right it feels wrong. But the thing is is that you have to get yourself to the other end of the tunnel.

1:17:10 Right now, Man, I'm gonna ask you because you mentioned this a little bit, and it's something that I feel a lot of people have struggled with, is jealousy. Jealousy is a very very toxic energy and very very toxic, just very toxic in general. I mean, I've had I mean, you and I are both in the public eye, and you know nowadays, Before when you're on a TV show, you might hear things here or there, but now there's comments, and now there's everything, So now you hear everything. And I find it fascinating that people like I hear in the comments. Sometimes I'm like, he can't be that happy.

1:17:45 He's always laughing. It makes me irritated, and that's who I am. I'm generally that kind of person. You know, who you see here is who I am. It's too exhausting trying to be somebody else. So I laugh all the time, and I have a good time and I enjoy myself. I'm not perfect by any stretch, and I have bad days, but generally speaking, that's an example of it.

1:18:04 How can people deal with that energy? And when I say jealousy, it's not like, oh, look at Brad Bitt, you look at the Big Lifeiska. Now that's an extreme version, but just someone who's smiling and like, what are you smiling about? That's a form of jealousy. How do you as the individual deal with that?

1:18:22 Do you know?

1:18:22 I used to get that all the time.

1:18:24 Oh yeah, because you're happy exactly.

1:18:26 And you know it's so funny because people used to say that to me, like why are you so happy with this? Why are you so? I'm like, what do you mean?

1:18:32 Like, like, what is it not to be happy about?

1:18:33 Like yeah, like you know there's people that hits the fan, but you know, at the end of the day, like you're still going to be happy within your life.

1:18:40 Happiness is a journey that you choose, right.

1:18:42 You choose your own happiness by letting go of the negative things around you, letting go of negative people, letting go making peace with negative experiences, by letting go right, letting go of past pain. And when you feel that pain coming back into your life, it's putting your energy towards something else.

1:18:57 Now here's the thing.

1:18:59 Dealing with and jealous people and negative energy is a really tough thing because that's energy that's not coming from you. It's coming from someone else, and you can't control it. You cannot control what someone else thinks about you, if they're jealous about you, how they feel about you. But the thing is is this, you don't have to accept that energy either. So the thing is is that I remember when when the television show first came out and there was all of these negative.

1:19:21 Topics, the jealous amazing, oh, the jealousy, the.

1:19:26 Hateful comments, all the things. You know, we are on television. People think that they can just say anything they want about you. It is, it is so I remember being so upset because you know, those comments live out there.

1:19:37 I'm like, that's not true, that's not me.

1:19:39 Why are they saying this?

1:19:40 It hurts, and it does hurt.

1:19:41 But then I also realized this one thing that negativity falls to the bottom and positivity rises to the top. Just on just like on YouTube, right, those negative comments will fall down to the bottom where they belong, and the positive comments will float it up to the top. And if you look, there's so many more positive comments then there are that are negative.

1:20:00 Correct, And you know who has a.

1:20:01 Really hard time with this are a lot of the people in Hollywood that I read for, a lot of the stars, a lot of the greatest, the great peoples. You know, if I if I name drop some of the most amazing people right that you know from television that I've read for and had done readings for.

1:20:15 Is that they focus on those.

1:20:18 Three negative comments, yea, those three bad press articles when they have literally millions of people that you know are loving them and sending good sending good thoughts to them and want them to succeed. The thing is is this is that put your energy is the people that are growing with you. Don't panny minds, don't even don't even look at the comments of the people that are being negative.

1:20:40 They're stuck there, and you know what, that's that's their deal, is their deal. But hope, but hope and pray right that they changed too. And you know what, I do believe like even the people who are going to comment negatively on this on this episode, I know for a fact that they found this episode for a reason that their guardian angel is hoping that by them being exposed to this conversation. But I being exposed to this energy that it's going to change them in some way for the better. Right, Because listen, when somebody is jealous, and someone is mad, and someone is angry, and someone is coming from that lower energy, they don't want to be that way. They don't want to be that way. They don't want to be that jealous person. They don't want

1:21:19 to be that angry person. I've read for these for people like that, you know, and sometimes you're also.

1:21:23 Going to know that it's not their fault.

1:21:25 No. I read for this woman who had lost her daughter. It's her only child, and she had just said to me, Matt, I just can't help it. I'm just I'm just so angry. I'm so jealous when I see a happy family. I'm so jealous when I see families playing together and whole, because I don't have that anymore. And it broke my heart.

1:21:44 I mean, I'm getting terry out just thinking about it.

1:21:47 And you know, it shows me this.

1:21:50 Be kind to every single person that's there, whether they're kind or not back to you. You have to be kind because you really don't know their story. That's a woman who had said you know, I am jealous, I am mad, I am at and I don't want to be this way, but my heart is aching.

1:22:03 And I'm in pain. And the only thing that I.

1:22:06 Said to her is that you have to forgive yourself for that, and it's okay. You'll heal on your own time. So there are people. If they're that way, they don't want to be that way. They'll look in for a way out. It's the reason why they're here on the podcast. It's the reason why they're finding you and I. They're just not at the end of the of the road yet.

1:22:21 I want to share with you one other story. Yes, there was a woman who came to my event. Okay, I'll never forget she came to my show. She came to my event. This was years and years and years ago, and after coming to the show, she wrote me the most horrible message that you could ever imagine. I mean, she tore me out. She said that you know you're a fake, You're a fraud. This is just you know, you're not a psychic medium. It was just all these all these crazy things, and it was just like this, I mean, attacking, attacking, attacking, attacking, attacking, And I never responded to the message. You know, I let it go.

1:22:59 Never paid any of mind, right, I just prayed for that person. Well it was funny because about three years later I received another message from the same person who had said, Matt, I want to let you know that I am so sorry. Years ago, I had written you this horrible message, and I was really in a bad place.

1:23:16 My mom had died, my dad had died. I didn't get I didn't get a reading, I didn't get a message, and I was so mad. I was so angry that I took it out on you. And she said, you know, it feels on fear, she says, because I love your work. I watch your videos, I see all of these things, she said. And I was just angry. I was just upset.

1:23:34 And she had asked me, you know, she wrote this long message, and she asked, is it okay to come back to an event? Because I feel so guilty that I said this to you. But I'm in a good place now and I'm hoping. I'm hoping and praying that you'll love like you may I come back in. And that message made me feel so good, not for myself, but because she healed, she found her journey right, she found her happiness and she's just like I want, you know, I started to receive messages from the other side, and I started to get all these signs, and I just I want to be able to come back. And of course I invited her back in right, and of course she came back to the shows. But it just shows you that sometimes you have to leave people where they are.

1:24:11 They have to do some soul work, they have to they have to grow. And you know what the hardest thing is, Alex, Right now, it's with family.

1:24:18 I'm gonna tell you.

1:24:19 This right now. There was just a study that Oprah was talking about about how there's you know, a good majority of people who have blocked their family, cut connections with their family cold turkey because they were toxic members of their family.

1:24:32 The thing is is this is that it is okay.

1:24:35 It is okay to do that. You have to meet people where they're at, and sometimes you have to leave people where they're at. If there is a toxic family member around you, that is not changing, If there is a toxic family member on you that doesn't want good things for you, that is saying bad things around your children, that is coming at you, or attacking you or whatever it is. Let them go, because when you let them go, you're giving them space. You're giving them space to heal.

1:24:59 You're giving your self space to heal. And you're hoping and praying that one day, one day, while you grow and you enjoy that time with your family, maybe one day they'll grow and they'll come back into your life at a better place. But if they don't, if they don't, you got to leave them where they are.

1:25:14 Matt. Where can people find out more about you? Your events, your books, everything about like how can they get in thought, in contact with you or learn more about what you're doing.

1:25:23 What amazes me every day is that the dead find me so easily. They find me in the shower, on the toilet what I'm doing. And people said all the time, how do I find you? Matt? How do I find you?

1:25:32 Matt?

1:25:33 I am the most easy, the easiest person to find for the living and the dead. You can find me on Facebook, YouTube, Instagram, just look up the handle meet Matt Fraser and my website Meetatfraser dot com and you will find books, courses, live events, online readings and there are so many ways that you can connect with me in so many ways that you can receive a message yourself.

1:25:53 And I appreciate you. Actually met my mom, I did one of one of your events, says she was. You were down in Florida and and she's like, hey, I saw Matt's having one and I called you. I'm like, hey, my mom loved to come see you. And they met. You met, and she just spoke so highly of you, and you were you were so gracious. So I from the bottom of my heart, I appreciate it was it really was a big thrill for her and her friend to see you. So thank you for being so kind.

1:26:19 And she told me that the event was amazing.

1:26:21 Oh, I love that.

1:26:22 It was really amazing.

1:26:23 I gotta tell you, I love doing the shows because you can have five shows back to back, and every single event is different because when you go into a room, the energy changes, the souls change, right, And what's amazing is that your loved ones and spirit are the ones who are the show. They bring with them their past experiences, their life story, their personalities. Right. Sometimes it's sometimes it's over the top. Sometimes the souls are boring. I gotta be honest, right, But so you never know that some days we're like, I'll be honest, sometimes the events are dragging.

1:26:53 I'm like, oh God, but you know that some spice, right.

1:26:58 I like the spicy readings I do.

1:26:59 I love I love it when souls come through and they have those crazy personalities.

1:27:02 It makes it really fun.

1:27:03 Right.

1:27:04 But the thing is too, is that it also is unique to that person. So if your dad was somebody who was boring with the life, you know, maybe it was that he was a farmer and just set out and on his fields all day, right, And that's how the reading goes, right, It's that he didn't have like an exciting life. It was just this laid back, quiet man who liked a farm. Right.

1:27:21 That's true to him.

1:27:22 But then you also might have a grandmother that was really spicy, really crazy. It was the over the top here in this world that Robin Williams of the Family, Yes, that comes in and just just steals the show. And I think that that's that's so amazing because you never know when event, what an event is going to bring in, what it's going to look like.

1:27:38 It looks different night after night.

1:27:39 And finally, what do you want people to walk away from from this conversation?

1:27:43 I want people to walk away with knowing that you have a special gift that's meant to be shared with the world. And if you found this podcast, if you found Alex, if you found me, you know you were not just here for here, you know, passing through. There's a reason why you're seeing this podcast right now. It's and why you're hearing your listening. It's because spirits trying to bring you down a rabbit hole of your own to discover more, discover more about yourself, discover more about the afterlife, discover more about your your soul, talent and abilities.

1:28:11 And also there might be someone on the other side that's trying to make a connection with you. I want people to walk away with the knowing, the knowing that they have a gift, the knowing that they have a special connection with the other side, and then knowing that there was life after death.

1:28:25 Matt, I am so grateful that you came into the studio. There's been such a great conversation, my friend. You're invited anytime you're in this area, You're more than welcome to come by. I just love I love your energy. I love what you're doing. I am not jealous, no, man, it's Seriously, man, you're you're You're. What people see is what they get. And I can say, from my point of view being here with you, you are who you who say you say you are, and you portray to the world. So I appreciate you and everything you're doing to help awaken the planet, my friends.

1:28:57 So thank you, Thank you. It's great being here with you.

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