OWN the Day: Belle Collective Birmingham & Love & Marriage: Huntsville Recap

Reality with the King is hosted by me, Carlos King. I'm an executive producer who have produced some of your favorite shows from the Real Housewives in Atlanta, New Jersey and my own creation, The Love and Marriage Franchise and Bell Collective. Every episode we recap reality television from the Real Housewives Franchise to The Bachelor or Selling Sunset, in addition to celebrity guests, whether in the unscripted space or scripted as well. Dustin, I want to start with you as we get to the Bell Collective mid season premiere.

It picked up where we left off, which is Claudia, I can.

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Justin give us her thoughts on Chante and Tamracherie getting into it.

Yeah, Shane kind of shot herself in the foot to me, you know, because while she was going on that Dia tribe about why she belonged there and deserved to have an opinion and a perspective on things, she was showing how she had always been around. But she was saying how she was there now to support Latica. But you've always been around to support Laticia. And just because somebody is miked up or not, that don't mean that they won't speak up, you know what I'm saying. So I just don't buy it. You want it to be messy.

You don't have nothing to do with none of this shit. Latsia don't need no backup. Latisa don't even need front up. You see how she handled all them when they was, when Glenn and all them was finna fight, La tisad be scooting okay, when everyone she hit the family teasad be scooting around, moving all of that stuff. She don't need no backup. Chantaya just wanted to be messy and much like all of us. Right, if your friend was on the show, part of an ensemble cast, and they had beef with somebody on the show, you wouldn't be able to stand the motherfuckers either, you know what I'm saying.

So I don't blame Shante for what she's doing. I just don't care about what she has to say because she ain't got nothing to do with none of this. We don't know her asked Lutitia, know her ass, You know what I'm saying, So I don't really care what she had to say.

When I saw her in all those clips of throwbacks, I'm like, oh, so these are all the time she's been trying to get a moment so she can get asked to be on the show. Now she's only got Mike, so it's like it's her moment. It's her big moment, you know, like you know when a figure skaters about to go out and they're just all happy, and then shopping at the Blade and I get a land this triple double.

It's her time. So she just had to try.

To just nail stick the landing. That's what it gave because I didn't know she was around that much. When I saw that, I'm like, oh, she's been looking for her moment and it had to be at Tamra's expense.

Who who messled with Tambora though nobody ninth and cool and.

You chose her.

Don't try to make her the drew of this show where it's just the easy target. You go after her because, as you see, Tamra's not having it.

Nope, and she.

Wants to be Speaking of Atlanta Crossover, I think she wants to be the next Shamia.

I think she wants to be the best.

Te fave, who's the hidden gem, who knows who's the connective tissue?

And I think Dustin and Clude said everything I was saying. It felt a little self serving masquerading as supportive.

And I get nervous of people whose identity is being someone's sidekick and not being their own person. Yeah, I'm I'm not personally a fan of what I saw. I did like the point though, when it was brought up that hey, if I can't have interlopers, you can't other people can have separate rules either.

Probably gonna get into that in a second.

But it does feel like there's a archy of who's allowed to have support and who isn't, So I.

Will give her that At that point made sense to me.

Don't people bring know plus one and no argument. If you can't handle me, then you should be on the show.

I just wanted to she was talking. I just wanted to be like, shut the fuck up. If I was at that table, that's what I would have been. Shut the fun ain't even in this.

A good shut the fuck up. It just rolls off the top up, you know what I mean?

Go up on anybody. Want to hear what you're talking about? You know what I'm saying.

Yeah, do you think Chantay made a good point when she said I'm not the one bringing the drama to the collective?

No, hell no, we don't need right right message, wrong messengers. Shut your ass up. It's not your place to say that because you're not in this. You don't have nothing to do with the other drama. Well, yeah, I was sick of that ship. I can't stand that man likes and know how to play your position as a friend.

When you go into space like that to have your friend back, you got to know when to jump in them double Dutch ropes. You know what I'm saying, It's not just off the gidea when you first get there, like Chante was doing. And Leticia don't need a mouthpiece. Letitia is strong, she's a leader on this show. She don't need nobody to speak for her.

It'd be one thing we can getting steamrolls.

And I could see like a friend being like, hey girl, you know I have friends that have trouble expressing themselves. I need yeah support, But when someone doesn't, it's like, okay. Point And some people saying she didn't make a good point, And and.

I have a question, why are we pretending that the only premise is friendship? Like to me, what she did make sense If her point is I have my own resentments because I'm always there and I've been wanting to get this off, and I also get to have a moment doing it.

Did it makes sense to me?

Because again we keep on saying if you were the friend, you wouldn't like them either. You probably also have thoughts that you want to get off, that this is your excuse to get off all pretending to be a supporter friend.

If she had.

Yikes, are you gonna make her a battle Carlos. Is this her audition?

That was a long audition. It was like a long scene.

I feel like she thinks it's Marlow, like if I'm around long enough, but she don't have.

So you know what I mean?

The extras?

What reunion?

Is this?

Okay? You know what you need?

She's like, oh, this will get me on the show. This one right here for her makeup. I love her makeup. The Crank collection.

I M with you, guys.

Let's get it to Marie and Carrie. Carrie is throwing an event where it's sort of like not a brunch, but like, you know, a luncheon, and she wants invite the influencers in Jackson. She enlisted LaTrece Rogers to be part of it. Marie, who is best sies with Latitia, felt like, look, Latitia brought you into this collective.

Carrie.

She does brunches. She is a motivational speaker. She this is what she does.

And Marie felt that Carrie was being shady for not including Latitia in it, but including Latrees. Claude, did you feel that Carrie was picking sides in that moment or was Marie overreacting?

I mean, I could see both sides, like, at one point, yeah, the person that brought you in and you should you know. I get like the loyalty, but I also get like, Okay, you brought.

Me in the group, cannot just be up under you. You brought me in the group to be a part of the group.

Therefore, I like when I introduced friends and then they end up getting friendships together and boxing me out, and I'm like, she still was invited. I don't think there's anything wrong with collaboring with other people. I don't think and I think that, you know, But I can understand also how you'd feel if you brought the person in and you weren't their first choice.

So I can understand both sides on this one.

Dustin, Yeah, Marie was gassing Marie don't fuck with Carrie, and it ain't nothing new. She ain't fucked with Carrie since Carrie said she whatever she said, Marie looked like alien or whatever. When Marie had on that silver metallic outfit when Carrie first came on the scene, and Marie was like, because you this this grandma always remember what she was talking about. Carrie had all so ever since then, Maria had it out for Carrie. She's just been playing thank you Charles. But but yeah, like but she but right, and you know how fuck with Marie Monroe? Shout out to doctor Marie Monroe. But a real doctor might not add but when Marie Marie ain't fucked with Carrie since the beginning, That's what it was. She been waiting to

get in the rope. She had a peaceful season that was focused on family. Last season, she was playing it cool the first half. Now she's back. She done got rid of what was the man with the filthy house? What was his name? Her husband, Cedric? Cedric? She didnet got rid of Cedric, and now she can focus more on the group. So she's nailing Carrie's ass to the wall.

She don't like she don't like Carrie, and that's all that was. She was waiting on an opportunity to jump in, and she did it. So now we got a show on our hands. Welcome back, Marie DestinE.

Someone said Marie had that renaissance out of.

The she did you need?

I like, I really really like Marie that Marie is down to make a good show and don't take nothing personal.

I love at the end when she's like, are you stilling a company. Yes I am. And then they did a little dad. I love that action.

I don't care me too like that.

You a good woman, like I feel like a short of like a crime. She'll do whatever is good for the collective.

She actually.

And you're one hundred percent right. I agree. And Carrie is a good spiring partner for Marie. She is Carrie ain't no pump. You know what I'm saying. Carrie ain't scared to you to say what the fuck she got to say. And we didn't see her mother and her mother in law, so the culture in that family, you know what I'm saying, They speak up. And I love that.

She's a great She's a formidable verbal spiring opponent for Marie, and it gives us a hell of a show. I'm very entertained. Shout out to these ladies. Both of them.

Carried You had a lot of rouge on to the show. There on the show, Okay, I made note of that she had a very pink cheek. So this the theme of this show is blushing.

It was a ruge, the ruse report. This is the report.

I'm about to boom on some of my rules now, man, I'm about to show up.

That's perfect. Lean In, you're.

Good, you look perfect.

Yeah, I love I thought that tonight.

The Ruge report has has now been finished, and we're now going to get into the debate of the reunion, which is is cheating a deal breaker?

So love and Marriage to Huntsville Partment Reunion.

I'm gonna start by saying this because I normally don't like to peer bias when because of my own shows, because that's like weird. But I will say this that reunion to me was the best reunion I've seen this year. If I thought that cast delivered an amazing reunion, it is full of surprises. Part one was excellent, Part two is even better. And what is so good about it is I want to make sure you guys watch it.

Dustin would ask me and Blue and Claudia two like house the reunion.

And I would say, just watch it. It's really because I like for you to be surprised.

You need to tell me, you know what I'm saying, Yeah, okay, you.

Like me like I don't watch the Atlanta Housewives cliffs that they drop after the episode goes off because I'm like, oh, I want to watch it on Sunday as a full complete package.

So yes, that's it.

I will give you the tea. But this was a great reunion. I want to start with you, Blue, because one of the things that happened early on in the reunion was the conversation with Maurice being in his soft hands era and by the way, his hands are actually soft.

I believe that.

It's not that.

I was like, Okay, you know people like soft hands.

Does like this, it's not a gig, we get it.

Yeah, he does.

I personally don't want no hard hands on me. I'm straight. You know what I'm saying, Like, that's it. I don't want to know how fucked up cheese hands. I don't want that. You know what I'm saying.

This is reality with the King, and I'm Carlos King. Let's get back into the show.

Maurice likes to look.

Maurice is a pretty boy, so he likes to make sure he's fully groomed and looks great, and he does all the time. So in this conversation, one of the things that came up was whether or not cheating is a deal breaker?

Okay, right, starting with you Blue. Years ago season one be.

What would they call dustin the Comeback, Comeback Group, The Comeback Group, the Holts and the Scotts had this conversation and Kimmy Season one said.

That cheating was a deal breaker.

We learned in this reunion that seven years later, maybe not so much. She doesn't know, but she does know that. How can I trust somebody after cheating? What were your thoughts about that? Because Maurice gagged, everybody said, we're gonna talk about this in therapy because I would.

Hope that you would love me enough to figure it out.

I think so.

I think that's a malarkey to use Destiny's language from another franchise.

So wait a minute.

You mad that you don't have the option to step out and come back.

Do you not believe in safety? I'm not safe at that point. You are?

You are unsafe, So I everything about that was gas.

It was manipulative.

He flipped the script and said, well, clearly, I'm more invested because I would want to stick around after cheating.

And you wouldn't. What kind of logic? You and logic are not friends in that moment.

It was so heavy handedly manipulative that and I love that. She was like, yeah, I know what I said, and I meant that right. She showed a level of self esteem in saying, Hey, I Maya alone doesn't suck. I love him and he's the best man that I know, but I don't hate thing alone enough to like be dishonored.

And he said, well, how am I the best man you know? And I'm still not allowed to cheat on you? The best man you know should be allowed to cheat one good time, Like, I gotta look, what logic is that that? You know how manipulative is for somebody to be good to you just so that they have the option to be bad to you later. That is incredibly manipulative.

So it was so black and white whack to me of him. It showed his lack of emotional maturity. I will say this though earlier and you had a question where you pretended to let me not be messy. You were seating on behalf of the audience and said, well, the people are saying that you let him munch on you all the time.

Because you owe and he not.

And you want to keep your bath.

To keep this young man, and but the people want to know I just work here, And I.

Was like, whoa what Carlos.

It was a beautiful question allegedly. Allegedly, I asked.

About half of the people, okay, and.

You're like, I'm people, are you letting him hunch on you because he's young and you want to keep him?

And I said, oh, wow, okay, give me a second. Didn't think we were going to go there so quick. So when she said nah, I'm okay, I could be alone, you know whatever. But then five minutes later you're watching how she's acquiescing to him. I think one question ironically answered the other. I think they are seeing how immature he is and how equally yoked he did not seem, even in that our when she was being reasonable. Made me wonder if there's a part of her that is subconsciously mothering him rather than expecting him to be a full fledged equal. That is part of why he gets away with the Shenanigans for so long.

I do think that the age is not just a problem.

I think it's a maturity thing more than age, because somebody can be younger than you and still be as mature as you.

I think his lack of maturity actually.

Spoke to me as a response to the previous question of oh, she's used to having to make concessions because he's a man child, and he's likable, and he's sweet and he's kind, and he uses that as a way to weaponize his incompetents in other places.

That's not healthy. But the thing is, I do believe they deeply love each other.

So you can be talking madly in love, right, So toxic and madly love are not always mutually exclusive. I just think that it would take a lot of work on his part to be her where she needs him to be an equally yield partner.

Claudia, I want to go with you next, because you.

Said a couple of months ago, when it came to Maurice and Kimmy, you felt that their sexual chemistry wasn't there just based on their conversations about the state of their marriage at the time, based on what you saw this reunion. Do you still feel that way?

Yep, sure do, even more when she said her alone is not that bad, That's not how you act when the guy's breaking them that back down, you like, oh my god, I love him so much. Even if he's full of shit. We will ride. Women will be so digmatized off a good d I know it sounds bad. The audacity of Marie and the flipping on her to say, oh, I can't believe you would not fight for me if I did not fight for you and had my dick off in someone else's guts and you you would leave me over that, knowing damn well, you would not stick around if she did the same thing like when I was he was kissing me off when he said that, and and for her to even entertain that and fight for her life a little bit with that, I would

have been like.

Sorry, we're not doing it.

That's what we're not about to do.

I'm not going to it's such a ridiculous argument. I'm not It's not even worth me arguing with you.

Once you said that. Nothing you said, I'm not even listening to you.

The fact that you're questioning my loyalty because I don't want to.

Fight for your disloyalty and I'm.

The bad person here. That is That's how narcissists talked to you. Oh so you would just leave me like the rest of my people did, like my mom left me, like my father left me.

I thought you were different than anybody else. You're not.

You're like everybody else. You're gonna leave me, man, we can see that.

A therapist on you. You're gonna weaponize the therapist with those bullshits.

Sorry, it was so whack.

It was so whack.

And yeah, she was.

Just like when she started saying that her alone is not that bad. When you start saying stuff like that, you're just really saying I'm I'm getting there, actually, Sir, I really am.

I hope.

I wish a man would say that to me. I wish someone would say that, Wait, you're not gonna stand by after I disrespected you put both of our lives in danger because I probably cheated raw doggish.

Right, yeah, and you you would leave me over me?

That's like, that's that reminds me of you trying to help I, right, you trying to help?

How were you holding me accountable for the consequences of my own actions?

All right, Claudia, na, Sir, Maurice, No, it was bad.

It seems a little slow too, and she a little.

Bit Claudia, we say immature.

I can't say slow. I can't say slow. Do we all take the fun?

Not yet? Trying to help your friend?

I can't say slow.

Y'all would not be colleague. Speed challenge Maurice Luthor Turner. I can't stand you, guys, Dustin wrong.

What did you think of the comprecation and do you agree with the ladies that Maurice was gaslighting Kimmy in that very moment.

Yeah, I think Maurice felt in other tests live on the show. I think that that question was an opportunity for him to exhibit some emotional regulation and maturity. And I think that when you're a man, and especially when you're operating in the confined, in the confines of a traditional heteronormative relationship, right, I think that you always have the opportunity to take the high road when it comes to the way you answer a question or even consider your woman. And I think it was a ridiculous notion to even present that as an argument or something to stand on. It was doomed from the start. What the fuck you mean how I'm reacting and responding to you cheating on me is wrong or right? Motherfucker? Don't cheat,

and I don't have nothing to respond to. It was just ridiculous and it's infuriating that he would even choose that, and anybody would choose that as a response to that type of question. What Maurice could have said and mind you, I think Maurice. I'm with Blue one hundred percent on this one because I think Maurice and Kemmy have a great relationship until it's time to ask a deep question.

I think they go to eat, they be chilling, they go dance, they have a good time. They she work, he worked, They praised them children, you know, their adult children or older children or whatever, and just keep it moving. And I think that when questions are probed like these, I think that their responses are so honest that it kind of starts some shit. And now we're about to roll right back into another shipstorm of Maurice is not, you know, the right person forget all of that stuff, because he literally failed another tust when he could have just said, you know what, I would never cheat on you anyway, because I love you with all my heart, So why be even discussing this shit?

Baby?

I love you and I will never cheat on you. That's all you have to say. And then take your ego and your pride, reduce them internally, and keep it the fuck moving. And then, as an adult and as the smart person, Matt graduated with honors from his law class. You know what, I'm saying valedictorian. As the smart person he is, strategize and plan a time that is built around facilitating a conversation like that in a healthy way.

Take her somewhere, you know what I'm saying. Go somewhere and talk and start having them conversations about loving each other through hard times or whatever the fuck. Do it the right way so that a person is not offended by you being ridiculous in the moment. I don't think Maurice is stupid enough to just be doing this without thought.

If he would just take a beat and think first before he allows his emotions to take control, I think he would do better in situations like that.

Do you imagine the worlds were reversed and if she was asked the question and her response was, wait, what you wouldn't.

Fight for me if I cheated on you?

Oh, Mitch, we'll talk about this, and turned her back to him and was like kind of take it ball and going home, like that's what it looked like. We imagine a world where a woman answered like that, never ever go down.

And I'm just gonna say this, the fact that Kimmy went through a breast cancer, even though this is totally unrelated. This is just me some dust and shit, right, the fact that Kimmy went through a breast cancer diagnosis and treatment on TV as her husband, I would protect the fuck out of her for the rest of our days on the show. Y'all would never get an argument out of me and Kimmy for the rest of my time on that show, because it just don't look right. It looks like, Okay, yeah, we over that, so now let me just I can fuck with you and poke and prod you or whatever, and it doesn't honor the fact that her life was that close to being compromised in whatever way. You know what I'm saying. It's a way

you're supposed to handle people that you love on the other side of shit like that, and it don't look like having ridiculous ass arguments on TV. I hope Marius is listening because these words come from place in love. He's been on our show multiple times, like we fuck with Maris, so we just tired of him failing these tests every single time they're presented in his face. He always says the wrong fucking thing. He said it thinking first and talking about that shit later.

Oh, all the reality stars that we talk about watch this show.

Yes they do what's go ahead.

And I know the word is overused narcissists, but a narcissist like doesn't really care much your feelings. And he's already showed that before with them when they were going through the whole breast cancer thing, and his main objective, his main well his party was was how much he's getting his thing wet or not. It's about sex with him, not about what his wife is going through. I think he lacks the inability to put himself in someone else's shoes, which that's my experience with narcissists manand where they can never empathize with you or how you'd feel. It's all about them, like to say that answer, like you did not think about how that would make her feel or how it would make her look to the audience like

you're on TV, dude, protect her once.

Even if he's not a narcissist, really emotionally immature people are.

Narcissistic with the I see at the end. So even if he's not a narcissist.

She's right, it's very narcissistic because when you're emotionally immature, you're like a child who feels entitled to everything. So he's not hearing you're having a void response to me disrespecting you. He's hearing, why won't you fight for me under any conditions whatsoever. I would think the child would think their parent has to fight for them, even if the kid is wrong, because in their mind, I'm.

The I's the baby, You the mama. You got to take care of me. It's very childlike, it's very manchild And.

One of the comments Lives More Lives twenty seven said yep, but Claudia, you basically had to make him apologize and he still didn't wants to.

I remember that.

Yes, I was like, do you have anything you want to video? Like you want to say that drag? It was pulling teeth girl as the baby lady.

Speaking of pulling teeth. I want to get to Tricia.

Tricia, okay.

People want to know people? Is me? Is you alive?

Yeah?

I leave old did when I talked to Triditiona when I said, people say, trich all be lying when I say people.

Yeah, we have a kind of you was acting up to you was you could tell you was feeling yourself to outfit the glasses you was like.

I was like, this is a rare form.

Tonight, Trisha revealed he said this is the bessiest Trisian till Georgia season, that she spinned the block right.

To the girls and the comfort of her being amongst the girls.

They would have got back to the collective of the guys and the girls.

She said, I did say that. Oh, I was just like talking about I met up with him. So after reunion, I'm like, did you spend the block?

She said no, And I'm like, what is your definition of spinning the block? She said, I would just talk into somebody, Dustin, I want to start with you. She said that she did not spend the block. She did not kiss the guy. Tisha had to interrupt and say, y'all been walking. When I said y'all going a.

Date, she said, Tsha was like, y'all been walking?

She goes, I mean, yeah, we've been walking, you know, like we've been walking. Then she revealed that nothing happened. Ken revealed he doesn't believe her.

Dustin, do you believe Tricia and if not, why do you think she is not telling the truth about sitting the block?

Well, Tricia came on the show lyon you know what I'm saying, So it's hard to believe really anything she says. You know what I'm saying, be like, it'll be three in the afternoon. You'd be like, Tricia, is this sonny on son? Yeah? Yeah, yeah, you know, and you'd be like, no, it ain't as dark. It must be dark. You know what I'm saying. She ain't. It's hard to believe her.

So when she sat up there and said that she spun the block and taught her girls with yes, you know all of that. But then when Keny y'all asked her what happened, she said, no, it's hard to believe. No, I love going walking. I live in New York City, So taking somebody that's attractive on a walk, smoke a little weed, you know what I'm saying, have a little deep conversation, but I will grab your ass and hold your hand and I try to kiss you and all that while we walking. So, you know, her saying that they went for walk will kind of yeah h T l L yeah.

Like we want other people to see us with that persons that makes.

It hot.

Cheek oh my god.

All that ship.

Yes, yeah, we could do it like the white people at the music park and put our hands in each other's jeans back pocket.

Remember that, I don't know walk like that, but y'all.

And we'd be like an engine what.

Yeah. But so I say all that to say, I know Tricia was walking in the heels of Alabama. You know the topography of that Alabama land is something serious. So she was walking into Alabama hills with him and it was dark. You know you do what.

Lovely?

Yeah?

One, don't you You're doing a lot.

You doing a whole.

I'm sorry.

So you know.

The beautiful, beautiful question.

The hill, the heilly landscape.

Believe photography. But wait a minute, did I miss something? I thought that she she got some some head too.

Was that I heard it wrong?

I thought when they said Ken, you know, do you believe that they just walked?

I thought that he didn't believe it. The man got a taste, and he got some more of a taste. Maybe that was just happening with my friend.

I don't remember friend. I ain't here.

All right, So Blue, what do you think about Tricia is? Do you think this? Do you think she had a moment?

Because let's be clear, Ken did admit that when he got his apartment he did sleep with another woman.

So do you think Tricia got her lick back during.

The moment of being vulnerable, but but now regrets it because they are back together.

Maybe that was a spiritual download that she got Smanda, I'm sorry if if I just had a when I drink I download, I'm so sorry.

Also a loky prophet. So is that what happened?

Oh?

I okay, So let me choose my words because this is live TV. Look, man, I think she did more than walk. I think she had more of a dustin walk than me. And Claudia is kind of old.

Maybe not Claudia my kind of walk, think a walk.

And she should have if they was broke.

Up in the country, so I can see her doing it on a walk.

Am I convinced that she got Okay?

I don't know why I got the city.

I recused myself on this question.

It's hotel, sir.

What do you think.

Happened?

I think, shout out to Ambrose. He went on a flat walk. Okay, that's what I think went down? Can we it is Trisa?

Whatever, I'm sorry, However, it's not. It's okay, Tricia. It's okay.

You've grown and your man gave you the perfect elieve he said, And he was so respectful.

I got gave a whole new respect for her.

Man.

But the way he was like, can I be honest? And he wasn't trying to just blaster her. He was very he handled her very gently. I don't believe you, babe. And the way he said it was like gave her permission to like be honest. I think she's one of those Southern girls that just no matter what, I got to pretend to be like a good girl and not do a thing. And I think that what plagues a lot of Southern girls. To us, Northern girls, right blue, we don't got to be bodles.

We could be like, yes, it's not a problem.

Right, I did that, right, we got did I know what you did last summer?

I did it too. So I think the Southern girls, no shame to the South. I feel like they have that pressure on them to like be carry themselves in a certain way and not cuss, not to listen I do that.

So I feel like she really cares about the image.

When we all know any woman that or man that's you know, paying attention. The way her face lit up when she was reminiscing about.

Spinning the block.

She was spinning the block thinking reminiscing about some good.

Deep do I that she that Okay, know she got good deep she did the way and the reason why she can get back with her man and be happy next to him.

She's the kind of girl that I can get back with you. But we gonna be even you ask that to someone, I'm gonna have sex to someone. And now we can just be back in this together because even if you never really know, I know, and we're good. That's what I see from her, and she she just pissed me off when she's still I'm a girl. It's okay, but she wants to That's how you keep the upper hand.

Later on in an argument, will you had sex with that girl? I never did in our break.

I just went on a walk.

You went on a slept, not even sluty though, like you was on a break.

Yeah, I mean I was. That's what I was gonna say, And so the fuck what. That's why Kim was so cool about the ship because it really doesn't even matter that made a decision to get back together. And let's be clear, Trish be getting niggas real talk like the niggas be on Trish if you don't believe me, look in them comments. So like, I definitely believe She went on a couple walks and I would have to I'd have been sprinting. But you know, well, yeah, y'all, everybody does that. You break up and you go have you some fun to try to help you get over the breakup.

Everybody does it. Everybody knows when you get back together with your person, they done got fucked on or whatever the hell it was. You know, it happened. Just it is what it is. People.

You a break is always so you can be like, let me just give that shut out that one last try, one more time.

And just to see if I feel anything.

And if I'm like, it wasn't all that, let me go on back to the good old faithful over here. That I know is you know, but at least I got that out of my system. So she got a little factory reset on her.

Yeah, And maturity is knowing that and being able to accept it and move on. If you decide you're gonna get back with a person, it's cool. It happened.

She definitely got some the way her face lit up with the girls and then she was around her man girl, we peeped at though, and he said it's okay.

And she already lied about hanging out with Martel when she came on the show. So trist and honesty when it comes to trists, it's not really you know, I will say.

When people in the rock, they usually go back to their favorite eater. So maybe that's why in my brain, I'm trying to get back to how I got I'm.

Being serious time women.

Okay, with a woman spins the block, the first person she wants to go back with is the guy who's her favorite eater.

That tends to be because you know that I'm going to a least I'm want to get something from this.

This that's just gonna be a lick back.

Not that they're the best with his height, but eating.

Want to both. But usually a good eater.

By the time he's done that, everything else is amazing because you're already in the right headspace.

I want to They always.

Talk about their favorite eaters. It's the thing.

All my single home girls always refer to their favorite eater as what they reach for.

He's your generous, it is favorite eater, But I like a good geek.

We like deeper, was saying an eater means that he warms it up properly. He doesn't skip the four plate, because a good play is touch and.

Go a good eater. You're already ready need thank you. Let's thank you ladies too much on thrust.

Well, I mean I have a proper segue to get into and get it to it now.

Yeah, yes, little Kim.

Blue, you have a favorite eater right now?

I did, but he was a Tory Lane's apologist, so I let him. Everyone different me.

Up from look, not politics, but a Tory Lane apologist.

Yeah.

Lad let me know the chance if a man supports Tory Lane, would you not date him? A yeah, I'm so fascinated about this.

Yeah, seems pretty clear to me. If if you shot a woman in the damn foot, don't you know, I don't really think it's a tough you know.

Here we are with men that like, oh nothing, Kayla said, Torri is innocent.

So then you can have there we go and picture.

Yeah, but why I don't give a funk with nobody think about it. So I ain't the want to argue with your mom. I don't care good for you, all.

Right, he might should be okay, I want to get to Destiny and Tsha.

Starting with you, Claudia.

When it comes to Destiny and Tsha's friendship, you know, I revealed because I feel like the reunion is when you are able to talk about breaking the fourth wall. So I did reveal that. Look, one thing I will say about Tsha off camera last season, two seasons ago, Tisha did contact me asking me nicely if I'm able to give Destiny her job back. She wasn't fired say it again for the record, but she was like, there's things she's going through that I'm not gonna tell you.

This is her business, but the stuff I do know, I will.

I will love it if you can find it in your heart to give her a job, get you know whatever. And she said, you know, I must love Destiny because I'm not even asking for.

My mom to get her job back. So I'm gonna start with you, Dustin, like, like, do you have a question, Dustin?

Yes, Dustin from New York here with a question. Uh, Matissa Scott was Melody Cherie on the show back when you wanted to come back on the show. I believe she was on cash still right, Well, of course you wanted to hear you weren't getting along with Melody and Destiny and Melody weren't getting along either. Dustin from New York with question B shouldn't be you said that you wanted her to come back to the show for reasons that you didn't want to disclose, only to then get on the reunion stage and say that for financial reasons you wanted her to come back. What's up with that?

Why did she say that? And kurls, if you have the answer to either of those questions, feel free to pontificate.

We the same questions. Hit it.

I don't want to violate any hippo laws or employment.

I'm not at liberty to disclose financial information. But that okay.

So Dustin has his theory as to why teacher Scott made the phone call Claudia based on that information. Destiny responded and said, it's malarkey and she used it correctly.

Nobody right.

They just showing God when she said I'm a larkey. I look at he said.

For a while.

Dog that was.

Actually ready, ready, That was good, That was good. She said, I put on my son, come on, mato.

That let's get into that. So Claudia, Destiny said that, ain't you know? She said, look, she already told looked, she told me she called you. She actually called me after she called you already do that. That's my information, Thank you very much. Secondly, she said, Tsha told me, if I don't argue with you, then I'm going to have to divorce my husband.

Mm.

She just said, you're a liar. Destiny said, I swear my son.

Uh, Destney wasn't lying. You can tell from teacher's reaction.

That that you wasn't supposed to say that, and that it's like the way she was her voice was going up, and she was just getting so irate. When someone lies on you, you'd be like, girl, by whatever, fuck you like the way that high pitched voice.

That's number one, number two. The reason another reason.

Why she was okay was calling you and begging for Dale, asking for Desney to come back, is because Desney was less of a threat. This is her best season ever, sod. She never anticipated that Deathney would have the season. She's happy right now. Of course, I'm gonna beg for a girl back that I think is way beneath me and not a threat to me.

I don't care if you bring this non union extra plus three in.

I don't care that's how not saying Destey was. That's what she thought about her. So she didn't feel threatened to ask for her to come back because she never she thought whence Melody's gone, I'm about to be the started show. So she never in a millionaires thought that Destney would be a fan favorite and be killing it like she is this year. So I think she regrets it now. And I think part of the reason that happen his beef is because she sees with the fantasy Destney has a presence this season. She's getting She got a trip to go back to Detroit and they went along on her trip and it was good, and I think she saw her. I was like, damn, she's getting the attention. It's not so easy to get that.

Number one spot. And I'm feeling a way.

So now I'm gonna pick fights with her because I'm not happy. That's what I think is going on their dynamic, because for her to go from asking Champion for her to get back on and then I did, Yeah, Dustiney totally right. How she oh, I don't want to put her business there, but she was broke.

You're right. I didn't like that.

I wasn't cute at all. So that's what I think.

I think she did never in a million years thought that Desney would rise the way she has, and it blew up on her face and now she feels stupid.

Damn I called.

I beg for her to come back, and now she's doing better than me on this show. I'm looking crazy and this girl's over here flourishing in the second first chair too.

By the way, By the way, I think we can confirm this without Carlos saying anything, because I have a good memory.

Yeah.

Yeah, first time we had this theory that the reason why Latitia Scott was acting like this was because she didn't think that Destiny was gonna be a big deal, was when we recapped when Destny went home, and we had that theory and Carlos smirt and said, you might be onto.

Something, but wait till the reunion. Well we're here, brother, I remember.

Yeah, yes, we have now confirmed.

He retroactively confirmed it about three weeks ago. Claudia. Yeah, remember, first.

Of all, they break it up after reunion.

Yes, that's the scheme that that Latitia Scott set up along with Toddenem and honestly too, I will say this even without the fact that it had been pre confirmed. I never messed with anybody who talks about what they've done to me as a way to make up for doing me dirty.

Later, what did I say to you?

Then you have the option to treat me like it's like Maurice all over again. She was doing that because she was like, Oh, I'm going to be the same because you poor little broke lambs cant you some food stamps? Of course you're gonna be looking out for me when you think I'm Oliver twisting this bitch.

Now I'm the whole goddamn bread factory.

Now what bingo bingo? And now I'm not gonna speak on Destiny's finances because I don't know anything about that. I only know what Latita Scott said on that stage. But what I will say is Destiny was fledgling as a cast member at the time that she was that she exited the show. She was not the Destiny that we see now who is running shit, okay, And it has nothing to do with her being in a beef.

Destiny has been deeply embroiled in Beef's from day one of her time on this show. It's the fact that we this is what I mean about how manufacturing manufactured drama never hits as hard as the real deal. We watched this shit unfold circumstance after circumstance, occurrence after occurrence, situation after situation, and we watched it get to the culmination of of emotions that it did. Right. We like Destiny this season because she's standing up for herself and it's the right thing to do, because we've seen what happened, you know what I'm saying. And also, I think what's unique about this season is that it has nothing to do with whatever reason people had, whatever opinion of Destiny they had before. What we like her for is what's

happening right now in real time, the way that she's reacting and responding to these things that's going on, And that's it, you know what I'm saying. That that's where it starts and stops for me.

Monica's holding three five three says she wanted Destiny to do good, but not better than her, and our one.

Is doing better.

She is doing better, and Destiny and then the teacher's look looking like she's crashing out. That's what it looks like, she's crashing out.

Well, I want to get into the next part, which was you know, I wanted to get nailed right.

She need her Bady chain.

What was going on between Destiny and Tisha and miss and and if if miss Nell felt that she came in between their friendship.

Miss Nell said, she doesn't feel like she did anything.

What she did say was more so that they had their issue and she was talking about how the Scott's talk to people, right, they have this way of talking to people.

Kimmy wanted more clarity on that.

As miss Nell is talking, Kimmy said, bringing down here, you know, bringing down here, insinuating that Nell was talking a little bit too loud.

Nell said, you're not my mother.

Kimmy said, we know that, and then Nell said I gave your ask grace once before, I'm not gonna do it again. And then Kimmy said you don't have enough grace to give me and then be worse on the flying around and in that moment, like Dustin was saying earlier, this is why I love the beauty of reality. It was was because I could not have predicted that now and Kimmy were going to get at it.

It was the bit.

It was the bitch from the gut the pits of the gut. The bitch, bitch, bitch.

By the way, because this is still oprah Ms network, we.

Had to cut ten ten additional bitches.

They caught each other bitches so much that we had to only use three.

It was giving terminata versus predator, like I liked it, like it was like they canceled each other out. I felt like kimm was so full of shit in that moment that it took somebody as cuckoo from just you know, as now they're like do what she could do.

Everybody was being too dignified. That's been too dignified.

The teacher Scott doesn't not make sense in the moment those two going after each other.

I said, oh, this is like a self cleaning oven. They could.

And let's be clear, that goes back to when they was at that damn I remember what kind of hotel it was a a loft when it was at that a loft and the fleshers had that event at the hotel, and remember they got out, they was outside and they was about to go at at the end, Neil and Kimmy they don't like each other. Sometimes it's like that you can be her own a person y'all just don't like each other. Knail and Kimmy do not like each other.

And if they weren't on the show together.

What is it you think, Dustin?

Uh, Kimmy is one of those I don't think that Kimmy is a bad person, right, And a lot of people assume the worst about Kimmy's intentions, and they think because Kimmy handles herself, she carries herself a certain way, you know what I'm saying, And a lot of times when people try their best to be respectful or whatever but still kind of have opinion about things, it's very easy for that to be interpreted as them being sneaky, understanded, condescending, having bad intentions, whatever, which I don't think is the case with Kimmy. But I think because she has kind of I don't know, she'll argue with them and shit, but she still kind of maintained some distance from really the nucleus of the mess on the show, and because

of that, when people are directly in the middle of that, I think there's some resentment that Bill's there for her and they see her and her actions through one specific lens, And so I think Neale has been waiting on an opportunity to get in Kimmy's ass. She ain't liked her for a minute. She didn't like how that shit went down at the hotel. She didn't. They never actually really really made up. They just kind of like kept moving, and so that's been brewing for a minute. They both were sitting there in them undergarments, uncomfortable. I think that they only had so much time of patience, you know what I'm saying. Left that shit hurts, that binding and shit, you know what I'm saying.

All of them had them on.

They they look everybody on the stage had one on. And I ain't mad at them because they all look nice. But yeah, you know, I just think that that's what they was waiting on. I think that that's where it came from. I don't like each other. And Neil likes to cuss people out. She's good at it. She has a raspy voice, you know, she she's you know, she's a good cusser. You know, I love it. She cussed a kid, get your ass. Is the one that then came here with the damn job. You know. The way she talks that she is just funny. That's what it was.

Man let him fight. It was good. I want to know what else they said that y'all cut out, Carlos, what was some of the stuff.

No, no, no, no, So there's a part too, you'll you'll see. I was just we didn't cut out the meat of the conversation. I would just say they call each other, you know how like shake girl, you know, a girl fight.

It's like it's too bitch, bitch, bitch, bitch fuck you being no fuck you.

It was.

Uh like, it was a lot of this, like but a lot more Part two.

I think.

I also think Kimmy is going to be a little extra explosive with other people because she's not taking out the giving her husband the proper tongue lashing that he's should be getting. So the other girls gonna get it a little bit more, like, you know, because she's always when she needed to be coming him out, talking about that he talking about So, you know, whoever it's gonna they're gonna get a little ex on it.

I think Claudia might be right, And this is gonna sound so ignorant me to say this, but I do think it's slow versus fast. I do think that I can't say flow, so no time about actual speed challenge I'm talking about in the literal set.

Let's say in a biblical way, let's say.

No, no, no, I'm no, the work's no slow is the only thing that matters. Let me land the plane on the you'll see. I think that there are slow witted and quick witted people. That has nothing to do with intellect. It's just about your.

Ability to speed actual speed, I mean actual slowness.

Destiny and Nell are very quick witted, so in the moment they're like Angela, okally right. They can very quickly get to the point, hit the bullseye, and keep it pressing. I think the other couch are the slower ones.

They get stuck, they can't figure out their words.

They're the ones think about I should have said this in the shower. Two weeks after the reunion, Across is already back in his house, and because they have frustrations around and not being able to keep up with the faster couch.

When they speak, they're explosive because they're frustrated they can't keep up.

Whenever I argue with somebody who's not as quick as me, they start calling me all types of bitches because they can't form a.

Real sentence, that's what they do. And yeah, people who can't keep up intellectually with my speed.

Not that I'm smarter than them, but people who I think faster than tend to be nasty because they're frustrated they can't keep up with me.

And I do recognize that in one couch versus the other, because that's a whole lot of sense.

Even Miss now who sometimes you know, she was making a whole lot of sense, but they were quick with it, and Kimmy was like, well, bitch like she.

She couldn't she couldn't think nothing else to say.

Yes, I don't like you, and I can't think of a good a good singer, so I'm gonna just keep on calling you your mama the whole time. So I do think speed to throw Claudia some veil. I think it's literal slowness and literal fasting.

I don't care if they staying slow slow.

No, Claudia, I try to fix quad. Let me fix fixed.

In the end of the third quarter begins for I don't care. I'm at that old lady stage wherever I don't care anymore. I don't care. I worked so hard that's so hard. But trying to throw me a safety line, safety net, safety whatever.

I'm good, thank you, though, I appreciate.

The Some people can keep up, some people can keep up, some can't. When it comes to those verbal you know, that verbal back and forth and ship. Some people are gifted with it and some people are not. It's just what it is. This happens to be a gifted panel. And please, I want our viewers and the rain drops don't sleep on Carlos King. That's all I want you to know. Okay, he is. Carlos is in good company right now. That's all I got to say. He belongs.

Okay, another day challenge, Okay, no rain drops.

Make sure you guys can Part two of the Love and Marriage Hunt reunion that is airing this Saturday.

Bill Collective Fridays at eight o'clock. Some essential anti for y'all. We are taping the reunion of Bill Collective this week.

So oh okay, all right, well, good luck, ladies. We hope y'all have a good reunion. We can't wait to see it. I hope y'all go deep and get it in. Yup. Good look currently.

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