The Area of Life You *must* Keep Secret: Scorpio Through the 12 Zodiac Houses...

0:10 Scorpio. Share a secret. Astrology is most definitely my passion. It's obvious, right? I mean I literally live on a piece of property named after astrology. But whenever people ask me, why don't you grow in it? Why don't you like make a teaching academy? Or, you know, when you scale a business of astrology, it you typically have to sell courses or do large group classes because you reach an income cap when you just do one-on-one readings.

0:48 Like that's just the business and the finances of this industry. And of course, as an entrepreneur myself, I've always wondered how can I scale my business. But there's always been a glass ceiling, and I'm not talking about the kind that women reach in the workforce. Not like that. There's been this invisible glass ceiling that my intuition can feel that whenever I want to write a book about astrology, it says no.

1:21 Because that would be too easy. That would be effortless. I could sit here and crank out book after book after book after book. And I have a feeling that I would do well because it's just so much passion behind this stuff for me. It's like I call it getting the zoomies. I get the astrologer's zoomies when people have an interest in the same subject that I do.

1:43 I absolutely love readings with you guys because it feels like I get to just kick it with a friend and we get to look at your soul's blueprint and you love it and I love it, and it's just awesome energy. But there's this piece of me that's like, I don't want to be known as an astrologer. Of course, SEO is something I'm frequently thinking about as an entrepreneur.

2:05 And you know what sucks? If you've ever Googled my name, then you already know this. Um, there's a famous actress from the 80s and 90s named Stephanie Powers, but she spells her name with an F. Well, whenever you Google my name, she is who pops up by default. And so I'm always like, dang, and I remember working with people asking, like, how can I fix this?

2:26 Because my name is so prominent and different, right? And so that should be what people Google to find me, maybe even before the Astrology Lounge. But it's nearly impossible unless I get married and change my name, or unless I create a stage name. She's too famous, right? So I've often thought, like, besides for that, I almost feel like that's a veil of protection because I don't want to be known as an astrologer, if that makes any sense to you.

2:58 It probably doesn't. So the other day I had a session with I would I don't want to call her a psychic, an intuitive, a very connected, powerful woman. Thank you, Abby, for connecting us. Um and towards the end of our session, we were going over time, so we're wrapping things up. And she said, Okay, okay, okay, hey, um, I know you didn't ask about this during our session, but there is something spirit or your spirit.

3:27 Wants I have to say this before we go. So if you just have five minutes, I said, of course, of course, what is it? And she said, What what is it you do right now? Tarot, uh, zodiac or oracle. I said, Yeah, astrology. And she just blurted out, that's not your craft, that's not your final craft. And I just in silence, it's such a weird place to be in because when I hear that, it's a hundred percent validation.

3:53 You know, I love working with intuitive people because I just look at them not as psychics or mediums, they're conduits. They are just connecting a bridge to my truth that through being a human with ego and life stuff, I forgot about or I get unsteady about, and they're just clicking the pieces back into place that I've my ego has started to question.

4:14 So it's always things that I'm like, I know, I already know all this. But she blurted that out and I smile because I'm like, I know, I've always known this, I've known this for years. But then I get in this other feeling where I'm like, yeah, but this I've done so well with this. This is so fun, this is so enjoyable.

4:32 I don't want it to ever end. And then I have the other side of me that's like, but this isn't your full purpose. And I think about this with you guys because the number one question I get as an astrologer is, what is my purpose? When you guys fill out my lengthy intake form and you come book a session with me, most people write, I want to know my soul's purpose.

4:55 And you guys, again, are such an incredible, eclectic audience of people. You're so smart and accomplished. You guys have PhDs, your physicians, your attorneys, your lawyers, your senators in the White House, like you guys. I just have to share. We have such a cool audience here at the Astrology Lounge.

5:13 And so I think, how do you guys not know your purpose? Look how accomplished you are, but you don't. And I realize, wait, I don't either. And you might look at me thinking, gosh, she's so lucky. She does her passion for her purpose. Like, yeah, I do. But at the same time, this isn't it. And it I and I don't feel that way from a sense of being unfulfilled.

5:35 I feel that way in a sense of this is a season. And so maybe it's because I'm a mutable Sagittarius, but I don't fully believe that our soul came here with one purpose and one purpose only. I think humans' purpose is seasonal. Right? Because the purpose I have as a 37-year-old is most certainly not the purpose I had as a seven-year-old.

6:01 And then the purpose I'll have when I'm 67, if I'm blessed to see that age, will not be the same purpose I have right now. And so being the planner I am, my Virgo South Node, my stellium in the sixth house, I'm always like, okay, well, what's next? And how will I always keep astrology in my back pocket?

6:18 Like, I always want to read charts. I'll always have this podcast. Who knows what I'll continue talking about? But this is just my passion is talking, being a radio host. But I share that story because it's it's a Scorpio thing. Scorpio is not just doom and gloom and goth at all. Right? I always want to remind, since the vast majority of our listeners are with me in the Northern Hemisphere in America, we have the classic Scorpio weather outside.

6:46 It's fall, things are dying. By the end of Scorpio season, most trees will be quote unquote dead and bare, and it'll be cloudy every day. And that's such Scorpio weather. But I want to remind you guys down in the Southern Hemisphere, our Australian friends, South American friends, we are they are experiencing spring, new blooms, sunny days, warmth, and it's Scorpio season.

7:12 So I share this little secret story because I can sense that there's an impending death or transformation in what I do, and that scares me financially. It scares me uh just as a Taurus rising who wants to do the same thing for the rest of my life because it's easy. But then there's also a side of me that welcomes it and says, ooh, what's it gonna be?

7:36 Is it I've been slowly chipping away at a fiction novel, but it just doesn't call to me. And then with my nerve issue, I'm still trying to work on um I'm like, I literally can't sit down and write a novel. It makes my arm go numb. So I'm like, geez, that is, I always take everything as a sign. Like maybe that's a sign that that's not yet.

7:57 Not yet. And so what that thing is, I'm just gonna kind of let go and let God. Now, the zodiac Airbnbs, of course, that's that's a flavor of it. That is uh like I just want some in-person, I want to decorate a space, I want more physical. You come visit a space that my energy and knowledge of astrology curate it.

8:20 That you're like, oh, it's not just this girl on my speakers and headphones. Like, this is actually a real thing. This is amazing. I want to utilize social media and the internet to bring real-world, comfortable, grounding experiences that are transparent and authentic, you know? So I don't know what that thing is.

8:38 And I share this with you guys because I feel like it's a very normal human emotion to have that we all kind of go through these things, that we can quote unquote have it all and still know that it's going to go away someday. Things will not be the same one day. And so we should always try and be as grounded and mindful and present as we possibly can.

8:58 I feel like I'm getting preachy with this now, but you guys get it. So, hi everybody. Welcome to another episode of the Astrology Lounge. I'm your host, not an actress, Stephanie Powers. So funny. I always knew that I was named after her. Well, I wasn't named after the actress. Uh, my dad, his last name was Powers, and it's even though I don't have a relationship with him, it's a pretty badass name.

9:20 So shout out to my sperm donor for giving me a cool name. But um uh my mom thought that I was going to be a boy. If you're if you're old here, you already know the story. For my new listeners, it's kind of cool. So my full name is Stephanie Nicole Powers. And my mom, sweet Aquarius woman, she thinks finding out the gender of a child is so weird.

9:43 It makes her cringe. Uh, when we were talking about IVF years ago, I remember saying, you know, you can pick your gender. She was like just covering her ears, like, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no. That's just why would you do that? I don't know. I think it's amazing to find out the gender because you can plan and you can just kind of connect more.

10:00 But my mom thinks it's the weirdest thing. But here, regardless, she had my older brother, and then she got pregnant shortly after with me, and she started having dreams, extremely vivid dreams, as you do sometimes when you're pregnant, of a little boy with curly chocolate brown hair. My mom has brown hair, my dad's blonde, and a lot of my ancestry is Swedish, actually.

10:23 Uh she had these vivid dreams of this little boy coming to her, and he told her, My name is Nicholas. Nicholas, Nicholas, Nicholas. So she was absolutely convinced that she was gonna have a little dark-haired, curly, dark-haired boy named Nicholas, and she would rub her belly and talk to him, and she planned on it, she would tell people.

10:44 And so when the time came to give birth, and out popped a girl. It's so cool. My uh my mom recorded it on cassette, and you can you can't see anything, but you can hear voices and everyone in the room going, Oh, it's a girl. Now, I don't take offense to this, but it's just true. You can also hear a little bit of sadness and not not disappointment, but just uh that moment of wait, my into that what what was that all about?

11:13 Like, I've got the name picked out, Nicholas Powers, like what's going on here? But also, my mom said, I just she's like, when I tapped back into it, I just didn't believe that I'd be worthy of having that, like a boy and a girl. That's just the jackpot for everyone, right? You could do experience both.

11:31 She's like, I just didn't think I'd be that lucky. So out I came, and mixed with a little bit of grief of like, what hold on. She didn't want to give up Nicholas per se. And so she named me quickly after my great-grandmother, Stefana Larson, and named me Stephanie. And then my middle name is Ode to that sweet little boy that she had visions of, Nicholas.

11:52 And so my middle name is Nicole. Uh, so I kind of carry him with me, I guess. Carrying the torch of his energy, whoever he was and why he came to her. I don't know, but he lives on within me. So that's how I'm named. That's a long story of how I got my name. I'm not named after the actress, but I did have to grow up all through public school when they take attendance, going, Oh, any relation?

12:15 I mean, I was in second grade getting asked, is Stephanie Powers your your your mother? I'm like, why would is this a thing? Like, well, it should be, I think. We were just having that debate. Like, why do kids get their father's last name when the woman does most of the child rearing, the caretaking, the but then if you think about it, if you give kids the mother's last name, you're essentially giving her another man's last name because that is her father's last name.

12:37 We were me and Mr. Virgo were debating this. Like, shouldn't kids, if you really want to statistically measure it, like, shouldn't they have their mother's last name? I know in some Hispanic cultures they'll do that. They'll the child will have both the mother and the father's last name, which I think is so cool.

12:54 I don't know, just thinking about that. But uh yeah, I'm not named after her. So I've always thought, like, how am I gonna get myself in a Google search engine? I'm gonna have to change my name. I don't know to what, I have no idea. I like it, but if I want to be in a search engine for my business or whatever this craft that I have coming comes in one day, I'm gonna change my name, I guess.

13:16 I guess we'll find out. And then my Scorpio moon is also like, wait, wait, no, I like this shit. You can't find me. You can't the actress just pushes all my stuff down. You can't Google me. You can't find me. I'm telling you, Google the astrology lounge. Okay, now speaking of Scorpio energy, today we are gonna go into this sign.

13:40 So I'm on a mission to debunk the street reputations for signs. Even though I like the street reps, they're funny, they're goofy. I love talking shit about all the signs, including my own. I think it's fun. Um, I always remember don't put people in a box because man, is there so no two Scorpios are alike, no two Sagittarians are alike.

14:01 You can find common ground, but then when you open the door, it's just so, so intrinsically different. So, Scorpio is one of those signs that I feel bad for because they they get misgendered, they get judged, similar to Geminis. I feel like Geminis have just accepted they get the negative reputations and they're like, ah, screw it.

14:24 Yeah, that's me. Two-faced, woo. Whereas Scorpios are like, actually, yeah, think about me in that light. Don't don't ever figure me out. I don't want to be figured out. You guys also probably know the story of I grew up knowing I was a Sagittarius, loud and proud. I used to read my horoscope on Susan Miller's website with dial up internet.

14:47 So I guess I have always enjoyed astrology. I just never considered it a career. But um, I loved it. I loved the Sagittarius. But now I know why. That some months I would read her horoscope and be like, none of that shit happened. She doesn't know what she's talking about. Now I know I should have been reading Taurus.

15:06 Taurus, my rising sign, with more accuracy. But Scorpio placements. I love the analogy of make helping you realize that yes, Scorpio is death, and we are experiencing that here in North America with our seasons changing, but down south, southern hemisphere, below the equator, it's the opposite. Things are coming back to life.

15:28 And I think that when you pull that together on earth, there is a half of the earth is dying so that the lower half can be reborn, and then it's gonna switch. The lower half will die so that we can have that energy and be reborn up here. And I think that is so beautiful for the cycles of life, both literally, like the seasons, but also symbolically and emotionally.

15:51 And it breaks my heart that we humans have entered an era where we have to live so unnaturally, right? We have to get up way before the sun comes up and begin working. And we get students in school when it's still dark out, and it's just like it's like we're living so backwards, we're going against the grain.

16:12 And of course, I'm not naive enough to know that we like nurses, doctors, child care providers, janitors, caretakers who work the night shift are a blessing for us. We are so lucky and gifted that these people do this, you know, go against their natural biology of waking with the sun and going to bed with the sun.

16:32 But I just there's a part of me that can't believe that some people do not look at the sunlight when they when they wake, or they don't even, even if they're already awake, they just don't greet it to get that natural flow and energy. I don't know. And so that's that's Scorpio energy right there is death and rebirth.

16:53 It's not representing death as much as like something or someone literally dying. It death means our relationship with change. That's what Scorpio energy means. So today I've just for fun to try and demystify this dark Scorpio water sign, I wanted to go quickly Scorpio through all the placements, like a Scorpio moon, Scorpio Mercury, and then especially I want to go through Scorpio through the houses.

17:22 And this is gonna be very surface level because holy guacamole, this could be a Joe Rogan style five-hour episode if I let it, but my throat's a little sore today, so we are gonna focus on just again the surface level of these things. Now I've got pugs snoring and scratching to get in. Hold on. I've got a grumble, guys.

17:42 Did you uh see my picture on Substack this morning? Jackson and I were harvesting loofahs. It's so much fun to create loofahs and putting them in the shower. It's so cool that you can grow your own exfoliator. But we've been using them as decorations for fall, they're really pretty. So yeah, if you don't follow me on Substack, go on there.

18:00 I love Substack. I'm not gonna get off topic, but there's some cool energy going around there. I hope it stays. What does Scorpio actually mean? It's not death and oh, I have to face my traumas. Of course it could be, but guess what? Any season you could have to do that. In Gemini season, you may have to talk about your traumas.

18:20 In Sagittarius season, you may be forced to see the higher perspective of your traumas, right? It's always there. Let's see. Imagine you're 10 years old and you're at school and you make a new friend. And at first you become friends because you're talking about your favorite movies, or your pets at home, or your annoying little sibling, or what's your favorite food, or candy, or what you're dressing up for as Halloween for Halloween.

18:48 That's Libra energy. Oh, I like you. We share common ground. I'm getting to know you. But eventually, over weeks or months, you start talking about different things. Your parents have a really bad fight at home, and you go to school, and this friend notices that you're not as upbeat as you usually are, and they say, Hey, what's wrong?

19:10 Come hang out with me at recess. Let's go, let's get away from everyone, just go sit and talk. And you start to tell your friend that you're scared your parents are gonna get divorced, or that your dad raised his voice really loud and you were scared that it was gonna be physical. And then maybe your friend tells you something like, Oh, well, I never knew my dad.

19:28 My dad was an alcoholic, and my mom kicked him out, and I haven't seen him in years. And so you start sharing very deep things that could be called secrets, and suddenly you're not just surface level acquaintances anymore. You're Scorpio friends. Or think about when you meet someone new, and this could be any age, right?

19:48 You meet someone new, you're talking about the surface level things, what are your values in life, where do you work, what's your family like? Are you close with your siblings? Where have you traveled before? What's your favorite place? Blah, blah, blah, blah, blah. And then over time, you start talking about bigger things.

20:04 Start talking about your past partners and your past relationships and how they didn't work out. Start maybe you start talking about the time you lied or cheated on someone, and you're like, please don't judge me. I just, you know, it's a rough time in life. But then eventually you might reach a point where you're in bed together.

20:23 Or you might reach a point where you allow them to take your shirt off or take your pants off. And you're like, oh my gosh, are they gonna see that scar on my boob? Or they what are they gonna think of my nipples? What are they like, right? This is this is a Scorpio's subject. We're nervous for someone to literally see us physically naked.

20:42 That's a big deal to give someone that gift. And you just hope they still like you after they see your stretch marks, your hair, your scars, you're you're Scorpioing with them. You're getting, you're like, I trust you with my physical body. Please don't betray it or abuse it. And then you have sex and you become intimate and you exchange energy and you write that some people call having sex ruining the friendship.

21:10 Because even if you're like, you know what, like we're just two people with hormones, let's just have sex, it's fine. Is it really? I don't believe anyone. You'll you guys can debate me on this, but that maybe this is my Scorpio moon in Venus. I don't believe people can just have casual sex and carry on.

21:24 I I think that there's some energy that you carry from that that that builds and compounds within the body. I don't know. I don't know. That's just my observation from having friends who have tried to do this. It's almost like they they would say that under a guise of trying so hard not to let themselves fall into a connection because that could mean getting hurt.

21:50 And so it's like, I don't care. I just have sex with you and I won't talk to you for three weeks. It's like you that's Scorpio energy. Right? I gave you my body. I would send you money. I shared my secrets with you. And you like someone else now? Ugh. You're seeing someone else? I thought we were exclusive.

22:15 Well, uh, that is Scorpio energy. When you find out that someone you gave your body to shared your secrets to, or going back to the 10-year-old analogy, they're besties. They share those scary things about their families. But then they those 10-year-olds go on to be 13 years old and they start to grow and develop different habits or hobbies.

22:34 And one of them starts to hang out with a different group, and the other one starts to hang out. It's like, wait, but I shared like, shared my parents' divorce with you. Like, we're supposed to be friends, but now we like different things. It kind of hurts. How you handle that energy is Scorpio. What do you do when someone you've shared such vulnerable things no longer calls you or texts you back?

22:59 What do you do when someone you've had sex with and gotten so intimate doesn't want to have sex with you anymore? Is having sex with someone else? How do you react? What do you do? Do you get a revenge body? Hope that they'll come back. I didn't even know that that was a thing.

23:16unknown Mr.

23:16 Virgo taught me that back in 2020. He was like, You ever I don't know how we got on the subject. We talk about the weirdest shit. You guys should heard our conversations in bed last night at like 11 p.m. We were if you guys know composite. Mr. Virgo and I have a Gemini rising in our composite jardine.

23:33 Boy, does it show? It's 11 o'clock at night. I'm starting to get a sore throat. He's getting over a sickness, and we're laying in bed, and I've got my castor oil pack on my liver. Like it's real sexy. And he goes, Did you know everything is just wrapped together by skin? And I was like, What about scales?

23:57 Would you say scales are skin? And he was like, Yeah, it's a form of skin. And I go, Well, what do penguins have? He's like, I'm pretty sure penguins are actually feathers, but on top of skin. We sat there for like 30 minutes just conversing about how all of our organs are just squeezed together by skin and skin.

24:22 And then I was like, what's a dolphin? Until eventually we fell asleep to our sleep sounds. I don't know. Is anyone else like that with your best friends or your lovers? I know. I loved it. I thought it was great. And he brought it up. But how how you handle change is your Scorpio energy. So whether or not you have a Scorpio sun, moon, rising, or anything, maybe you have nothing in Scorpio, but there's still one of those 12 pie slices, one of the houses in your birth chart is ruled by Scorpio.

25:02 So I know Scorpio is ruled by a Scorpion, which, if you've ever seen a Scorpion, the things are gnarly. I s the sting is a defense mechanism. I don't know. If I could change the symbol of Scorpio, it would be a phoenix rising from ashes. It would be like that Hunger Game symbol. It would that to me is more representative with all due respect to historical origins, maintaining the scorpion in the sky.

25:28 But I don't know. I just feel like the energy of it is so different. And it's a water sign, so it's very sensitive and emotional, and it's fixed. Fixed means maintaining, preserving Scorpio. Boy, they can commit deeply, stay very loyal, and see very difficult things through. Their challenge is knowing when holding on becomes toxic to them.

25:49 They start stinging themselves, so to speak. So it's Scorpio is not just about death. It's about rebirth. It's almost like I want to recreate the energy of Scorpio season and call it rebirth. It's a rebirth season. Imagine just how much that would have changed a November or Scorpio season forecast if I said, haha, the season of rebirth has arrived, rather than the season of death and transformation.

26:18 Words are so powerful. Words are truly spells. But that is Scorpio, rebirth. So we are being reborn around this time. That's it. Now, Scorpio on its disempowered side, yeah, it is manipulative. They're so manipulative, they don't even know they're manipulating. They're gaslighting you, they don't even know how.

26:39 It is just a default setting. They have to check themselves constantly because they're so intelligent with great foresight and observational skills that yes, they know exactly where it's to staying where it hurts. That's the disempowered side. Jealous, sure, sometimes, but empowered Scorpio is one of the least jealous signs of all.

26:59 It's one of the least private, secretive in a negative way, secret signs, least possessive and controlling signs, because they have understand that their presence is their power. And if you F them over and they say, hmm, sucks to be you, I'm gone. You lost me. That sucks because you could have had a ride or die for the rest of your life.

27:23 But you just lied to me, betrayed me, didn't weren't transparent with me. I'm out. And that's all the empowered Scorpio knows that. And they take their power and their magnetism and their loyalty and their fixed loyal energy, and they go somewhere else. They don't need to go get a revenge body, they don't need to go get a rebound and post a picture of themselves on the internet just to sting you a little bit.

27:48 That's that's small talk, Scorpio. That's babe, that's weak Scorpio. Big Scorpio is I don't have to post anything, I don't have to show anything just to sting you and get you back, make you jealous. No, no, no, no, no. I'm gonna go create such a powerful life with money, with amazing sex that's real and transparent and built on trust and vulnerability.

28:15 I'm gonna go grow and transform and be so much bigger than what this little situation was that I don't even think of you. We're not even in the same field anymore. I rose from those ashes. I'm in the big leagues now. I'm not in the little leagues anymore with you. Sucks to be you. If you keep acting that way, lying, betraying, using people for sex, for money, for attention, you're always gonna be in the little leagues.

28:39 Have fun with that. I am growing to a kingdom, to something big, something so powerful that I literally don't have the mental space to even think about you. Never mind making someone like you jealous. Why would you want to make someone who could treat you like such crap jealous anyway? Everything makes them jealous.

28:59 They're extremely insecure inside. That's why they behave that way. This is empowered Scorpio, knowing that. So the wherever Scorpio sits in your chart is where you need to consistently maintain, protect, and keep your power. This could be said as privacy, it's where you need to be especially intentional about who gets access to you or this area of life.

29:26 There's a big difference. Now, disempowered, the Scorpio placements or the house, Scorpio house in your chart is where you do not let anyone in. You have built a fortress, you have built walls, you don't trust nobody, which can push the intimacy and loyalty you crave away. Healthy, empowered side says the Scorpio-ruled part of your chart.

29:48 This area of life is extremely important to me. I feel this area of life very deeply, and I get to decide who I share it with. I'm very selective based off of historical data, based off of knowing myself. I'm very selective of who gets access to this part of me. Disempowered Scorpio, I am super secretive about this area of life.

30:15 Empowered Scorpio knows not everyone deserves unlimited access to your life, especially the house ruled by Scorpio. That requires respect. That requires earning access to this area of your life. The house containing Scorpio, a rule by Scorpio, reveals the area of life where you learn the difference between protecting something and controlling it.

30:40 Ooh, does this make sense? So let's go through it really quick. Scorpio through all 12 houses. If you're a Scorpio rising, then Scorpio rules your first house, your identity and your appearance. Do speaking of sex, because that is a Scorpio subject, do not let people have your body. If you're a Scorpio rising who loves casual sex, I'd have to look at the rest of your chart.

31:07 But I would say that your body is a temple, not in a cliche way, in a literal way. Your identity, who you are, access to you, period, should come with hoops to jump through. Absolutely. You decide how much of your personal story you want to share with people. You decide who gets access to you or who does not.

31:32 And boy, do they need a serious mark of standards and values, honesty, no secrecy, like Scorpio Rising. Listen to me right now. Don't let anyone have access to you. And as a Scorpio rising, you guys ooze just sexual magnetism, power, phoenix energy that I bet you just walk around and you attract people like crazy.

31:55 And so it's up to you to have a filter to say, uh no no no no. You have to earn your spot at my table. Like to be near me and my healing abilities and my healing powers and my loyalty, I will carry your secrets to the grave. And so having a person like that in today's day and age, extremely rare. You guys, please protect access to you at all costs.

32:19 If Scorpio rules your second house, your money and your self-worth, guys, so simple. Don't give people your money. Do not share bank accounts. Again, I say that, but some of you guys might be like, oh, my husband or my wife has that. I have to see the rest of your chart. But if Scorpio rules your second house, try not to share your natural talents and how you're going to monetize them until you've already done it and monetize it.

32:42 Don't talk to people about your future plans until they're already implemented and you're making money from it. Be very discerning about financial deals. Don't attach your worth to what you own. Try not to use buying material items to feel powerful. Well, I own this car, so I look powerful. Check yourself there.

33:04 If Scorpio rules your third house, communication, learning, siblings, you probably have a really close-knit relationship to siblings or a really difficult, hard-to-balance, toxic, abusive one. But it's your mind. Not everybody deserves access to your mind. If Scorpio rules your third house, one of the best things you can do is understand that your mind is your greatest tool.

33:29 It is extremely powerful. It will either take over you or you need to consistently control it. But not everybody deserves to have a conversation with you. And you may be very harshly judged for the way you speak, think, process things. Don't uh if someone starts saying you talk too much or you don't talk enough or what you think about this subject is weird or wrong, wrong, you're out, goodbye.

33:50 Shew. I want right or dies when it comes to how I think and speak. I need people that I can be blunt and share transparent truths with. That's a Scorpio third house. You need to process things in private, typically. Um, if you're processing things with your sister, your brother, especially siblings, because it's the third house, they're probably going to give advice that does not resonate with you.

34:14 Or you're lucky with this one. Again, depends on the personal chart. You may have siblings that are the best at keeping secrets and protecting you. Um, but protect your mind at all costs. At all costs. Not everybody deserves access to the way you think and speak. If Scorpio rules your fourth house of home and family, keep your family private.

34:35 Uh, don't post photos of your kids on the internet, although you guys probably already know this and don't do that. Um, don't talk about your family goals so much. We keep it very strict with who you share, family planning, family goals. Be very strict with who you let into your home. If you like, don't be an open door policy.

34:54 If you get a weird vibe about someone, that that analogy of do people stay on my front porch on my sidewalk, or do they sit at my dinner table? Have very high standards with who gets to sit at your dinner table. Your personal and family life can have boundaries without needing to hide painful realities.

35:15 So this can sometimes mean that your home life was quite erratic when you were growing up. And now you've created, if you chose to take that route, a family of your own. And if you didn't have kids and do all those things, just the physical living space that you call home needs to be a very sacred sanctuary.

35:34 No energy, I mean, sage that place if you let someone in that you didn't want to, but your home needs to be protected, and your private sanctuary is just the word that keeps popping up at all costs. Protect your family, protect your mom, your dad, your siblings. Sometimes you need to take a break from them and separate and create distance because the connection is so enmeshed in Scorpio.

35:55 I'm sure you guys know it, especially if you have Pluto in the fourth. You guys remember what that placement's called? Pop, dad, mama with trauma. When we've got Pluto in the fourth house. Now, if you have a child's chart and your kiddo has Pluto in the fourth, because this has happened and I felt really bad that some parents are listening to this and they're like, okay, Pluto in the fourth, Pop Dada Mama with trauma.

36:15 Oh, my son is four years old and he has that. I get it. I'd be scared too. But if I ever have a kid and they have Pluto in the fourth house, I'm just gonna go, okay, their relationship to me and their relationship to their family and home life is extremely powerful. So I'm going to consistently bring awareness to making sure that it's powerful in a oh, my family's got my back.

36:40 They encouraged me to fly high rather than the difficult way that that could go. If Pluto rules your fifth house here, cancer rising, creativity, romance, and children. So the fifth house is the heart, it's the fun, it's the hobbies, it's the sex, it's the conception and fertility. A few things. Number one, protect your kids.

37:01 And I don't mean something's gonna bad is gonna happen to them. I mean don't share them on the internet. Don't constantly talk about your kids, don't constantly ask for advice on how to raise your kids. Trust your intuition and your ability to understand them the most. A lot of Cancer Risings choose to have kids later in life because the idea of having them they take child rearing so seriously.

37:24 And they know this about themselves. And so they typically want just one child or they have two and they're completely done saying, No, no, no, no, like this is a lot of energy for me. I take child rising seriously. Sometimes trying to conceive is a huge, albit painful, but long, difficult phoenix rising from the ashes process.

37:45 And so cancer rising sometimes I see have children later in life, and it's one if they're lucky or two and they're like, I'm good, that that's enough. Um, it's it's not just sex, baby wash, rinse, repeat for cancer risings who have Scorpio ruled fifth house. It is uh it's a very intense journey to get to that point.

38:05 So this is also creativity, learning to have fun. When Scorpio rules that fifth house, typically these are people who struggle to have fun. Having fun means I need to let my guard down and be vulnerable. And when Scorpio rules that house, oh, what are people gonna say? What are they gonna do? You guys are here to learn to express your whole heart through love, play, creativity.

38:25 And typically this only comes out with one super trusted romantic partner or one super duper best friend you guys get your goofy on. Um, but also when it comes to new creative projects, don't be the ones who are like, I'm writing a book. It's gonna come out, I don't know, sometime, but I'm gonna start writing a book.

38:44 Or I've decided that I'm taking up karate as a hobby. I went to one class and I'm gonna post about it on Instagram. No, no, no, no, no. Keep your hobbies private. Don't always share them. Don't try and get control or power or attention through sharing new hobbies before you've really delved deep into them.

39:04 Let them be a sacred, transformative process instead of sharing them with the world. If Scorpio rules your sixth house of daily routines, work, health, pets. Number one, I see people who have a Scorpio-ruled sixth house, pets, animals are a very transformative soulmate bond. Like pets are very healing for them.

39:27 Um, your daily routine, ooh, discovering how small, consistent changes absolutely transform your everyday life. Your body, your joys, that is a Scorpio Sixth House. Uh, your health, your personal rituals, they deserve to be very fixed and very oriented. So people who have a Scorpio World Sixth House are very like, I need to wake up and have green juice at this same hour every day.

39:54 They get very like healthy with their routines and they typically transform health issues. Like I've seen people with Scorpio World Sixth House transform autoimmunity into complete health. Like the antibodies of the specific autoimmune disease were gone because of their very hyper laser-focused daily routine where they cut out gluten, they cut out dairy.

40:15 They did it all and they were so good at it. Like that laser-focused Scorpio side. But typically, when Scorpio rules the sixth house, not everybody deserves access to your diet, to your routine. Do not let people influence or try and change your daily routine. Um, don't let people try and tell you that your pets is just a cat.

40:36 Just leave it at home. No, no, no, no, no. Like that's not just a cat. That is not just a dog to me. Don't get people's opinions on this. Don't try and be like everyone else when it comes to these sixth house themes. You deserve to have not secrecy in the sixth house, but to be obsessed with health. Just don't let it get too far because sometimes when Scorpio rules the sixth house, body dysmorphia becomes a very real thing.

41:01 Bulimia, anorexia, right? They just get so obsessed with their body and being in control of it with health and diet that they think if they eat one bite of gluten, they're gonna just vanish from the ethers. And that's not the case. And then, of course, sometimes with pets, Scorpio rules the sixth house, we get hyper-obsessed with our pets, and we just completely lose our daily routine and our health due to being super loyal and willing to caretake them.

41:26 If Scorpio rules your seventh house of marriage and partnerships, wee wee, this is a big one. This can represent losing yourself completely in loyalty to a lover. It's huge. And this can sometimes be people who are romantically attracted to very Scorpio type people, mental illness, struggling with addiction, people who have very gnarly childhoods that you're like, wow, we're trauma bonded.

41:53 Your childhood is crazy. Well, let me let me show you what real unconditional love looks like since you didn't get that from your mom or your dad. Like, come on in, I got you. Which can be a beautiful thing. I'm not knocking that. Like that, that could be awesome. You really could heal people, but a lot of times, like we were saying in the beginning, this is I gave everything to you my money, my body, my loyalty.

42:15 And it seems like I just taught you how to be a better person for the next partner. What about me? What do I get in return? So when Scorpio rules your seventh house, you have to consistently, and these are my Taurus risings, you have to consistently remember to be an individual and let go. Let people figure their lives out, let people transform on their own watch, but don't let people use you for money, for sex, for control.

42:44 Don't let people control you, don't control others. Learn how to trust and remain emotionally independent while building intimacy with someone. Now, sometimes when Scorpio rules our seventh house, be extremely private with your relationships. I know romantic relationships, especially for women, but all of us, we just want to gossip.

43:06 We just want to call our girlfriends, be like, oh my god, you won't believe what he just did. We just want to talk about our relationships and get advice on how to be a good partner. But when Scorpio rules your seventh house, be extremely selective about sharing your relationships and marriages or marriage on the internet on social media.

43:23 Be very selective with it. Um I learned this the hard way because of course Scorpio rules my seventh house. And I remember in the beginning of my relationship to Mr. Virgo, I blasted him everywhere. I was like, look at my Texas man, and oh, it came with some negative comments. And yeah, it got to a point where I was like, dude, it's been so fun to share you, and we're just like this packaged deal.

43:50 But it's coming, I hate seeing some of the things people are sharing about you, about us. It's triggering people from your past to make these fake Instagram. And blow mine up. Like it's such childish bullshit. And so I thought, I'm gonna pull back. I'm gonna pull back from sharing you, from talking about you.

44:09 I don't care if people think we broke up, it ain't none of their business. But it is their business because I started it. I started by sharing the entirety of our relationship. And so they're kind of invested. And if we break up, they kind of want to know. Can't start something and not finish it, right?

44:23 And so I kind of learned that the hard way where I was like, okay, moving forward, nobody's gonna know anything about my relationship, but it's really hard not to because my son is in the seventh house in Sagittarius. I'm constantly finding truth, learning lessons, gaining wisdom through the art of relationships.

44:40 So when Scorpio rules your seventh house, be very private with your relationships. Don't keep things from your partner, don't be secretive from them. Know what to share and what to hold back from your partner out of respect and not losing yourself. But that is a Scorpio ruled seventh house. When you're in Aries rising and Scorpio rules your eighth house, it's home, shared resources and intimacy.

45:06 This is the house of sex, the house of trauma bonding, the house of finances. Be very, very mindful of sharing a bank account, of inheritance, of wills. Be very mindful of taking on debt in the name of a relationship. Be very mindful of who you have sex with. Since it is the house of sex, I want you to be someone who is extremely celibate until someone earns it.

45:32 Absolutely earns it. And you, if there is any inkling in your body that is saying, like, they're hot, they're gorgeous, and it would feel nice to be lusted after. But if there's any sort of, I don't know if I'm ready yet, do not shut it down. Scorpio ruled eighth house, and sometimes the moon or Venus in the eighth house are women who develop yeast infections, uh, bacterial vaginosis, cysts, polyps, PCOS, STDs, of course, when they have sex with a male partner that they're harboring anger, resentment, or it's not a pure flow of trust and intimacy.

46:12 That is typically their body's report cards. And of course, men haven't shared this with me, so it could go the other way around, too. For men having sex with women that they don't fully trust, or I just, you know, I'm speaking from a woman's perspective, and my clients are mostly female, but that is something that crops up.

46:27 So Scorpio boot, Scorpio Venus, or the moon or Venus and any sign in the eighth house, or being an Aries rising and Scorpio rules your eighth house, your body will keep the score. And even if your mind and your heart's like, but I love him, your body will tell you the truth, especially when it comes to sex.

46:47 So, eighth house, simply put, if Scorpio rules your eighth house, be very private with your finances, especially if you have a large sum of money. Um, if you're selling a huge asset and you're making a lot of money from it, I would keep that extremely, extremely private. This, I would go as far as saying that if you have kids or a family, don't like hide finances from them.

47:10 This is a very fine line. We're skating here. We don't want to be secretive with money to where people are like, why would you lie about that? It's like I wasn't lying. I was I was protecting. I'm writing a substack about that very subject, so please go subscribe. I'm proud of it. It's it's in the oven.

47:28 Um, but these are like I I would say a Scorpio ruled eighth house is someone who has kids that they're like, dang, you know, these kids are just not gonna handle this large amount of money. So I'm not gonna tell them how much money we have in the will. I might, I might donate it to an animal shelter instead of my own kids when I die.

47:47 That's like a Scorpio ruled eighth house. Okay, if Scorpio rules your ninth house, beliefs, travel, higher education, question your beliefs, keep your political beliefs, your social beliefs, your religious belief, sometimes your astrology and human design beliefs, keep them to yourself. Don't share them, don't shout them from the rooftops.

48:06 Wait until somebody asks and they're open-minded and curious. Um, yeah, keep your your exploration of the world private. These are also people who are like, I don't need to announce and share my spiritual retreats and post photos of them. I'm just gonna quietly show up at the airport and gently take a flight across the ocean and just go have an experience by myself and let it transform me.

48:31 And I don't need to tell my entire family and tell the people you love where you're going for safety, of course. But I'm private about these things. I bet people who have a Scorpio ruled, which would be a Gemini rising, right? No, it would be a Pisces rising. Scorpio ruled ninth house are like looking at the current political climate and social views on the internet and go, good lord, how do these people just talk about their right their beliefs on abortion all day on the internet and just get canceled for it?

49:01 Wow, jeez. If Scorpio rules your 10th house, you will very typically go through at least one major transformation of your career in this lifetime. Typically two, but at least one. Career, public reputation. You guys are extremely influential people, whether you realize it or not. Use that influence responsibly.

49:24 Build something meaningful that helps people who have been through some heavy stuff. When Scorpio rules our 10th house, make sure that you don't just have power, but you have influence. And when you do, to use it very wisely. And when Scorpio rules the 10th house, sometimes you have your lesson is getting very comfortable with people misunderstanding you and people misidentifying you and thinking that you're mean or thinking that you're dark.

49:56 Like, sure, go ahead, think whatever you want to think about me. So when we have something in our 10th house, you typically have a very external reputation. But when Scorpio rules the 10th house, you're powerful, but behind the scenes, so to speak. Right? Keep your next professional move to yourself without hiding your gifts from the world.

50:19 This is another one, kind of like the second house. If Scorpio rules your 10th house, don't make this grand announcement before you've opened the business. Open the business, turn a profit, then announce what you do. You're welcome for that one. If Scorpio rules your 11th house of friendships and community, social media, dating apps, uh, your hopes and dreams in retirement.

50:43 Discovering which friend groups genuinely share your values and support your growth is essential. You will probably go through a heartbreak with friendships or go through a death and rebirth with friends or friend. Um, be very obviously selective with who you become friends with. This is very typical for I drama bond with friends, and that's beautiful.

51:07 I don't think there's anything wrong with that, but sometimes the very thing that that person went through becomes what they put you through, right? If they come to the friendship with a ton of drama and you're like, oh, tell me everything. Oh, totally resonate. All of a sudden, they turn and point their gun at you, and you're like, whoa, whoa, whoa, whoa, whoa, hey, no, no, no.

51:29 I I was supposed to be your savior. Like, I we we were trauma bonds. We were gonna like help each other grow from this. What it now you're projecting that very same thing onto me. Watch out for that. Don't let that happen. Friendships. Choose your inner circle very thoughtfully, rather than treating everyone as equally trustworthy.

51:49 And this is also the house of your dreams, your retirement plans. If you are of age of retiring, don't announce it. Move in silence, move behind the scenes when it comes to financially preparing for retirement. You're welcome for that one too. But be very, very selective with who becomes your friend.

52:07 Because if you are, this is a beautiful placement for a friend or friendships that are your 2 a.m. phone calls. They will always answer. And lastly, when Scorpio rules the 12th house, subconscious, our inner life. Whew, honor the parts of yourself that need quiet reflection and allow trusted professionals or people to support you, to help you.

52:31 When Scorpio rules the 12th house, I find that these are people who really like to lick their wounds in private, so to speak, regenerate and grow a new tail in private, which is nothing wrong with that. I get it. It works sometimes. Sometimes that is the most healing medicine is to just get the heck away from other influential energies and just go regrow in in silence, in private.

52:53 But sometimes we need to know when to call people in, help, professional help. Sometimes when Scorpio rules the 12th house, you need to be extremely protective of your personal space. This can be someone who says, Hey, one room in the house or a shed in the backyard, that is mine. That is where my energy sits, and I don't want anybody else's energies, not even a pet.

53:14 I don't want anybody in there. It is my space. Please respect it. It's my medicine. It's very important. Okay, that is Scorpio through the houses, right? Those are the houses that we should protect and keep private at all times. I was gonna go through Scorpio through the placements, but I feel like I kind of did that in the Scorpio, what it means, how to describe it episode.

53:40 It's really cool to understand the house ruled by Scorpio. So I think I'm gonna keep going with that because not everybody has Scorpio placements, but we all have Scorpio ruling a house in our chart. So just really quick going down the line, I want to bounce between empowered and what to watch out for, disempowered.

53:57 Scorpio Risings, again, your first house. You're get very comfortable with being authentic and get very comfortable with constantly evolving your identity. But don't hide your true self. Don't act intimidating, don't act like you're a healer so people come see me and try not to constantly worry about how others perceive you.

54:16 Who cares? They're always gonna perceive you through some lens. Just be your most authentic self because that is where your power lies. If Scorpio rules your second house of money and self-worth, you're very financially resourceful. Um, you have no problem releasing attachments to material items. But on the disempowered side, you guys gotta watch out for hoarding your money, equating money with power.

54:38 If Scorpio rules your third house, communication, siblings, you speak and research with such depth so thoroughly. You guys have an innate ability to communicate sensitive information, secrets very responsibly. But you gotta watch out for obsessing over conversations, for distrusting what others say. Like you say you love me, but do you actually gotta watch out for being very distrusting with those things?

55:03 Um, Scorpio rules your fourth house, popped out of mama with drama. You guys, though, you create deep emotional safety and heal inherited patterns. You guys are the true cycle breakers. You protect your personal life and family life. Disempowered, watch out for keeping harmful family secrets, for not exposing someone's abuse towards you just because they're family members.

55:25 Um sometimes you can remain trapped in old resentments from the past. You gotta let those things go. If Scorpio rules your fifth house, romance, creativity, you love people so passionately. It's one of my favorite parts of a Scorpio rule fifth house. You have no problem jumping into creative projects.

55:43 You're so bold, you allow joy and self-expression, and your kids are so lucky to have you because you will constantly teach them how to transform and be their own unique individual person. But you guys, you guys need to watch out for becoming hyper possessive when you're dating and super jealous when it comes to ego, sex, dating.

56:05 You guys sometimes have this weird thing where you're like, I'm not jealous of you having an emotional connection, but it's sex. If you have sex with someone else, ooh, you guys deeply may deeply fear rejection, especially in your creative projects, or sometimes you guys are very controlling with kids, with dating, or with your creative projects.

56:24 Watch out for that. If Scorpio rules your sixth house of work and wellness, daily routines, you guys are so healthy. You guys typically work beautifully in um service industry careers or administrative careers. You guys totally honor the mind-body connections and the report cards that the body gives and says they need.

56:44 But you gotta watch out for the obsessively monitoring your health and your diet or becoming too controlling and being kind of bitchy with people when your daily routine doesn't go as planned. Sometimes you guys can really burn yourselves out too, overworking. So watch out for that. It's like you guys are such badass workers, and that's your greatest gift, but it can also be your greatest curse if you burn them in that oil.

57:05 If Scorpio rules your seventh house, Taurus Risings, it's your relationships and marriage. You guys are more than likely to marry into wealth. Yes, that you guys always ask me that. That is one placement of it. But you can navigate deaths in a relationship, which they all have, better than anybody else.

57:22 You understand that death is actually fun when it comes to relationships because you get to re-fall in love with the person you that's in front of you. And that's exciting. You get to date them again and get into that phase. So you guys understand that relationships have peaks and valleys more than anyone, and you can have one of the most trustworthy ride or die, Bonnie and Clyde.

57:43 Sex is always so delicious. Money is always high and abundant. That's the empowered side of this, but it comes with a lot of work. Watch out for testing your partners. I'm gonna remove myself to see if they really love me. I'm going to pretend like I'm sexually interested in someone else to see what they I'm gonna post this photo to see.

58:02 Don't do that shit. Watch out for your fears of abandonment, causing you to project. And of course, the classic don't be jealous, don't be emotionally controlling, let them have their own life. If Scorpio rules your eighth house of intimacy and shared resources, you guys share power in a relationship fairly, balanced.

58:22 You guys love sex, you embrace intimacy, you manage joint resources transparently. There's no secrecy. You could when Scorpio rules your eighth house, it's kind of similar to the seventh, where you can have a partner that together you guys are so much more powerful than you ever could be alone. Or even if it's not a romantic partner, just anyone, co-workers, business partners, family, better together.

58:45 Just watch out for using sex or using money for leverage. Like you don't want to leave me because I've got the body you can have sex with. You don't want to go that way because I've got more money. I'll I'll send you money or I'll buy this. Um, don't withhold financial information or don't just withhold your traumas or your weaknesses from partners.

59:05 That that could actually give you the real intimacy you crave with this one. When Scorpio rolls your ninth house of beliefs, exploration, education on its empowered side, always questioning assumptions, never taking anything at face value, which is very healthy. Seeks deeper truth. You embrace these transformative experiences abroad.

59:24 Anything. It doesn't even have to be abroad. Just traveling and getting out there, going to a museum, going to a concert, getting outside of your comfort zone normally transforms you into this whole new level up in life. But just watch out for being extremely dogmatic, imposing your beliefs onto other people and seeing disagreement on political views or social views as a personal threat.

59:46 This could also, when Scorpio rules the ninth house, this could be those people that are like if you voted Republican and not Democrat, you're not my family. Never talking to you again. Don't do that. That's not nice. Be more open-minded than that. When Scorpio rules your 10th house of career and reputation, beautifully powerful person.

1:00:04 This is executive, this is power, this is private jet, this is entrepreneurial, this is someone who leads ethically, who uses their power and influence to improve systems and communities of people. This is someone who embraces professional reinvention, kind of like what I was sharing in the beginning of the episode.

1:00:21 How I was like, I love what I do, but I know it's not my final craft. That is you guys with this Scorpio 10th house. Embrace a complete death and rebirth in what you do for a living. Just watch out for obsessing over your reputation that you do not grow and change. Don't manipulate authority figures, because you probably are really good at it if you really wanted to.

1:00:43 And don't have so much fear of losing status that you stay somewhere that is slowly Scorpio, stinging yourself, eroding your soul. Do not be afraid of being the top dog C level executive and starting over at entry level. You just might find that that is where your most abundance lies. When Scorpio rules the 11th house of friendships and your hopes and dreams, bearing the fruits of that 10th house labor, you guys build the most meaningful alliances and friendships.

1:01:12 I mean, you have roars of people. These are sometimes people who are famous on the internet. You have some ride or die followers, subscribers on the internet that would do anything for you, even though they never met you. Um, you have amazing, loyal friendships and person, and you worked so hard to achieve a dream in life, and it is just rich and passionate, and you have so much gratitude for it because it was earned, not given.

1:01:36 It's a really cool place to have Scorpio. But you gotta watch out for letting friends in who become jealous, controlling, possessive, who use you for money. Watch out for becoming bisexual with friends and just blurring the friendship lines and getting all tangled and messy. Um, try not to push friends away and have none at all because you're so distrusting over community and friendships because of being burned in the past.

1:02:02 So watch out for that. And finally, when Scorpio rules the 12th house of subconscious spirituality endings, the empowered side is someone who practices deep self-reflection, who has amazing emotional awareness and finds true strength and healing and solitude. This is a great placement of someone who can save a lot of money on therapy because truly, just taking yourself on a weekend solo retreat, medicine, medicine.

1:02:29 Just watch out for suppressing your feelings, for having, for feeling like sometimes when I see Scorpio in the 12th, these are people who are like, I feel like I've been sexually abused, but I have no memory of who, what, where, when, and why. I just feel like it. Sometimes when Scorpio rules the 12th, we develop these unconscious patterns of self-sabotage, and we're trying to figure out like what is running the show here.

1:02:53 That can be Chiron in the 12th as well. So watch out for doing those things. But there you go. That that's Scorpio's lesson by house. Scorpio first house. I can be seen without feeling exposed. Scorpio second house, my worth is not determined by what I own. Scorpio seventh house, I can love someone without possessing them or letting them control me.

1:03:16 Scorpio eighth house, I can share my life without losing my power. See how these things work? Scorpio fourth house, I can honor my past without repeating it. Scorpio fifth house, I can love and create without fearing rejection. I can trust the process of conception, whether it's an idea or a child, in due time.

1:03:36 Scorpio sixth house, I can care for myself without controlling every detail or feeling like I will Scorpio die if I don't keep up with my daily routine. Scorpio 9th house, I can change my beliefs without losing my identity, or I can still be intimate and close with someone if our beliefs totally clash.

1:03:54 Scorpio 10th house, I can succeed without controlling how everyone sees me, or I can always start over from square one no matter how old I am. Scorpio 11th, I can belong without demanding loyalty from everyone. And Scorpio 12th, I can face my inner world without being afraid of it. Ooh. To wrap up this episode, because I need to go get a cough drop.

1:04:16 Probably sound different like a Frau Gay right now. Scorpio's highest expression is not shutting down and having secrecy and mistrusting people. It's emotional severity, it's emotional power. Disempowered Scorpio says, I have to hide this area of life because I don't feel safe here. But empowered Scorpio energy says, I know who I am.

1:04:40 I trust my judgment of others, and I get to decide who and what deserves my energy. I'm done. I'm done. Scorpio doesn't you in the house ruled by Scorpio on your chart, you do not become powerful there by learning how to control every single part of it. And pushing things away in that area of life will not give you more power over it.

1:05:07 Embrace the house that is ruled by Scorpio on your chart because we're all asking, I want to find my passion, I want to find my purpose. Well, that's probably the Scorpio house. Tell me what hurt you, and I'll tell you what your purpose is. That is Scorpio. Scorpio house becomes powerful by realizing it doesn't have to control it or push it away.

1:05:30 It can just be and know that if come hell or high water, come betrayal or lies, nothing can change how you react to something. That is one thing you're always in control of, is how you react to things like that. Nobody can take your power unless you give it to them. All right, I'm out of here. Be sure to visit the website to book a 2027 Future Cast reading with me.

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