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Welcome to the Helping Couples Heal podcast. If you have lost hope around healing your relationship due to infidelity, relational or betrayal trauma you have come to the right place. Helping Couples Heal is an ongoing podcast designed to help couples recover and heal from the impact of betrayal trauma on their relationships. We cumulatively bring over two decades of experience and expertise in the field of betrayal. Throughout this podcast series, we will offer resources and support and teach you the tools and skills necessary to heal your relationship. You will also hear from recovered addicts, partners, and couples who will share their stories, as well as from experts in the field of betrayal. With compassion, love and fierce commitment, we will guide you and walk beside you as you navigate this journey of recovery, hope, and healing. Thank you for inviting us into your world; we are honored to support you.
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22: The Truth: A Conversation with Neil Strauss
<p>In this episode, Marnie has an uncensored and candid discussion with New York Times bestselling writer and transformational journalist Neil Strauss. Neil talks openly about his sex addiction recovery journey as chronicled in his book "Th
102. Women Betray Too
<p>In this episode, Marnie talks with Patty, a female betrayer, and Judith Nisenson, a betrayal trauma coach, to confront the often-ignored reality that women betray too. They dive deep into the unique patterns of female betrayal, the emoti
101. Beyond Talk Therapy: Life-Changing, Somatic Self-Care Practices With Gemini Adams
<p><span>In this episode, Marnie welcomes back her friend and longtime collaborator, </span><strong>Gemini Adams</strong><span>, a renowned somatic practitioner. Together, they explore a missing piece of the healing journey that many couple
86. Empowered at Sea with Marnie and Maddie
<p><span>In this episode of the </span><em>Helping Couples Heal</em><span> podcast, Marnie talks with betrayal trauma coach and actress Maddie Corman to explore the profound power of community in the healing journey. Maddie opens up about t
113. Why Stopping the Behavior Isn't the Same as Repairing the Harm
<p><strong>Featured Group: Men’s Intimacy Group</strong></p><p><em>Thursdays, 6:00-7:30 pm Pacific | Facilitated by Susan Rankin</em></p><p><span>Building connection and learning to show up differently in relationships takes practice. Helpi
112. The First Glance vs. The Second Look: Objectification and Rebuilding Visual Safety
<p><span>In this episode of the Helping Couples Heal podcast, Marnie explores the difference between normal visual awareness and objectification, and why that distinction can become especially important after betrayal.</span></p><p><span>Fo
111. Why the Past Won't Stay in the Past (And That’s Okay)
<p>In this episode, Marnie explores a common experience for many betrayed partners: returning to the betrayal again and again, revisiting details, asking the same questions, and trying to understand what happened. </p><p>Marnie explains why
110. The Abandonment Wound, Betrayal, and the Road to Healing
<p><span>In this episode of the Helping Couples Heal Podcast, Marnie welcomes Scott back to the podcast to explore a personal part of recovery: the abandonment wound.</span></p><p><span>Scott shares how an early fear of being unwanted, not
109. When Needing Feels Unsafe: Understanding Dependency, Shame, and Healthy Interdependence
<p><span>In this episode, Marnie explores the often misunderstood topic of dependency and how our early experiences shape the way we relate to our needs, our relationships, and ourselves. Drawing on the work of Pia Mellody and the foundatio
21: A Conversation With Dr. Rob Weiss
<p>In this episode of Helping Couples Heal, Marnie and Duane talk with Dr. Rob Weiss, a clinical sexologist and the Chief Clinical Officer at Seeking Integrity in Los Angeles. In his book "Out of the Doghouse; a Step by Step Relationship-Sa
108. Who Are You Trusting With Your Betrayal Trauma?
<p><span>In this episode, Marnie explores the importance of carefully choosing who you trust with your healing. When you have already experienced betrayal, deception, and a loss of trust, finding the right person to support you through reco
107. Looking Back, Living Forward: What I Didn’t Say
<p>In this follow-up to the previous episode, Marnie revisits the conversation about grief, healing, and moving forward after betrayal. Reflecting on what she wishes she had said, she expands on two important ideas that deserve further expl
106. Looking Back, Living Forward
<p>In this episode, Marnie explores a painful reality of healing after betrayal: the relationship you thought you had before discovery no longer exists. While it is natural to long for the "before" and wish things could return to the way th
105. Women Healing Together
<p><span>On this special episode of the Helping Couples Heal Podcast, Marnie and Maddie are joined by Ally, Amy, and Shauna, who attended our first Empowered at Sea retreat. Together, they share honest reflections about what it was like to
104. Neuro-Difference, Betrayal Trauma, and Healing
<p><span>In this episode, Marnie speaks with Candice Christiansen about navigating betrayal trauma through the lens of neuro-difference, an incredibly important topic we have not focused on before on the Helping Couples Heal Podcast. Togeth
103. Consequences with Ned Fulmer
<p>In this episode of the Helping Couples Heal podcast, Marnie sits down with Ned Fulmer, YouTuber, producer, content creator, and online personality, for a deeply honest conversation about the consequences of betrayal, what he has come to
100. One Hundred Episodes of Hope
<p>In this landmark 100th episode of <em>Helping Couples Heal</em>, we take a moment to pause and reflect on the journey that brought us here. Healing from betrayal is often a lonely, exhausting path, but for 100 conversations, we have walk
99. The Other Side of Betrayal: The Ten Core Wounds of The One Who Betrayed
<p>In December, I released a podcast called <em>The Ten Core Wounds of Betrayal</em>, which explored the deep and lasting wounds experienced by betrayed partners. In this follow-up episode, we turn toward the other side of the rupture - the
98. The Long Road Back: One Couple's Journey Through Betrayal
<p>In this episode, Marnie sits down with Scott and Laura, a couple who courageously share their journey of healing after betrayal. What followed Scott’s infidelity was not a quick fix or a straight path forward, but years marked by pain, r
97. Navigating Betrayal Anger with Dr. Crystal Hollenbeck
<p>In this episode of the Helping Couples Heal podcast, Marnie sits down with Dr. Crystal Hollenbeck, a therapist, trauma survivor, and author of <em>Betrayal Trauma Anger: You’re Not Crazy, You’re Angry, and You Should Be</em>. They explor
96. Beyond Words: How Friends and Family Can Truly Support Betrayed Partners
<p><span>In this deeply moving episode of the </span><em>Helping Couples Heal</em><span> podcast, Marnie is joined by four courageous women (Sabra, Ally, Liz, and Rachel) who vulnerably share their personal experiences navigating the afterm
85. Betrayed: Who Helps Him Heal?
<p>In this deeply honest and compassionate episode, Betrayal Trauma Coach, Therapist, and Certified Sex Addiction Therapist (CSAT) Adam Nisenson shares his personal journey through the heartbreak of being betrayed by his <span>now ex-wife</
95. The Ten Core Wounds of Betrayal
<p>When betrayal enters a relationship, it doesn’t just break trust - it fractures a person’s sense of self, safety, and connection. In this episode, we explore the <strong>ten core wounds</strong> that betrayed partners often experience, e
94. Finding The Way Through with Jeanne Vattuone and Tim Stein
<p>In this episode, Marnie sits down with two of her colleagues from Northern California, Jeanne Vattuone and Tim Stein to talk about Finding The Way Through, their new workbook designed to integrate sobriety, recovery, and betrayed partner
93. Unscripted Truths: A Candid Conversation with Dr. Omar Minwalla
<p>In what was originally intended to be a structured discussion on “The Ten Steps to Constructing the Secret Sexual Basement,” this episode took an unexpected and deeply personal turn. Instead, I’m joined by Dr. Omar Minwalla for a raw, un
92. Honoring Your Grief Without Letting It Define You
<p>In this episode of the Helping Couples Heal podcast, Marnie explores the delicate balance of grief and hope in couples working to heal after betrayal. She shares why grief must be honored - not rushed, bypassed, or minimized - and how ac
66. Breaking the Silence: A Woman's Journey Through Pornography Addiction
<p>In this deeply personal and eye-opening episode, Marnie sits down with "Jess", who bravely shares her experience with pornography addiction. Jess discusses the roots of her addiction, the emotional and psychological impact it had on her
91. Still Becoming: Chandler Rogers on Recovery, Marriage, and Growth (Part 2)
<p>In this continuation of our conversation with Chandler Rogers, we dive deeper into his journey of recovery from pornography addiction and the ongoing challenges of healing within his marriage. Chandler shares honestly about what it means
90. From Regression to Repair: Continuing the Conversation with Jon Lee
<p>In this follow-up conversation with therapist and author Jon Lee, we continue our deep dive into <em>emotional regression</em> and its profound impact on couples recovering from betrayal. Building on the foundation we laid in Part 1, Jon
89. Relapse, Repair, and Growth with Chandler Rogers (part 1)
<p>In this episode of the Helping Couples Heal podcast, Marnie sits down with Chandler Rogers, a recovering porn addict and the founder of Relay, a group-based recovery app designed to support those on their healing journey. Chandler shares